Stiffing a Girlfriend 

Right especially that she did it twice

Lesson learned, hopefully ❤

So true

True that.😊

And the friendship.

It it's a loan then it's supposed to be paid back. If it wasn't made clear that it was a loan then that's the fault of the plaintiff for not stating that. I wouldn't loan someone hundreds of dollars and take the loss because they assumed that it was a gift. I typically give away lower amounts to homeless people from time to time.

BINGO!!!!! That's what my dad taught me a LONG time ago when I was a kid.

great minds! that was my first thought.....don't lend the money.

Never loan money period. Never invest in someone else either. Keep your money.

@@BREEZYM6015 The point is not to make the loan in the first place. If you can give it, then give it. Loans ruin friendships. When the person making the loan asks for it back, the recipient almost always gets pissy about it.

She was never proud… she was hating and took any opportunity to belittle her.

​@MsBenitaButrell Hating my a$$. The defendant owes the money full stop. Smiling with you doesn't mean we are best friends. It's a court

I was cringing so bad at that too

One time I had a friend ask me to go to San Diego comic con, I didn’t want to go because it’s way too many ppl, it’s really has nothing to do with comics etc, but he brought tickets with another friend and they had a falling out and he asked me to go because he didn’t want to go alone, after a few days I said fuck it and went, then he wanted me to pay for it and I was like bro I’m not paying for this I’m only here so I could basically hold your pops and posters

She had no intention to pay her back. Whenever means never.

@@lkain619Did you dress as Wonder Woman?

@@bash547 lol I wish I did. I used to go to comic con back in the day like 2003 when it wasn’t that big now it’s almost impossible to see everything the ticket prices are way too high, hotel rooms are always full. I was over it

@@lkain619That’s totally different, your friend would be out that money either way. It’s like when a friend couldn’t make it to a concert we bought tickets to and we agreed to give the other ticket away since there’s no refunds, and she agreed to offer to a mutual friend of ours bc better for me to have fun with another friend than waste the ticket and go alone. Like, if someone agrees to pay beforehand, sure, but it’s not fair to assume after the fact.

If the size fits a lot of ppl

Man, I just love those kind of life lessons from the old folk. So much wisdom behind a seemingly simplistic statement.

I think you mean give not lend, but I understand you needed to make it rhyme

Among my friends and family, I don't lend. If I want to help, I give/gift. I f they pay me back, Great. If they don't, that's fine. I never give what I can't afford to be without

Ikr

Agreed! I was taught don't lend what you can't afford to loose.

I came here to say this LOL She went from wanting to be friends with the defendant, to wanting to throw hands with her in the end 😂😂😂

i couldn't keep up with that quick changee!

😁😁 Judge be on that strong caffeine every episode

Yeah I agree. The lady said she's had some health issues in the past year reason why she wasn't working. I would like to know what the health issues were had the judge not gone bonkers on the lady. Lady still owes the money but it would have been good to know. 🧐

Shut up mb

It's not hard

Surviving on hard working tax payers money. Section 8, food stamps etc.

@@Msggggggggg That was rude…being black has nothing to do with eligibility for government assistance. The office in my town the majority is Russian. The man who owns the store across from me lies about his earnings so that he gets food stamps, and cash aid and he is Palestinian. Your comment was nasty and uncalled for. If you can’t get government assistance that’s no one else’s fault.

Living off of us people who actually work via government support.

@@cynthiaprice3528 honestly though it is a lot of blacks who take advantage of the system and say they are owed free living due to slavery.

Nothing wrong with that. WE ALL do it all the time to our friends!! I convinced my friend to go to the casino and eventually i said, "look i'll spot, how much you want?" He said, $800, i said "koo, when you can pay me back, he said maybe in a month, i said koo. 1.5 months my friend back in full. When you're friends know they owe and don't want to pay you back, then they not you're friend.

If the friend can't afford to pay for the trip whether she's desperate or not the friend should not go.

That's exactly what I just commented as well. You can totally tell by how she was responding to the judge when asked about it. I'm not sure why she is ashamed of it? Should everyone who has gone that route be ashamed? No. It honestly looks bad on her.

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Be funny if she did😂

That serious caffeine fix has Judge Milian going every single episode 😁😁

maybe that's acceptable in your household

LMAO

Yeah I know! I think she did the surgery too! That was what first came to mind.

Riiiiiight. I think it's because they know they took the easy road. I hate how people will clap when they say they had the surgery it's like dont clap 4them clap 4the surgeon

People lie to avoid being shamed. They don't want to hear that they took the easy way out, and they shouldn't have to. Why work harder when there's an option to work smarter? Either way who cares if they lie? Nobody is obligated to share their medical records with you.

@@ZovaBe People are also not obligated to go on national TV and look a fool, but go off!

Im sorry but when she said “Im broke, I cant go,” the first 3 times, thats not code for “Ill have it later.” You cant decide to pressure her and offer to pay, then act surprised that she is too broke to pay you. Its no different than women ignoring red flags when they date men. They be so desperate for love and attention they ignore the words coming out the person mouth and continue to pursue. That’s literally what happened here.

Her body looked fine either way. It’s who she is inside that counts. How you treat your friends and family is the only thing that matters. Hopefully she sees that and pays her friend back, soon. Not the day before she dies or better she’ll leave her $620 out of her life insurance policy, oh wait. Life insurance would mean she cares about others, and we know that’s not going to happen.

​@@jameshuntsman6046I'm sorry, but her body did not look fine before. I bet never in your life have you intentionally tried to gain that much weight, and there's a reason you haven't

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Exactly! The judge was a psychopath!😂

Nah she had a proud momma type moment with the weightloss then had to get back to judge mode......

@@Brandi.Alexandria Going from sweet to crazy… isn’t normal!🤦‍♀️

@elainevankat5353 she wasn't going crazy tho, unless you have a different definition of what going crazy is....to me she seemed irritated that the defendant felt entitled not to pay and a year passed......seemed she was trying to get the defendant to understand how ridiculous she was for that

I agree in part, the first time she fronted money and she did not pay any bad decision after that should have been written off . so she would only pay the first money owed, the rest is on the plaintiff.

You don't know she's being lazy. She said she had some health issues and some kinda surgery. But the judge didn't let her finish speaking.

@@valariehunter5389 no excuses! She has the ability to go on trips, Make it make sense

@@YoungBlaze boy she's literally limping into court and is walking with a cane. Also just start up a class about losing weight, you really think you can go ahead and make piles of money like that on the internet from the start? How out of touch are you. Do you believe those commercials that play before youtube videos saying that you can start your own social media empire by following my simple 3 step plan...? Those ppl make money based on foolish people that believe that crap. Those social media ppl pay money to buy more views. They pay money to "fix" the algorithm to boost their presence on social media.Its not just a couple of bucks. Its 1000s of dollars. To even get up to be making money that can support themselves, they will need MILLIONS of subscribers. Losing weight is not a special corner of the internet that has been untapped. There are countless fitness gurus on the internet. They have books to buy, zoom meetings, social media lives. And these people have to be remotely modelesque and crazy fit. This girl can barely walk. Like broooo be seriousss. Youre so out of touch. lol

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She probably didn't have extra for luxury. That's why she didn't want to go on these trips and etc

Totally agree, but when you think about it she openly admitted her mom taught her to not borrow other peoples clothing so im sure thats why she did not lend the dress to her

The daughter was not willing to let her have it since she just wore it. Prom is a special time in teens life just like a wedding. Not the same as wearing an everyday dress or skirt.

She was honest you sound jealous

@Lenasevilla-yb4ei 🤣 um no! Like I said though she is beautiful. My husband is a personal trainer. I know what it takes to lose that amount of weight. Just her response shows she didn't want to say what she did. I don't care, just don't lie.

My thoughts exactly!

@@Web19814 but you’re not a personal trainer and everybody is different. I’ve personally known ppl to lose more weight than that in a year without surgery so her saying two years is way more than enough time.

@Lenasevilla-yb4ei Hey if you're going do the work, do the work. If you're going to get surgery, say you got surgery. Personally, I don't care either way. I would love surgery, but... I know plenty of people that got surgery and say they did it all natural 🤣. It's not like surgery is a piece of cake, it isn't. Just be honest.

A little bit. maybe even Paula Kelly

Exactly!!!

So?