Listened to this years ago and it made no sense. Now with some life and relationships and love and some babies added....jeeze I feel this letter now. What a difference a near decade can make. Decisions aren't always so simple
I think Shirley was definitely right with her statements..... If the man who wrote this letter actually did something wrong that caused the engagement to end? There would be NO LETTER! Consider this - if a man lost the woman he loved and wanted to marry because of something he did.....and she came back? There's nothing to think about! He's happy and ready to give that love another chance. Her moving on and having a child is something he knows he helped happen IF HE MESSED UP AND CAUSED HER TO LEAVE..... Again, Shirley is right about that woman. She went out and thought she could do better, and now has a child by a man she doesn't want to be with or doesn't want to be with her. Now, she wants that old GOOD thing back....
if i was him I would level it alone she is looking for a rebound. woman don't go looking unless something is out of order in her life. plus who to say she is worth getting back with
steve FINALLY agrees that he doesn't agree with shirley. A LOT of the statements that he makes actually contradict shirley. She does NOT give good advice at all.
I think Shirley was definitely right with her statements..... If the man who wrote this letter actually did something wrong that caused the engagement to end? There would be NO LETTER! Consider this - if a man lost the woman he loved and wanted to marry because of something he did.....and she came back? There's nothing to think about! He's happy and ready to give that love another chance. Her moving on and having a child is something he knows he helped happen IF HE MESSED UP AND CAUSED HER TO LEAVE..... Again, Shirley is right about that woman.
The only way dude should consider getting back with her is if he can fully accept that baby as his own and if the baby father will not interfere with the relationship. Steve broke it all the way down. I'd love an update on this one.
I disagree that the boyfriend is not a good guy. He could very well be a great guy and she might think that he'd make a great husband and father, but he may not be as pleasing sexually as the ex- boyfriend. Women will leave a good man for good sex. I'm more inclined to agree with Shirley that he should not take her back.
She don't have to want him back just because she has a BABY!WHY can't she just miss him DAMN 🤦♀️ and there might not necessarily be drama .but I agree with everything else.
This whole break down was BS how he know that he was leaving something out of the later you can easily flip it and say she is a wild one she is cheating on the guy she is with right now steve be tripping turning it on the guy like that