At my job, my every decision is critized by people with less authority. I made a group of people that I enjoy working with just for them to change up on me. It hurt to see the people that I build up and supported turn their backs on me. Words were said and actions were done. Now I am refuse to entertain any drama what so ever. I am not a therapist and I am not your friend
its good that you looked at that experience and learned from it, lots of ppl will continue to break themselves for toxic assholes, and end up becoming one them selves.
Being "unbothered" doesn't mean your "insensitive", it just means your sensitive to other things (the "right" things). You can be totally unbothered by someone miserable trying to make you miserable too, but totally have it make your day when your significant other gives you a gift. Why? Because the first are disingenuous feelings, while the second are genuine. The first person is just trying to make you miserable because they're miserable, you don't deserve that. But the second person is trying to make you happy because you make them happy. You DO deserve that because it's a reflection of your own actions, that you make the other person happy. So you can still be sensitive, just sensitive to the right things.
I really needed this, my friend said I talked a lot and i just automatically assumed that meant I was annoying..they didnt say that but i guess i felt that. Its not on her, thats on me for reacting that way. I was gonna do something petty like not talk to her anymore but i should just own it its who I am. Im gonna do some reflecting, appreciate you for being you man
I had a bad fallout with the person I love most. Confronted her with her lies and she gave me the cold shoulder and cut me off. We haven't talked for 3 months now and I thought I hated her. Turns out I hate myself for letting her treat me this way for YEARS. you can only learn and move forward. Nobody is worth all that emotional hardship except yourself :( had to learn the hard way
it's crazy how I came across this video for the exact same reason, losing my most beloved because they kept on treating me like less. if I may vent for a moment: decided to cut contact with someone I've known for 18 years that treated me like I was only worth it when it suited them, yet I always sticked around and kept it going because FOR ME that connection was so valuable I thought I had no other choice but to keep it and hope it'll be what I wanted it to be. they never truly owned up for what they did, always repeating the same bullshit and even though I'm heartbroken I have to stop wasting my time feeling miserable because of someone that I was never clearly a priority for.
Dear Shimon, i would like to acknowledge what great material you have on your page. i recently had one of your videos come up on my recommended page, and i am so happy i clicked and heard what you had to say. your articulation and analogies have put things into a perspective my mind can fully grasp and understand. i’d just like to say thank you for your wisdom and insight on life as it has genuinely helped me push myself in ways i didn’t think i could. you are a light in this world and i seriously wish you nothing but the best on your journey in this vast universe. With Love, A viewer💜
Yes. This is exactly one of the biggest problems I have since day one. Not active reaction like lashing out, but making my self miserable with feelings of regret and inadequacy.
Learned that over time, worked w a troll a few jobs ago. Learned to not let the person in, not react. Persons not privy to my beliefs and feelings. Do my job, keep it movin’.
Personally I will say I do get worked up easily when my friends keep telling me things I don’t like to hear but at the same time it is needed. Yea coming from a lot of losses in my life it’s hard to just stay quiet nd hear em out it ain’t like they mean any harm they just want me to do better. Great video👍🏾
every time I need help you have a video up that saves me from depression and actually understand that you need to live your life and not care about others that dont accept that❤ Edit: what you said in the end like when youre not react to your "mobber" they stop doing it is actually true because I started to did exactly what you said a long time ago and after like 2 weeks no one nagged me anymore
I just came across one of your other video and you got me watching all your videos cause the shit I’m dealing with in my relationship is kicking my ass literally 😂 me listening to this literally got me thinking about life and everything I’ve done in my lifetime. Man it’s so much but ion wanna type the whole section out but thank you and I love you bro always be great to the community damn ts almost got me tearing gang😂😂 but thank you man not only im learning im also taking accountability for my actions and realizing im part of the problem💯
I can think of each time people I ain't know try to mess with me and I just didn't respond to them, but it did bother me. That shit could ruin my entire day, or maybe even a few days. After seeing this video I think you're right, I'm gonna try to not let it bother me anymore. It's really just them getting in my head for no valid reason
Hey Mr. Davis, I really appreciate this video you made. I got really interested right around this part 4:16, where you talk about how some women/men do subconscious testing intentionally or unintentionally. do you think you could a make a video more about that if you’re able to? thank you I look forward to more of your videos. may God bless and protect you.
Bro put so much positivity, help and love to everyone now why not loving your self first if you haven’t and maybe it can help you even better understanding too, thanks i really appreciate this type of content :)
How can I be a better son? I try to take accountability for things and I do, and admittedly the things I do can be stupid mistakes at time and if I thought of what was asked of me there would be no problem. But then a small mistake turns into the huge problem of me being in other words a horrible fake person. Essentially "discipline" for stupid mistakes turns into a one-sided conversations that just demean me. I can be doing great, acting like how I should for my age then I make one mistake and everything is tore down.
Man you ain't alone. I'm in the same place. I all I can say is in my case I'll apologize and silently change. You know..? Actions speak louder than words.
Currently started a new job as an apprentice my tradesman just yells at me when I don’t get what he’s saying or i makes a mistake and just calls me names and insults me.
I’m not gonna lie I’m in the military and this guy almost lost his life the other day and this other guy made a distasteful joke and I lashed out at em when I approached him. But honestly it felt right to do that but in the end it didn’t cause I felt so drained and I still kind of do and I have to build myself back up. It’s really a learning experience because I really have to learn to not react to everything.
Brother I'm in a situation here i told a girl I'm feeling her today and basically confessed i dont know but she looked like she was blushing and shiz but i don't want to promise myself anything and she said asked if I'll be around school tomorrow since its exam season i told her yes and she said she'll give me my answer tomorrow so what I've been thinking is if i should go or not i keep thinking maybe going tomorrow will look like I'm too much or something i was thinking of skipping maybe a day then going but at the same time I'm thinking of going tomorrow what should i do
I need some advice, my so called friends always find a way to make fun of me and as much as I want to not be their friend or be acquainted with them they always find a way to make me talk to them, it’s like if I drop them I feel guilty for doing it. These so called friends aren’t benefiting my self love or self esteem process It’s extremely hard for me to make new friends or meet new people due to me not being where I need to be confident wise. What should I do
Just work on urself , ur confidence get out of your comfort zone and start talking to new ppl and never make the mistake of letting somebody disrespect u do whatever they like , be fearless stand still , learn social skills from books and youtube start to get away slowly from these toxic friends and that's by not fully interacting with them let it be one sided they ask u questions u reply shortly and do not ask them back , when they are laughing at you stare at them in the eyes for a long time , if they ask u why u're doing this act as if you don't know , do not go to them let them always come to u they will get tired and with time they would leave u alone
