Steve Harvey Show (Straight Talk) 06 06 2018 

I think we should be putting Gods principality/word in this convos, cause true wisdom is Gods wisdom.

My husband does what Steve does - he apologizes just like that, and I do too. We're so blessed :)

People that aren’t married or have had many disappointments like divorce end up making excuses for being alone or being single. You end up creating a void to deal with it. Heal and keep hoping for that right relationship 🙏🏾

Hard To Love & Receive Love When You Are So Full Of Yourself.

This panel of ladies are so0 classy and respectful of one another.

I have learnt so much from this program since I started watching. It's not always about what I am interested in but others and their feelings.

I used to think that when I was a naive twenty year old, that bad boys are good in bed. But I was sadly disappointed several times. In fact, a lot of bad boys are over compensating for the "lack thereof". Ijs

Preach! "i'm an honest woman with or without a man" !

That "happy wife, happy life" is so B.S. And too many women buy into that. You better make your man happy just as much. A lot of men do ask for the divorce or leave their wife. Maybe that's why the divorce rate is so high. You better focus on your man just as much as you want him to focus on you.

I’m 62, I’m not married but I’ve had 2 committed relationships that ended badly when my man cheated on me! I don’t want to put my heart ♥️ out there anymore only to be broken again. After the last relationship I chose not to pursue anymore relationships beyond friendships. That doesn’t make me any less of a person because I choose to be Happily Single. I have my own life and freedom, I also have my Church.

Good looking bad boys! We all like them when we are younger. Older - we like good men. Less drama.

but then again - Happy SPOUSE - happy HOUSE.

If a man can not say sorry, indeed he is not an alpha man. He needs someone who tiptoes around him. sorry, but that's the truth. I am in the way that I know my values and try to live accordingly an alpha woman and if I am wrong, I can always say and mean a "I am sorry..." I cannot stand people who cannot say sorry, this is often a character trait of really controlling people because they do not give the other person (their) power (back) and do not take their responsibility on their share, it somehow leaves the other person falsely wrong. It should be verbalized not hugged off or anything.... I feel for the other part who has to be fine with never getting a really meant and felt sorry...and it is not the word "sorry " I feel is important, it is more about showing that you acknowledge the others around you with their needs, values, interests, etc.

Steve is my favorite human

I don't like bad boys, I really like nice,sweet and caring men

Arguing in a relationship is welcoming if and only if both parties have the clear understanding that its for the betterment of the relationship and not for "I am right". Meaning, showcasing purposes that you are always right and have monopoly over ideas. The key should be fighting for the relationship. And this can be done with Love as well.

Marriage is an institution of God. If marriage is not for you then neither is sex. People want to have sex without marriage because there is little to no commitment or probably no connection to God. In that case, to you it is cool and it is 'to each his own'.

All I hear is feminisms “we both supposed to make one another happy”

Marriage is necessary!!

Steve hit it jackpot

I just wish every man would do what Dennis Rodman has done. ....MARRY YOUR DAMN SELF.

A successful marriage depends on your decisions and the God's principles for marriage you apply, I am married and happly married on my to 2 years and to be a father for the very first time. I married virgin-it is still possible in 21 century to be pure!

Been married for 34 years and arguing is a part of marriage, but as adults it is important to be respectful, even though you might disagree

I like Steve’s view. It’s reallll

I liked this when Steve described the ppl point at which he apologizes. Yes.

Disagreements are healthy, arguments are not. A point must come in individual growth and growth in being able to communicate effectively in a marriage/long-term partner where there should be little to no arguments because you BOTH have a strong ability to communicate with one another. There is no real communication in an ”argument.” Arguments normally end in someone being forced to say I'm sorry just to put an end to the negative energy. That isn't the same as letting go of what happened. Disagreements are holistic discussions with both people having the level of individual insight to communicate, mirror their partner and come to conclusions together and actually allow whatever the disagreement was about to lay to rest.

so 5:00 a man should apologize at least 80% of the time then 7:58 its sexy when a man makes no apologies.... which is it people huh

"...marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God and that the family is central to the Creator’s plan for the eternal destiny of His children."

Steve is right if she's the one he wouldn't have a problem with her moving in.

marriage is not about your partner blessing you its about you being a blessing to your partner if you can do that your marriage will work

Spot on Steve

Hailing from all the way from South Africa and catching this clip today that was aired exactly a year ago today, today being 06/06/2019, what a nice coincidence. Anyways,I'm such a huge Steve Harvey fan frm the days of his sitcoms🤣 he's such a legend and is so insightful I must say. Much love to our uncle Steve n legend.

This a press on tattoo...😂😂😂

She looks amazing for 50

Marriage is for everybody an anybody who wants it

I was shocked when she said 50.

Women love men depending on what they want at that moment.. Some want fun and so prefer bad boys but when a woman wants to be loved, appreciated,married,come on.. No one wants a bad boy. That's recipes for depression.

4:17 Is it healthy to argue? 7:20 Why women fall for Bad Guys? 9:05 Is really office romance, lead to marriage? 11:12 How long it takes a men to know she's The One? 15:50 How men know she is The One? *Men don't care about Freedom, when you're The One*

Alpha men r d ones who know when they are wrong and when their women whom they love deserve an apology.

If your wrong... You be the one to apologise.... That's it... That's all

An alpha male is not someone who doesn't apologise when he's wrong

Bad boys are not attractive to me cause their is nothing attractive about being taken for granted, being lied to, being cheated on, not being loved the way you deserve. I have been with a good guy as well as a bad guy and trust me girls the good guys r ohh so more better in bed 😂 what makes it better is being treated right , being loved and respected immensely and to tell you the truth 4 years down the line with a good guy I feel blessed that god send him my way😍

It's unfortunate that some think when women say they love "bad boy" means rob a bank. 😁😂😄😆

I 💯 agree with you

I love that these women aren’t too full of themselves and they work with their men and the way that they’re set up

Wow this clip popped up at the right time! I just went out with a friend and she was so shocked that I don’t wanna get married like it’s just not a life goal I want (I’m currently still single). I just want love and happiness and to build with someone without the papers and without the wedding. She said I was being negative and need to change my mindset to positive. I said ok well maybe if the right man came along he can change my mind but my luck with men is bad and then she said “oh a man isn’t supposed to change your mind you gotta change it yourself”. I highly disagreed that not every decision in life has to be made on my own I need help changing my mind. Also she said a man doesn’t change my mind so why is SHE trying to change my mind though?

felt more like this ladies come for lesson from steve

Happy man happy relationship.

80 20 huh?

I do think that men and women go for" bad girls" and "bad boys" more in general. It's often out of immaturity, craziness, lust, vanity, desperation or combinations of these things. A lot of times "bad boys" and "bad girls" in media and sometimes in real life are portrayed as way more attractive, sexier, more exciting, and more experienced in life in general. That "natural charisma" hooks almost every time *eye roll*. A lot of "nice guys" and "good girls" get played for idiots way too often and are usually labeled with qualities like boring, predictable, and unattractive. People usually do acknowledge good attributes that are associated with them (responsible, caring, considerate) but those attributes are usually underappreciated compared to the positive attributes associated with the "bad" people, or are only appreciated in a husband or wife but not a girlfriend or boyfriend (like really, how are we supposed to get to married if no one will date us?) Both my boyfriend and one of my good male friends are those genuinely nice guys that have been overlooked for no good reason. They're responsible, respectful, funny, sweet, dependable and super loving. But no, douchebags who dress better and worse were more likely to get a girlfriend. I get that these assholes are also more likely to approach women, thus increasing their chances of getting one but come on now. Same thing with me and some of the other lifelong genuinely nice/good girls I know of. Even though I was likable and fairly sociable no one really looked my way romantically or sexually in college; I'm lucky I managed to find my bf in this bs dating scene. I didn't have enough of that "sexy bad girl" edge to me, I was actually told by a few guys who made it a point to tell me why I was friend-zoned for whatever reason. I personally have NEVER gone for the bad guy, not even in high school. I wasn't about that foolishness at all; I swiftly broke up with my ex in high school when I realized he was abusive and with the other when his true colors showed a neglectful personality. As a teen girl, I didn't need anyone else diminishing my self-worth and depriving me of affection while I poured into them. Even as an adult I could see how good sex and charisma aren't the most important things in a relationship, and also how mediocre some of these bad boys and girls really are. They don't all live up to the "smooth, exciting, interesting, great in bed sexy beings" they tend to be over-hyped as. Some of them are straight up lame and abusive or neglectful from the beginning. People say they're tired of the drama but keep picking the same or obviously bad choices; people need to stop falling for the surface image and smokescreens. I know humans are creatures of habit, but then don't just complain if you're going to put yourself in the situation when you had other options and are contributing to the lack of options over time. They never learn, this phenomena has been going on for ages; men picking shallow and manipulatively selfish women, women picking abusive or lazy and immature men. There are less and less nice guys and girls in the world because no one really seems to take us seriously, not even ourselves a lot of the time. Too many of us also give in to the "bad" illusion and we need to stop because it's self-sabotaging and making us jaded. Also, don't get your heart shredded by a bad person THEN just come crawling to a good person only to pass on the pain the asshole put you through. Live with your consequences alone, keep that energy over there.

Isn't being independent being able to support yourself all around. I think having a family just takes it a step up. Now there are lives dependent on you. You don't seize to be independent because you got married.You seize being single.

This whole segment is just more women power bs about always making women happy at every turn. Yet what about the man, what about his happiness? Its like men are bad and women are good but what do the facts say? This trend is the main theme of steve harveys shows and its funny and all but its getting to the point where if you even mention a mans happiness or whats good for men its like blasphemy! Did you know 80% of suicides are done by men, or how about men die 10 years earlier than women, or 60% of deaths from heart disease are men, or 99% of war fatalities are men, or 98% of work related deaths are men. But hey im guessing more women are dieing from motherhood since theres so much blatant support for them.

Now he just got through saying a man knows if she's the one at 6 months, now she ain't the one at 3 months. Damn, does no one take their time anymore?

My fb of 7 years like to think of himself as a "bad boy" but everything about him says otherwise...I just let him have it since it makes him happy 😂

Marriage is ordained by God, so its a must! Sex before marriage is wrong

Dumped by three fiances? That's a bad marriage risk right there.

I already told you all I have nothing to say to him so stop stimulating me and concentrate for what your here for

I did not argue for 15 years with relationship.

Lol, "woman have it hard". Men have it hard having to live up to the world's expectations and especially the expectations of woman.

Where I'm from the teardrop means that their mother has passed away

HEYYY, MY NAME IS MIMI, TOO!! :D

Wow! Thank you Steve for acknowledging that there are "a lot of good people in prison who have made mistakes". Now regarding Why Women Love Bad boys, I have a theory that I also voiced in my Psychology of Women class on the same subject. I know for my generation the movies always portrayed the bad boys as sexy who always got the girl. One example in the original Footloose video the bad boy gets in a few fights and defied the town ban on rock n roll music and dancing. and falls in love with the preacher's daughter.

Bad Boy - Dated them because I want to be the one that tamed the hound.

He’s also very handsome

Seven years is too long to date anyone, I don't care who it is!

I don’t think she knows what an “honest woman” means.

Tracey is wonderful person, her relation would never end up in fiasco!!

A BAD BOY 👦 TENDS TO BE VERY INTERESTING HOWEVER FOR LONGTERM YOU NEED TO FEEL SAFE & COMFORTABLE!!

Mimi needs to insist that her name should fall under my girl if they are in a relationship.

I don't approve of office romance. You don't CRAP where you eat.

in my younger days I would be drunk and meet someone. by the time I got their number, I couldn't remember their name so I had alot of blonde at (insert bar name) in my phone back then. it was always fun being on a date with them and trying to find out their name.

I don't know if saying the woman is not the one for Russell is accurate. Three months is too early. You're still in the honeymoon stage. No one should be moving in with anybody that fast. People can really change after a few months, especially once the hormones fade. Plus Steve has said in the past that he doesn't think you should move in until marriage.

How do I get to Steve's show???????? He have to help me with a situation only him can tell me what to do. Lol. Steve I beep some words of wisdom from you.

TELL HER EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL!!

Marriage should be 💯 teamwork on with both partners I don’t believe in happy wife happy life neither partner should ever become complacent in the relationship and take one another for granted

Women go for crappy blokes because it's drummed into us as young girls that if a man behaves badly he's just having a bad day or under a lot of pressure and to downplay it. We are conditioned from the onset to accept bad behaviour as normal.

So marriage ain't for everybody but sex is?

64 years with one person 👀

We get married cause God wants us too .

Happy wife happy life is an excuse for selfishness

Tear drop also can mean somebody that was really close to them died its not always because they killed somebody and u wont know unless u ask thats up to u tho i suggest u juz mind your business but just no its not always because they murdered somebody ok ;)

MARRIAGE MAKES 💑 THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN AMAN& WOMAN 👩 BE MORE RESPECTABLE TO THE WORLD 🌎 😂!!

Tracey settled. She wanted to marry Deion years ago. He said no.

I live with my daughter and son in law who is wounded warrior. They also take care of son's mother who has dementia and lung cancer I am disabled. They also have 3 teens. I had business.. which I lost due to health plus husband took off with all money..we all worked in business..so we have had a hard time recoving..plus all Dr visit..son in law got a job.. daughter is looking for a job..they have a beautiful home. But foundation is falling in to the point Of parts of house is totally cracked. And falling. My son in law and daughter are very proud people. Don't want to ask for help..but we are really struggling.. what do we do? Any advice? No Christmas. And sometimes not enough of food.

Is it only me that got pissed when they said bad boys are authentic and sexy ? Maybe thats why they hearts are being broken so much.

as the show progresses it is getting easier and easier to tell when the random people on camera are paid actors. Laaaaaaame!!

I WOULD CONSIDER HOW LONG DO YOU INTEND TO BE AT THE JOB!!

80/20? What kind of advice is that? Yeah I'm sure you're in a GREAT relationship lady ...

Jeremy isn't bad cause he went to prison, he's bad cause he cheated on his wife and left his family for the rich girl OR he and his wife are in on it and just getting that coin-either way that's what makes him bad

Marriage not for everyone... to each it’s on...

Apologies are important, but doing this so your partner does too, that's silly. Marriage is only for those who have realized that your partner and you have been a whole person b4 you got together and not only have a healthy relationship with respect and you both understand each other and are willing to share the rest of your life with that person. It's not just compatibility but willing to compromise, bcz the chemistry eventual tones down but that doesn't mean you no longer love each other. This is why you aught to know each other for a while. And of course when you do realize I don't want to live the rest of your life without this person. Bad boys are just that bad boys! If you're mature enough give yourself respect and don't just go w him bcz he's a bad boy. Think, think, think before you act. Decisions are your choice, but you don't get to choose your consequences.

This is a joke. Deon doesn't want this girl.

Prestiges remember

Can you please help us?

Always remember this On your first date you don't need to take a lady to expensive restaurant to impress her Neither should you take her to Macdonalds etc My best suggestion is to meet for a coffee and something light to eat And go from there Get to know more about her and if you both are still interested in each other then let the friendship grow naturally But don't smother the friendship

Excuses, excuses

Hi. Girls should be aa bit submissive else, they'd be unmarried at 40+ and of course that's almost impossible coz' the cool, rich men, like them young coz' kids- that's what family is all about. You can be assertive but not aggressive to influence someone. Marriage is for everybody. God bless, Proverbs 31

Interesting

First they say they expect apologies from men, then they say its sexy that they dont. So which is it ladies? I personally think that if you want something and we dont give it to you, you find it sexy.

No wife happy life....