starting life over...in my 30s after losing almost everything 

You all are SO kind and encouraging in the comments I cannot thank you enough! I was so nervous to post this video, but I am glad that I did because it reached the people that it needed to. Thank you so much for being kind to me and each other in the comments 💗 this transition has been a journey for sure lol! Every day I feel a little bit better. I hope you all are taking things one day at a time. I am making my way through the comments and I saw a request to never delete this video so that they can come back to read the comment section. I promise I won't delete! 😊I hope your 2024 is off to the start you've hoped for! I can't wait to share more of this journey with you all. 💕Jenn

Women in their 30s sharing glimpses of their most vulnerable self is the content I love and relate to. New subscriber here!

At 29 I was lost, not enough pay my wife left me for a another dude, I took time to reinvent myself and work harder & smarter. Currently leading a good life, six figure + income, I have a gf that loves me. I travel the world and I will be 33 next month. You can pull through too. I love the honesty in your story hang in there

Jennifer, I feel the same way right now in my 40's. I quit my job to pursue my dream of becoming a nurse. I have one more semester and I feel like my life is just beginning which is crazy. I love that you decided to make this video and that age doesn't matter because different ages can be in the same place in life. Great video!

I’m starting over at 38, was unemployed 7 months and almost lost everything. I’m unhoused, but slowly rebuilding my life. Finally got a job too

I think the 30's "restart" happens to everyone. I ended a marriage, was laid off, didn't know what to do. Ten years later, I can look back and thank God everything fell apart because it got sooooo much better.

I started over at 25, then 35, and again at 45. Each time the losses were more monumental. Each time I experienced depression and failure but then eventually rebirth and restoration. I discovered that I really am worth so much more than I believed in previous versions of myself. I met people in their 60’s who had to start over after devastating losses. I am so very grateful for each day no matter how difficult it may seem to be with changing demands and new challenges. Journaling and poetry saved me. Art saved me. It is tempting to isolate. Stay connected to family and friends you can trust. I learned that being myself is alright. At 45 I was almost homeless, having survived a horrible divorce, job loss, family death, and foreclosure/near bankruptcy. At 55 I am in a new city with a new job and pursing a Masters degree. My current partner is my best friend - 5 years strong. I spent 3 years feeling completely lost… in survival mode. Along the way I found a whole new tribe and creative gifts that had laid dormant for decades. You will be okay. Give yourself time and the gift of rediscovering your true self. You will rise. .

Looking at the responses it seems we all are just suffering in silence.

Thank you for sharing your story.. I got a divorce at 33 years old, no child and betrayed by my ex husband left me so insecure and having a mental breakdown. I started over and met the love of my life at 35 years old and currently remarried to an amazing man who hears and sees me. Moral of the story forget the time line that society sets for us etc you will be ok❤

At 29 my father died, crumbling my world. I entered therapy. At 30 I went back to school, at 31 my 5 year relationship ended- the person I thought I was going to marry. At 35 I got my masters degree, now at 36 I’ve been in a relationship with the love of my life for 3 years and we just bought a house together, I’m working on my business. Life is a wild ride. ❤ Thank you for being so open. I love your content.

I had to reset everything at 32, now I am 37 today and I am so glad that happened because it allowed me to have the wonderful life I have now. The reset is a good thing!

28 here🙋🏽‍♀️college drop out, no career, a minimum wage job, never had a boyfriend and desperate and lost af😂 life keeps throwing hardships after hardships but I believe I will continue figure it out at my own paste. I wish you the absolute best and I’m subscribed to watch you blossom ❤

This almost made me cry. 32. Diagnosed with a serious illness and divorcing after only a year of marriage after doing everything I could to save us. Currently can’t afford to live on my own. I’m subscribed and I’ll be rooting for you. And us. ❤

I'm 47, living with my parents and wondering what my life has come to! You are definitely not alone! With Faith in God, we will get through this stage in life! When you mentioned not rotting un bed, that spoke to me. Some days, I feel like that's all I want to do but I have to push myself and get up and move! Thanks for sharing! I pray your content creation and being an influencer takes you to heights higher than your wildest dreams!❤

This spoke to me. I’m a 31 yr old Black man in ATL. Let me say you are GORGEOUS! Keep your head up. Beautiful on the inside and out. Any man is blessed to have you. You’ll be more than fine!

I am quitting my job in 2 weeks. I have no plan, no savings bc of this job, and I live on my own. I have been falling into a whole of lostness, and just turned 30. this job has sent me spiraling the last 2 years and i refuse to deplete myself any further by staying. I am taking a leap of faith, so I can start feeling good again. I am terrified and feel crazy for having no backup plan, but I'm choosing the lesser of two evils at this point. This video was just what I needed. Thank you for your vulnerability and honesty.

Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

I just turned 37 last month and the relationship I had with the guy that was my everything ended three years ago. In May, I was let go from what was my dream tech job. The biggest lesson I’ve learned at this age is to care for myself first and foremost. Not everyday is the greatest, but I push through. We will make it through 🙏🏼♥️

Reading the comments honestly puts my mind as ease. I just turned 29 last month & my anxiety has been kicking my asss, over thinking about where I’m at in life. It’s refreshing to read that others are just here trying to figure life out.

Baby girl, it’s ok! I’m 37 going to be 38 in May, and I feel like that sometimes… most times actually!. Listen, focus on the “little wins”… and trust God!. Trust me, I’ve been there. Studying God’s word and speaking to Jesus Christ (and His Holy Spirit) will help you. Trust me, there’s people who will kill to be where you are!. Your life will fall in place. Everyone’s timeline and life’s journey ain’t the same. Love you. Stay in gratitude! ❤

I love reading all of these comments. I’m not in my 30s but I found comfort in these stories. I felt so insecure/ashamed/embarrassed/guilty and almost as if I was also emotionally not as mature as my peers (same age or older) just by how life has happened to me. I felt disconnected but I’m slowly starting to believe in myself again. ❤ thank you guys for the inspiration☺️

This video showed up in my recommendations today, and it’s perfect timing. I’m 38 (39 in 2 weeks), and experiencing a LOT of what you shared. Today, I found a painting that reads “actually life is beautiful and I have time”. I saved it as my wallpaper. Thank you for your vulnerability. I just subscribed, and I’m looking forward to your journey and mine.

This comment section is so validating. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. We are all so proud of you.❤🥺

There is absolutely nothing wrong with starting over. I’ve started life over plenty of times & i can honestly say every time i started over life gets better & better & it was all worth it. Growth & a closer walk with Christ & I’m literally enjoying & living my best life. Thank you for being so open & honest. This is going to draw so many people to you because this is what people are looking for. We love honesty & truth. Girl let God use you & your channel is going to thrive.

It took me 4 months to finally have the courage to watch this video. Around the time you posted this I got laid off from a job I so badly wanted and broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years who I thought I was going to marry. All of this happened within a month of my 29th birthday. The healing process is still ongoing, but I'm glad to know there are other ladies out here who understand what this feels like 💜

Thanks for having the courage to post. I was widowed at 34 after 10 years of marriage. Now raising my young children alone. Definitely not how I envisioned things. God will keep us all. Keep pushing and keep posting!💚

Im 35 year old man and I feel the same way. I love the message and cant agree with it more im down with seeing how your story unfolds. Thank you for your vulnerability hun 🙏🏽.

Just hit 30. Unmarried, single, no kids, no career, had to move in with sisters, and lost a LOT of people either to life or death in the last few years. Starting this next chapter with God, a new job that isn’t exactly high paying but I’m blessed, starting a nursing program in spring, and learning myself finally. I feel so behind but alive for the first time. It’s not on the timeline I would’ve wanted or expected but I’m getting comfortable with the idea that maybe that wasn’t the plan for me and enjoying not feeling like I need to have a chokehold on everything from fear of being… here 😅 This is only the beginning and I’m scared but I know better is right in front of me. Thank you for sharing and creating a safe place for others to do so also. ❤

I just turned 33 yrs old a few days ago. I recently left my husband due to domestic violence. Grateful to God that my three kids and I got out of that toxic home. My parents took us in. We live far from the abuser and he filed for divorce. I worry about my kids and what I am going to do in terms of future employment. We are struggling in one way or another. Stay strong, Jenn. ❤

33 turning 34 and I was just journaling about this. My season in life looks so different than many of my friends and its never got to me until recently. Thank you for daring to be vulnerable on the internet bc this really helped.

Thank you for sharing! I'm 54, living at home, single and have went through a lay off. I have been applying for jobs with no success so far. I am trying not to stress but some days are better than others. I signed up with a staffing agency so I can have a routine and have some income coming in while still applying for jobs. I'm currently working as contractor. I'm looking forward to the new year and new opportunities personally and professionally. I'm reminding myself to not overthink about what I am going through. I'm trusting God and I am confident that everything will be ok even though I can't see into the future. All of us that are going through something right now.... we got this! ❤

Wow. It’s crazy that someone is out there experiencing what I’m feeling. Soon I’ll be officially divorced and I was a stay at home wife and I’m literally starting over from scratch. I’m losing my home and starting over in a new city with no friends or family. It’s so hard but I feel like it’s a sign that I just so happened to click on this. ❤

30 is the perfect time to start over! You know more, experienced more and have to somewhat of a conclusion what you do and do not like. As a person whos currently going through that, its been eye opening and freeing. Be blessed sis, you're doing just fine and will continue to prosper!

I’m starting over also at 39 Your not alone and we got this 💪🏾

Currently going through this wave of Life at the age of 35; had to cut off all toxicity including My previous job & family members...I'm now in My isolation faze to focus on Me and ONLY Me. Learning to be patient & give Myself grace while getting back on My feet👑🙌🏾🌹

Darling I'm 46 and starting over again. This time is different because I am literally over my former career and unsure what it is that I really want. I know what I don't want. I feel like I've accomplished so much and so little at the same time. Shedding and surrender is painful. All the questions you posed I ask God every day. I want to get past this season but I also want to gain the lessons so as not to repeat them again. So one person saw it and stands with you. Sending you strength and hugs!

I’m 34 also and I’ve been experiencing the same things. I’ve lost a career, a marriage, friends, family, a home and most of my material possessions. It was like on one hand there was this clean slate to build on but on the other I felt empty. I had to heal through therapy and verbalizing my vulnerabilities. I know the timeline wasn’t what you hoped for but it will all make sense with time. Plus it makes for great content for those of us who struggle as well at this big young age. ❤

This was comforting. 29 here lost everything at 28 and I have been sleep walking through life since. I am trying my best and i hope one day this will all pass.❤ Thank you for sharing

Immediately subscribed. You literally spoke my life. I’m actually married with two children and I just feel blah. I feel like that’s all I have . Grateful for my family but so empty in my space of becoming for myself. God speed to your recovery. I hope it gets better for you, Jennifer.

I’m 31 years old and you are literally saying exactly how I feel. I had a baby at 28, my child’s father has left us and working had been a struggle for a few years and dealing all of that on top of trying to fight for my happiness has been a lot. Thank you for showing me that I am not alone.

Broke up with my bf of 4 years right around the timed I turned 30 shook me right to my core. 4 years is a long time, especially at our age, thats a significant % of my life. I feel you sis. I sometimes still feel depressed and incapable of a relationship at this time. Day by day, step by step.

I cried as I was watching because i'm literally going through this. Im fresh to the 30s club and it has been hard. I feel like im starting from 0 and not where I need to be but i do know tht things are going to work out! Transformation is never easy but what is on the other side of adversity is always so beautiful and well worth it! im grateful for all the seasons and all the lessons❤

I’m 30 in April and will finally graduate University that same month. I feel like my life will be starting at 30. Thank you for this video 🎉

YOU are the most realist, transparent, authentic, amazing person on social media. Seriously! You have been nothing but vulnerable and open and HONEST, with no filters or trying to get the best shot or leaving something out because it won't be "glorified" enough! I absolutely love it! I admire your strength, and I share the struggle along with you. Trust you are NOT alone

Girl, thank you for this video. 35 years and almost lost everything in 2021. Still in this season but hopeful that things change for the better for me

I’ve always joked that I have nine lives😆 seriously, I’ve “started over” so many times and I have kids who’ve been patient with me. I left a six figure job several months ago after not being supported and being suppressed. Walked away from the love of my life after reuniting after 15 years. Lost so much but I am blessed and have learned so much on how to start over. Be transformed, workout and take care of your health. Love yourself over and over again and trust God!! Your setback is preparing you for a comeback! Wishing you all the best ❤

I’m 35 miles just the same place with a daughter. Keep being vulnerable, you have a community. I’m that one person ❤

Hi, your video came up in the feed earlier in the week and it's perfect timing. Honey you're not alone in this thing called life. I'm 49 (I'll be 50 August 2024) and I've had to reestablish myself so many times I'm not even counting anymore. Give yourself grace and self love. FORGIVE YOURSELF. Words spoken to me today. Forgiveness gives us freedom 🤗 We're all still a work in progress. If we say we've made it and no further growth is necessary then that means we've made it home to our Lord and Savior and are no longer on this earth.

Sobbing. I feel you 100000%. I’m about to be 31 in a month and I feel so lost and hopeless. Like I’m behind and not enough. It’s reassuring that I’m not alone. YOU’RE not alone either. We all aren’t alone! Thank you for sharing your journey. Your words are beautiful and I’m so glad you found the bravery to upload and share your vulnerability. I hope you’re doing better than before ❤

I’m 29 and I feel like I’m starting over. I feel so much shame and fear because I’m nowhere where I thought I’d be, and people in my life are criticizing me for not being married or settled. I’m lonely AF and my business has dried up. This video made me feel a little less alone, but it still hurts. 😢

❤️I went through something similar when I hit rock bottom at 28. I felt devastated and still recovering from it at 31, but it completely shifted my perspective on life. Who TF set these timelines for us anyway? What kind of life do I want and not what others want for me? I am rebuilding slowly but surely.💎Your video encouraged me to keep going ❤️❤️

Starting over in my mid 30’s too, (34 here) had an independent life, good apartment, car, and everything till one day came crumbling down. I was so done with ny nursing career… it traumatized me to my core and affected the way i interacted with people, it added fuel to my depression along with deaths in the family 4 people close to me in a span of 4 years. I was frozen, paralyzed, unable to move forward for 3 whole months. I was trying to sleep alot and not wake up. I never imagined myself to be this way because I always thought I was a go getter. I trusted myself too much. I always had plan B plan C etc. I felt I took things for granted while I was packing. Fell hard Like a domino . Also broke up w boyfriend and financial crisis on the line. Felt like I was a worthless human being and a loser in life. At 34 I felt like life was so short, my perspective changed after having experienced deaths in family and witnessed death right in front of my eyes..Moved out of state and only literally had 2k w me and drove to my cousin’s house to recuperate.. still on this journey I just moved in her house 2 weeks ago..looking to work towards entrepreneurship and not be on anyone’s mercy.

Been dealing with loneliness myself over the past year. I just jumped into a new RU-vid series a couple weeks back that went viral and I'm dealing with turning this into a career as well. Developing friendships is the part I'm having a hard time with as I do so many things every day to be productive and move my career forward. Thanks for making this, you're not alone.

This happened to me between 37-38 just now and I’m so hopeful to see things turning around. I’m now realizing a fresh start could be a blessing. ❤

I so feel this 46 single parent after a divorce of 16 years going back to school and starting over was hard but sis God can do anything!!!

I feel exactly the way you said you felt in this video. I'm 38 and do not have the life I imagined I would have at all. I know I've achieved things but then I've also had major failures. I feel that I have started over so many times in my adult life that it's comical. I deal with an anxiety disorder, which makes things tough to deal with and makes me super hard on myself too. I find myself embarrassed about my life and my current living situation, and feeling like I have failed at life, and I hate feeling that way. Thank you for being open about this because sometimes I feel like I'm the only person who I know (lol) who feels this way about their life. I also feel like I never hear other Black women talking about stuff like this unless they are already out of that phase of their lives and are doing great now

I dont ever comment on anyones video usually, but please dont delete/private this video. Im going through something extremely difficult and this video has been the main thing that is getting me through day by day. “Let go of control and be patient”, “I have to accept that maybe somethings cant go to the next version of me” really resonated with me. Keep doing you girl, you have a beautiful soul and will go far. Rooting for your success and everyones in the comment section whos going through it ❤

Wow… im reading the comments and all that I keep saying to myself is.. Life is not linear. I believe at after seeing so many people going through exactly what I’m going through shows that I need to give myself more grace. When you think about it, the way we may have seen our lives may not be our own true desires. What if this is teaching us and stripping us from all the beliefs that aren’t truly ours. So that we can form our own beliefs, values, and wants and even needs. We never done this thing called life before, at least in this lifetime and I believe at this point we have to be gentle with ourself and sit back and just BE. Our moment of stillness and self discovery. We’ve been pouring and running from it for too long. It’s time to learn who we TRULY are. It’s painful though I can’t lie.

Were all in the same boat starting over in life. I’m 38 and I got laid off too and had to move back home with my mom after my dad passed. I’m going back to college and starting a new career. I’ve been single for about 12 years now. You don’t need a man to be happy. God will always be by your side. Hang in there sis ❤️🙏🏽

Im 29 and completely lost due to life's ups and downs and currently struggling with mental and physical health and I must say I am glad i ain't the only person finding themselves in this tough journey of life. We got this fam,there is light at the end of the tunnel 💞💕

37 (turning 38 in 8 weeks) . I broke up with my fiance a year ago which was the right thing to do, I feel lost and I feel old. Im unhappy in my job and under performing at job. So grateful to come across this video. We are all going to be OK. Im happy to be a new subscriber. We got this ❤❤❤

Thank you for sharing and for being so vulnerable.I’m 32 and entered my early 30s with so MANY losses in 2022 and life not going how I planned.Saturn Return really got me fucked up and my whole world turned upside down in 2022.Nothing has been the same.This made me cry and I too got laid off in 2022 and lost ALL I knew.Its a miracle I’m still alive honestly.

I’m literally same age as you, losing my job next month, my mum passed away when I was younger and now my dad has been diagnosed with cancer so I moved back home to help him. I’ve no partner or kids, life is definitely upside down right now 🙃. You’ve got this! ❤

Same girl same, just turned 35 and feel so lost… praying your path aligns with all your desires 💕

I’m 23 and I relate to this so much 😭😭 redirection phase can be very difficult 🥲

I felt like I lost the love of my life in 2020, then came the C and the world went crazy! And then I had to finish college on top of that. I almost failed, but I got myself out of depression last minute. I finshed decently and found a job, new friends, started to volunteer and now will do my first big trip in years. Life changed a lot! I used to cry at work - in the kitchen while making breakfast for elderly people - (trying to support myself during college) ... to now being thankful for everyday!

I absolutely LOVE watching your tiktoks and YT videos. I recently got divorced this year and I am a single mom of 4, you have been such a motivation and inspiration! Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing what you are going through. I've been feeling like I am in this exact same place and felt like I was the only one feeling like that. Starting over is just a fresh start for the life we desire and deserve. God has an amazing plan for us and he is going to restore what we lost 10x over and it is going to be so beautiful in the end!

I'm glad I stumbled upon this video! I'm 32, living with family and working a job that barely pays! I'm struggling to find a better job all while trying to figure out what it is I want! This made me feel validated! I know we got this! Can't wait to look back and see how far I've come! 🥰

Life ohhhh Life... I SPEAK Abundance to us and in our lives because Jennifer, you are not alone... I can relate in soooo many ways...💛🙏🏾💛🙌🏾💛

Sis, I am in a very similar space and I’m 36. That starting over phase ain’t easy BUT it’s NECESSARY! The beautiful thing is that to every valley there is a peak (and the climb up to that peak). What I’ve learned and been consistently reminded of is while we are in the waiting and growing period, we have to Wait Well! Take heed to the things God is shifting us into and away from. Focus on the areas that are being dismantled in your life because those are likely the spaces that need your most undivided attention. Personally, I’ve used this waiting period to grow in my health/fitness journey (becoming more consistent with working out and watching what I eat), working on being consistent with my morning routines, working on reading scriptures more and being still so I can better hear God. I’m also working on better understanding my traumas and healing those areas that may have contributed to how I got to where I am. What I know is that the version of me that’s needed to achieve all I was put on this Earth to accomplish, needs a more refined version of myself. I am ever evolving and I’m learning to love this journey regardless of what my bank account looks like at the moment 🥴😂 WE GOT THIS! ♥️

Jenn, looks like you accomplished your goal for this video because this is my life right now. 31, lost the relationship with the man I thought was my forever person after being together for 7 years, just moved out of my parents place but this era was nothing as I expected it to be, especially at a time when my other friends around me are engaged and married. I see you and feel you. Though my relationship ended last year, what’s brought me the most comfort day to day is surrendering myself to all my emotions without shame or suppression. Tapping in to yourself, coming back to yourself, will allow you to heal much more completely than suppressing those hard days ever could. At the end of the day, I still have hope in truly knowing that what’s for me will never leave me. With my relationship ending, it was important for me to understand that I can be heartbroken for the loss but immensely grateful for the time we shared (the two feelings can exist at once 🙂). Wishing you continued healing ✨

You are not alone! Im 44 years young. The love of my life passed away during the pandemic. I was laid off my job of four years in 2021, which resulted in me being unemployed for an entire year. I got another job in 2022, and then just got laid off again in September 2023. It's been extremely difficult navigating grief, depression, friends and family that turned their back on me when I needed them the most. I'm back in school now, just really trying to figure it all out. Just like you, I had my life planned out and I worked so hard for it. It sometimes feels like my life got snatched from me. But, my faith keeps pushing me to believe that my new life will be better than my last. It's just the waiting and anticipating on God to move. I pray you and anyone else in this place finds the peace they need to move through the hurt and disappointment. 🙏🏾

I'm 37 and finally starting the journey back to school I feel you

I feel you. Felt like I had a reset 31 to 32, let go from a job, thyroid cancer, 6yr marriage turned to divorce finalized, no longer able to use my car, new job, navigating finding self again, depression, started new hobbies that brought joy to my soul, made new friends, traveled - all in one yr. Now 32, I look back at that year and I realized I was the happiest I had ever been in life despite the bumps. I got to rest after years of feeling like survival mode and signed up for random things (ie burlesque, Konpa, Kizomba , heels dance class, pole class, aerial and etc) that I’ve been interested in but never tried.

Wow. We have the same story. 2020 had to walk away from a relationship I thought was it with some who I thought was my best friend and right after lost my job of 6 yrs at 35. Take it one day at a time was the exact thing I had to do also. Pray, grieve the life you had and take a new step each day toward moving on ❤

You're not alone. I lost my job and spouse during the pandemic, which was one of the hardest things I've been through in my life. I sought help from a therapist, kept myself busy, and traveled, and that's the only reason I'm still here in 2024. I'm still recovering.

34 here....Whew. I'm learning that 30s have truly been a journey of self discovery and growth. Although, it is not easy to see, there is beauty in our journey. Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. Keep going! This is your time! 💗

Its so crazy, I am 32 turning 33 soon and I am at the exact same place. My marriage failed after only 3 years and I am now starting my journey to a new career path. It has been a very difficult pill to swallow. The hardest part is not feeling you are where you should be in life. That hurts more than a failed marriage. It gets better with each passing day keep pushing girlie!

I really appreciate you sharing this. I’ll be 28 in a month but I feel I’ve never “lived life” no relationships. No memories of fun travel etc. I feel I’m on some type of timeline. I feel as if I have to change and accomplish everything in my 20s but 30-50 age wise is still a good frame where you can do so much.

I’m starting over at 39, i definitely feel this with you. I’ve had to leave a lot of the people or the past behind bc the amounts of truths kept from me. In this process forward I have no clue where it’s going to lead me yet but I’m keeping on keeping on. Anything will be better than the situation I just survived through. Truly thank you for your video

You are so not alone. You got this! Rejection is just redirection! ❤ Something better is on its way!

I'm weeks late but I just turned 36 and I had to start life all over again nearly two years ago after giving my life to a cause and relationships that completely failed me. I almost lost everything as well. This was refreshing to watch! 💖

You have no idea how much energy i got from your video… i am an arab Muslim girl from Egypt…. Thanks too much ❤️🙏

Definitely gained a new supporter today. The things you said in my opinion are definitely not easy to say out loud and then say out loud for others to hear. I pray we all figure out that "what now and what's next" when time is right of course. Sending blessings your way even though you don't know me.

I'm literally 34 and all similar things happened... within 2 years. I lost the love of my life, engagement and lost a few friends or seen the truth of those friendships during the process. It was really raw and exposed for everything FELT. for a while I was running from just feeling... anything that required an emotion other than happy and silly I ran from it. Your words are a breathe of air to experience this with others around the same age. We win on a broad spectrum 🥰✨️

Hey love, new subbie here!! It crazy that you came up on my for you while editing my starting over at 40 video, so trust and believe that you're not alone. You got this girl. God has a bigger and better plan for you. Just trust the process. Your content is really good, so being a full-time creator may not be a bad idea. Can't wait to see more ❤

I am 27. And this is exactly how I feel. I dealt with a lot of rejection. I am lonely. I am trying so hard to keep on going. Thank you for sharing this video. It means a lot to me.

This made me hit the subscribe button. I’m starting over at 45 so I see you sis. Thank you for your vulnerability.❤

We are all people trying to figure out the way of life alongside each other. ❤

This video was a breath of fresh air and was very inspiring and supportive. We’re all in this thing together and we’ll make it through on the other side 🤍

There was a reel I watched and the woman said, if you pray for patience, God gives you opportunities to be patient, and the same goes for every prayer you pray. That really resonated with me. And so did this video. Thank you 🤍

Girl! I relate to this on so many levels. My life turned upside down in 2020 and three years later I'm still picking up the pieces. Someone encouragement for all of us in this season is to continue to explore the changes in ourselves and celebrate the growth.

“What should i do to move forward?” That resonated deeply :) thank you for sharing your vulnerability and emotions that you are going through. You feel like a big sister whom i’d love to connect with ❤. Glad that content creation is giving you a new drive! While there is no expectation for you to post often, i hope one day I’ll watch one of your vlogs where you’re giving gratitude for the phase of life that you’re in. Can’t wait!! Sending love ❤

RU-vid just recommended your video. I loved it😍 and i was reading all the comments🫂 I am gonna share this quote i love so much 😊 it helps me when i was going through 2 burnouts and a painful 💔 " Don't be afraid to start over. This time you're not starting from scratch, you're starting from experience " All of you, remember that you're so much more than your career, relationships etc... you are a simply HUMAN BEING 🤍 Take a step-by-step everyday 🌟 God knows everything you have been through. You will all be fine✨️ Take good care of yourselves🤍 Sending you so much love, light, warm hugs 🫂 from Belgium 🇧🇪

I loved this video, I'm glad you posted it! I am 40 and I'm also having to start again after a huge amount of sudden loss. I currently don't have a job, partner, children or many friends. I did not expect my life to be like this at all and I have to fight the despair and catastrophising every day. This week I booked onto a daily meditation class which has been helping, plus painting, walking, the gym, rest and eating healthily. I have been reflecting a lot on my life and facing parts of myself that are uncomfortable. I am unclear of my path from here but I've started a small business because it's in my dream field, and otherwise I'm following my intuition each day putting one foot in front of the other. Lately I've been decluttering a lot, tidying and cleaning and that is helping me to gain more clarity. I've subscribed to follow you on your journey, it's great you're going after your goals, let's keep going!

Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing with us. I am going through many major changes as well right now. I also lost my job on my 30th birthday. It’s been a year of resetting. It feels like I’m at square one at 30 and it’s both exciting and terrifying. We’re finding our way, sis! ❤

Jennifer, needed this I lost my job that I loved because of a manager that hated me. It’s the first of the year and I have to put everything in Gods hands.🙌🏽

Keep going, girl! Life will get better. Drop the tears, let it out, pray, and work on the new life you want! I've been there and life is slowly getting better. I am enjoying the little things in life and building back slowly!

Sending you love, peace and a hug from a 37 yr old whose never been married or in a healthy long term relationship, no kids and desire to be a mom, a job that just pays the bills but not fulfilling. We're all struggling in different levels. Its okay to not be okay. We're all trying our best 💜 much love and blessings

I so relate 💯 with you. I'm 35 and had to start over 3yrs ago for the same reasons you're going through; similarly, I lost a job because the company went under, then lost my partner that (at the time) I thought would be my future. It's funny how life works sometimes...it's like we have to shed in order to grow. May we remain steadfast in the pursuit of ourselves cause I do believe this is what it looks like to grow❤