Ok..... ok ok ok. I've been a long time Staind fan, about 20 years. Dysfunction album saved my life once before..... why have I not heard this before?? Have I??? What????
Dude this was a really illusive song for years. It was suppose to be an extra song on Staind’s “Chapter V” album but didn’t make the cut. Oddly, a 30 second ringtone was available. So for several years I only heard 30 seconds of this song as it was impossible to find in its entirety until it was finally released in full with their 2008 Illusion of Progress album.
Wish my boyfriend would listen to this song and realize that this was written for ppl like him who cant ever hold up to his promises and says the most hurtful things that tear me up
I absolutely love this band the Artist is Amazing 👏💜❤ He is one of the most talented Musicians Singers. I've ever Heard I so appreciate 😌🙏His Awesome songs They are Beautiful, Meaningful and Soul Touching 💜 I THANK YOU FOR BEING SUCH A WONDERFUL PERSON GOD BLESS YOU 🙌🙏AND YOUR MUSIC AND YOUR LIFE.
Aw shoot, man. I just turned 50 years old. My wife moved out two months ago. I am heartbroken. Married for 26 years. Just try to be a better you. I quit drinking 13 weeks ago, that was a huge part of why she left. Keep the faith. Try to be positive, bro. 😎❤️👍🏻🎶
Now this song is rated high on my list of favorites. I've said , not in these exact words , but have shared the basic message it carries to someone in the past. GREAT ART! THANK YOU
Been listening to Aaron Lewis since J-CAT then it became staind and it’s been such a good ride with all his music. I almost went out like Layne a longtime ago but his music definitely saved me in so many ways. I’ve been to a lot of shows and they keep getting better with time. 💪🏼✊
The day I realized I fear to go to sleep because I couldn't distinguish if it was real or only in my mind. I've searched my soul and prayed and G.O.D. said may you feel what it is to love and nobody feel the same. May you cry my tears of pain because my eyes can no longer shed a tear. My love my one my only I have searched high and low and long and loaded and behold I finally found you. I finally found the one who I call mother. God spoke the words to me. As I watched the clock strick 5 am another day I stayed awake another time I couldn't reculate the voices in my head as being my words or words spoken to me through me for me so that my words my broken heart could finally find the reason and see the truth through insanity of the rhythm and the rhyme the through the chords stumped eventually becoming your songs. Confused of who words or tears in which you cry are they yours or are they mine. Or do they belong to everyone in this world whom has influenced us throughout our lives.
Beautiful I wish I new exactly what you are going through so I could know how best I could be here for you. I just want to be there for you Darling. I could be there for you while you fix yourself. Beautiful you determine how and when you would like me to assist or offer input
I been going through same thing and you can't make everyone happy no matter how hard you try my attitude now is do best you can and take a deep breathe this too shall pass
@@whitewitchqueen I hope you're right. I'm so tired of begging to be considered. Just considered about how things might be hard on me too. I just wish I could make them happy. Take care of yourself
I've been finished with this man for 18 months and yet I still love him but there is no point in speaking or talking it is done x I'm so sad about it I feel so broken tht I hv had to finally let go 💔 😔
I reworded this while she talked of her dreams in her sleep. Before I sang she'd started having a bad dream and woke up. I lullabied her back to sweet dreams
I would never volunteer my heart for anyone, EVER. I really don't like where your mind is at. I have empathy for you. Whoever this is that has been through this very sad place in life. Look to God only he can help you now. Too much bitterness for my taste. I live with no drama here. I will pray for people like this. They seem very broken. Prayers up !
I do not hear bitterness at all !! I think he fell in love with someone who could not feel or accept his love or anyone else's for that matter because her eyes are closed /mind he doesn't want to leave her but he can't be a number just another volunteer only to bleed his heart and hurt his soul.
Sometimes nomater how hard we try they come and steal that again and again . I only wanted someone to share life with. In a rightous style . Just to be left alone again picking up pieces of my mind and soul.
Negative ghost rider that pattern is full, try spreading the night listening to some motivational speaker. Mix it up and listen to something positive and make some healthy choices.
I am a burn victim of 80% 3rd and 4th degree from my head to my waist and the only ting I remember was lighting a ciggerate but 7yrs and 37 surgeries later I find out that someone did it to me and there is nothing that I can do about it so this song has great meaning to me and now I am left with all the damage and hate being out in public but I am alive and no I wasn't a drug user
"When did you decide.........cause thats not what got us here" hits home with me after all but falling in love with a girl who is still in love with a bad situation and then being told sheahe chooses that over what might be a great relationship with a man that she would never have to wonder if he loves her.
I've been married to a narciccist for 20 years and I am completely empty inside and so alone. He will never be the man I need or that our kids deserve. I need to leave. Its time to leave. I've suffered far too long and know he will never change. He isn't capable of changing. Its time to accept it and move on.
I do I may have said crazies thing-or maybe it’s true I do think a lot and wondering why I’m am sorry I don’t like myself and I do blame myself for letting it happen and i don’t know how to take care of it because I aloud it and in the end I’m by myself and lonely 😞 I just wanted to be loved and involved I do know I am 💯 but things weren’t and now I’m lonely 😞 I guess if I needed a loyal person and I would choose myself that’s what I am loyal with a big heart and I do take blame for my own things I don’t put other people to blame so I guess I need to help myself I don’t have anybody elsewhere 💯😢😢😢😢😢😢
Sweetheart, it sounds to me like you know what you did wrong. But you have to stop beating yourself up when you have owned what you did and showed as much remorse as your capable of. A lot of us that have been deeply hurt by actual rotten people don't ever get to see that. The remorse and hurt just isn't there. It's a blank screen. You have heart and admitting you did wrong shows that. It's been a few months since you wrote this, whatever's happened since, don't ever forget your not one of the rotten ones.
I feel the same way I was in a relationship for 6 years and I feel it happened because I didn’t stop The fighting and Arguing I just left him this October and it’s bean hell something I don’t ever won’t to go though again I have 2 daughter and I hope Thay NEVER GO THOUGH THIS 😢😢💔💔
I am me I been trying to tell you that I have been not right I was scread you think I was loseing it that I was not right but I trying to stay strong but I not and I need you so bad I want and need you I am loseing everyone I can’t lose you I swear I been telling the truth I just need you please don’t give up on me I love you so much
Stand for true in every real YOU!! I KNEW the true for a long long time now it's closer each day but I see now just who really cares...and whom doesn't sadly! But now that I want to live for me this body will not let it be sadly; MAYBE ONE WILL FIND ME AND BE NEXT TO ME UNTIL THE VERY END OF ME NO MATTER HOW SOON THAT WILL BE FOR NELDA CHANCY!!
It is purchasable with the Illusion of progress deluxe edition but if I remember correctly the deluxe version is a ripoff because you have to buy two of the same song (believe) in order to get it.
I have been trying for years to move on, to get over you. Its drive me completely insane being haunted by a living Soul. A Blesskng and a curse. I'm sorry for everything and for any words i said that shattered you when you left. I'm sorry not sorry that I didn't give up on you. Probably never will. Honestly, you'll always be in my heart. It's all up to God to bring you back into my life. When you start if your already not searching for us again please come to me. I love you Dakota. Al lb. J want is for us to be Happy, together or apart. Keep on, keeping on. Love. MECHELLE
I'm so sorry too. I thought with me leaving everyone alone that s what you all wanted. Now, I'm struggling so hard to move on by my self. I wished things to be better for Every one. I'm truly so sorry to all the ones I loved at one point in time in my life. Love Sherry
I don't know how or where to start to reestablish the lines of communication and build a bigger brighter abundantly blessed future together in love and happiness together forever and more unconditionaly beautiful. Darling I love you more than ever before in any life or time.
The song kills me how can I get you she understand? How much I love you how much my soul and my heart is cracking and breaking an aching for you I can't tell you enough
You ever hid behind others from yourself? People say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Ya ever climbed a mountain presented Infront you an recognized you did it knowing the many that couldn't, but found yourself paying closer attention to the scars the journey left on you with feelings a way words can't show? I've been through the bullshit. An recognize I'm stronger then the many but the thought doesn't build me up only humbles me feeling my scars and Stainds left on me. I'm not afraid of the mountains to climb, wars to fight. I'm just tired.
Come to talk to me....everything will be solved.......u earn the money for what.......is it for our happiness.......but now I dont have this feeling of joy because of your absence.......
@@pigebear + So I went get that actual CD and, its not on there...🤬 I think it's only available through Apple music. And I dont do Apple products. For personal reasons...
Mine left me for a millionaire, I guess she loved money more than me it's okay I have no hate no regrets. I'm a musician and she is not one. I love women for who they are.
Going through some real shit right now. Alcohol is the worse drug of em all. I'm losing someone special right now. Drugs aren't doing me any favors but how else ya kill the pain and feed the beast at same time.