listen mate, STOP the emotes and passive playing. DIG AND DIG with the lightsabers when you use power ups. For kylo, after freezing the opp, pull them in with the force pull ability. STOP using it when you can see they're blocking!! And if the opponent is already close and you're low health (like when you were fighting rey in the tunnel) DO NOT force pull just to get in a hit. You will most likely end up in a trade, and she will kill you with 1 or 2 swings.