Staind - For You (Official Video) 

200% agree !!! Hang on bro

Exactly.... it's good to know you are not alone. Sending prayers for healing.

I relate you aren't alone.💜

✊

I'm 36 and still hoping my parents will care. This song was my childhood.

RIp

Damn I didn't know 😢 RIP ❤ Jon

😧😧😦😦😦😦 wait a minute Jon Wysocki died 😦😦😦

I'm 30 and haven't been through as much as most as these people, but I have learned a lot and if you ever want to just vent or talk, I'll talk it out with you or I'm sure one of us here will. This song still speaks volumes from what I dealt with. Nobody needs to struggle alone.

It's the best remedy sometimes stay strong stay focused stay blessed always fam 🙏

Sometimes I’m my own best company, if that makes sense. Actually most of the time. Hit me up if you need to talk!

Be strong and break the cycle.

We’re praying for you, bro. Stay strong. This band is a good group of people. You’re in the right place. God bless. -BB15 🦬⚔️💪

Danman I'm 53 and it resonates with me as well. You're not alone.❤️

37, hugs

Same with me

Shadow work❤

Same here dude

Yes ma’am, many of us did and that’s why this music will ALWAYS have a special place in my life, no need to go into my story because it’s not unique….I’m glad I made something of myself though despite my childhood. Now as a nearly 40 year old fully disabled combat veteran I have a much different perspective. I knew I didn’t want kids and looking around at how F’d up our country is I’m even more glad I didn’t. I wouldn’t fit in with these idiots and their “parenting” style, my kid would’ve been getting spanked if and when they mess up. Plus I wouldn’t force religion on him because I’m an Atheist and my fiancé is a believer in a “god” or a “power” so we would’ve let the kid decide on their own when they were old enough instead of brainwashing them before they’ve had a chance to make up their own minds. I’m just glad I found a woman who felt the same as I did and that’s why we’ve been together for a decade, despite our struggles financially. We have fur babies and that’s PERFECT FOR US!!

Waa raped for 10 years and I can understand where you're coming from. Hope your finding peace

Shinedown 💗 15 years ago to this day

Connor had had enough. After a horrendous day at work at ATCO, he was finally heading home. He was ready to relax and unwind from the day's events. The moment he stepped into the door, however, something unusual happened. Connor snapped and became uncontrollably angry. He stormed towards his girlfriend who had been sitting on the couch. He began screaming at her and then started punching her with powerful force, over and over again, as if he was possessed by some outside force. The people in the apartment complex started gathering around Connor's apartment and began chanting, “Punch that girl in the face until she gets COVID!” Connor had been driven to the brink of insanity by his work today and he felt like he was beyond the point of no return. He kept on repeating the same phrase to himself over and over again, “The silence gets us nowhere, that's way too far for me.” Not even his girlfriend's desperate plea for mercy and words of affirmation could make him stop. He was completely gone and felt like he was on the edge of an abyss. Finally, after what felt like hours, Connor stopped punching his girlfriend and started to laugh manically. His fans kept on chanting words of encouragement, “All these insults make me feel like I’m not a person.” Connor stood there, a broken version of himself, while his girlfriend curled up in the corner, completely terrified. He finally slowly walked away and left her there to recover from the trauma.

I made sure to not be the kind of parent I had ❤

I'm only 16 in a loving household but I'm so hard on myself it's as if I'm abused

He has a perfect voice...

Ah, you can do it too!! I’ll jam out with ya anytime you want. My drums are getting a lil dusty…

Yess 💖 #AFL

He's one of my inspirations. I also do the same among other genres for 15 years now!

He's awesome.

Yes you can forgive and heal

an ass man?🧐

I haven't figured out how to let go of the memories yet 😢 !!!

Unfortunately I don’t think we ever will Staind for me through a lot of my darkest moments and I just missed their concert😭😭😭😭😭

At times i feel like we never do cuz most of us when we look back to our childhood memories thats when we realized how happy we were when life seemed free and full of happiness with no worries but now life hits us different

Well said

Very very well said! Not many realize that.

Yes!! Me too!! I was 15 when this came out... we had this moody music what do they have now??

how did go ?

A lot of parents should listen to this song especially if they have teenagers.

Im 15 and i love these guys

@@eatalots7773 Same

Mankirat Singh yes

Actually 1998 vibes when this album came out

@@tanguman2 no bud 2001 the album came out with this song. Album before that was 98

For real

I miss it.

My favorite

❤❤❤

Saw him at Aftershock 2019. A fucking legend!

will mounts Staind will always be bad ass mo matter how much time goes by! Reminds me of my teenage days 🤘

👌

Fuck you! The fucking thing is popular. Fuck your dumb like seeking post

Staind on the Disturbed 20th Anniversary tour this summer!!! NUMETAL IS BACK!!!! OOH AHH AHH AHH AHH

I FUCKING AGREE

@@RU-vidCX9 yeah but look at nirvana or guns and roses 🙄

@@leandroantelo7154 or amaranthe

Staind isnt underrated at all!! They were an huge an still are

@@kimgow7671 seether is underrated

100% agree.

I love Aaron Lewis. He is still awesome.

Synchronicity like baki

Never left❤

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Me

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Your mom's box!

same

Same bro

Epic

Ur so right goin thru some shit right now listening to Staind

So tired of teenagers being everybody’s age group I’m not a teen and this song is for me grow up dude. Darn it. Teens aren’t the only humans on the planet you should know this by now

me too..

I have the same reaction to this song. It does bring me right back to the fear and anxiety that plagued my life. I can remember “waiting for them to come home from the bar drunk and fighting. I just got bullied at school all day and there was no food in the house to eat. That was a typical day in my childhood.” It’s amazing how fast and intense the feelings come right to the surface. I harnessed this hatred and anger and became a mixed martial arts fighter. I did kick my step fathers ass. I’m not proud I sank to his level.

@@nathannoel1071 it’s better than the alternative of letting that pain and anger build up for long enough. You buried it and kept it on tap for when it was needed, many w/ our child hoods just let it win. I can tell you I’d never put a kid through what my parents put me through, ever.

@@josiah0303 Thank you. And your right we would never hurt anyone the way we were treated. I hope the best for you. Although I don’t know you, I feel like I do. Peace brother

40 here. We grew up in an amazing time...thank God for youtube!♡

67 here and I feel the same thing!

Same here at 36

Same for me at 56...smh

Kenneth Brace it's BC they relate to peoples life's

What do you mean

Kenneth Brace yeahhh

I feel ya brotha :(

Can totally relate to this post. About 7 years ago I was in a girl that turned out to be an alcoholic and pill abuser (sleeping pills) then shortly after we broke up my dad went onto develop COPD and alcoholism. I'm 37 years old and my family life is shit, not married nor kids and haven't had a normal and healthy relationship with a woman. Pretty sure mentally I'm fucked lol 😆

I know exactly where you're coming from. The love of my life just ended our beautiful relationship. She was such a stubborn ass. She has served two tours in Afghanistan, and had terrible things happen to her in her last relationship. I just wanted her to let me in, and she pushed me away. It's a fresh wound, and I don't know how to feel. I've never been so hurt in my life.

@@RJ-ol3xk Give time some time. You probably won't heal 100%, but you'll be able to function and feel happiness again.

@@gmualum08 We're all a little mentally fucked up, but it's nice to know we're not alone. It's good to share feelings because it'll help others share theirs and we can start progressing into healing. Remember that you're not alone and that time won't change things, but new experiences will help you see the past in a different light.

Wow. You can copy lyrics. So cool. Idiot

@@daledeveau748 Don't be too hard on yourself mate.

Should have added a x2 there, but it's pretty powerful friend.

im listening to it after somany years and i stil know every Word of it!!!!!

….even the censored one

:(

Sounds like a coward to just leave, at least sit down and explain.

this song still resonates with me today, mainly because I had a scarring highschool experience and my parents didn't care. this song helped me get through that shit along with a couple other songs off the album and in general.

Damn...on Christmas Day!!? That says it all. Sorry to hear that, you're better off without a person like that.

renegadealpha95 sorry to hear that

That's right, but I'm afraid people who hasn't been through something like this just can't understand how it feels...

@@TheLaSirenaVarada Understanding isn't so much the issue as so much as now a days, is that most people can't grasp the simple emotion of sympathy. Not everyone was born into a family that loved them. Or was always there for them. Or bought them everything so they never actualy had to do anything to earn things themselves. It's "well since it never happened to me you don't have a reason to feel that way". You can never see what happens behind closed doors sometimes, but it's not hard to show a fellow human being a little bit of sympathy. But now a days, most people are so self absobed they give little to no f*cks about anyone but themselves.

@@xeizael2034 Yeah, unfortunatelly I think that is true too...

@@xeizael2034 EVERYONE isn't. I know it seems like it. But there are good people in this world. Don't let what happened to you make u jaded. Just be careful WHO you choose. it's TOTALLY up to you as an adult to choose your people. And NOT perpetuate the cycle. Love wins. Don't let hate eat you up inside. . Trust. Me. I. KNOW

@@boatguy64 Oh I know there are good people out there as well ❤

I totally understand you, I'm a dude.. my problem was with my dad.. always playing favorites with my other siblings and im the fucking youngest. But.......... I will forever feel fucked inside.. you see, I conn'd my dad 2 years ago for 2500$ .. I owed some drug dealer some money and was getting serious, i told my dad i was sick and doctors found cancer.. i lied, my dad being extremely smart found out after calling doctors and pharmacies That's how we stopped talking 8 months pass and um.. my sister calls me saying I know something is wrong with dad go by his house and check on him... so I do, and uh .. I could this horrible smell in his house.. when I got up to his room i found him dead, he had been dead for 4-5 days body was decomposing.. he didnt even look the same, I NEVER GOT TO SAY SORRY .. I hope my story can resonate with you somehow and see doesnt matter who the bigger person is.. just do it, put your pride away and talk to her... I was also diagnosed with thyroid cancer.. and it's well deserved Anyways hope you even read this.. peace yo.

Same but after 13 years no contact this time I just spoke to her one day wen I run into her,wile she put me through so much shit growing up I would cry for mum or dad to be with me wen I needed them,now mid 30s and having some sort of relationship with them even wen so much bad sits there,my my older sister they they both baby’d with money cars and number one is a full blown crack head snd hire I am sober for the last 3 years thinking over how life plays out and fuck I’m glad I got music like this to touch my broken sole.

`MaLiBu` yep some times even with bad shit just have to push past it as can be over like that my dads been into a mental hospital but he’s doing ok

I hear you...

My mom acts like shes my enemy, like she purposefully chooses her husband over me. Even after he smacked the shit outta her, and I fucked him up for her. She told the cops I didnt wanna press charges after his bitch ass threw a hammer at me, and threw my phone after grabbing it from my moms hands. Because I gave it to her, to call the cops. Now she lives with him at his house, that was built for him for free, because hes native (Pima). And she posts shit on facebook and makes it public, so I can see it because I denied her friend request. Because all she does is cause drama in my life, can you believe that shit? The women who gave birth to me, I have to worry about shit with my own "Mother".

I'm picturing like some contraption that you rigged to the door to play the song when your door opened and another one to rewind the tape to the beginning. I'm sure it was probably on your computer or something and you just clicked the play button, but until told otherwise, I'm gonna picture the former scenario. The whole "cop" bit has me curious.

Necrovilegedon I hope you're wrong about the marking for life part. I haven't completely let go of the pain, but I have some days where I'm able to distract myself instead of every day being a nightmare. I don't think that part of us will ever leave completely, but it doesn't have to define who we are. When I was 26, I thanked my father before he passed away, for showing me everything not to do. He cried and asked for forgiveness. I told him that I loved him. He spent about 23 years getting his shit together before this point, after losing his kids and not having contact with us. I made the choice as an adult to spend a month with him on a road trip and get my own side of the story because I was tired of wondering who he really was from the horror stories I've heard. I didn't remember a lot of the things he was apologizing for until he would mention a certain detail and it would all come rushing back to me. Our road trip had ended after a month and I introduced him to my ex-fiancé at the time. He was really excited to be back in my life and excited to see me get married. About a week later I woke up from 5 missed calls from him. I told myself I'd call him back later. Later that day, his brother called me out of the blue and told me that my dad was in a coma (brain aneurysm rupture) and that I had power-of-attourney to either pull the plug or not. I signed my power over to my uncle and he ended up pulling the plug. I wish I had forgiven him sooner so we had more time together...but I also wished he would've been a better father to begin with. My mom was my entire world and passed away when I was 18. I'd rather not share any more info than that. I'll go numb if I talk about her. Anyway... The past is set in stone, but the way we view it is always changing.

I'm 47 years old and I don't have children but, thanks for the advice anyway 🙂🙏

Angst and trauma make for great music. And helps develop coping skills

Lol it's too late

there's a lot of good rock/metal bands nowadays :) you just have to search deep

Luka Brković Yeah ...not like this though or other bands from the mid to late 90s .

they're actually is tons of deep bands like this.

This is not metal...

@@andoniquidam Nu-metal

What if your patents werent around, mom works 16 hrs a day and dad is with new family, and its your sitter and her husband that left so many marks on you that it was too painful to sit on your bed? Does the song still apply?