This is the truth. Stop trying to be someone you're not; be yourself, develop your own program and your own routine based on your unique goals and situation. The one universal principle to remember: push yourself out of your comfort zone, and stay disciplined. Self discipline is freedom.
Love this! If more of our men today had the proper guidance in their young years, they would be understanding of their roles, then become the Men they were designed to be. So appreciative of you strong men who are willing to teach.
That's why some platform are so successful in first place, such as reddit or quora. Most people open a thread, asking for advices and permissions. Can I do this, can I do that? I am X years old. No wonder we all are not confident, if we keep asking other what to do instead of taking control of our life..
This message is absolutely necessary and vital for those who are constantly looking for a internet daddy to tell them what to do so they can live their lives as they see fit without always seeking approval and permission from a bunch of con artists and sociopaths like Nick Fuentes and Andrew Tate.
These guys aren't looking for rules to enslave themselves, they're looking for advice. Before you can be yourself, you have to learn discipline and how to follow rules. Every great master in every field started off by learning and abiding by rules. Only when you mastered something you can free yourself.
I find this confusing. Men aren't asking for permission, they are asking for advice on how to reach their goals with greater efficiency. If you want to be a top performer you have to behave like a machine and obey instructions. That's how the best athletes live, just listen to Mike Tyson discussing his lifestyle when he was trained by Cus D'Amato.
If someone is asking you "what is the optimal amount of training volume for gaining mass", it would be strange to respond with "free men do what they want, don't be a slave".
I get what you're saying but most of us intrinsically know what we have to do but yet we rather ask other people who have more authority over us. Like people ask Tate, Jordan Peterson, among others. How do I become a better man? well, the answer to that is make money, go to the gym, take care of your health and don't do stupid shit.
Yeah that's what I thought. Asking for advice is not like asking for permission. That's what fathers and father figures are for. If you want to learn something, you listen to your teacher. Only when you're good enough to be a teacher yourself is when you get rid of the rules.
This is stupid. Young men are asking questions not for permission, but for directions. They are not looking for code to run; they are looking for efficient routes to success. If I didn't ask questions when I was younger, I wouldn't have been successful today.
I don't even know who I am or where to start anymore....I'm 27...at this age Conor Mcgregor was a double champ and made millions, by this age Mac Miller performed in front of millions and released tonnes of music, at this age people already own multiple businesses and have a family......I'm so done, I really messed my life up in 2020 when that rubbish went down
This is excellent. It's like musicians who are always looking at books and videos to learn how to play like someone else. I've known several guys who were always coming home from a guitar shop with a book that had a title like, "How to Play Exactly Like Jimmy Page" or something similar. The end result is that they never develop their own style. Trying to be another man will always be a dead end.