Stop Being EMOTIONALLY DEPENDENT On People: Part 3: BK Shivani: English 

Don't waste energy just for strangers on the road . Bless them that they reach home safely .. that was very powerful . Thanks very much Didi, Om shanti .

This maam saved my life when i was in my worst phase in 2017/18 god bless her

" I have to create the right thought in response to their wrong behaviour" ... exactly defined what we needed to listen.

I m just looking her face amazing glowing skin without makeup.... It's all about super natural power..... She is really pure soul.........

I guess this video came in my feed at the right time. I have been emotionally unwell from last week due to an incident which made me feel.. powerless, worthless, and someone who can be shouted at with no valid reason. I spent 2-3 days thinking: did I deserve that? Why it happened? Why is it always me who can be made feel invaluable? Why people don’t empathize with me? I knew i was being emotionally dependent and giving control to other people on how to dictate my emotional state. I knew I was being victim. Yesterday, I shouted at my brother since he is always engrossed in gaming and mobile, the moment he wakes up till the time he sleeps. In return, I was rebuked. And I slept feeling worthless, powerless again. I have decided to behave indifferent as anything I say, is either misunderstood or is invaluable to anyone. I gets lectures for saying little things or suggesting something. I have decided to be a speech minimalist, the least I speak, the least I am judged, rebuked, or lectured. I know it’s difficult doing what is being said by Shivani ji, but I’ll try my best to conserve my mental energy by not reacting to situations and become indifferent to it. That’s how I see it.

Shivanididi you make us realize how simple life should actually be....but how complicated we ignorant souls have made it! Thank you for your presence in this world! We arw blessed. Om Shanti🙏

Om shanti...10 years ago when I was in class 9 i watched awakening with Brahma kumaris daily..every evening i just waiting for the program...my childhood become so beautiful..and now i am 27..after 5 years of marriage everything is going wrong..i starting to watching again and things going to perfect... I found my peace of life.. thank you shivani di..u r shiv Baba's most beloved child ❤

I will never allow anyone to hold the “remote control” to my thoughts. Enjoyed this enlightening Talk. I wish I understood the non English parts of the talk. Thank you Love and Peace to you. ❤

Emotional independence & protection from other’s drama is the key to our own peace.. 💜🙏🌹

What a peace in her voice and satisfaction..❤️

I love the perfect example she used on traffic, it was the best use of the talk and she even suggested how to use your mind to reduce that one irritation. it was wonderful homework. we've all watched hundred of RU-vid videos about inner engineering but I think when you can immediately use a take home example like this one, you can actually start implementing the talk LITERALLY on that same day..

She is very clear and so sorted ....respect you sister ...

Thank you Shivani di i am dependent on myself i dont need anyone . I protect myself , my future is so bright , God is always with me , i am strong and powerful , loveful . I love myself , i take care myself , My thought my choice my destiny thank you ❤❤❤

Om Shanti My Sweet Sister Didi 👑 Sukriya BABA 👑 thank you very much for Energy today 👑

You are a very enlightened individual! Thanks for your lecture, it’s very valuable to everyone in every society! You’re doing much better than any government I’ve seen lately! Everything is of mind!

Thank Universe because today The universe allowed me to hear worthy speech. I have always wasted my power while I was driving. Best Quotes I received that you mentioned to pray for them ❤.

very soft spoken like flaws of river .

Om shanti thanku shivani dii ,now i don't depend emotionally anyone... I am strong 😊

I find it randomly because I need this Thank you Universe Thank You Angels 🙏🌼✨ for this love you Hare Krishna 🌼🙏

Didi you have magical voice.... whenever I Heard you i forget all stress, anxiety and almost all the distraction...om shanti Didi ...

I have already watched thousands of videos about emotional intelligence and independency but still have unclear thoughts. And I'm a person who gets irritated and sad easily by people's actions especially people I love. Because of you madam, feels like I think i can also control my mind. Because I am the one who makes me feel sad, angry and depressed, not them. So, I accept that fact and create my power to be stronger and more mature. Thank you so much Madam. Your video saves me and a lot of people.

Good morning Sister Om Shanti stay healthy your teachings make me peaceful soul ❤

Om Shanti didi🙏🏻 I am a powerful being I am a peaceful soul I am calm and stable always I am always happy Thank you thank you thank you Universe

Your words make me feel ,yes,I can... Even though, I have failed in life situations thousand times, but,You help me to gain confidence in myself... I can,I can,I can.

Just going through a lot at this point of time, but atleast now i know that i was the only reason behind all my sorrows and " I" am the only one who can reduce this.... Can't thank you enough for making it so simple🌸 More power to you ma'am.

I always feel blessed watching Shivani Didi's lectures.

Thank you sister for guiding us on our daily problems Thank you so much for bringing this real and relatable topic in everyone's life.

Good morning dii 😊😊 Om shanti dii❤❤ Aapki voice itni peaceful h jise sunke man ek dam shant ho jata h☺️☺️tq so much dii

Now we are ready to give peace and happiness to those who are lacking 😊

Om shanti didi 🙏💖😊 Shivani didi you make life so easy and special…. When I listen to you I feel so happy and good 😌

Shivani di's voice & words are so intense it penetrates throughout the body holistically.Thank you for your unconditional love🙏🙏

OM SHANTI BK SHIVANI SISTER 🙏🌹

Thank goodness I came across this video, As I spent my two years being emotionally dependent that drained my soul, I am ready to follow emotional independence ❤

Please keep revising these things everyday 😊❤

सबका जो सपना हैं .. मेरा वो अपना हैं.. प्यारा वो कितना हैं... मुश्किल हैं बताना... उस रब का शुक्राना.. उस रब का शुक्राना... ओम् शान्ति बाबा.. ओम् शान्ति दीदी ॥

Wonderful, inspirational and life changing 🙏

Definitely this speech will ease my day..my life

Thank you so much Shivani mam. This came on my feed when I needed it most. Love you didi ❤❤❤

Om shanti, Sister Shivani ❤️❤️❤️. Always, with love and Gratitude….. Thank you, thank you, thank you… ❤️🙏❤️🙌😇😘🌼🌺🌼💐☘️🌎

I am listening to this video every morning. Simple to follow yet very influential 🙏

Shivanidi you are the most talented motivational speaker as well as best teacher in the world...we get solutions to all problems in our lives from listening to your speech...seeing your smiling face makes our life easier...Thank you Didi from our part...🙏🙏🙏

Shivani didi is Divine.🙏🏻🙏🏻

I seriously never reply to any comments but after listening to this ma'am it made me become a real human being thank you for spreading this much of positiveness may god bless you

🙏🏼 Thank you to Shivani for this wonderful discourse. We Hindus are fortunate for someone like her to share such beautiful, sensible, logical talks. I see these talks so different from the talks given by Muslims and Christian leaders. I don’t see baseless, illogical directions from books. Our thoughts are spiritual logical and critically thought out.

I am not emotionally dependent on anyone ❤♾️life is peaceful so am I 🥰🥳

Om Shanti.. shukriya Didi..

Didi.... Ultimate solution for everything....🙏🙏🙏

Thanks with Gratitude Sister, brings me tears, right time watched....God Bless

Thanku mam...listening you is just like a flowering on me and I'll try to do right thing not wasting me power to unnecessarythings

Thank you so much Ma'am. Your words works like medicine to stable my uncertainty and insecurity.

I Cant tell you how much positive energy all these words have given me.. This was much needed at this point of time in my life.. Thank you..

Whenever I run out of an answer or seek some solution for my problems , you're the one who always , always shows up and gives the right direction . Grateful ❤

It is much needed.. Thankyou ❤

Thank you so much Shivani Maa for changing our precious lives ❤️ lots of love. Stay blessed everyone.

Listening to her is like having your personal coach around,

She is so soooooo calming! Thanks a ton dear sister Shivani ji. We need more people like her on the planet.

Om Shanti Shivani didi 🙏

Om Shanti Didi 🙏🏻 suprabhat 🌹

Om. Shantii🙏🙏

Tq so much ma🙏🙏❤️❤️ Ur words are very soothing 🙏🙏❤️❤️ Grateful to u🙏🙏❤️❤️

Don't know how to thank for your wise words. After listening to your videos I gradually developing the are of staying calm. It really helps to empower my family to sort out their own problems. I practically experiencing the results and try my best to develop that calmness. Thank you sister ❤❤

Your words give me so much inner peace, I can't express in words... Thank you ❤

She is 50+ unbelievable 😮.....her blushy cheeks.....my Guru.... changed my life ❤

Om Shanti 🙏🙏

Everything Sister Shivani speaks is gospel truth ❤

Blessings sister. Came across your video today. It's inspiring. There are some people in this world who are called narcissists. They exist to hurt people and cause chaos in homes. Your mindset changes after emotionally and physically being abused. So I heard your video and wonder how do you apply this to people who don't care about others or respect humanity. Your video address people who are normal getting angry frustrated at certain things but how do you deal with people who want to degrade you and control you as a puppet

Diagnosed my problem ..helpfull

Feel blessed to hear ur such powerful words 😇

Om Shanti

Good morning shivani di om shanti di thanks di

Om shanti

Good morning didi, I am very much influenced by you and follow you from so many years Om shanti didi.. ❤

Accepts everything in positive way ❤ nd then you'll win in every situation

I’m Shanti Sister. You will never know how much this helps me.

Om shanti Om shanti 🙏

Shivanidi's voice is so calming..love to listen to her discourses,keeps us all in focus ...

Great things in life are simple and it is very difficult to understand this fact. Courage to admit the truth is the only way to live successfully and peacefully. Sister Shivani made this extraordinary speech to make us understand this truth. Live long and Stay blessed sister... God bless you and thank god for connecting us through you...

Tq ma🙏🙏❤️❤️

Thnku so much Didi for guiding us...

Very well said👏🏼

Om Shanti sis ji 🙏 Gratitude

I'm totally stressed now .now I'm watching this really positive vibe inside cm.. hope everything will perfect soon .

Om Shanti 🙏🙏❤😇

Om shanti🙏🙏🙏🙏

Emotional independence is the key to a happy life .

Thank you so much ma'am

Jai shree Krishna

ॐ शान्ति 🙏 😊

Love you so much mam... Today i m feeling so sooting ❣️

Youre the best ❤ just what I needed to hear! Thank you 😊

Om shanti Didi

Emotions emerge from the people around you,so dependency on people is must love you sister 🙌

Om shanti mithe baba ji 🌹🙏 good morning

I can take this project. I would love to do so. I want to try this. Feeling very positive after listening to this.💜🌸

Thank You ❤ i fell good😊

Lovely.. you gave me peace of mind

Feeling blessed to have come across her videos after buying the self mastery card by Brahma Kumaris. So grateful for all the wisdom so I can master myself and set myself free from cyclic suffering.

I am speachless ,Gods way of making us understand .

Thank you didi

Very very helpful mam thank you ❤❤❤❤