TIMECODES 0:56 - Tokyo Vanity 8:56 - Tommie vs. her family & Spice 34:31 - Jessica Dime 41:11 - Erica Mena vs. Stevie J & Just Brittany 1:00:03 - Rasheeda and Kirk 1:07:29 - Sierra and BK
I feel her, that use to be me😔 I fixed my self though because I could be locked up or dead or hurt now, I even finally have a relationship with my Mom. People thought I would NEVER change I was so angry inside. Hopefully she can turn her pain around to💖
@@mslovely6518 That's really great. I'm happy for you. That gives me hope because my best friend who I really care about has a lot of hurt, anger and insecurities I'm afraid he's going to end up dead or in prison so reading your story about how you changed gives me hope for my best friend.
@@trinaj9749 Yes there is hope. So many people wanted to give up on me, some did but most didn't, and the ones that didn't mean THE WORLD TO ME BECAUSE IF THEY HAD GAVE UP I COULDN'T HAVE BEEN MAD CAUSE IT WAS MY FAULT. I always loved them I just couldn't control my emotions etc. . DONT GIVE UP ON YOUR FRIEND
A real friend tells you what you NEED to hear, not what you WANT to hear ... thats all Spice was doing for Tommie being a true friend. She really believed in her.
I loved Tokyo because of her CONFIDENCE. I love her now because she is taking steps to be healthy and is losing weight. It's nothing wrong with being plus size. I am plus size myself but being healthy is even better. I'm not saying that you can't be big and healthy but sometimes all that weight on your body is not good. I hope no ones takes what I am saying wrong.
Mimi Lee You’re right and if they do they’re just hating. Just do you okay? Miserable people will attack because they are miserable. Have a nice day! And good luck on your journey!
Spice really did care about Tommie, but like Spice said.. she can’t stand someone being real with her, that’s why she couldn’t deal with Spice and KK. She made herself look bad
@Althea Bourne FACTS! 100% Yet look how fake and ungrateful Tommie is, she had the audacity to try and clown Spice's background. They all group up on her for being the foreigner. All that cursing at your parents bullshit, calling your mom a bxtch, is not cute in JA. Not even if you are from the ghetto. Yet look how Tommie's mom defended the bullshxt too. Spice is in a completely different headspace as a professional and an adult. Her most immature moment was with Tokyo and I think it was an issue with Pride to be honest. And them not understanding her so she was defensive. Other than that Spice stays focused and actually cares about those prostitutes as human beings, even when they don't care about their selves. Smh. Tommie was not worth her tears.
@@nikkicena5632 I believe tommie showed up at Versace’s work trying to fight over something (I think they did fight) and the cops came so tommie went to jail and she blames her sister
they were really recording tommie knowing damn well this girl was drunk asl, and the producer asking about scrap just to push her over the edge. they knew what they were doing smh
It's so much resentment towards her mom and the fact that her siblings are showing that love for Sam, makes Tommie very upset. Tommie took care of them but their giving that appreciation to Samantha.
Christopher Chisholm right and that’s truly sad Tommie deserves at least some respect for taking care of her siblings while her mother was going through her own demons
Unfortunately it's a common issue with mother's and daughter's. In my opinion Tommy felt like she deserves more respect for being a mother to children she never birthed. Whereas Samantha felt like she did ALL that she could and deserves some recognition for the efforts. Either way it takes a toll on a person to fight their parent or child for being disrespectful
Rellis TheRealest she is not they said she did that but she rlly didn’t slam her daughter head into the locked she jacked her up bc she was playing stupid saying she didn’t know where her class was bc she was selling edibles
But at some point she has to assume responsibility for her actions. People have risen above the negativity in their life, so as much potential as she has to be better, she doesnt partake in them. She's on a platform to do better because she has to learn to let go of that hurt and anger before it destroys her.
Spice seems to believe in Tommy more than Tommy believes in herself. Tommy is running on empty and trying to get her to adhere to a strict work schedule is fruitless at best. Spice is from the islands and they approach work very differently. I hope Tommy gets the help she needs.
@@ItsNaeBihhh.Daaah6 you dont watch a scripted show and make dumb assumptions like this🙄🙄not fit to be a mother??? Tommie wud even punch you for saying this about her mom lol Even Tommie in all her craziness is a grandma. We all got issues no one is perfect but pple grow!
not okay no it’s really not, everything we Jamaicans do is to teach you to be stronger you play your game with a soft ball, we throw stones/rocks! Big difference.
Yo can’t avoid no argument with ah Jamaican well any islanders.....to mad! Spice clearly say Tokyo was dissing her even before they met so is wha? If Tokyo never wah argument she won’t call spice name !simple
Rain splash when she said “f spice” she didn’t mean it in a hateful way towards spice she was just saying f that whole situation with tabias and whoever he’s dating now
That’s what y’all ain’t getting ,we need to understand each other culture, we are use to calling each other fat with no one being/getting offended,for instance we call each other “fat ass “each day even with an argument, but coming like y’all getting offended and saying it’s body shaming,it’s like getting into an argument with someone she saying hurtful things and u gonna say hurtful things to each other ...dur it’s an argument/u get me?
I hateeeee how Tommie did Spice. She’s so toxic that she ruins relationships with everyone close to her. She can’t see that Spice really cared about her 🤦🏾♀️
Fr. But you can see Tommie is really hurting. I like the way she apologize because she knows she wrong. Just that nobody wants to really help her. And her mom isn’t making it no better
No she needs professional help and whatever to get her mood stabalized. I know she is angry because of her child hood, but that does not warrant you causing destruction everywhere you go and hurting everyone you can and not taking responsibility for it. She needs to help herself and go to a professional.
@@infantebenjiMy guess that is just Erica's way of keeping her distracted from causing an altercation that was already brewing. That's my opinion. Is that okay with you??
A. It really broke my heart to hear her mother call her ugly. I’m not gonna judge Tommie for who she is at this current moment in time, as I I don’t know her, but I know from seeing people I know turn into alcoholics that there’s usually always some dark shit behind it. There’s truly no helping them, unless they’re willing to help themselves. You can set shit up for them, advise them, shout at them, do everything under the sun - but you can not force them into shit or keep mentioning their alcohol problem. You just have to be supportive and hope that they choose the right path. Something has to click in their own head before they decide to get help. It’s really not easy for them. I honestly pray for Tommie’s healing. Such a beautiful woman.
@@kardashianklips7407 You're right, you can take someone to the water but you can't make em drink it. Most of the time, they'd turn around and dehydrate theirselves.
right!!! i need that confidence!!! she just lives her life to the fullest and doesn’t care what someone says about her weight her looks she stays the same and that pisses people off sometimes people with a shit ton of confidence makes people the most jealous because they can’t punk them when they know their worth and confidence already
Rasheeda be mad at everyone EXCEPT the person who actually messed up her relationship which is Kirk . Jasmine wasn’t right but it takes two to tango come on now . She gotta be staying with him for the money/businesses because ain’t no way this man cheated on you while you were pregnant , did a DNA test on your son knowing damn well rasheeda don’t even roll like that AND had a whole baby on you ??? Smh I just want her to know her worth .
@je'suis Elle carmen from corey and carmen ! They are youtubers ! She gett cheated on all the time just like rasheeda but rasheeda got businesses and stuff like that carmen don’t
Right....🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️💁🏾♀️ kept saying she was a Coke head.... but what was the difference in Jocelyn being a cokehead and this girl a damn alcoholic
I cant lie tho she was funny as fuck on the season. Like when she told rasheeda she was "such a lady i would have fucked that bitch up!" Lmaoo or roasting just brittney ass. She plaid her part well but you right she really wasnt needed. I died when she was trying to calm tommie down and was like "come here i wanna go to jail with you". 😂😂😂😂 omg
I use to be a drunk just like Tommie and even worse. I would gave to drink at least 1 pint of vodka and 3 tall 4-LOKOS (12%alcohol for those who dont know what lokos are) I did it in order to deal with the pain of every day struggles and life in general. Along with the pain and betrayal id experience constantly due to me having an extremely huge heart and godly love, towards any and everybody. In return, they'd ALWAYS shit on me and my dreams. ALL while I'd destroy my own spirit or risk my own life to help save theirs, and keep them encouraged, lifted up and full of faith in God! Thankfully, one night I fell to my knees, tears rolling down both sides of my face. I was crying, literally begging God in tears, to heal me from alcoholism (runs in both sides of my family, too)...... 3 weeks later I found out I was 4months pregnant with my now 11 year old son named Noah! ((I was still having periods and negative pregnancy tests for 4 months which doctor says is common nowadays)).. To this day, I still can't drink. The thought of it, the smell of it, and the taste of it, all of it makes me sick to my stomach. God truly saved me and he saved me through my son and I will forever be thankful for that. Now, I still turn to God during the toughest times. It's still hard as hell even with faith but the more you go through, the stronger your faith gets only if you allow it to do so and always stay turning to God and thanking him for the smallest things which allows him to then, I return, bless you with the big things. Not losing your faith in the times where faith is usually lost by most people, is the best feeling of accomplishment. ❤- May God always bless you and heal you, from whatever, and whenever you need help. God broke my chains and He can yours too no matter how many chains you have locked on you or how strong they might be! ---Danielle Hayes from Tuscaloosa, Alabama.
Spice doesn't even have her kids so she doesn't have any business mothering another grown woman. Spice doesn't have any self control. She needs help herself. Out here powdering her body with white stuff because she's so-called making a statement. She doesn't even like the color of her skin.
@@deeliciousgrapes You ignorant asf, she doesn't have her kids cause she's a big artist who makes money. She takes care of her kid's. She just can't take them everywhere clearly. She made a statement with the white skin. She's still dark skinned.
I completely get why Tommie got mad at that family photo. It was like her mom just wanted to smile and pretend that everything was solved. Now, she took it too far with the way she went in, but it showed her mom had yet to change.
When they went to professional therapy together, when Tommie started explaining what her mom did to her, her mom just got up and left. Happens every time she gets confronted with how much she hurt Tommie. She can't face herself it's frustrating to watch
Production did Tommie so dirty when it was all the girls and tommiee verse spice. They gave Tommie the drink 🙄 and they love the fighting and drama but when shit hits the fan they act innocent and edit to make tommie look crazy when they’re making her crazy
Facts , the provide the liquor for her to act crazy for views and the cameras then step in and act like they genuinely care and are concerned. That’s why they say you can’t trust anyone in Hollywood
Yup but she could say no to the drink or drink slowly, just cause someone gives you something to get that response out of you doesn’t mean you have to do it 😊
They sure did and did you hear when they said tell them about scrapp to provoke her smh that’s messed up ! I see why joseline quit the show they messy asf and like drama
It’s so frustrating to see how VH1 producers exploit alcoholism on this show... tommie and Tierra Mari should have been removed from the show once they saw a problem. It may be great for ratings but they’re people too and this is their life we are talking about.
Its reality as to how they deal.wit their problem wit alcohol..they shouldnt put it in front of them but they cant stop a grown person from doing what they want to do
Troy A. Mouzon agreed! they can’t stop a grown person from drinking.. so they should kick them off the show and not put other people’s safety at risk.🤷🏻♀️ tommie gets volatile every time she drinks and she hits the first person that comes at her sideways. yet they keep alcohol at every event, friendly sit down, etc. I’m just saying safety for everyone should be more of a concern especially when dealing with drug/alcohol abusers.
That's why I stopped watching a lot of reality shows. MTV mainly with the 16 and Pregnant shows and their spin offs and Black Ink Crew why Sky and her boys. I watch these recaps but I stopped watching the seasons years ago. Gets a little disgusting.
Tommie is her own problem. Girl, the people that were trying to tell you that you have a problem were TRYING to be your friends. Real friends tell friends they care for the truth!
Yes she is beautiful now Jocelyn who back yard will you rap at out to sea dime has a whole.beautiful house with a big backyard land to rap in lmfao she better off than you 🤣
Rasheeda needs to hold her HUSBAND to the same standard she holding Jasmine. Thats why Kirk run over her ass. She mad at the wrong person. Yes Jasmine was wrong but she didnt ruin your family. Your HUSBAND did 🤦🏾♀️
Jasmine deserved that and more instead she was told to leave her tf alone. Marriage is a whole different ball game, Rasheeda still kept the kid around and never acted like these women when they catch their man cheating,these are clips;
@Perfectly Imperfect yeah I mean I know what caused it but realistically Tommie needed to stop taking it personal. Love & Hip Hop made it a whole storyline that she was an alcoholic.
@@rayquanandrews8682 they were trying to calm the situation down and pretend like they didn't understand her so it wouldn't blow up into a huge mess, that's all
The scene with Tommie literally hurts my heart bc she really is a good hearted women. She has been threw so much and she was mentally sinking and using the drink for mask it all.
First before ANYTHING LOOK AT TOKYO BEFORE AND NOW OMG!!! NO SURGERY SHE WORKED OUT HER BODY AND LOOKS AMAZING!!! Instead of promoting that fake ass flat tummy tea...she put in REAL WORK!! I LOVE IT!!
Just Brittany rung them Latin H03s up with her comment. We all know that Erica was mad because she smashed Rich for tracks, and Estelita was mad because she thought smashing Stevie would expedite her album release not knowing she was just a temporary placeholder for Joseline. Both of them h03s was pressed
@@dougedoug2105 So true! These ladies keep forgetting to not play themselves. Having sex for a possible track and or a faster release date is how Producers play the game hence Rich Dollaz. They play these women with promises of getting them tracks and making them huge. They are just lies. What has Erica or Estelita done? I have not seen anything and it is 2020. Stevie and Rich pit women against each other by having them show up at the other's session. That is a bitch move if eve I saw one. They do that in order to make them jealous of one another and get more sexual favors from them. They never blow up and they never become the artist they want to be due to lack of talent and lack of preparedness. I know they need a storyline and Stevie is it for now. Next it will be Rich or another "man" in the music industry.
Jessica made me cry 😢 after she gave birth and described the love she has for her daughter.. Cause I never had that from my mom... So it’s good to see when women feel like that for they’re kids.. And her hubby was so supportive..Just beautiful..God bless them 🥰🙏
Why haven’t her and Shawn gotten married yet? Seems like after she got pregnant he put her on pause or some shit and started harping on some bs about her not being classy enough or being too ghetto. How is she supposed to change who she is?
Tommie has real pain and real trauma and you can see that in how she acts,how she responds to things. Even just how she perceives things. There is real genuine pain within her soul and I hope one day she heals
I was born American unfortunately but my family is Jamaican and i understand her so some of us Americans do.....Dont be so rude and fuckin racist....thats still my people!
When the therapist asked Tommie "So what else does alcohol do for you?" and that tear fell.. I hope Tommie fixes her issues with drinking, she's an amazing, talented and strong person but the alcohol gets in the way so much. I don't know if now, 1 - 2 years later, if she still deals with issues with drinking but I hope not.
@@moaningmyrtlehp7355 you a re wonderfully made no one is prefect ppl just pretend to be we all fall short you are beautiful brave n strong i can tell you are
They shady for showing the clip where Spice said about Tommie "i have real love for this girl" and straight after that part, they showed them arguing at the reunion😭
49:31 Erica was really scared at security when he put his hands on her, i hope someone check him, that should have never happened they are there to protect them form others and others for them and the fact that all the big man surround her tiny ass acting all aggressive towards her is scary i imagine she felt trap in dudes arms hoping other dude don't swing and hit her and she cant defend her self.
"Is it me or did Sierra just take her purse and uhh sent it to the west coast and bring that thanng down thru the mid west and just really plant that thang on uhh Keelys forehead " "Ladies and Gentleman, welcome to Atlanta" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Joc is stuuuuuuuuupid!!😂😂
