Secularly Speaking: If one feels that people are merely a product of nature (with no “Hand of God” being the least bit involved), then isn’t it just wonderful-and, oh-so beneficial-that certain men indeed are emotionally and erotically attracted by the intimacy arising out of attending to physically-challenged women.
Religiously Speaking: If one truly holds belief that God, In His Infinite Wisdom, For Some Reason Known Only To Him, Willfully and Deliberately and Intentionally afflicts a lovely women with CP, then one must also accept that God likewise Inspires Certain Men to be Drawn to these such thusly afflicted women-given that, so it follows, the nature of eroticism is itself Created and Ordained by God.
You, your life, condition, etc., are no joking mater (aside from genuine, playful humor). No excuse for being offensive towards you. You are quite delightful - and, highly desirable!
May as well “celebrate” your having CP. CP gives rise to your constituting a very special “gift” for the sort of man who finds a woman with CP to be exceedingly erotic due to the fact of her such condition - engendering strong emotional, physical, and sexual intercourse and bonding.