Four things: 1. The whole Steven Crowder vs Daily Wire thing did a number on Steven's credibility. His initial claim/reasoning as to why he was doing this as opposed to how it seem later on into the conflict made Crowder come off as disingenuous. Because of this, because of Crowder's "I chose wrong" and this uploaded video, people are using this clip to solidify their confirmation bias on Crowder being disingenuous and shady. And maybe that's fair. 2. This clip is clearly the middle of a conversation, not the beginning. Naturally, I question why Hilary's family would release part of the conversation and not the entire thing. Context does matter. Additionally, I've seen articles where apparently Hilary's family claim Steven intentionally chose not to be with Hilary when she gave birth to their children. But from what I remember, media outlets reported Steven missed their birth due to him getting elective surgery at the time. Which is true? Not trying to dismiss Hilary entirely, but if you guys are going to bring this out to public light, we need transparency. Not slanted narratives and clips. 3. A lot of people are saying she set Steven up with the Ring camera, talking about she knew it was there. No shit. That's their house. Steven knows it's there too. Besides, if a spouse is allegedly abused and divorce their abusive spouse, typically what they do is try to gather evidence showing that they were being abused. This is a nothing burger statement "She got em". 4. Regardless of the fact that this clip does not show full context of the conversation, in my opinion, Steven Crowder is eating a whole ass L for his behavior. He's way out of pocket. First starters, who the fuck actually speaks like that in real life? Men this, man that, wife this wifely things that. A sociopolitical discussion is one thing, but speaking like that in real life is weird. Especially when we're talking about people married for a decade. You want your 8 month pregnant wife to walk the dogs? You're a multimillionaire. Hire a temporary dog walker. Even if your marriage is on the rocks, is telling your 8 month pregnant wife you don't love her really the best idea given that she's 8 months pregnant and shouldn't be stressed out in any way? Watch it. Fucking watch it. Bruh. Who the fuck talks like that to their spouse. That shit is weird. Steven released a clip on Twitter saying he will be releasing sealed legal documents next week so we have to see where this goes. Not taking Hilary's side per say, but Steven acted like a fucking lame in that clip. If nothing else, he's a chump for that.
Yeah he came off as completely unreasonable in this clip HARD. However, I will say, he was 100% correct aobut the Daily Wire, and what happened to Matt Walsh literally proved Crowder's point about WHY he was warning others away from them.
Also, if it truly was an elective surgery, that means he CHOSE to have dangerous invasive surgery for cosmetic reasons. Or at the very least, he could've scheduled it later. That means his surgery put him in a position to miss the birth of his children. That's on HIM.
He demands she performs chores and errands that are risky to her health, but whines like a toddler when it might impede on his leisure. Like gtfo of here
It's just you. There's nothing wrong with a pregnant woman going to the store alone while her (probably tired) husband relaxes at home. What's "insane" is the rest of his behavior. Edit: It seems half the population is too stupid to tell the difference between someone talking in general and talking about someone specifically. I'll make it clear for those morons here: I'm not talking about Crowder specifically as neither was the OP. I was talking about his behavior which could apply to anyone else.
If the dozens of people who've work with you / live with you & arent connected to each other all say you got a bad temper, you engage in snaky business & you're controlling... Maybe you're the problem. The common denominator in all of these accusations is crowder & there are too many to count. If we add your wife to that list, it looks exponentially worse. But who knows, maybe crowder will drop information that will change his public perception.
I always got bully vibes from him. He seems to be someone who's filled with anger. Tbh, at some point, I believed he was gay and couldn't express himself.
Anyone who defends this is insane. If nothing else how do you justify telling your very pregnant wife with twins that you don’t love her 😭 I can’t even fathom that terrible gut wrenching feeling of hearing that while carrying his children.
maybe the wife was very verbally abusive before and the camera didnt just show that?? and that Steven just swallowed his pride and waited for this moment??🤷♂🤷♂
And then in his video he says he didn't want the divorce acting like he's the victim. So a man who doesn't love his wife didn't want the divorce? Meanwhile she's telling him "I love you" looks like he drove her to leave him.
@@troypasulka1368 what exactly is the "real" problem troy? That a man can't simultaneously say he doesn't love his wife, AND won't let her leave his presence? She should have to stay and take it while he expresses his "true" feelings? What's the real problem? I'm dying to know Troy
@@qxtoi Not sure. Technically, there's probably more than one. But the idea that a guy cannot express deep dissatisfaction is definitely part of whatever real problems exist. He did NOT force her not to leave his presence (that is, there was no clear indication that that actually occurred.)
Huge red flag for me was when she said Ill have someone come pick me up and she then says... who would you like me to ask? Asking him who SHE can call as to not piss him off with WHO she calls and then the best part of that...he is taking it as a threat. Good for her getting out!!!
Does he not realize that causing your wife stress can cause miscarriage? Or brain damage to babies. Did you know that maternal stress can cause autism or other developmental problems?
NEVER idolize a person you dont know, you can support their message and adopt it for yourself, but never idolize someone you dont know. Just cause theyre on our screens, doesnt mean we know who they really are.
He already was an uppity piece of work prior having his video surveillance footage leaked-- Aba & Preach made it a point to remind us about it, a couple times over. You already have some low standards, if you put such type of person over a pedestal, to begin with.
It's not about him or her. It's about casting judgement and believing what you see is the whole story, and then believing you would never be tempted to go off the deep end. Pride is dangerous.
You know what actually happened here... he wanted her to put medication on the dogs that was dangerous to pregnant women and to walk the dogs. When she said she was concerned about doing that for the health of the babies (she's 8 months pregnant with twins)... he said to use gloves. When she still refused, he punished her by not allowing her to use the car until she became a "worthy wife" but submitting to his "authority" and use gloves, then walk the dogs.... 8 month pregnant with twins
Religion is a disease. My dad was quite a bit worse than this guy but they both say very similar phrases. They cherry pick all the parts of the bible that benefit them but ignore the parts that benefit other people.
@@TheAlexSmith17 In this case it was just like that. If you have a pregnant wife and act in that way, you are shit human being. She tells him several times she loves him and doesn't engage and he has the gall to say he doesn't love her unless she "picks up the gloves" and does errands, while at the same time carrying and developing his LITERAL CHILD.
@@jurgenkuka7962 what I previously said I'll say again, can't raise an accurate perspective on their everyday home life out of a 2 min clip on a cam that she knew was rolling
@user-et2ng1qb2m for all we know she could've been acting in such way because of the camera and he might not of been thinking camera and oh maybe I should act different here. Don't know
@@TheAlexSmith17 ill give you a freebie. When people say things like "that's shitty" "He's shit" "its a shitty thing to do" They're using infantile language, which is common among the progressives that view politics as a religion and lgbtq (emphasis on. The T) community. I believe it's use to avoid "problematic" insults. The person is not trying to be rational.
Before you go into your weak feelings ask yourself why he said that. She is just talking aimless words. She does not love him as she does not show any actions to prove it. So out of hurt aka him actually loving her and doing everything for her aka providing her a nice life etc and not getting it back he said that. If she loved him, she would follow discipline and show him respect. She does not. If she loved him and was committed, she would not walk out. NOTICE THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SAYING SOMETHING V ACTIONS TO PROVE IT? Females are the greates liars, deceitful narcissists. Do not follow what they say, WATCH AND TREATE THEM BASED ON WHAT THEY DO.
Divorce was already in the works. It's weird to act like they were supposed to be a loving couple here - they were not, they were ending their marriage before this exchange. That definitely matters.
@@johnlennon6790 She was loving, he was not. He wasn't acting like this is out of the ordinary for him or that there's something fundamentally wrong. He's talking as if this is just a normal expectation for a pregnant wife
The fact that the pregnant wife was trying reassure him verbally and he could even do the same…instead he did the opposite and continued to fuel the argument.
Nothing you say to narcs or abusive men matter man, they just want control/power over you, their idea of having a relationship is controlling people. Their idea of loving women is possessing & taking advantage of them.
@@prizethought he literally said everything was fine when she simply agreeed, temporarily, to walk the dog… then she divorced him… he was not in control, and just wanted basic cooperation, it appeared
@@leeofdoom4452 when you are telling her you don't love her and don't intend on letting her use the car, and she's saying I love you over and over that's probably abuse.
@@bozzy7946 he also references how she uses words and not actions. He literally says 'you keep saying you love me, put on the gloves, walk the dogs but no' So nice words and no actions. And that would be the first time in history a woman used language to get the upper hand.
@@leeofdoom4452 lolol that seems inconsequential compared to "I gotta discipline you" type of nuttiness. He got her pregnant so maybe he shouldn't be stressing her out unless there is a more heinous goal in mind for him.
I have a pregnant wife and I couldn't imagine putting her through this much mental labor. The way she cradled her belly after he said I DON'T love you, man that shit made me cry
She hasn't had to work in 15 years all she has to do is take care of the house and dogs😮 so she has to make sure she's there when the maid gets there😮 put gloves on to put flea medicine on a dog oh no that's too much to ask😅
It’s incredibly hurtful. I remember how sensitive I was when I was pregnant. It would’ve crushed me if my husband told me he didn’t love me, and I was carrying our child. It’s definitely harsh.
“You’re not doing your wifely duties, we have no groceries.” “Okay, I’ll go get the groceries.” “No, you can’t take the car then I can’t go anywhere, why are you trying to box me in?” That’s abuse, no matter what she does he’ll belittle and berate her.
@@tak2ulata lmao, he’s asking her if she’s committed but then he’s not committed. That’s fucked up to tell a pregnant woman, that amount of stress can literally cause issues for the his kid.
Things my husband wouldn’t let me do while pregnant: 1. Get into a car with a stranger. 2. Walk or even pet a dog. 3. Go grocery shopping in my 8th month. This woman was 8 months pregnant with twins! She was already exhausted just standing. Yet he wants her to show him respect by walking their big azz dog. Exactly how easy does he think it is for her to bend over and pick up anything off the ground, let alone dog sh-t? 🤬
Nah, you dont get to litearlly do nothing just becase youre pregnant, youre in fantasy land. Many women work up until their due date. If shes okay enough to go driving and go places shes good enought to pick up grocceries.
I agree isn't a man supposed to take care of his wife? Then again you are going off an out of context situation maybe before this she said she was going to do these things walk the dog or take an uber etx and then changed her mind last min we just do not have enough info to make a informed statement and again your relationship is not their relationship.
@@mememachine5244 Many women work up until their due date? Are those women usually wealthy women? This is such a weak and cowardly move dude. I thought real Men take CARE of their women? Provide, protect...? Now, I don't give a shit if you touch your dog and you can go Grocery shopping(it'd be weird if you literally meant he wouldn't LET you)...but a women shouldn't be working up until their due date. That's not healthy for anyone.
@@ShxpxRok Seems pretty unlikely as he brings up over and over that she "won't even put on gloves," and that's not part of the discussion until he just starts bringing it up. Sounds like you're REALLY stretching for excuses here...
@@avastone5539 She should not be driving at 8 months pregnant what if she goes into labor behind the wheel . Why couldn't he just go with her? It's obvious that he is doing nothing but running his mouth.
How she's just trying to de-escalate the situation and not even fighting back yet he just wants to pick a bone, makes me think this isn't the first time this has happened. That alone was alarming. Just yikes.
And Jonny and Amber story also seemed one way at first. It's clear that this is the middle of the conversation. Who can tell what happened before that? She leaked the video. That means she made sure that this portion was shown, and not others. If she really was the victim, she would have shown the whole thing.
Weird because he could of released the footage of what happened before in his response to this leak. He didn’t. What he did do is double down being the victim. Some men are kind when you first meet them and then turn evil after you commit to them (some wait for exclusivity, some for marriage, some for kids). It’s weird how when you see this in action you deny it. Cognitive dissonance much?
Do you know how hard is for a woman to restrain herself in that situation and just "play it for the camera"? What see acts come as natural so I would put it on the top 5% when it comes to deescalation among women.
She gave birth and he bought a townhouse, moved out, cut his family off financially and hired a divorce attorney. He abandoned his family. And he knew if his fans found out they’d dump him because they care about family values. So he lied to them and said he didn’t want the divorce. He even tried to act like he is so against divorce and believes so much in family values that he would force his wife to stay if he could. But the reality is he abandoned his family, lied about it, and some of his fans fell for it.
Best Response! 👋👋👋 This is what I have been trying to tell people all along. Do I think he's an abuser? No. But he's definitely a manipulative, narcissistic, habitual lying fraud who wanted 'out' of his marriage, but tried to paint a different story to the public. Steven was trying to protect his 'conservative' brand. Plain and simple.
I wish there was more information to prove he went to a divorce attorney instead of the word of his wife’s family. Context and proof would be nice to make an informed decision.
When he says "I don't love you. That's the problem." And she sucks in air, shocked, and immediately covers her stomach with her shirt and holds on, just like instinctively shielding her unborn babies from his contempt and anger... honestly I felt that through my screen. He cuts her off constantly, controls his narrative by not allowing her to call someone even HE knows for a ride, blocks her from walking away to cool down. This is not how a man treats his wife and mother of their children. This is not love. *I'm editing to add that when I said, "This is not love," of course I know he's just said he doesn't love her. I was speaking more on the line of if anyone is currently in a relationship that sounds like this, just know that there's something and someone better out there who will treat you well. And love you. It just struck me as sort of odd how often she needed to reassure him that she loves him, but how quickly he jumps to cutting her with "I don't love you." It's not a snapshot of a healthy relationship, even if they're having an occasional argument like this. And just like anything we ever consume on the internet, of course we don't have full context. That's the nature of the internet. Anyway, thanks for reading! :)
@@d0giem no 'we' don't. He's unhinged with his desire to berate and control, that woman- he's not even making sense, just babbling while, she tries, to capitulate.
So her going out alone pregnant during covid is of less threat than walking a dog in the safety of their home which is better for a pregnant female?? Can you engage your brain.
@@AB-bc9tf dont fall that bs. If that was so why would he have the dog in the video around her? Use your brain. Stop falling for these lying females. Remember Amber Turd.
@@Gchild2k6 given how he was all for her Ubering to the grocery store by her fully pregnant self without any company, I’d say he wasn’t too worried about the pandemic either
@@dagm1498 the uber bit was a sarcastic response to her rudeness and disrespect. She was the was insisting of going out during the pandemic whilst pregnant to endanger her life and his child. Typical of females who dont think of anyone but their feelings.
I was in a relationship very similar to this. The reason (I think) he doesn't want a friend to pick her up is because it would make him look bad. Getting an uber is basically having a stranger drive her. He can't risk having his image ruined. Because any normal person would ask her why her husband wouldn't let her drive their own car, and if she told the truth, it would threaten how he wants others to perceive him. It's all about control. Another thing he does is tells her that she doesn't really love him. That she has to prove her love to him by doing certain tasks. Like giving the dog a medication that is potentially harmful to her babies. So instead of doing it himself to protect the babies, he wants her to potentially cause damage in order for her to prove her love. Its honestly sick. He's a pathetic excuse of a man.
"Like giving the dog a medication that is potentially harmful to her babies." - What does this mean? Did he ask her to give the medicine to the baby...??
@@troypasulka1368 why are you giving me the fourth degree for tryna answer your question dude? If you don't trust others information find out for yourself damn lol
I understand your perspective and points. However, a woman who is 8-months pregnant should not be driving behind a wheel that could deploy an airbag at 200 mph towards her belly.
I recall many conversations like this with my ex fiancé. Complaining about me not doing my “duties” and what not I was just hospitalized for 2 weeks at 26 weeks pregnant and was diagnosed with multiple stress related complications. Ultimately I gave birth and survived but unfortunately my son didn’t survive. That experience was a wake up call to finally leave his abuse. Despite the pain and grief, somehow I have the most peace I’ve had in years.
I went through horrible stress in my pregnancy. My husband’s uncle stole from us and screamed in my face every day. Awful. My son came 6 1/2 weeks early bc of the stress. My son is perfectly healthy but had to spend 11 days in nicu. Now he’s 4 1/2 in preschool and doing really well. My husband’s uncle is cut off completely from me and my child. You DONT stress out a Pregnant woman like this. Poor girl. It’s probably best they’re divorcing
This makes me wonder. If a woman cant have an abortion because roe fell, will the extreme stress she will be in harm the baby? I am also guessing she will engage in risky behaviour and substance abuse. Welp, this is what pro lifers wanted I guess...
@@NurmaBP can’t be a killer if the baby is dead and needs to be aborted from the mothers womb.I swear you dead head pro lifers don’t get what abortions is and why it’s needed
Totally agree. It seemed like she had to calm herself down and tell herself that she loved him. The word is affirmation. Saying the same thing over and over, and willing it into existence. Almost like she had to trick herself into staying with him.
Yeah and his response “i dont love you because you’ve never shown me love” shows why it cant be deescalated so easily because these are clearly deep seeded issues that have existed for a while.
He is absolutely pathetic. A grown ass man is telling his wife she’s making him feel boxed in if she takes the car, so he’s crying about being a victim and making her the oppressor in a situation he constructed bc he probably doesn’t allow her to have a car. He’s super manipulative and blind to how unreasonable he is. He doesn’t love that woman and it’s a damn shame how he treats her here.
You don’t know the inner working of their marriage. Maybe he’s pissed that she never does anything. Maybe She should have already gone to the grocery store. Maybe her car is in the shop. Maybe he’s sick of supporting a wife that does absolutely nothing. You don’t know, what’s going on in that marriage but you sure are quick to have an opinion.
@@baronwolfgang9368 because a 8 month pregnant wife is extremely vulnerable, THAT ALONE he should of control his temper, hey after the kids are born divorce her if he thinks she's useless 🙄 😒
@@baronwolfgang9368 my response is based off of the scenario depicted from this video. Obviously I don’t know these people. This video is evidence he is unreasonable, manipulative, controlling, and abusive. To your point, I don’t know what happens before this or after it so it’s not logical to say what if this or that. It’s unknown what happened so I can’t have an opinion on the unknown. It’s also not logical to assume she mistreated him. Maybe she did, maybe she didn’t. But I would argue that just bc someone wrongs you, does not justify wronging then what kind of childhood logic would that be. I have an opinion on the known quantity here and that’s the video and he’s shown himself to be pathetic.
when my girl was pregnant I done my best to make her life easy, because I love her. I know it's a small clip but it's enough to accurately diagnose crowder as a POS.
You making your own situation up now. You can't take away the fact that's she pregnant if she's pregnant. Have you ever dealt with a pregnant woman? They are very emotional and unreasonable/unstable alot of the time. Thier hormones are all over the place. The body is changing constantly. Thier blood levels, energy levels, and brain function drop dramatically. How can he keep his pregnant wife safe if she saying ill be back when ill be back. It don't work that way and is unfair. If something happens to her and the baby then everybody is looking at him like why didn't you prevent it. Having a baby on the way is extremely stressful for men also! Idk these people and can't judge either from a 3min clip with no context. From this clip they both are in the wrong and extremely stressed. Him telling her to take an uber is CRAZY! Him telling her he don't love her while she has your baby in her stomach is CRAZY! Asking her walk the dogs is CRAZY! Her being unreasonable saying I'll be back when I'll back is CRAZY! Her trying to use this 3 min clip with no context that starts in the middle of the conversation is 100% manipulative and CRAZY! This whole situation should of been kept private! I'm not taking any sides because idk these people or what is even happening here. They are both childish is all I took from this.
That was an ego fight with a 8 months pregnant woman. I’m pregnant right now and I can’t even imagine how she felt, my husband would never talk to me like that.
Yha but man are always taught the issues women go through when being pregnant so I don't think he's in the wrong. As if my wife who's is pregnant has to go somewhere ill go with her even if she doesn't want me to as anything can happen when she leaves the house
Yeah, but no offense man your projecting your personal feelings onto the situation especially so since you're pregnant so there is a lot of bias there.
I attempted to walk my 2 70lb dogs while I was 6 months pregnant when my husband was at work and he sternly advised me not to do that again because he was so scared for me and our sons safety and reminded me that they're dogs and can wait for when he gets home. Ironically that month in 2018 I introduced my husband to Louder with Crowder. We are very disturbed by his actions.
In retrospect do you think this is a red flag in your own thinking? To me Steven has obviously been a dishonest POS the whole time, and while I’m on the left I don’t think that shapiro or many others are this dishonest and cruel but I always thought he was. He seemed clearly like a closeted bi or gay, narcissistic, delusional, grifting scumbag w daddy issues. Not to mention a Canadian 😅
Same. My husband specifically walked MY dog when I was pregnant. He didn't want me taking chances even though Hiro was well trained. He also cleaned up after the dog and took over grooming when I couldn't manage it anymore. He hates doing that stuff but he did it. I didn't even ask him to do it.
Yeah i said this outload to myself that's a big dog! I work with mainly women they pull their weight even when pregnant but a big dog waling it ! No if my partner insisted i would walk with her! That wa s 50KG dog at i would guess! She wouldn't weigh much more.
@@Freya1412 this woman was a Steven crowder fan since 2018 how is that not the most obvious problem here??? Even most conservative women aren’t Steven crowder fans!!
@@JWSoul this woman was a Steven crowder fan since 2018 how is that not the most obvious problem here??? Even most conservative women aren’t Steven crowder fans!!
He made it sound like he chose a pet that went astray. I would that the normal way to talk about it would be "These things happen and unfortunately it didn't work out between us."
@@kezzykizzy5386 yes, maybe going to college as a grown ass man to try and "verbally destroy" college kids should have been her first sign lol. But i still don’t blame her, he’s just an irredeemable pos.
I think it’s hilarious that Dave Landau leaked the contract Crowder wanted him to sign was going to force him to move his entire family to a different state, had a 5 minute late policy, wanted him to do a whole other show for no extra money and only would give him 1 Saturday off every 6 weeks.. The audacity of Crowder calling that DW term sheet a “slave contract” while pulling this shit with his employees is crazy
He's clearly a major control freak. One incident can be explained away but there's a pattern of behavior from multiple sources all painting the same picture. That his wife doesn't even have her own car to come and go as she needs when they can can clearly afford multiple vehicles is a statement in itself. He's burning down his own empire for no good reason.
yeah. lol. When I heard Dave describing all of that I was kind of amazed. The hypocrisy and lack of self awareness is so over the top I almost had to respect it. lol.
1. Telling her to handle dog medicine toxic to pregnant woman. 2. Telling her to walk the dog whilst she is 8 months pregnant with twins. 3. Also she only applied for divorce AFTER he started contacting divorce attorneys.
@@PuriantarticaYou ever think she might act like one in the past? Hence, why he is checking her? We don't know these peoples full history to judge either based on one leaked argument. For all we know she can be a piece of shit too. Just not in this video.
But it looks like she does not have a job because that is the only way you can financially cut a person, basic shore is the only thing she does, i have few coworkers pregnant till 2 weeks before labor, again we dont know in a 10 year marriage what is happening ussually the argument is about something else that is been happening for a long time, the dog is just a excuses to have the argument or a tipping point, we dont know their couple dynamic. But if in a week you just have to walk the dog, do groceries 2 times and cook, clean 2 times a week, while tne other person runs a bussines thT is ussually 12 hours work day, he might have a reason to be mad. He might be crazy too, we dont know
Yeah stress is really bad for pregnant women. My mom was pregnant when she was going through a divorce and her family was also not helping at all and were all up in arms saying it’s not the Christian thing to do, and it was a lot for her. Her baby ended up dying right before birth. She’s no longer a Christian. As a kid I didn’t really know how to understand what was going on and how to feel about it.
So sad for what happened to your mum😢😢 and so sad that the behavior of her family that are sinners like everyone else in this world, stopped her from being a christian - which means a follower of Jesus Christ, that loved us and paid the price for our sinners, in order to reconcile us to God. I looked at people from church and I was disappointed and I left church and God…. But after many years I realized that my salvation is personal and I have to look at what Jesus did for me. The church is like a hospital, full of people that need help and a change ( of heart). We are never meant to put our trust in man 100%, because they will surely disappoint us 100%. Only God can be our idol, our perfect model that will never let us down…. otherwise we are not perfect none of us, but we have a life that the spirit of God is trying to change us, to make us better and better …. till we’ll die . Be blessed!!
There is no possible way here in which that was not meant as a threat of physical violence. It's literally the only logical conclusion. He sure as hell wasn't threatening to ground her or take away her electronics. I know that if my partner said that to me during an argument, I would be worried for my safety.
My husband would NEVER let me go out the house without him (besides seeing my family) when I was pregnant out of concern for someone might see me as a target and try something or in case I went into labor. He would pick things up for me that I asked for but if I wasn’t going somewhere he already knew was safe, he was going with me. The thought of me getting anything like an Uber (which is getting in a strangers car, even if you’re paying them) would’ve been OUT OF THE QUESTION. His family wouldn’t even let me do that. They’d take me places too bc they wanted to make sure I was safe. The lack of love in this BLOWS MY MIND
So are u on crowder side or the wife as im crowder side even if I do t know the dude. The fact he cares about her safety shows people don't know the struggle pregnant women go through. I have lot of women in my life get pregnant and yha they need help just to get up from the couch. Plus what if her water broke then what specially when she's driving. It's best if she just bring crowder along as he said he'll come and help
@@mysticstrikeforce5957 did we watch the same video? It doesn't look like he gives a single shit about his wife. He was only worried about himself and how he felt being left at home, meanwhile she's stressed tf out.
@@Macheako The simple answer is that he should be equally worried about everyone in his family. This includes his wife, his 2 kids, and the unborn child she is carrying to full term. This clip shows the EXACT opposite of that.
You're one of the sane ones. Cult followers online don't care how much a POS their idol is revealed to be, they continue to defend their idols even harder.
Preach sniffs out the shady people and has extremely accurate moral and emotional judgements and awareness. He sees the abusive people and mentally ill people much more clearly.
I heard someone say that when he kept saying “put on some gloves”- Apparently their dogs get medication, and his pregnant wife’s doctor told her that she shouldn’t handle the medicine because it’s toxic to their unborn child. Steven thought it was part of her “wifely duties” so rather than do it himself, he told her to put on gloves and do it anyway. That’s what the story is anyways. Yikes, who would want to be married to THAT.
Vet tech here, yes there are indeed medications that pregnant women shouldn't handle gloves or no gloves. Shouldn't even handle the box. I have been around people who have been thru stress over and over but try to deescalate the way she did. You can hear it in her voice. This isn't the first time and it's breaking her heart.
How he smokes a cigar in front of his pregnant wife, tell her to "fucking watch it", it is absolutely despicable. Whatever, preceded this video would not have any context. He is abusive. Period. This is what happens when the "red pill" community thinks that they "deserve" a "submissive wife."
Someone pointed out that it's already suspect and controlling for a man as rich as him to only have one car for his household. It's odd. Especially knowing his wife is pregnant and they already have kids, how can a pregnant mother, possibly a stay at home mom, not have access to a vehicle? It's actually kind of dangerous.
I wouldn't say dangerous considering that's how most people on this planet live, but yes it is weird to be that rich and not get another car for your wife.
@@cheesemuffin8129 I don't know a single person with kids that doesn't have a second car. That's just me tho. I don't even know a couple without kids who share a car. I'd think if you're pregnant or have kids it's dangerous to not have the ability to get supplies or go from a to b without help or permission. Just my opinion.
Yeah, that is weird. I grew up middle class and we always had at least 2 cars at all times. There are people in my neighborhood that have so many cars you would think their driveway is a freaking parking lot and I know couples who are broke af but both partners have descent used vehicles for commuting to work. A married millionaire father with only one car? Nope, that is super sus.
It's a control thing. It's not that he needs the car he just needs to feel in control. It's a narcissistic thing to do for him to throw his own insecurities and project them onto his wife. It's crazy, I actually thought I liked Steven crowder but seeing this just reminds me of the way my dad treated myself, my siblings and my mom. His name is also Steve funny enough lol
Yes I have to wonder. It seems like he had a very spoiled upbringing. It’s a family business and it seems he doesn’t speak to his mother always kindly when I have seen clips of her. You have to wonder how he became this way.
this isn't "having a temper". this is controlling, cruel behavior towards his wife who is 8 months pregnant WITH HIS TWINS. No, just no. No "context" will make this ok.
I haven’t fully finished watching this video from Aba and Preach, but from the video I saw it definitely left a pit in my stomach, it was so weird. However, I could definitely tell that they have been arguing a lot in that time period, and we don’t know what could have caused this level of frustration. People tend to isolate instances, when this could be a build up of different things that wouldn’t make his reaction reasonable, but make it understandable. As a man, I know I’ve said things I regret in bad arguments during turbulent times. He shouldn’t of acted this way, and it makes him look like a hypocrite, but context is always important.
I disagree. I do think the video doesn’t do him any favors, but a 2-3 minute long video of some random video occurring in his private life is not hard evidence or proof of what you’re saying. I won’t defend him past saying more context could change things since there’s many possibilities we may not be considering, as this has been the case far too often for many incidents similar in nature to this. I may dislike the dude as well but it’s important to be charitable especially to the people you usually wouldn’t be charitable with. I’ll await more info before making a final conclusion, but it doesn’t look good at the moment for him is all I will say for certain.
Ya the whole we need more "content" BULL...he couldn't control his TONE, ANGER and CHOICE of WORDS while she is 8 months pregnant???!! No red flags pure red flags.
She has her belly exposed and she is telling him she loves him and then he says well I don't love you and you see her shoulders sink, she takes a breath and pulls her shirt down and puts her arms protectively around her belly. Her body language is telling. So freaking sad her and her babies had to experience that.
At 8:16 he says “listen to me” in this condescending way. Right before that you can tell she tries to turn to walk away and she catches herself. Almost as if she KNEW she could not walk away from that conversation without repercussions. 😳 He wants her to endure this abuse. I’m sick to my stomach
@@smileyface1956 yep, men forget what created feminism from the start, controlling men who were abusive. Over time feminist have become that too now, so then red pill movement, which is turning toxic as well. But everything is created by something.
I was married to a man like this. He was cruel and controlling. He wanted to fight with her. It was never about the car. Notice how he didn't even want her to call a ride. No. He wanted to punish her with the Uber. Then when she didn't want to engage and instead chose to deescalate and walk away, he got more animated. His language got more cruel. He began to taunt her and try to provoke her into reacting. He then gets up and blocks her path. That is extremely confrontational. He boxed her onto that patio and when she chose to walk past him, he threatened her. Then he's talking about how women shouldn't be allowed to divorce, smh. Pos.
Hence why when she said "u want me to call for a ride? Who you want me to call and he said "is that a threat?". Bet money he's too prideful to let it get out that his wife got pregnant by another man. Maybe they were going to work it out and he's too disgusted with her to even care.
Between Instacart and the many other grocery delivery services why did she need to goto the grocery store herself? She could have alternatively gotten a rental and either option they should theoretically make enough money but IIRC they live in Dallas which is rather expensive place to live. It's not Austin, TX expensive but it's getting up there. I absolutely agree his reaction was improper but she didn't propose an alternative as far as my attention span was actually listening to be honest. 😅
@@Cerberus984 She did propose an alternative...to call someone to pick her up. Also, I believe going to the grocery store was her way of getting away from him
He claims she needs to respect him then proceeds to say that at 8 months pregnant her not doing 1 chore means she’s not worthy of being a wife and then when she says I love you and I’m committed to you says… “I don’t love you” , then restricts her from even using their car to pick up groceries , all this because she thought the dog medication could be toxic to pregnant women, he not only is disrespecting his wife , he is manipulating her , and on top of all of it his 8 month pregnant wife (pregnant with twins) is way more emotionally mature than he is. Notice she never escalates once. He even sent her messages about splitting up the day before his kids were born Edit : AND HE HIRED THE DIVORCE LAWYER A MONTH BEFORE SHE DID Dude has serious anger/ control issues and needs help.
So basically, he believes only men should have the right to divorce. If women want to divorce cause a man is abusive the that's a problem but a man can abuse his wife and still want a divorce and it's okay, woww
@@Real_Name_Jim what explanation can à man possibly have that would make him look good and validate how that man treated a pregnant woman, his wife. That vidéo can't be made to make the man look good
yo him saying “i picked wrong” about his wife after she left him implies that he expects his wife to put up with that kind of behavior from him. absolutely no accountability
@@nsovofargo9114 Seems more like he's the cause for it. It's the husband's job to do some extra lifting when the wife is pregnant. He just showed that not only did he not really care about his wife, he also does not give a damn about his upcoming child that she is carrying.
Steven in his yt video: I care so much about my family ESPECIALLY my children and only want the best for them Also Steven: puts immense mental pressure on his pregnant wife : smokes cigars in her presence while she's pregnant : tells her he doesn't love her : throws a hissy fit over something that he could have easily done himself using the time he spent on arguing : doesn't listen to his wife's concern over the chemical that's toxic to her and her babies
He says kids should have both parents but according to the wife's family he literally dropped her at the hospital to give birth then left and bought a townhouse to move into, and got a divorce lawyer to cut her off financially.
@@Captain_Insano_nomercy if it’s true, that ain’t smart. It shows he doesn’t care about being a father so hinor the marriage but lies about it online. Not gonna fly in a marriage court.
@@TheAlexSmith17 because otherwise his schedule would keep her trapped at home or Ubering everywhere, and I think it's safe to say they were happily married at some point if not then I'm even more inclined to say he kept her car-less to exert control over her.
Technically he's sitting smoking outside his own home. She's the 1 who went to him to ask to take the car, personally I don't particularly care about who's needs the car more but is it really worth her arguing about refusing to just get an Uber to the store & back? If he needs the car then i don't see any difference between her getting the Uber or getting picked up by someone else 🤷 It's pretty easy not to like Crowder but at least be fair to the guy 😂
How dare a grown ass man enjoy a cigar on his own property he worked his ass off for. She’s nothing but a succubus. I’ve been pregnant and I used Ubers constantly. If she wants a car why doesn’t she just go buy her own. I’m sure she must have saved a fortune from never having to pay for a single thing for a decade. And you do remember that this is days before or immediately after he had major surgery. Much more stressful much more painful and much more dangerous than giving birth. Which she didn’t even bother doing anyway she went with the elective C-section. She should have been worried about him. I’ve been with my partner since I was 19 and yea it’s obviously assumed that if you leave the relationship you don’t get the perks or free access to his money anymore. She knew that before she left. So why’s she delusional enough to think she has any right to his money. Time to get off her lazy crazy ass and get a job. She thought she was going to get half that 50mil and now she’s going to be left with nothing. Exactly as she deserves.
Yall didn't read the article. She says the fight started because she didn't want to give the dogs their meds because she wasn't sure if it was toxic for pregnant women...that's why he says just put on gloves and she isn't doing her duties. That's the backdrop. Honestly to even talk to your pregnant highly emotional wife like that is crazy
That's why she said okay I'm taking the car to basically get some space. That is why he says she isn't committed and all.... male or female conversative or liberal I don't think these are any values any one should have. 8 months pregnant is not a joke a good number of women even have to stay in bed most of the time , you can't even tell them serious things for fear that their blood pressure might skyrocket and you are berating her and she's crying infant of you
Making your 8-month pregnant wife go shopping by herself, making her walk the dogs, meanwhile he gets to sit in his backyard and smoke his lung killers doing nothing? He is like the literal definition of a man-child!!! Absolutely disgusting
@@acurry722 Been living in Thailand for 5 years now. It's a 3rd world country and I've literally NEVER seen a pregnant Thai lady working. They actually rarely leave their homes until the baby is 2.
I was married to a guy like this. They absolutely break you down especially when you're weaker. She is nearly full term with twins and look at him. She needs to never be with
It gets me when Steven says "she wanted something else for her life" ... Yeah, she did, she wanted a good Christian husband and thought she'd found one!
He wanted a good christian wife and SHE WAS NOT ONE. Which part of being the proverbs 31 woman is not following your husband's discipline, disrespecting him and not doing wifely duties?? ERR ERR. Spoke like an 304 demanding a traditional man which he was [He did his bible christian duties..she was well provided for and didn't work] whilst she didn't do any traditional wife duties.
@@Gchild2k6 ..... disgusting. If you think it's okay to talk to ANYONE like that, you don't know the Bible and are not a real Christian. You will be judged more harshly than I am judging you
@@Gchild2k6 also what part of "wifely duties" includes handling TOXIC DOG MEDICATION while you're 8 months pregnant with twins? I need a scripture to prove that one please
@@lifeasrini my guy that is such a lame excuse. The majority of that edited clip was focus on him saying I have done my manly duties in providing you a lavish lifestyle for 10 years and you have done nothing in return but disrespect, no wifely. You say you love but have not shown it (another tactic females use thinking saying x but not doing it is the same as doing x). He mentioned groceries aka steak etc. If the dog/medication was suggest a threat, neither him or her would have it around. Wake up and stop being fooled. You weak people are so quick to defend useless abusive females.
I can tell it’s an abusive relationship due to how many times she felt the need to reassure him that she loves him and is committed to him. That says enough for me
Yep. This. Those other comment chains where everyone goes on and on about ‘he’s doing nothing wrong’ a) could very well be abusers themselves and/or b) have never dealt with this kind of behavior. It’s done over years and years - so often insidiously. And it’s further done to the children as they get older. She stuck to a script that normally makes him happy. He kept poking at her to continue and prolong the fight. Awful. (I’m one of those kids - now grown and still struggle with it all.)
The fact they only have one vehicle is a red flag for me. Of course there is a chance I'm wrong, but it sounds like controlling behavior to imo. We all know that abusers will use things like thar to trap and control their spouse or significant other. In addition to the way he spoke to her, the no car thing is just sus to me. I've been there myself and I've seen it many times before. Js
So anything that women doesn’t like is automatically “abuse” smh, what a wonderful get out of jail free card for women to play and never be held accountable for anything
@@MackJoseph dude that's clearly a security camera that Steven very well knows is there. Steven was clearly being a jack ass and she was trying to deesculate the situation and he kept pressing. Even if the camera was planted by her, why would he continue to act that way while she was being reasonable?
As someone who grew up with a mean spirited, manipulative, malignant narcissistic mother, who put on a great church face when outside the home but was diabolical at home, I learned one important lesson; never comment on what goes on in other people's houses unless you live there. You really never know the truth because things arent always what they seem.
This was released AFTER HE announced the divorce on his channel sighting he had "picked wrong". She RESPONDED to his video with a statement contradicting a lot of what he said. The emotional abuse and tape wasn't spoken of publicly until he publicly said what he did on his show. Also she is 8 months pregnant with twins in that video.
Then it was an economically stupid move. She just lost millions for what? That triggered her. Then that is both stupid and weak. Every dollar that was plead is now discounted.
@@robertmyers6488 No, I think the "weak" and "economically stupid" move is emotionally abusing and controlling your partner (along with staff and many others). He had already cut them off and moved out right after she gave birth two years ago, and while being nearly a decade married. He could of taken anger management and counselling, as recommended, but chose the "economically stupid" decision not to.
The fault with the red pill community. As soon as this came out, (just the divorce) the take was " Bruvs! doesn't matter how goo lookin' or rich you are, she will pulll the rip chord and die-vorce rape you!" The missing point- sometimes men are real douchbags in a marraige, and women just have to get out. The evidence AFTER the divorce news here shows that. Many comments on red pill response videos post divorce " That traitor btch!" " Yeah this is how the modern woman screws us men". The whole story, and all sides argument is always important
My exhusband told me "you are unattractive and undesirable, and I don't respect you, but I love and trust you and we have to be together for the rest of our life". I cheated on him because I knew he wouldn't give up if I just left. Mind you he had the year earlier had an (allegedly one sided) romantic obsession with a woman and told me that he loved her and "didn't do anything because of his marriage vows". Why I didn't leave his sorry arse when he was laying on our marital bed crying hyperventilating that he would "miss her so much" because she moved back to Italy is a testament to 12y of emotional abuse !
@@bisiilki sounds like you deserved your worthless husband. "I cheated on him because he made me" really? You sound extremely toxic yourself. Even more given that you see no problem posting that on the internet
@@Death-999 Ah, someone getting their jollies the only way they can. Hope the high lasts for more than a millisecond; must be hard work to scrounge so deep in the muck for a fleeting moment of faux superiority
YES! he says it more than once I think. Something like the only remedy is more discipline. I was thinking wait, more discipline? She's a grown woman, what is he talking about.... makes me wonder about the rest of the relationship. I think her and the family only released this to keep her name clear because of what he said on his show. I wouldn't be surprised if things got worse than this. This guy acts like a fucking child. Not even close to being a real man.
That bit was definitely weird. She's a grown freaking woman, but she needs "discipline" because she's not doing things in the exact way he demands? I found it disturbing how he was talking about how she wasn't doing her "wifely duties" while simultaneously trying to limit her ability to get groceries he wanted... boxing her into a "damned if you do, damned if you don't" situation.
@@justacoginthefkery it's about control. Though no necessarily a damn if you do, damn if you don't. Apparently if she just put the dog medicine in the dogs (that could effect her pregnancy), and walk then he'd be happy with that. Don't worry though Steven really though through the safety of his two unborn kids, because he was gonna have his wife wear gloves while applying the medication. Just think about that, she probably only told him no because the thing he was asking has a high chance of harming the children in her belly. Actually sick to think of the crap she's put up with up to this point
I would say he’s a narcissist. He definitely has control issues. And you never can win. Any kind of argument or conversation with a narcissist. I can feel this woman’s fatigue. He actually needs her personality for fuel. Watching this clip. It’s almost PTSD for me. I lived it for 30 years. This type of person will actually kill you, because you will become sick.
@@fruitytarian Narcissism is a mental illness so to say. You have to separate yourself from the person. You will never win an argument with a narcissist, your point will never come out on top.. narcissist don’t take responsibility, and they live in their own alternate reality. . That’s not sustainable for any …I divorced my narcissist, being out of his space my health got better, my mental state of being got better. I’m still healing, and it will take time, but healing was never going to be an option as long as I stayed with my narcissistic husband. You are not bound by blood ties or even family ties. At some point you have to put yourself first. And you need to separate yourself from the narcissist, that’s the only chance of survival. Otherwise, you are gaslighting yourself. I had a doctor, a neurologist. Tell me she could help me, but she needed me to consider that my primary relationship was making me sick. And that unless I changed or considered that, I would stay sick. She was right, but it took me eight years to pull the plug after she said that. Thank you for your comment, and God bless you, may you find the courage to put yourself first above the narcissistic relationship, and keep on moving forward, don’t look back. You are worth it.❤️
Abusive partners can become more aggressive and abusive when the other is pregnant. The pregnant partner has to think more about themself and the baby, routines change and the abusive partner is expected to take on a more responsibilities to help out and might also get less attention/not be the main focus anymore for the pregnant partner. I’ve even heard cases were some men will even be jealous of the baby.
"Abusive partners can become more aggressive and abusive when the other is pregnant." There's a reason why a woman's risk of being murdered by her partner gets significantly higher when she's pregnant.
When he said "Is That A Threat?" Thats when I knew what he was doin had malicious intent... Why the fuck would her asking for a ride from somebody after u said she couldnt take the car, be a threat?! Lmao smh He dont want nobody outside to know how manipulative he's being towards her smh 🤦🏾♂️
As a conservative, there's too many people making excuses for him stating that marriage is ugly sometimes and the video was edited or taken out of context. I would hate to have my extremely rare marital fights put online. There's a problem. What abuse is essentially is using power and control over another. If you take away the way he's talking, threatening, and gaslighting her; having one car when you're a multi millionaire is indicative of control.
My current partner is more classic Liberal, and I assure you, self-discipline and respect have nothing to to with one's politics, but rather, personal ethics. Yet, she loves and embodies traditional wife values. Unfortunately somewhere along the lines it became defacto standard to associate traditionalism with Conservatism, and while true in the broad sense, I've met a few Conservatives who believe in accountability for everyone else, except themselves...
This is literally what covert narcissism looks like. He plays an excellent role on his show, but behind closed doors is controlling and abusive. She needs to leave him and show all the things he's done to protect herself.
This isn’t very covert. He’s an overt narcissist who takes the redpill shii too seriously. Wants his wife to fulfill duties when she’s doing the ultimate duty of carrying his child. He’s always a closed-minded arrogant a-hole.
@@savagegtalks5912 He seems to have a temper and gets mad when she wants to distance herself from him for a moment so he can cool off that's controlling behavior.
@@savagegtalks5912 bruh he's a man child, a man is supposed to know restraint. Acting like a bickering child to ur pregnant wife isn't manly or appealing.
How could he miss his children being born? Was he serving overseas in Iraq? That was one of the greatest moments in my life. I almost passed out on the first baby. And that's just because I looked over the curtain and all that blood. Looked like nevermind c section but I heard their first breath I was crying like a bitch. My kids are the greatest gifts in my life. Precious cargo . If we only had one car I'd be the one taking the bus or whatever. I've never taking a Uber before. I've taken a taxi before similar but it's not the same. I've rented a limo and that's definitely not the same.
Traditionally controlling and insecure husbands will insist on one family vehicle to insure that their partner is not “out and about” and can then domestically hold their partner hostage. This is a way to know exactly where your partner is at all times (home) and what she’s doing (sitting at home). This is also a way to make sure your partner will never catch the eye on someone else who will treat her better, no matter how badly he is treating her. This was my grandmother’s entire life.
My dad STILL does this to my mom (I’m in my 40s) and it is very frustrating to watch my mom just roll over and accept that. Watching Crowder do this brings back rough memories.
@@braheme1260 Unfortunately, you don't always learn that someone is abusive until they think they have you "locked down." People can hide a lot of shit for a long time.
She is tired and uncomfortable. My belly was nowhere near that big and the amount of energy it takes to stand there and take that and not just snap or just lock yourself in a room to get away from this is tremendous. It's crazy to me that he can literally sit there and ask her to do those things while she is clearly and audibly tired is crazy to me.
And mind you he's a multi millionaire that basically works an office job. Not some blue collar worker killing himself 12-16 hours a day. Not only can he do it he could literally hire an entire staff to take care of any of his needs and hers
@@williamcollins2360that's the part that's killing me 😂 everyone making excuses for him, like. He's from the family values party and is a multimillionaire! He could and should hire some private attendees for his pregnant wife, a temporary dog walker, and just order food and groceries from door dash or go to the store himself!!! Tf is going on here 😂
@@lavellelee5734 tf is going on here, is right! This is some utter bullshit. How he can treat his wife like that is so severely lacking in empathy, I truly feel bad for her. I actually hope that she's just as bad as he is but is hiding it cuz that would mean that they're just in a toxic relationship in general. But this here in the video, the difference in temperments and how they talk, he's abusive.
She is literally going to birth two human beings in like 30 days and he's treating her like that. I could feel how exasperated she was. He was relentless. Like, dude, what are you doing with your life, treating your wife like that, for what? I don't even care what the context is, it doesn't change his behavior.
I feel like them having one car is like form of controlling her. By only having one she has to stay at home while he's doing his shows and when he's out.
@@jbriggs06 If she stopped being a housewife and worked out of the home she could. If he wants a housewife, he chooses to accept responsibility and be the sole provider; It wouldn't be her job to "afford" anything--it would be all his. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
I used to work in upper middle class neighborhoods as a behavioral therapist. Some of these people have the most interesting family dynamics. They just master how to hide it. Having money is nice not going to lie but at what cost? He definitely has a control issue based on how he spoke to her. He uses his money as leverage against her. He’s an abusive narcissist.
Having 1 car when you can afford two is a control tactic. Making her take Uber, helps him track her every move. And instead of him offering to run the errands for his very pregnant wife, he pulls THIS?! Oh yea… she’s been married to a complete narcissist. I’m so disgusted.
I was about to say. I am definitely going to jump to a conclusion here so take it with a grain of salt, but with all the money he has, and the behavior in the video... ain't no way the only having one car available is anything less than a means to control. It's one more tool to allow him to instigate and nitpick away at his wife's dignity. It's a controlling narcissists dream to have this kind of manipulative situation set up in their favor.
@@jameerobama8951 No. I applied deductive reasoning from what I know about Steven. 1. He’s allegedly worth over 50Mill USD. Some reports say 70Mill… most married people that I know, have more than one vehicle because both individuals will not always have the same schedule or destinations from day-to-day. Let’s say that there is another car but it is in the shop… no one thought to get a loaner/ rental in the meantime to not disrupt his very busy schedule to visit his parents and run to the gym? See his friends? Something tells me that after 10 years of marriage, and being a multimillionaire that could literally live a more convenient life when it comes to this sort of thing, has chosen to complicate what could be so simple, thanks to his abnormal behavior. Most couples who willfully share one car, do so because of financial circumstance… financial hardship… is that their reality? A resounding “no.”
@@zakadams762 dafuq so if you don’t know but still came to a conclusion. You still stuck by that belief. That’s like saying “I believe the earth is flat , I can’t prove nor do I care to explain”. Lol
@Lovebomb because its super respectful to say "watch it" to your pregnant wife, why are you acting hard to a pregnant woman? If thats trad to you okay, thats bitch behaviour to me because i know his dumbass would never say "watch it" to a grown ass man, because he liekly would be stomped out and for a good reason.
@Lovebomb Yes, Steven was such an example of discipline and respect in that video. Such a good example of traditional conservatives. A professed Christian showing how he takes care of home first, kindly reminding his wife of her role while also living up to the bible's role for husbands to love their wifes as Christ loves the church. Is this video really an example of how "tradcons" live out discipline and respect??
I noticed Matt Walsh did a video saying how that doll was not woke and there's nothing political about it. I wonder if that was a dig at Crowder because he said other conservatives shouldn't attack disabled kids, which I agree with. I'm not even conservative but been watching this drama go down for a little while as the liberal RU-vidrs have already had their civil wars and are getting way too weird.
"Steak, wood pellets, my grill..." These are his groceries. He ain't lacking milk for coffee or some shit, he's whining about weekend shit we'd all be thankful for.
The way he talked about his divorce kinda shows what kind of person he is. He said nothing about what he might have done wrong to make her want to leave him, no he instead just said that what he did wrong was choosing the wrong woman.
Imagine being such an arrogant pos that u think ppl r gonna think u're a boss for saying "the thing I did wrong is I picked the wroong woman" he is so delusional
"my beliefs don't matter in this country" Candace Owens was right, he really is always such a victim. He's such a pathetic insecure bozo and he hides it behind his fake tough guy act.
Peep game: 1. They have 1 car so that he can CONTROL how she moves. 2. She’s 8 months pregnant, dude told her to “watch it” and as she walked away he followed her. That is threatening behavior to women and particularly when we’re pregnant. It is VERY vulnerable situation when we’re with child. 3. She was having a high risk pregnancy - WHY do this?! He DGAF about his children, never-mind her. 4. She’s 8 months pregnant, she’s grabbing her belly and showing signs of distress and he’s trying to make her walk a damn dog and administer medicine while he what… Sits on the couch like a Mitch?! 5. Committed = walking the dog and administering medicine to it. This dude wildin. 6. Dude is abusive. Period.
The fact that she said “ I love you and I’m committed to you” more than once despite his verbal attacks, is a clear sign of being in an abusive relationship where you feel the need to pacify someone’s anger with words of affirmation or validation. She’d learned on how to cope through an argument with him but he still couldn’t help but follow her when she wasn’t giving him the response he was looking for.
Gonna be real with you hear, women pretending to be abuse victims do that too, that watch it could mean that she called him an abuser and that was out of pocket. If more than the three minutes were available then yeah but context is missing
I am a Christian. Shame, nothing but shame. Not even talking about how a man should treat his wife, that is no way for a Christian to speak to another person. That behavior is not what the Bible teaches. Edit: I'm gonna hop back in here because I'm pissed. What a loser of a man to be doing anything but taking care of the woman carrying your child inside of her
For as much as he loves the Christian concept of the man being the head of the household, he seems to have forgotten about the Christian concept of honoring & respecting your wife. He wants a servant, not a real relationship. Which is ironic because he makes enough money to hire an actual servant to help him AND his wife live better lives. Get someone to help with shopping and walking dogs if you want it done so bad. He doesn’t though, he wants a women to be living under his thumb.
In a marriage when something like this happens, and it does happen. You think these things about yourself, personally, if you are of faith. You see what you did as horrible. So Outside People seeing these things doesn’t make them exceptionally wise. We aren’t in the thick of it. We aren’t blinded by their problems. We don’t know what their conversations consist of, of why it was on this level, or if it is a pattern to reach this level and she just went meek on this occasion. It seems silly to even outright condemn him, or be angry with him. I have only the understanding of being patience and shrewd and my own understanding of these situations and marriage. Not an understanding of their marriage. Even if what he is saying is outright wrong. I’d like the full picture, and to provide input that would be beneficial to HELP their marriage. That’s what I would seek to be led by if I was around them and they were still married and giving them advice and help. They are already divorced I could say tons of things boldly and trample through what is already destroyed, in favor of either party or whatever seems familiar to my own experience. Or what appears right. It’s messy, they went their Separate ways. Tragic, a divorce. Now Arguing over who was right and wrong? How can we know what ended it. They could of fought for it to last, why include all of us? Best to just pray for them
If Steven Crowder pulled this stunt in public, he would have got his ass severely beaten. He leaped over a boundary that a man should not approach. When my wife was 8 months pregnant, she was the most precious thing to me who I would have given my life to protect. At the time in the back of my head I worried that if something went wrong, I could loose them both, so I was very attentive to her. That is not simp behavior, that is the what you do as a man when your wife is carrying your family inside her body. Its no secret that a pregnant womans hormones and emotions are all over the place, a man has to put his pride aside, suck it up, and be the rock she absolutely requires, and support her. Mrs Crowder was pregnant with twins, a far more dangerous condition for her and their babies to be in. Just watching that fool not care how long his wife was standing for was breaking my heart, let alone the rest of his actions. I hope he watches the video, repeatedly, reads the comments, lets the shame of his actions sink in, and genuinely makes a permanent change and gets help he needs for his broken families sake.
Thank you for being a loving, empathetic and attentive husband. So happy for you and your wife! I was getting sad reading some of the comments from other men and this comment restored my hope. ❤
I have to strongly disagree here. If she's going to have mood swings and take her anger out on me, I'm going to give it right back to her. I match energy and I don't tolerate disrespect no matter what. I really really hate misplaced anger. And if she has to do that she would have to apologize to me
@@chisomibezim1481 so you aren't a man, or mature. She's pregnant. That's just how it is. But because you're bitch-made, you're gonna give up the health and safety of the children she has, and her, because your feelings get hurt.