Martha is so articulate and authentic. You've had the most amazing people on your program, but Martha is #1. Happy for both of you. Every person dating should hear Martha'swisdom.
That is s greatest ideas of Healthy and Mature Love. You have to be happy yourself then you have happiness to give to someone you love. Someone comes to your life just makes you happier not take away your happiness. You have to feel freedom in love not prison. Wonderful couple. Congratulations guys
Im 45 and only now do i feel truly ready for "mature love". As hard as its been to prepare for love I am so grateful i didn't commit before i was truly ready.
@@speakintothemicbthat is so true, I have always try to do the oposit in regard to hide who really am, I don't want suppleness to lie to me, therefore i son lie to them, i want to know the goals, the values, and with all that I'm struggling with the rejection i suffered as child
I’m only 23 minutes in, but I’m so happy for both of you to find this type of love, connection and maturity. The fact that you’ve both worked on yourselves as individuals is evident. ❤
@karissa Jones: Are you crazy?! I was into the first 5 minutes and I got the full picture of this messed up relationship. That woman will only drain him mentally and heart-wise. It's not about them but it's about her only. I believe that both parties have been married before, but it's a bad move. It's best if this host ends up with someone Young. Some one unmolested! California has so many women to date especially young ladies and he ends up with this old foggie. Really?! This is a joke! It's bad comedy. April 23, 2023. USA.
@jay- It's obvious, Martha's vulnerability intimidates your insecurities about who you are. Stay exactly who you are. What we don't change, WE CHOOSE. You will attract exactly who you are, which is the OPPOSITE of who Lewis and Martha are: a manipulating, controlling, dominating, insecure adult, reacting as a traumatized child in an adult body. I wish you the happy, fulfilling life of your dreams you so deserve!
Lewis had to say exactly the same about she... but for a woman around 40 years old there is few chance to build a real family with sons only Cats and dogs
I met this two at the Dr Joe Dispenza's retreat. I get the chance to hug them. Both of them are humble. Martha is super sweet! I manifested Lewis to see at the retreat and it happened with the plus. So grateful to see them! 🙌❤️🙌
@@1216miriam i would! It help a lot of making the right decision. When you're there, you will be sorrounded with so much energy and love. You will heal that way coz everybody is in the same page!
Porqué dicen "Viva México" por cosa que no. Pues si no se trata de la nacionalidad ,sino de lo persona, algo independiente, de dónde se sea. Él está enamorado de ella, como ser humano, no por una nacionalidad. El nacionalismo de algunos es irritante en un país donde mucho más de la mitad de la población vive en pobreza, el narco está a todo lo que da, gobiernos de gente ignorante, egoístas, corruptisimos, pero algunos viven en la burbuja de "no pasa nada" Mientras eso no cambia el "viva México" sale sobrando y es hasta ridículo. Y no es contra de Martha, porque ella sí es una buena persona, pero da pena cómo tienen a México la gente que ha gobernado y gobiernan (todos los partidos la misma mentalidad de robarnos,tener mucho poder y empobrecer a la población). Así que un "viva México" sale sobrando. Yo diría "empobrecido y corruptisimo México, no lo merecemos!!"
MY take aways: 1. Put yourself first (specially your health), 2. When you don’t feel secure in your relationship, you begging trying to control the other person, and that may come from not feeling good enough yourself, if they betray you, they weren’t the person for you, 3. Everything is information, is not personal.
I love this. I used to work with relationship coaches and I said it years ago, over a decade, that "you complete me," is SO Co-dependent it is NOT healthy. The healthy relationship is comprised of 2 independently complete people who love each other, get along, want to grow together, and CAN live without each other but don't WANT to. I love you guys. Thank you for spreading the healthy relationship message. We need more of this❣
Yes true that means so much songs with those lyrics and movies with those dialogues are promoting codependency and yes I'm one of those who got influenced huhu
I loved seeing her love for you Lewis, everyone deserves love, but you especially Lewis. You've given so much to people and are always growing into an even more amazing person. Thanks for the interview Lewis ❤
Yes part 2 please! What a beautiful example of two humans loving each other deeply and supporting each and choosing each other to adventure in life together! I was emotional at the end when they spoke in gratitude of each others love ❤ what a beautiful example to follow in my own relationship❤
Absolutely we need a part 2 pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻 I loved this episode! Sent it to a bunch of people and took notes. Thank you so much for this incredible gem 💎♥️🫶🏻
I was so happy to see that you’d be interviewing one of our great Mexican actors and ecstatic when I learned of your relationship 🎉 I rarely post comments, clearly I had to make an exception. The love is off the charts! 💕 Thank you for this and all of your interviews 😊
Hour 1:20:32 WOW maturity is clear. No need to fight for being a priority. Your cup is full and is willing to give naturally. ❤❤❤ best convo guys! Thank you! Martha explaining the protection and safety is so true! I am in charge of my safety no one else!
Martha for president!❤ I’ve learned more about the way I react in relationships from this conversation than I have during the last twenty years and I have worked hard on myself. This conversation explained so much for me. Thank you love birds ❤
After watching this, a year ago, I started to look at my relationships. I started to look for my wounds and in the first place I said that I don't have any ...that this is just not true but then I discovered why I was jealous. I felt like I could not control myself. Thanks to this interview I did what she said. Why getting in these relationships when you could take therapy and heal first before looking for a new relationship. This is how a person can literally change other people's lives, by being authentic and talking from experience and being able to face its own fears, thanks Martha you really saved me by narcissistic men because that was my pattern which I discovered after I dug for a while. 🎉
These types of things are so important to me because they help me have hope that these good relationships can exist. After a lifetime of abuse and trauma, I'm really working on healing and reframing things, and stuff like this is such a gift on my journey, so thank you
Wow this is awesome VV! It takes a hell of a lot of courage to face your shadow-self and heal the wounds that keep you and happy. I have done much can't sing in group therapy for myself and now I love myself unconditionally more everyday and I am so very deeply grateful that I had the courage to do it. ! Because it is worth it to be able to see the world in a whole different perspective 💕🦄💕
Yessss please!!! best interview on Love and Relationship ever listened. There's such a higher sense of self in both of you that makes it enriching and so potent. We want more #2 for sure. Thanks Lewis Howes grateful for you
You guys are great together!!.....this episode is fantastic 👏🏼, so many of us thinking about finding our other half 😢 when in real life first we have to find ourselves ❤
Yes! I definitley want a Part 2 to this conversation please. Listening to the two of you discuss these things has really helped me re-center myself for my own growth. The journey has been rough lately and this helped me to keep pressing on. Also, just hearing how much she loves you is really wholesome and beautiful. So yes please. Part 2 ASAP.
You are both unique! You can feel the kindness and the warmth in Martha! Two beautiful souls who finally meet! Yes, to a part 2, please, cz I learned so much in this so needed, (especially in today’s world), deep, conversation! All the best in your endeavours and thank you!❤😊
When she said that a man doesn’t feel like he’s enough even though he gives the girl everything. I definitely felt that. My ex would told me I wasn’t enough plenty of times. Until now I had it ingrained in my brain that I’ll never be enough for someone. Jaa now I know that it’s not me it was her. Gracias
Yes for part 2 I see why Lewis loves Martha. I like her within 20 mins. Look at Martha’s eyes when she talks, she is completely open and truthful! I didn’t want to change my ex, I try to accept him. But how can you accept someone when he doesn’t know who he is, and cannot be open about it. I said I need to leave so he doesn’t need to change to tell his truth. Some people are not ready to get to know themselves. Omg she said it feels like family, he said which part of the family, I thought …the abandonment or the way she doesn’t explain anything part of my mother was my ex husband lol.
Sometimes accepting people as they are means seeing that that’s where they are at, and then changing the configuration of the relationship so that it is also right for you. Like, “ok, this is the way you are. I’m not ok with someone like that being my intimate partner, so we should just be friends.”
@@HeartFireSessions very true. It took me a while to figure that out, then more time to walk away. If one is not on a mindful journey, it is not easy to realize what’s going on and not react to it.
Yes! I'm literally in tears...this is so deep. I would love to hear more conversations between the two of you. It's very open and inspiring to witness a conversation between two people who love themselves and each other.
@lewishowes we need more guys like you, please share your knowledge, wisdom, maturity and love, with your singles friends, and then send the list to us the single girls... So happy for you both🎉🎉🎉🎉❤
We are so honored to hear Martha's input. Thank you Lewis for another wonderful interview. She is a sister, a friend, a mother for all of us who dont have such a figure in our lives. What a beauty with brains! And what a great looking couple you are.
She made many great points🙂! Made me reflect and think on areas I need to continue to heal and grow as a person 💕. Thank you for posting this. Saludos Martha ☺! Orgullosa de que nos estes representando a todas las mujeres Mexicanas! Mucho exito en todo lo que emprendas! ♥
I absolutely loved this conversation! What a beautiful pair you make.❤ My husband and I came into our relationship fully committed to what we wanted and what we didn’t want. We have never waived from our expectations. Sometimes a simple agreement such as to never take what we have for granted, can keep us accountable to each other.
So many compliments when ppl do not notice that these two ppl are gorgeous. It really is easy to love and be loved when you are attractive. You are then positive brave and confident. I would like to hear from ppl who do not have all this from the start. How are these ppl going to live?
Absolutely beautiful interview! captivating, authentic and everything was spoken from the heart with love, listening to this was a deeply healing experience, thank you both ❤️
Wow, I am going through having lost my husband, who I did have as the importance in my life. Now, I am doing the work to find what I truly need to be happy. The problem is I still want someone to just hangout with. This show is a big help for my healing. THANK YOU, LEWIS!!
Yes part 2 please 🙏 Martita, muchas gracias por este hermoso y increible podcasts. Esto definitivamente me va ayudar yo por el momento estoy soltera, tengo un año y medio trabajando en mi en sanar todos mis traumas y herridas y esta clase de podcasts me ayudan para que el dia que encuentre a la pareja que quiero sea mas facil. Congratulations on your beautiful relationship ❤️
4 minutes in and I’m already hooked. I slept on Martha interviewing you, last night. It was the first time I met her. Thanks to the episode you did with Sadia, when she asked you about your partner. I’ve fallen in love with your lady. There’s just something about a healed man and a healed woman coming together as a healed couple. Healed love is the most beautiful kind of love. 💚💚💚💚💚
Ví la conversación doblada al español, me encantó y también la tuve q ver en su idioma original para no perderme ni un detalle. Felicidades a Lewis y Martha por su hermosa relación. Me hubiera gustado tener ésta información tan valiosa hace muchos años atrás, pero aún es muy útil en mi presente, mil gracias.
OMG!!!! I LOVED THIS INTERVIEW!!! Amazing tips for everyone to know! Martha and I think similarly and of course YOU NEED TO MAKE PART 2 of this Interview! I learn so much thank you! You both are the best together! ❤
I would love a part too! I turned 70 last July and ended a marriage of 33 years. This information is so valuable as I would like to one more time be in a loving relationship. You guys are awesome! Thank you for sharing this valuable information!
What a beautiful and meaningful conversation! This video has helped me get into so many levels and insight. Thank you so much. I will be genuinely greatful to see the second part.
I just truly love who she is. What she stands for and her story . You too have just shared with the world true Greatness! Thank you. As a female , this message has helped me in so many ways. Also, coming from abusive relationships and that in order to stop repeating the cycle you must understand yourself and past . Thank you both ! May you have a blessed and happy life together ❤
How can we decipher what is true independence and what is a trauma response to avoid the pain of being let down? Sometimes too much independence feels like half-heartedness.
Love yourself and others by the same way and in the same expectation. Having a good healthy self-esteem is prerequisite. However, the society don't encourage it including family, teachers, motivational talkers, and spiritual gurus.
OMG! Conocia a Lewis y a mi tocaya Martha por separado hace poco supe que eran pareja pero Wow! Que hermoso video y quieres parte 2 Que bonito 🥺 Esto es Amor 😍 🥰 1:35:43
Is so funny how I follow both of you with out knowing that you will be together at some point. I didn't even knew your personal lives. I just loved what you both do and what you give us. You both are an inspiration as an individual and together to me. Pura fuga de reyes con ustedes 🎉❤😉 wish you all the best for both of you. You deserve it. 💕 Una muchologa 💘 e ♾️ las mejores vibras y mucho amor 😍
We've been waiting for part 2 for 6 months now. When is it coming up? This is such a healthy conversation👌... I've replayed it more than 6 times and it always brings a fresh perspective every time. Part 2 pleaaase!
Yes!!! Part 2 Your conversation has been eye opening in the brink of a failing marriage of 34 years. I can understand my feelings and how it has affected this relationship…Thank you to Martha as I am Latin and you inspire me to become a better version of myself . Love & Shine 🦋♥️🙏🏻✨🌹
This episode was AMAZING! I can feel the love between you two and it was so refreshing to see two people appreciate each other fully for who they are! Blessings to you both😊
It so lovely looking at you two! As a mexican citizen I knew Martha since many years ago, and I have seen her growing as an actress, producer and I said wow! Then, many years later I knew Lewis and I started following him because of his great interviews, but I never thought I could see the evolution you have as a couple and the way you share your individual and couple process… it gives me hope about the new generations of future parents with this level of consciusness…congratulations! You are sharing a master class about the healthy steps all we need to do if we want to have a respectfull, loving and happy life Thanks so much for sharing and blessings from Querétaro, México 🇲🇽 ❤🎉
I was very surprised to hear Martha so mature and evolved. I had a completely different idea of her, seeing her in comedies growing up. Her therapist, Nilda Charavaglio, is one of the best out there. Follow her if you want to change your life. Love and happiness in your marriage, Martha and Lewis.
❤ I would definitely like to hear more on this! This was an incredible conversation! I shared it with several people because I feel like everyone to listen to it. So more would be great :-)
So happy for you both to find each other and be able to communicate so well. Both beautiful inside and out. Prayers for your relationship to grow. Thankyou for sharing your experiences. A lot of truth here being spoken.
Wow, prior to listening, I wasn't aware of the five child wounds. The injustice piece was a real eye-opener. My mother (who, to be fair, had a disabling health condition) was highly unpredictable and was not consistent with her parenting. Because I said so, seemed like a daily mantra. No reasoning was put forth for her decisions, and I didn't have a voice. As an adult, I can see where decisions that have weak reasoning, are not well thought out or are made 'because I said so' are so triggering and I just disconnect. Mind blown. Thank you Martha! I'll be looking into all of these now.
Okay I have a girl crush😅 ❤❤❤. Thank you Lewis for such a beautiful, open, honest and insightful conversation Edit: Needed to add some adjectives...What a gem!
This is so beautiful. It’s hard fir me to believe it exists. The man that does not drink, smoke, do drugs, and invested in self-improvement and therapy. Lucky two.
Would like to see the credit to “Lise Bourbeau and the 5 wounds that prevent us from being ourselves”, Martha describes them so beautiful and easy to process. Of course we need part 2!!!
She doesn't say why somebody attracts a certain type of person, but how they behave in a relationship. And she said at the beginning that she would explain why people attract the same type of partner.
This interview was amazing, I didn't want it to end, I have so many questions for you both, about how to rediscover my values after being in a few relationships, being a mother, a care giver....anything but myself. And how do I heal my inner child, I had great parents, but at 55 and single I am craving a relationships so bad, and that makes me anxious, sometimes feels desperate, and I don't want to be in this place! You two are incredible, so much wisdom, thank you for opening up and sharing. ❤
Thank you so much for sharing this. It was so revealing to me, especially while undergoing my own healing journey. Much love and success. Your relationship is what I aspire to have one day ❤
I needed these words. Thank you. I have learned some of these lessons with trial and error but some I haven’t and thank you that I can learn through your experiences 😊❤ SO grateful
Love this talk 💕 you talk about safety in a relationship being a myth or something you shouldn’t go after but then Lewis mentions he didn’t feel safe in previous relationships but alluded to feeling safe in his relationship with you. Should people look for safety in a relationship to some degree?
