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Stop People-Pleasing - Learning to Set Boundaries and Loving Yourself.

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Are you tired of saying yes to everyone else's demands and no to your own desires? It's time to break free from people-pleasing and learn to set boundaries that nourish your mind, body, and soul! Join us on this episode of Seated as we explore the art of self-love and boundary-setting. Discover how to prioritize your own needs, say no without guilt, and embrace your true self. Get ready to transform your relationships and live a life that truly reflects your values and dreams! #PeoplePleasing #BoundarySetting #SelfLove #PersonalGrowth #Empowerment
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@Og_Mike885 Месяц назад

Yoh y'all should bring the whole asMajita gang as guest so we watch a real mans conference 🔥

@Browski._ Месяц назад

Nah

@nnonhle Месяц назад

Lebo is definitely the biggest comedian in the making. He's so funny, ridiculous & hilarious too 🤣😅 I love him.

@debraphiri644 Месяц назад

To me, boundaries are informed by my relationship with God and my core values. As a Christian, God has boundaries and I’m not willing to step outside those boundaries for anyone/anything.

@abigailsplendour 24 дня назад

Took the words straight from mouth. My morals and values are what makes me ME and they are what germinates my boundaries

@sakhilelephoto Месяц назад

From a different perspective I don't see boundaries as walls but rather I see them as gates. Walls are fixed and immovable whereas gates are still a measure of protection but have controlled access. With responsible access controls you're able to assess each situation and/or relationship and determine how to still ensure you're protected without making the next person feel unwelcome

@HareaiphaJack Месяц назад

The more I consume Thato's content, the more I relate with him. But with Lebo's analogy of his mom calling and him not answering in mind, I get to question what's the difference between boundaries and principles?🤔

@ThatoRampedi Месяц назад

I’m glad you’re enjoying the conversations ✨

@_Lelo_ Месяц назад

I feel like it’s not necessarily principles but rather can be deemed as a useless boundary or an unfair boundary depending on how you choose to look at it. His reasoning is understandable, don’t be upset if he doesn’t answer his phone and reasons for that were provided. That shouldn’t upset you or make you uncomfortable. As a person you’re not always available to pick up your phone and now imagine someone getting upset at the fact that you didn’t answer their call. That’s them even dismissing your reasons. Also we’re just a generation that genuinely doesn’t like phone calls, prefers texting over calls and more than anything prefers their own space. There are days where you don’t feel like talking and 9/10 when your mom calls, you already know why they’re calling and it could basically just to have a chat or check up on you. Once your pms ice has melted (that’s if you weren’t in the mood) or you’re done with what you were busy with, you’ll get back to them.

@lesegoprincessleeuw500 Месяц назад

People spoke and asked that you go back to appearing on the same screen at the same time like before, after the previous episode, and you heard them and did as they had asked. We see you, thank you for listening to your viewers and putting them first❤🏆🏆

@Buhlesometimes Месяц назад

What a thought-provoking conversation!

@Lyrics_lee Месяц назад

So I'm a millennial in my early 30s right and can i tell you , your podcast is refreshing and fascinating to me. I thoroughly enjoy your guys perspective on things and life in general , I sometimes might not relate cause you broers are from the burbs and I from a kasi but over the years my social circle has incorporated both worlds. The episode prior to this one caught my attention and i wanted more, did i not spend the whole of last week and this week binge watching from Season 1 with the other 2 broers, watched all of it! Fire podcast gents, respect! 🔥 🔥

@rock_y-y5w Месяц назад

the more I hear Thato, the more I admire his honesty, genuineness and mind 😊🤍

@vuyelwagoqwana4587 Месяц назад

Am I the only one who doesn’t have finsta? 🥴 I be posting personal content on my WhatsApp, that’s where my close friends are.

@laronathembelihle8163 Месяц назад

Same!

@mta.150 Месяц назад

real

@nellykekana3829 Месяц назад

i’m finally happy! FINALLY MY LIFE IS ROSEY😍

@anele_mhlongo Месяц назад

Real😂😍!

@tebohonkgadima1774 Месяц назад

Girll😂😂 the jumping I just did!!❤

@sr.kwanele Месяц назад

😂😂

@itsjustmpho5978 Месяц назад

Thato, on the topic of boundaries and relationships, my suggestion is getting a guest who's very well educated on this topic so that we can understand it from every perspective and relate it us because we try to relate from our own understanding and experiences and they can be very misleading as to what the truth may really be.

@rishongileshikwambani8215 Месяц назад

I agree

@its_kaino Месяц назад

Thato is a creative gentleman God bless you Malome RU-vid 🙏🙌

@ThatoRampedi Месяц назад

Thank you so much

@DAVEWRLD1 Месяц назад

the last episode really changed my life thank you so much gents 🙏🏾❤️🇳🇦

@ThatoRampedi Месяц назад

I’m so glad 🔥

@zandicarter5113 Месяц назад

I am growing fond of these deep conversations. This is a breath of fresh air with all this generic content on our threads. This will prove useful to people in existential crisis

@AndyKanv Месяц назад

Kanti the conversations are this SERIOUS 😮😮

@user-ud1xy1on5u Месяц назад

Therapy session 🫵🏾🧸🔥🔥

@banyanam100 Месяц назад

Thato is like my boyfriend lol and his name is Thato too. Puts everyone else before himself and has suuuuch a soft spot for people close to him. I hope he finds a way to balance or better yet, watch this!😅

@OfentseMk Месяц назад

Always a treat listening and watching the podcast 🌟the Rampedi brothers

@sanelisiwexhakaza4447 Месяц назад

Lebo is just naturally so funny😂❤

@lawrencekgwadi5787 Месяц назад

Y'all just made me realize that most of the boundaries I've set are derived from past experiences 😢

@italiatsotetsi8347 Месяц назад

Checking in 📍

@ThatoRampedi Месяц назад

Helllluuuu✨

@ElReverseGamz Месяц назад

To the Rampedi brothers like listening to your chat's and your experiences.. Just wanted to highlight "There's a Time for Everything" my king's keep doing you an elevation ain't gana be that far

@zainRaphael Месяц назад

I understand Lebo’s pain cause I too wonder the same thing but as Thatho said it’s a journey because he has so muchpotential it’s just a matter of time ❤️.

@bonganincube2374 Месяц назад

I always watch this podcast with a whisky on the rocks 😤😭😭😭

@ayandakhomo4244 Месяц назад

I just love your guys’ chemistry, humour and openess It’s easy listening to yall ❤

@dlalakarabo06 Месяц назад

1 thing we keep on learning about this podcast is taking conversations that are mostly viewed as simple but when provoked and engaged they are deep❤❤

@charitybegins8925 Месяц назад

Saw the title and I was like yaaah I need to listen to this one …. You guys are so relatable it’s like you live in my mind in most cases 😂😂😂 … continue with the good work guys , you are healing us and validating our emotions and also teaching us so much about navigating our 20s…. I am in my late 20s and I find you guys so therapeutic .. during my work breaks I have to find a way to squeeze in listening to you guys .

@thandekabhengu3313 Месяц назад

The last part of the perspective topic??Real! I don't waste my time on proving the truth no more. If a person wants to know or is willing to believe they'd live that space. It's not your job to build their maturity of understanding other people or respecting the other persons truth.

@thotoaneramakhula9140 Месяц назад

Lebo, I think the email you should send is the corporate one.

@itsonthaithink1 Месяц назад

Can we talk about sexual boundaries. Dive deep into it and including how it relates to our spiritual, emotional, mental and physical aspects. Do we do things for u want what you have seen in the movies or what is overrated by the culture whether be our friends or the media or we do things because we want to or we are obliged to not do it whether be by the scriptures or studies yet we do it out of being rebellious a d out of curiosity

@Zanele-pk8ty Месяц назад

I would like for your guys to discuss boundaries at the workplace

@Vuyo1990 Месяц назад

The conversation is high level today DAMN 😭

@thandekabhengu3313 Месяц назад

Now you're lactose intolerant 😭😭😂😂😂😂😂🔥

@prudy___ Месяц назад

This topic was very personal for the both of y’all 🥹

@noxolombutuma1915 Месяц назад

Love you guys. Yhooo I’ve never disagreed with you guys as much as I did in this episode (not everything obviously) but it’s cool. Love hearing your ideas and opinions.

@enzolovesthestreats_ Месяц назад

Therapy.🤞🏾

@yoursTruly20711 Месяц назад

You guys were so tired here, it was evident. I hope you'll find time to relax, you need it. Keep well and thank you for the therapy session 😊

@sandyhlatshwayo6763 Месяц назад

I think boundaries derived from trauma aren’t problematic because sifunda ngokubona. Seems like Thato himself the views he has of boundaries come from trauma of past relationships. (Trauma might be a bit of a strong word but y’all get it😂)

@aoateotengtsimatsima7648 Месяц назад

"Dude, you are a real guy. The rest of you are NPCs!"😂 I UNDERSTAND

@mpendulomncube4742 Месяц назад

It's easy to tell that you gents have been burning both ends of the candle. Thanks!💪🏽 Keep y'all's heads-up rest and get some sleep every. Health first!

@TheyloveMolzz Месяц назад

Thank you Seated is a response from a happy heart❤

@LebogangRampedi Месяц назад

Loving it

@monampofu827 Месяц назад

I absolutely love this podcast of you both! Lebo, some of us would hate to see you quit social media. I personally enjoy your conversational content, and the effortless humour you bring to conversations more than the overthought comic content. Keep up the good work! We see you and we rate you 🙏🏾

@tatendamatimba4826 Месяц назад

Love your point on perception and perspective I think we would all be happier if we could accept that we cannot control how people see us what we can control is how we see ourselves

@potsisomudzusi Месяц назад

Never expected this🔥🔥❤️ Y’all are so relatable.

@iMbaulaPodcast Месяц назад

31:31 - We get so defensive about dating - always on guard against evil, always fighting against temptation. But what if the boundaries we keep were really meant to help us fight for something? What if, instead of fence-building, they were acts of war in love?

@prettymngomamngoma6461 Месяц назад

Whenever u guys ask a question I pose, answer it myself first then play Nd hear ur response. 😂😂 Thato is a male version of m (not financial stable though)🤣🤣 I fully agree with wat Lebo said about perception being taught @skul, to think that I thought it was weird of m to want ppl to consider other ppls feelings Nd action before thy judge. He JC proved that the world will be a better place if we HV empathy.

@Geegee-r1n Месяц назад

Thato you like my brother and his son. Don't beat yourself about being mr nice guy. i know people take advantage yea but you wouldn't be happy if you try be something you not so just embrace that about yourself.That is just one unique quality about you .If it makes you happy to be there for others do it.And im praying things work out with you and Kamo.

@abigailpebane Месяц назад

I was actually thinking of yall today morning🤭 thanks for the upload you guys.

@ThatoRampedi Месяц назад

Hope you enjoyed it!

@lethabo_m1532 Месяц назад

This podcast is therapy for me, this conversation healed me😭

@thxpelokgaugelo Месяц назад

on setting boundaries on helping people come on a platform , it may seem or come across as gatekeeping oppurtunities you are able to provide simply becuase ofnot wanting them toleave you or the channel when they are big and are able to stand on their own as a brand, i think you would have more impact on helping and bring them onto the show or indulging in whatever they proposed to you, be selfless with what you have achieved and the tools you have and are able to utilise for another creator becuase the end goal is gonna be growing the youtube space in the country , and being part of their journey or story of upbringing will encourage them to do the same for other creators....thats just how i see it

@miyandamahlangu469 Месяц назад

This is one of my favourite episodes❤

@A_phile. Месяц назад

I just finished watching this episode and as a creative, who is trying to find themselves in this digital space, I truly relate to how Lebo is feeling and just want Lebo to know that he is not alone man. you are definitely on the right path, just hold on a little tighter because some viewers like me would def be crushed if you don't carry on. Thank you for this podcast episode, thoroughly enjoyed it!!

@goitse3097 Месяц назад

The relationship boundary of not meeting your partner’s friends i get it but Lebo is right when he says your not the only two people in the world…they are things your partner might go through in life that will require you to break such a boundary I’d like to believe most of us would like all our loved ones to be around to celebrate the different milestone in our life’s Boundaries are their to protect yourself but as time goes defending on the boundary it can be broken Let’s take a house for example, you visit a house your the guest as a guest you would usually be welcomed into the sitting/dining room and maybe a guest bath/toilet but the other rooms to the house are not accessible to you but you know they are there you know that they is a kitchen, bedroom etc…but they are not rooms you are welcomed in to as a guest.

@TuyenikelaoLeonard Месяц назад

This is the most therapeutic channel in this space🥺 one can literally click anything on this channel and you're edified. Also this new setting looks so wholesome. Bless your hearts❤.

@Miss.Zvinodavanhu Месяц назад

Okay but what about boundaries that are formed because of religious conviction , when one grows in their faith they may Get convicted of alote of stuff that seem normal in relationships (note not everyone gets the same convictions at the same time/had the same conviction ) would you think of those boundaries as unreasonable if they interfere with physical intimacy ?

@_snakho9717 Месяц назад

Hey, I was struggling with the same thing. From outside looking in, it was never unessesary because you need to be equally yoked in a relationship. What that means is working in alignment together towards one goal. Maybe you need to reasses if you guys are working towards the same future within your relationship.

@_snakho9717 Месяц назад

I'm Christian, and for me I'm learning so many different things about intimacy and being convicted about certain things regarding it. God tells us to abstain from sex before marriage, and sex can mean different things to different people right. But sex is sex at the end of the day and anything that tempts you into the feeling of lust or a sexual desire, is probably something you should consider setting as a boundary, as it is compromising your progress in your spiritual journey. This is so much easier when you are equally yoked with your partner though.

@Miss.Zvinodavanhu Месяц назад

@@_snakho9717I'm Christian too ,I have had the same convictions and I've set such boundaries, I just need to pick into someone else's pov cause when I explain it to certain people around me it sounds like I'm too much of a Christian but I'm glad to also hear it from a fellow Christian

@_snakho9717 Месяц назад

@@Miss.Zvinodavanhu At this point I'm you and you're me😂 cuz same. I have learnt not to pay attention to such comments, as God has a standard of life that He has already set for us, all we have to do is follow it. There's no such thing as being too Christian, all one can do is be patient and pray for those who have not realised it yet.

@SibsM93 Месяц назад

House of the Dragon is a banger. I'm all caught up on it to season 2 currently. I've even gone back to watch Game of Thrones to make the connection.

@uKhanyo Месяц назад

Damn realest conversations majimbos👌🏿 niphekile🚀

@ClaudiaSepodumo-w3o Месяц назад

Loved this conversation ❤️🤞🏽

@boikanyo-l1b Месяц назад

Y’all are so healing . I love it over here❤️

@laronathembelihle8163 Месяц назад

My recommendation is Outer Banks on Netflix, it has 3 seasons. It's too good!!

@abbyels6759 Месяц назад

Listening to you guys is sooo therapeutic!

@Nolosikhonde Месяц назад

I do watch the recs. Most of them turn out to be pretty good. So yeah do continue.

@bonganincube2374 Месяц назад

The joke from 28:08 to 28:23 😭😭😭😭😭 that was a comedy special

@nnonhle Месяц назад

Lovely content put out 😢❤️

@Immanuel_Jonas Месяц назад

What does one do when their own parent has a wrong perception of who you are and what you have done and the parent is refuses to ear them out.

@user-gu4jg5ul3g Месяц назад

These are life changing ❤

@nolwazizondi1306 Месяц назад

House of Dragons lets gooo! Loved this chat. Chat some more! Thx

@Sesethu97 Месяц назад

Love these conversations big ups to you Rampedi Brothers 😎

@siyamajay Месяц назад

Can't wait to watch ❤

@pinkhappynesslady5331 Месяц назад

Thato is really adorable,"our EQ on certain things are low..."

@IAmChosen9925 Месяц назад

In life you need to be aware of your weaknesses so nobody can make you feel bad

@karabomotaung6776 Месяц назад

I second the Bones and All watch 🤞 I'd advise when you watch the movie don't have any expectations let it be a journey to you too

@Happiness_papa Месяц назад

Malume RU-vid love this my favs❤❤❤❤

@ThatoRampedi Месяц назад

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

@nomvulachaka2939 Месяц назад

Lebo if you see this I just wanted to let you know that you're funny!!! First time I saw you was in Season 1 ya Looking For Mjolo. If you quit nna ketlaho Jaja😏 you are amazing and I pray that one day you're confident enough to see it. Things will fall into place... so long as you work towards it🥂

@rigby8266 Месяц назад

Mjolo everyday

@elsieratombo3515 Месяц назад

About having a finsta I think its sometimes because people have accounts and they take them as their workplace and also for me personally I am conscious on posting certain things because of company policies. If I post about where I work, any mistake I make they will associate with work.

@lindokuhlemolefe471 Месяц назад

you guys are doing great!🤍

@user-md3jp6fg7k Месяц назад

This is so good ❤

@iMbaulaPodcast Месяц назад

I loved the episode gents… 👊🏾✊🏾😅

@pinkhappynesslady5331 Месяц назад

Love this episode and angles

@Imvubu.dablack Месяц назад

Thato❤

@ThatoRampedi Месяц назад

❤️❤️

@nomceboDlamini-ip6nz Месяц назад

My fave duo ❤❤

@SAMusic936 Месяц назад

Thato is keeping it real 🤝

@thotoaneramakhula9140 Месяц назад

That social media chat

@nellykekana3829 Месяц назад

oeeee! i love this new angle😍😍😍

@phethehojenifermoleleki3973 Месяц назад

Lol now you're lactose intolerant? 🤣 Mxm. I think boundaries derived from trauma aren't about do's and don'ts. It's about shielding yourself from enabling certain things over and over. And also, we have to differentiate between projecting and setting a boundaries. There's a thin line. Boundaries are meant to make things better in a sense that they enable you to be your true self without people pleasing. They deepen relationships.

@HourTilliDrop Месяц назад

Yup

@a.isheeeee Месяц назад

How does one subscribe to the “close friends “ 😭 I am struggling

@thandekabhengu3313 Месяц назад

My favs!❤️❤️

@iMbaulaPodcast Месяц назад

38:00 - Pride tries to control and manipulate someone else’s perception of us for our own selfish interests.

@iMbaulaPodcast Месяц назад

Honesty is being true to one’s actual convictions. But one’s actual convictions might not be true. It is possible for us to be honest and wrong at the same time.

@iMbaulaPodcast Месяц назад

In fact, the relief of finally being honest, even if what we are being honest about is wrong, can feel emancipating. We’ve all experienced or witnessed this. When someone who has been secretly struggling with homosexuality finally comes out and embraces it, it often feels wonderful and freeing. Or when someone who has professed faith in Christ secretly stops believing the reality of Christianity, it can be a great relief to finally admit it and stop pretending. Or when a spouse has secretly been committing adultery, it can feel liberating to bring it out into the open, even if they are not repentant. What each of these people experiences is a sense of being true to themselves, even if what they actually believe isn’t true and right.