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🧠 Understanding the balance between compassion and discernment in Buddhist teachings.
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08:07 - The Parable of the Mustard Seed
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In this video, we delve into the nuanced teachings of Gautam Buddha on the importance of balancing compassion with discernment. While kindness and gentleness are often emphasized in human interactions, Buddhism teaches us that there are times when it is essential to go beyond gentleness. This exploration provides a deep understanding of Buddha's Four Noble Truths and how they relate to the idea of not being gentle with everyone.
We begin by discussing the fundamental principles of Buddhism, including the Four Noble Truths and the Eightfold Path. These teachings highlight the nature of suffering and the path to overcoming it, emphasizing the need to address the root causes of suffering rather than merely alleviating symptoms through excessive gentleness. The concept of the Middle Way is central to this discussion, illustrating the balance between compassion and setting necessary boundaries.
The video also explores powerful Buddhist parables, such as the parables of the raft and the mustard seed, which offer profound insights into when to apply gentleness and when to embrace a more discerning approach. By understanding the impermanence of emotions and relationships, and through the practice of mindfulness and self-compassion, we learn how to cultivate equanimity and respond with wisdom in all our interactions. This balanced approach is key to achieving true compassion and inner peace.
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@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 9 дней назад
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@Betterversion09
@Betterversion09 7 месяцев назад
For those reading this right now, remember, you cannot get well in the same environment that made you ill. Hope this helps you today.
@danjeltv
@danjeltv 7 месяцев назад
❤👌🏽
@spaceman513
@spaceman513 7 месяцев назад
Yes, it did
@steadyeddie7
@steadyeddie7 7 месяцев назад
You can if you believe in yourself. What other's think of you is none of your business, THE BUDDHA
@bestinspirationsbyushaiyer3655
@bestinspirationsbyushaiyer3655 7 месяцев назад
Absolutely true.....
@randygoff2563
@randygoff2563 7 месяцев назад
Brilliant and so necessary. Excessive gentleness can be perceived as permission; a reaction that allows continuing delusion. That is not compassion. That can’t help and I would contend is cruel to others while encouraging arrogance in self.
@katlehomacholo9986
@katlehomacholo9986 7 месяцев назад
This video resonates with me.... I hate how my gentleness always places me in a position to be used 😭😭😭😭
@pariscooper9081
@pariscooper9081 7 месяцев назад
Another way of seeing it is that you’re useful if you ever feel useless look back on the times you were used . You have utility. You’re a resource! 😊
@PersisP
@PersisP 7 месяцев назад
not perse, it's probs more your attachement or your genteleness is actually fear of being authentic and part of a fawn response. You can see the truth just as clearly and walk away gently, thete is no opposition there, just the willingness to see and have your sense of fullfillment within enough to walk
@amandacarrion8383
@amandacarrion8383 6 месяцев назад
Very true.
@AwakeningAscendancy135
@AwakeningAscendancy135 5 месяцев назад
*The wisdom of Buddhism is like a guiding light in my life. 🕊 It's about embracing the present moment and spreading kindness. 💖*
@bhaviniparmar9756
@bhaviniparmar9756 6 месяцев назад
We are taught to always be kind to everyone and end up being taken advantage of at times, but this teaching is so powerful! Thankyou again for the wisdom!
@akeuc5770
@akeuc5770 7 месяцев назад
Don't mistake my kindness as weakness🙌
@wandalee5010
@wandalee5010 7 месяцев назад
Amen!!! You’ll see my “not kind side!” 💃💥💃
@PersisP
@PersisP 7 месяцев назад
thats. ot what that means. It means you are not codependent and will walk away when someone treat you badly. Lashing out in return is just losing yourself in the drama and letting it pervert your purity of heart. It is weakness of heart while it might look impressive on the outside, its a lack of inner strength. Of course you can assert, but when yiu become agressive, other then to save a life, you just let outside negativity alter who you are
@IamaiIsmo
@IamaiIsmo 6 месяцев назад
Mistook your weakness for kindness now what you gonna do?
@tmybnsn7699
@tmybnsn7699 5 месяцев назад
@@PersisPThis is true in a way but there’s situations in life where being too passive won’t save your life or lead for a better future for your people. There’s a time for peace and a time to push back righteously for peace.
@ggates5371
@ggates5371 5 месяцев назад
Although this video wasn't what I was expecting, it's nice to see an approach to Buddhism that's not all “sunshine and rainbows.”
@amolpawar3186
@amolpawar3186 7 месяцев назад
It is really going to change my life. For the whole of my life I was excessively soft with everyone but unfortunately they took disadvantage of my nature. This story is immensely inspiring. Thank you for sharing. ❤
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 6 месяцев назад
Thanks for sharing!!
@rachel112263
@rachel112263 7 месяцев назад
Sometimes the only way to successfully set boundaries after using all appropriate methods of skillful means requires the use of being harsh. This will ensure the person finally realizes your boundaries which are, at this point, impenetrable.
@PersisP
@PersisP 7 месяцев назад
the only boundrie you need is the willingness to walk away and maybe protect yourself with immediate danger. Someone needing endless/agressive reminders of your boundries usually dont care about how you feel
@emmasoulvibes
@emmasoulvibes 7 месяцев назад
Self Compassion is Key - thanks for the reminder x
@kingmo565
@kingmo565 4 месяца назад
Especially true for the simps! Stop being a simp to women.
@iamdeeplyrooted
@iamdeeplyrooted 6 месяцев назад
I am grateful for a great lessons! Sharing a lesson (formular) from my zen teachers so we can apply to solve life problems 1. Listening 2. Understanding = love 3. knowledge 4. Logical or rational 5. Wisdom 6. Compassion 7. Courage
@angeladallimore8079
@angeladallimore8079 7 месяцев назад
Wise words ,However it's hard to change your nature ,Sometimes you need to put a hard shell on your back ,certainly in today's world ,As people see your kindness for weakness
@h.r.kustagi6884
@h.r.kustagi6884 6 месяцев назад
I too agree
@noona9369
@noona9369 7 месяцев назад
Buddhist teachings is so practical. How one can apply in every situation, everyday. Such great wisdom that brings PEACE in today's chaotic world.
@LetDeepCricK0
@LetDeepCricK0 5 месяцев назад
Bhai Mera bhi ak channel hai mai bhi inspirational, motivation, life lesson etc related video upload korta hu thora visit korke ou... "Krishna's Motivation"
@awarenessavenues
@awarenessavenues 7 месяцев назад
Enlightenment is not a hoax but a profound journey of self-discovery and realization. It goes beyond the teachings of gurus and scriptures; it's about using our senses and intelligence to fathom the true essence of enlightenment and engage in transformative practices. The path requires mastering the understanding of oneself, delving deep into personal growth and introspection. Only when we have a comprehensive grasp of our own being can we extend our learning to others and the vast universe. True enlightenment, in my belief, stems from the harmonious balance of self-awareness and a holistic comprehension of the world around us. It's an arduous but rewarding endeavor that transcends mere teachings, leading to a state of profound wisdom and inner peace. In Buddhism, the path to enlightenment is often long, but each act of compassion propels us forward across lifetimes. Like Milarepa, who achieved the rare feat, our journey continues with every small, impactful kindness.
@jillpaull2206
@jillpaull2206 7 месяцев назад
I need to listen to this every day. Trying to defend myself from judgement and thinking less of myself for not convincing the perpretrator that he needs to respect me. Seems to happen when Im least expecting it. From my own son. I dont want to talk to him ever again. Again. Thank you for thia video. I will overcome my fears and live my life like someone left the gate open.
@suesmith9665
@suesmith9665 7 месяцев назад
Chinese budist/I say dont let western changes way of thoughts in your own private pool of ones own journey. Be soft enough to bend and not hard enough to break.
@marialaurabarbato8049
@marialaurabarbato8049 6 месяцев назад
Thank you
@MindfulExplorations-op7bg
@MindfulExplorations-op7bg 7 месяцев назад
I see Buddhism as more a philosophy than a religion.
@pappathyrackan5006
@pappathyrackan5006 4 месяца назад
This story has taught me to go through life accepting how to live abalanced life ❤ Thank you
@ZenInsights-vp8nb
@ZenInsights-vp8nb 7 месяцев назад
"Thank you for the sharing. It's so inspiring. 🙏👍 "
@marydoccuvi9871
@marydoccuvi9871 2 месяца назад
Thank you 🙏
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. Месяц назад
You’re welcome 😊
@Manike-ub2nw
@Manike-ub2nw 7 месяцев назад
Thank you for this video. I have been wanting to change my habit of being too gentle. It makes me angry with myself. I have to develop equanimity to help myself in this situation. Namo buddhaya 🙏
@Cuckoo_Lane
@Cuckoo_Lane 6 месяцев назад
But maybe that is who you are. You can’t change your nature.
@roscioocasio4385
@roscioocasio4385 2 месяца назад
Namasté! 🕉️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🕉️❤❤❤💐🕉️
@starros1
@starros1 7 месяцев назад
Beautifully presented. May it light the way for our New Humanity.
@stephenbrazil6552
@stephenbrazil6552 6 месяцев назад
Resonatingly profound. Thank you
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 6 месяцев назад
You are so welcome
@NK-jx7oc
@NK-jx7oc 2 месяца назад
This video has changed my life in a way I cannot explain. Thank you for teaching the importance of the middles way and not clinging to the rigidity of being overly gentle. It’s so important to be authentic while being compassionate
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. Месяц назад
Glad it was helpful!
@motivemystic
@motivemystic 4 месяца назад
Wow, this Buddhist story really spoke to me. It reminded me of the importance of not being afraid to stand up for yourself and not let others take advantage of your kindness. It's so easy to get caught up in being "soft" to everyone, but this story inspires me to find a balance between being compassionate and asserting boundaries. Thank you for sharing this enlightening video!
@storyBuddhas
@storyBuddhas 5 месяцев назад
"This video made me smile and appreciate the beauty of life around me."
@LetDeepCricK0
@LetDeepCricK0 5 месяцев назад
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@SadhanaPol-vz2rm
@SadhanaPol-vz2rm 5 месяцев назад
Thankyou.
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 5 месяцев назад
You're welcome
@Bijou_248
@Bijou_248 7 месяцев назад
Thank you ❤🙏 This is my new daily aspirational reading - to reflect, ponder and meditate upon. Namaste ✨🌌🕊️
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 6 месяцев назад
You are so welcome
@LetDeepCricK0
@LetDeepCricK0 5 месяцев назад
Sir Mera bhi ak channel hai mai bhi inspirational, motivation, life lesson etc related video upload korta hu thora visit korke ou... "Krishna's Motivation"
@soulhealingquotes
@soulhealingquotes 6 месяцев назад
It is your determination and persistence that will make you a successful person.. Good job and all the BEST to you.
@beamnelson
@beamnelson 6 месяцев назад
It's profound to learn Excessive Compassion = Enabling (that's crippling the person to be stuck in their ruts). Also, that's divine confirmation to emphasize that one can't heal in the place where they got sick, to begin with! God, please expand my horizon & equip me with insights to see my stop line + confidence to execute healthy boundaries. In Yeshua's Name , I pray. 🛐 Amen!🙏
@jparsit
@jparsit 7 месяцев назад
The West politicians need the East lessons to make world peace. BEAUTIFUL PRESENTATION.
@luckytau6331
@luckytau6331 7 месяцев назад
You may say that again n again n again n again! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Loving Buddha teachings!🙏
@RRaavs
@RRaavs 6 месяцев назад
Thankyou Pls share more stories about Buddha
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 6 месяцев назад
We sure will share more stories. Thank You for listening 🙏
@YaSminCreaTes
@YaSminCreaTes 3 месяца назад
This has been my true weakness all my life as a result I have totally isolated myself from people and after the passing of my daughter very recently my boundaries had been totally broken as I was at my weakest point in my life Now I get extremely panicked when being talked to plus most of the talk I am not interested in. I really need to address this issue. Thank you so muchhh
@StimParavane
@StimParavane 3 месяца назад
I am so sorry to hear that your daughter has passed away.
@Mr._Johns_Productions
@Mr._Johns_Productions 7 месяцев назад
Great Saturday morning start
@amdeko
@amdeko 6 месяцев назад
❤❤❤❤ i needed this😢😢😢
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 6 месяцев назад
Glad it helped you!
@Osman-bp6js
@Osman-bp6js 6 месяцев назад
Admirable values of of his teaching on how to conduct our life wisely in dealing with others.Tq.for sharing valuable moral strength in personal development
@stevewiencek1354
@stevewiencek1354 7 месяцев назад
While the words here try to point to something, it really leaves everything up to interpretation. Saying "it's wise to set boundaries" it doesn't say which boundaries, when, how much? I don't deny that setting boundaries can help my "well-being"....but how do I decide what is truly necessary and what is just me avoiding things I don't like? Being kind, gentle and compassionate are all practices. If we decline to face situations, we forfeit the practice in difficult times where it might be of most use if we have the courage.
@Cuckoo_Lane
@Cuckoo_Lane 6 месяцев назад
If we focus on the root cause of most of our suffering and become our true selves, those things happen naturally.
@enji_artista
@enji_artista 7 месяцев назад
Hi there, community. I came across this video a few days ago. I was looking for answers due to way I have been feeling and thinking. My love life is not the best, and meeting a new person gives me anxiety. Anxiety for not corresponding to her, anxiety for losing her, anxiety if I will be target of another cheating experience. I'm almost 30 and feel disappointed that I couldn't get my feeling on track. This video is a relief. And soon, my life would probably continue as it is now. The reason I'm writing this is to raise awareness and unity. I'm not alone, and for those who can help give us a hand. Thank you.
@akeuc5770
@akeuc5770 7 месяцев назад
Sounds like you dodhed a bullet with your ex. Life will only get better. Everyday is a blessing🙌
@thomasraven2024
@thomasraven2024 7 дней назад
Anxiety is a clinging to what could be and not receiving it, depression is clinging to what has happened and how it was. You got to be here, right now, and stop thinking about the what could be or what has been. Just be you and to hell with the consequences.
@kathrynphillips3710
@kathrynphillips3710 7 месяцев назад
this was so enlightening ❤🙏❤ Thankyou 🙏
@user-ds2lk6tg7x
@user-ds2lk6tg7x 4 месяца назад
Thank you for the wisdom please share more
@yeetoner8431
@yeetoner8431 7 месяцев назад
This seems to be a GPT generated script with the prompt being something along the lines of "Write some ways in which Buddhism isnt just about being "soft" to others. Thats why the narrative isnt allignining with the title. GPT just cant reconcile "who should a good Buddhist be hard on?" with the actual teachings of the Buddha. Thats actually really beautiful if you think about it :)
@lucbedard7564
@lucbedard7564 6 месяцев назад
I've never learn about Buddhist and yet i've been learnning those skill without know it exisit. it must been an natural for me in my domain, I've been self taught since i was 14 in 1976. don't ask me how i knew this
@StimParavane
@StimParavane 3 месяца назад
You are recognising the teachings that you studied in a previous life.
@user-xm5px5if1d
@user-xm5px5if1d Месяц назад
Can’t believe this
@prathapuramabhiram
@prathapuramabhiram 7 месяцев назад
This is a great channel I regularly follow...
@buddhistinsight
@buddhistinsight 6 месяцев назад
Namo Buddhaya🙏
@masterchief8042
@masterchief8042 7 месяцев назад
Randy Orton is Awesome!!!
@lep8622
@lep8622 7 месяцев назад
Tuff Love 💪🏾
@user-tv5hg4zh3p
@user-tv5hg4zh3p 7 месяцев назад
Don't be soft to those who are hard on me . Bad influence is the start of a bad tomorrow. Live today like it's the only day and tomorrow will be given to us to choose what we will do we with it.
@user-jo9kz5sq1z
@user-jo9kz5sq1z 5 месяцев назад
Agree, not be hard and unkind to everyone. being nice you do get walked on by others. But we like people being nice to us don't we?
@ms.steveygolden1118
@ms.steveygolden1118 7 месяцев назад
Informative ♥ Good research tool's
@kristantianri6596
@kristantianri6596 6 месяцев назад
Thankyou at this moment I desperately needed to hear this thankyou ❤🎉
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 5 месяцев назад
Glad it was helpful
@arjunataylor
@arjunataylor 6 месяцев назад
Or as Krishnamurti put it “It’s no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.” It’s seems that Buddha had the same predicament as Jesus, using words to describe the indescribable. The level of education in those days was marginal and literacy was relatively low, so it’s a blessing that much of this wisdom survived.
@user-tb7rw6lp4o
@user-tb7rw6lp4o 7 месяцев назад
True!
@tracypattin3746
@tracypattin3746 7 месяцев назад
Wonderful! I love your narration.
@Cuckoo_Lane
@Cuckoo_Lane 6 месяцев назад
AI is amazing!
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 6 месяцев назад
Glad you enjoy it!
@nilanthamaczilan2145
@nilanthamaczilan2145 7 месяцев назад
Very valuable lessons with many more things to get. May you accumulate much merits.
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 6 месяцев назад
Many many thanks
@paulemerson4476
@paulemerson4476 7 месяцев назад
The teachings of this brother, not the religion that was formulated by man's opinion of what he said, just like we see in the many denominations of Christianity. Helping me on the path to meeting God Himself.
@jazziejae1609
@jazziejae1609 6 месяцев назад
I enjoyed this ❤
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 6 месяцев назад
Thank You for listening 🙏
@ClirimGola
@ClirimGola 7 месяцев назад
You are the god of your self,
@joeycredible
@joeycredible 6 месяцев назад
Listen at the end of the voice narration... "Around ooose...open heeerts" 😂 This video is so valuable. But I'm reminded about balance with levity.
@zzz5829
@zzz5829 7 месяцев назад
This is chatgpt for sure
@janahabalasundaram3480
@janahabalasundaram3480 7 месяцев назад
Very well explained Too honest person always been humited.. Honesty never wins why
@PersisP
@PersisP 7 месяцев назад
it does but its very threatening to many, thats why they lash out. Its not personal
@thomasraven2024
@thomasraven2024 7 дней назад
Have lies won? At least if you honest, you can fail with dignity.
@MariaTCosta-kz5ry
@MariaTCosta-kz5ry 6 месяцев назад
I do not wish to be part of any religious denomination. However I enjoy such cultures.
@sushamapethkar483
@sushamapethkar483 7 месяцев назад
These are the teachings of Hindu philosophy!!
@Journey_Sparks
@Journey_Sparks 6 месяцев назад
nice
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 5 месяцев назад
Thanks!
@andrewbryant6495
@andrewbryant6495 6 месяцев назад
Sometimes, it is better to not think.
@StimParavane
@StimParavane 3 месяца назад
Yes, most of the time.
@gildalaroya5319
@gildalaroya5319 6 месяцев назад
Baha’i Teachings is a revival of the Buddhist Principles! Meaning, the fundamental Divine Teachings are renewed in This Day in the One Cause of God, in His new sent Manifestation - Baha’u’llah (The Glory of God)…. eternal in the past and eternal in the future! Yabaha ‘ul-abha!
@sugerlipsxjamiewright4170
@sugerlipsxjamiewright4170 6 месяцев назад
You are more than foolish if you take My kindness for a weakness . In reality And I believe that it's is your own loss if you do so. Sadly I don't have to wish Bad on Anyone because I don't believe it to be necessary . nor warranted . It Not something I need in order to achieve peace. I Just do Me . And that is to be happy whenever possible . I don't allow others to determine my approach. By I'll feelings . To me it piontless to let them gain the upper hand on how you best portray yourself and your heart.
@jingerhaley5886
@jingerhaley5886 7 месяцев назад
@user-mm3zn9ty8y
@user-mm3zn9ty8y 7 месяцев назад
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@nimmy6468
@nimmy6468 6 месяцев назад
Yes we were taught by so called society being humble and kind was considered good and end up being thrashed up by these people 😢
@heerosanosyuy1173
@heerosanosyuy1173 7 месяцев назад
That which resists is slowly eroded by the running waters
@jayasathyajai5037
@jayasathyajai5037 7 месяцев назад
Wisdom n enlightenment 6.31am india
@juliafisher5844
@juliafisher5844 7 месяцев назад
Each person is unique ie there will be a' holes lol .. treat accordingly!@
@arezakkhoshmilan5793
@arezakkhoshmilan5793 7 месяцев назад
🌺🙏🌺
@DevInvest
@DevInvest 7 месяцев назад
🙇🏻‍♂️🙏🏻🍁
@user-og7db8hx2g
@user-og7db8hx2g 7 месяцев назад
👍🙏
@nomanalamgir8160
@nomanalamgir8160 7 месяцев назад
Amazing Video which Voice over AI do u use?
@stevenlafleur8474
@stevenlafleur8474 7 месяцев назад
Definitely NOT an AI voice. Sorry 😞
@VickiYJones
@VickiYJones 7 месяцев назад
👍
@riyazkhan9338
@riyazkhan9338 7 месяцев назад
TELLING
@anonimofied
@anonimofied 4 месяца назад
@0:13 Gotham city buddha
@akeuc5770
@akeuc5770 7 месяцев назад
The only way is Buddhism🙌
@maluty904_
@maluty904_ 6 месяцев назад
Are we able to ask about something we need education on?
@user-xm5px5if1d
@user-xm5px5if1d Месяц назад
T 13:07
@shardavajjhala5075
@shardavajjhala5075 7 месяцев назад
Very hard to implement
@Iguana2289
@Iguana2289 7 месяцев назад
How to be hard and not to be gentle ?
@padmanabhapade5887
@padmanabhapade5887 7 месяцев назад
Is it Buddhism and Zen are same ?
@sebastianwrites
@sebastianwrites 7 месяцев назад
Well, I've tried this, and found the middle way, tried to help... but some people will not even respect the fact you have an alternative opinion. I'm finding women, and met some women I really admire, but others are really very abusive, and as I said won't even accept a difference of an opinion. I've just come out of prison, refused bail, which is why I went to prison and was hunger and water strike because I'm tired of the false allegations of such bullying women. And to be honest, I 'still' don't feel like I've done enough to change things.
@Cuckoo_Lane
@Cuckoo_Lane 6 месяцев назад
What do you need to change?
@sebastianwrites
@sebastianwrites 6 месяцев назад
To not be judged unfairly, and not just unfairly, people's efforts to do the right should be recognised@@Cuckoo_Lane. Certainly, they shouldn't be criminalised, and a man judged on his gender rather than the merit of his character and what he is trying to achieve?
@patjackson1775
@patjackson1775 6 месяцев назад
How do I balance in the middle way living with a narcissist and their flying monkeys
@christinalubumad
@christinalubumad 7 месяцев назад
😂 Thank you for whatever you called teaching , teach . Talking nice doesn’t mean I’m soft or hard . What happened to your thinking or your thoughts. Do you have headaches cuz you keep repeat the same thing . Take some medicine to clear yourself 😂❤✌️
@motivate2mind
@motivate2mind 7 месяцев назад
🙏❤️🪷🪷🪷❤️🙏🌎
@hithere748
@hithere748 7 месяцев назад
So don't be gentle be compassionate?
@Cuckoo_Lane
@Cuckoo_Lane 6 месяцев назад
Depends on the person. Just do what feels right to you without giving too much of yourself away in the process.
@raigikidsvideo1559
@raigikidsvideo1559 7 месяцев назад
Budia born in Nepal not a India.
@SecretSage01
@SecretSage01 7 месяцев назад
What form of Buddhism is this? Not Theravada...would Theravadins approve? I would say practice meditation on the four limitless states (love, compassion, rejoicing, equanimity) and don't care about being soft or hard care about the joy and bliss within yourself that destroys the concern of being hard or soft...enlightenment is the highest enjoyment, bliss, and freedom...think of a memory when you were very happy were you concerned with being hard or soft? What if you could always be happy all the time?
@steadyeddie7
@steadyeddie7 7 месяцев назад
I don't believe the Buddha would approve of so many materialistic advertisements.
@Slk223
@Slk223 6 месяцев назад
If you never had shit in this life, desire less
@lalee2009
@lalee2009 6 месяцев назад
It is Very misleading to "encourage" non-gentleness. & according to comments here, they've been misled.😢 Be Gentle Always in addition to discernment, wisdom etc. People pleasers & those who've yet to deal w/ their "attachments" may find, not being gentle to everyone, a fake easing of their internal stress. But it's not wholly healthy.
@kasper-jw2441
@kasper-jw2441 4 месяца назад
i tell my self. dont mistake this for being direct. it doesnt work.
@Synchronicety
@Synchronicety 2 месяца назад
honesty can be missused. If i hear english i warned.
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