What if that's who the person is.. One can be firm and distant too but it's not the natural stance of compassion.. Compassion reaches out and is soft so not everyone deserves that but who are we to judge unless they violated out personal wellbeing I used to ask if there's a God who's good, why does he allow suffering.. Recently it dawned on me that suffering is necessary to elevate humanity beyond our mere physical existence.. The age old question of dealing with suffering of all sorts is necessary for out transcendence Everything in life happened for a reason.. So I say be soft to everyone but know with whom you must exert a limit Great video on such enlightening principles.. One issue I haven't dealt with or thought about much is how does a Buddhist deal with guilt and sinful nature and deeds of man? Would appreciate a discussion about that.. Thank you 🙏❤