That's your mother's loss; don't worry she will have to try and understand you sooner or later before your relationship really suffers. (im not a great source of self-proclaimed advice but i really believe the phrase 'every child should have a parent, but not every parent should have a child') Just stick with the people you care about and care about you, in the meantime you should also try to get her to understand you. ^v^
I don’t know who needs to hear this but: Your sexuality, pronouns, gender identity are all completely valid. Don’t identify as your birth gender? Valid. Don’t use the pronouns typically used with your identity? Valid. Don’t fall for the “opposite” gender? Valid, whatever gender you like is cool and I’m sure you’ll find a awesome person who identifies as that. Fall for multiple genders? Valid, why limit yourself to only 1 if you like more? Questioning? Valid, not being sure is fine, honestly I’m not sure myself, a lot of people aren’t! Unlabeled? Valid, you don’t need a label on your sexuality to be valid. Changing your mind about your sexuality later on? Valid, who in the LGBTQ+ doesn’t change their mind at a point? Asexual and/or aromantic? Valid, who needs attraction anyway when you have other awesome stuff in life like you? Cis but you use different pronouns? Valid, whatever makes you comfortable use it! Use neopronouns? Valid, again whatever your comfortable with use it! Anything else? Valid, your awesome and strong! I hope this helped and I didn’t exclude anyone, remember your valid and beautiful 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
Thank you for this I’m non-binary and my parents make me wear dresses and say there isn’t such a thing and both this video and comment helped me a lot so thanks ❤️
To everyone in the comments going through a tough time with homophobia, sexism (not just girls, all genders) bullying, gender stereotypes, etc. life gets better, ive spent too much of my life trying to make it how i want it to be instead of helping others, making friends, or even just being happy. Take the time to self reflect, I know i am. Chain messages are boring i know, i just had to share my mind with someone. No matter if your gay, bisexual, pansexual, male, female, trans, non-binary, bigender, or even straight, you aren’t strange, you aren’t weird, your beautiful. Dont let anyone, *Anyone* tell you otherwise
thank you!! I suffered from extreme bullying and had to transfer. This one kid hated me so much he made up a rumor that I was going to sh00t the school. It was horrid. No I have no friends because of that rumor, but stuff like this genuine makes me feel better. Thank you so much :)
Actually, if you don't support its completely fine, just respect(coming from a bisexual demigirl). Some people can't support because of religion but respect it and leave it alone. Like food, some people don't like lets say, meat. You don't have to support that but respect it. Y'know?
Well just like alyssa said muslims etc can't support the lgbtq, but they can accept it and not be homophobic in any way (coming from an omnisexual demigirl)
I've had a few comments on how homophobic or inconsiderate it is for to include the f slur in the video.(Just as a fact, i'm pansexual and genderfluid) It made me feel horrible but i didn't want to change it because i wanted this video to be at least a little bit accurate to the real world. (+the fact Imi did a collaberation with me for all the parts with the football player and i didnt want it to be a waste) But i still know that I should sincerely apologise to everybody who watched: *I'M REALLY REALLY SORRY FOR THE LANGUAGE IN THE VIDEO!!!* 😢😢😢
I love this, it's so nice and makes me feel more comfortable being myself. I'm a Trans Male (F-M) and seeing things like this makes me really happy even if I'm not ready to tell my family yet.
Someone outed me to my family, shortly before that, I was questioning my gender, and very self hating.this song encouraged me that it will one day get better, and it did. My mental health is better, my family and friends accept me, and I am now confidentt about myself in general. I can relate to this song in a million different ways, though I'm sure all 990 comments can too.
This is such an amazing video! I am apart of the LGBTQIA+ community but I haven’t came out to my parents yet ( I am pansexual and non-binary) and recently my mum brought me two dresses (my birth gender was female) and said that I should wear dresses more and not ‘boyish’ clothes. It really upset me as she doesn’t think about what I want (like wearing a suit and sweat pants) and makes me wear stuff which I am uncomfortable about. The parts about the trans boy made me think about this and the mother reminds a bit of mine (she is a nice mum she just forces me to wear stuff that I don’t want to wear).
@@alejandroperalta3293 Same but pan or lesbain/ straight ( ps by lesbain/straight i mean like Only like girls i am just genderfluid so i am not share what to call it)
The song is not just talking about lgbtqia, it's also talking about skin colors, being black and white, like even if someone says "you're so ugly with that skin color!" You should not pay attention to people who insult what you are. Be yourself! I completely agree to this song. And I'm still hoping more people like you bring back the old songs and turn it into glmm/gcmm. I support.
Since it was pride month, i found that i wanted to use this specific song since (as you said) its all about being who you truly are and embracing it! Obviously it represents more than just lgbtqia, but i really wanted to make a gcmv just for them because of the month (that it was uploaded). 😊
@@infinitymidnight4624 being homophobic isn't an opinion, gay/trans people get attacked by homophobes from just walking outside, sometimes even murdered, homophobia isn't an opinion. if someone said ''i hate all black people'' that would be racism, right? then why is it any different for LGBTQ+ people? neither of those things is a choice. homophobia is discrimination, not an opinion.
As a lesbian It makes me so happy when I see stuff like this! I’m currently living in a homophobic household but when I really think about it it’s not that bad for me, I’ve still got loving parents (if they found out maybe not so much but whatever) I have my bestie who supports me! (She’s also questioning whether or not she’s Bisexual/Pansexual) And my sister who’s been there for me all along! I’m really lucky for what I have and I’m extremely grateful! This kind of stuff just makes it so much more worth it!
Im glad it makes you happy! And dont worry: your parents will accept you, you're they child an dif they loved you before you told them then nothibg ahs changed right? Im also i kind of wondering if im bisexual or pansexual too, but i shift more into being pansexual- 😅😅😅
To all the people, being too feminine or masculine is okay! No matter what you're gender. Just be you, and if anyone says you're not supposed to do this or wear that, then kick them in the face!
This video made me really happy, cause it’s hard for people to accept themselves because they wanna fit in. So this video really showed me it is possible, and it made me feel less worried about myself. Thank you for making this video, I honestly cried because this really mean a lot. Since I myself are going through a lot, because I’m lesbian… so this really meant a lot. Thank you.🤍
I still come watch this evryday! It reminds me how i AM a boy and not that little girl from the past anymore.. i am Elijah a boy and not that girl, so one thing u have to remember Evryday : BE UR SELF , LOVE UR SELF, BE WHO U WANNA BE !!!!💙💚💛🧡💜💗❤
Omg I can’t believe you put in the aromantic too they usually don’t get any attention but they deserve it too they are a real thing like the others too so thanks
“I guess I don’t dress how they want” Me: pushes the lady in front of her* Lady: WHA-HEY! Me: okay.. me and you, we gotta be friends I don’t like dresses.
To everyone who reads this! You’re sexuality/Gender is not a problem!!, you should be able to love yourself regardless of what others say. If your Bi, Les, Gay etc. Don’t listen to people who say you’re gonna go to hell, don’t listen to people who call you disgusting for liking the same gender or more, You’re YOUR person. other people don’t deserve to make choices onto what you do. To any Gender-fluid, TransFtM,MtF, non-binary etc, people can’t tell you what gender you are, If your a boy, your a boy. If your a girl your a girl. If your any gender your any gender, if your neither your neither. Js what your comfortable being as. It’s who you are, People don’t choose your gender, So ignore them and be you. To any Homophobic/Transphobic people. You are not able to choose people’s likings, or gender. They are who they are, if that’s such an issue than ignore them. Your comments on people’s life’s are not needed. And using religion as way to be rude, and disrespectful to us, is Bullcrap. We are our own people, We choose what we want to do with our lives. We don’t want cowards who are gonna tell us what we are. I don’t want to hear any “well your born as a girl/boy” “you can’t like the same gender.” We don’t wan t to hear it. Because we’re not gonna hear it I know this message won’t stop anything but I hope it makes people more confident in what they are, :)) Don’t be afraid to speak out for help in any way. If your parents can’t accept who you are that’s on them if they can’t be a parent. To any friends who left you for being lgbtq+ are Nutheads, They deserve you at all. Be Who You Are ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
This is so accurate to our real world. It’s kinda sad :( why can everyone just be who they are without having to worry about what people will think. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️✊🏻✊🏼✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿
Holy jeez, our video blew up!! I read all the comments and I'm so happy that people can relate and liked it! Also I'm happy that these people realize what an amazing gachatuber you are!! 😆💞🥰🤩✨✨
"You're a girl you should start acting like one" triggered me. Not only are you tell ing them that they should be like their mother who is an untitled spoiled brat, but you're also forcing to be something they don't want to be. There's nothing wrong with people. Whether they are black, trans, gay, or anything like that.
Me being bisexual is great I felt like I couldn’t tell my parents But I realized my parents told me when I was younger that I could love anyone I want as long as I am happy and when I came out I was so happy they supported me If any of you have this problem just know that I support you if anyone doesn’t I DO Sending lots of love!!!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💖
Don't try to fit in if you were born to stand out! I don't care if people hate me as a lesbianism it just shows that I was born to stand out like many other people! I hope you all have an amazing pride month! Be you! Happy pride month! And I love to see people supporting the LGBTQ + community!
I LOVE it. And as for those 91 people who disliked this. I got something to tell ya : Anyone that is part of The LGBTQ+ community often struggles to get accepted and even gets bullied. So please just keep your opinion to yourselves. I mean, some people just yell out that they think it’s disgusting for lesbians and gays to live freely. Go ahead, it’s you opinion. But do us all a favor and stop yelling them into the world because NO ONE GIVES A FUCK!!!!🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 Sorry, little rage rant😅
I’m a girl by birth and identify as one as well I’m also straight but I’ve always wanted to be a boy I just could never fully transfer into the idea, I’ve also always know that I take interest in girls but wouldn’t date them. This is amazing and I love and support all of you amazing people 🥰💕
Actually 3 days ago I was being made fun of. Just for being Trans and black I still don't get why people don't accept LGBTQ because we all are people we all have feeling it doesn't matter who u are you should be considered human. So who you or what you are you all are people. You can be who you want too. Like a song said. 'What if he likes ken not barbie why does he have to say sorry? 'We can love who we want too". Quote: " Be kind to others they might not be like you look like you but they are a person". Remember you are loved you are cared for don't listen to people who stand against you keep going. You should be proud of who you are. I definitely learned that today.❤🧡💛💚💙💜💝
Don’t let anyone tell you what you can and can’t do, it’s your life live it. You don’t ever have to agree with a persons opinion but you shouldn’t make fun or judge them for it. Just because a person is religious doesn’t make them homophobic, it’s alright for them to disagree with it respectfully. Just because a person isn’t religious or because they are apart of the lbgtq+ community doesn’t make them a bad person, or that you should disrespect them. I don’t agree with everything 100% but I don’t care. This is my opinion. It’s the way I view things. No one will 100% see the same things I do and that’s okay. Just be kind to everyone and that’s all that matters.
I loveee it! Oh heres a story I always felt that I had to fit in. But soon I came out I told my friends that I am a lesbian and my sisters there all supported me. It was harder to tell them because I had depression and I fought it by myself to this day I feel amazing by who I am.😁✨
i just came out as bisexual and told my friends some of them didnt accept me😔 but when i told online my best friends they supported me and one of them even came out as gay✨ but one of their parent didnt like lgbtq+ so their parent didn't want me to be friend with her😕 and then when i watched this video i felt a little bit better:))) so ty for making this video😊
it hurts me to know that that people are getting bullied for who they are, be yourself, dont let anyone hurt you or make you feel like you cant be something! (sorry for the late comment) believe in yourself everyone!
I think these LBBTQ+ videos are a good notice to young kids; you don't need to fit in and you should express yourself. It also shows people how other feel when you make fun of them.
My parents don't support ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 but I'm lesbian and idk how to tell them so I just listen to this song and I just love it so I hope your parents support your decisions unlike mine! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Made me cry as a Texas Trans Kid because if I can see others happy and thriving I can be happy with myself. I'm proud of who I am and I'm proud of people that have the courage to come out!
2:34 this reminded me of when my friend got his hair cut to the length he wanted, he isn't very good at smiling for pictures, but he had the biggest smile i had ever seen on his face, he was "straight"-up euphoric, i wish i could see him that happy all the time
As a gay trans male, I STAN YOU JUST FOR USING THE CORRECT GAY FLAG- so many people think the rainbow is the gay flag, but it isn't. Also, the fact you used the all inclusive flag and not a square of rainbow. 🤩
Question- my best friend is gay trans male but he often dresses in "feminin" clothes, he also uses they/them pronouns do you know of that like a whole different gender or if its normal? I don't wanna effened him 🥰
@@revortexed448 ty sorry I still make slip-ups sometimes currently they are questing non binary it’s so confusing 😭😭 but yea they’re still figuring it out :)
