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This should help with your New Year Resolutions!
Follow me @mitchellmoffit
Created by: Mitchell Moffit and Gregory Brown
Edited by: Sel Ghebrehiwot
Some resources/references:
www.psych.nyu.edu/gollwitzer/09_Gollwitzer_Sheeran_Seifert_Michalski_When_Intentions_.pdf
blogs.scientificamerican.com/culturing-science/new-years-resolution/
www.deseretnews.com/article/865618829/Why-you-shouldnt-tell-people-about-your-New-Years-resolutions.html
www.inc.com/peter-economy/10-top-new-years-resolutions-for-success-happiness-in-2019.html

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@dutchik5107
@dutchik5107 5 лет назад
Start any moment you want. Not with the start of the new year.
@ruthivanova2296
@ruthivanova2296 5 лет назад
Yessssw
@jobroray
@jobroray 5 лет назад
But at the same time don’t just think “I’ll start next week” every week.
@mayyahbhatti4425
@mayyahbhatti4425 5 лет назад
The thing is, mine made sense to make a few days before new years which is just really convenient
@Woodshadow
@Woodshadow 5 лет назад
Dutchik it feels easier because the holidays are so busy the new year signifies a fresh start. The best advice I have is to forgive yourself for failing and start new today. If you had a resolution and you stopped trying mid year forgive yourself for taking a break and just pick it back up. The only person judging you is yourself
@TheGFeather
@TheGFeather 5 лет назад
I also thing entire year goals, or 'from now on' goals are doomed because of their scale. I like doing monthly projects that work towards something. A month is long enough to start feeling the effects of most changes and get past the worst of the teething pains, but allows for an end date. At the end of a month, some things I choose to keep on with, some things I modify to be more practical for my life and some things didn't work out the way I thought they might and get left behind, but overall it is a much more achievable timescale to work with.
@SatanistSin
@SatanistSin 5 лет назад
I've noticed this, and stopped years ago.
@ShibaScience
@ShibaScience 5 лет назад
Yeah same
@chris-andrebrissett5208
@chris-andrebrissett5208 5 лет назад
I noticed every goal that I haven't said out in public or with someone, I achieved.
@SatanistSin
@SatanistSin 5 лет назад
@@chris-andrebrissett5208 I literally worked out for 90 minutes everyday of 2017. In 2018 I said I'm going to work out for my new years resolution... I worked out for the first time since then 2 days ago.
@chris-andrebrissett5208
@chris-andrebrissett5208 5 лет назад
@@SatanistSin Keep it up now that you started. Im doing 20-30 minutes of exercise/meditation which I started last month but ive been slacking.
@SatanistSin
@SatanistSin 5 лет назад
@@chris-andrebrissett5208 fingers crossed.
@bl4cklung997
@bl4cklung997 5 лет назад
I'm so proud of me. I've already started completing my goals and no one knows about them.
@jadeeye5630
@jadeeye5630 5 лет назад
the level of sass mitch is giving us in this video is better than any validation
@magicslave3066
@magicslave3066 3 года назад
Who made up the stereotype canadians are nice!
@nilufertrylandkilicaslan1696
@nilufertrylandkilicaslan1696 5 лет назад
Ok, then my goal is to stop saying my goals out loud. Damn it... EDIT: WOW, I REALLY DIDN'T EXPECT THIS MANY LIKES! HOLY CRAP!!! And this probably seems ridiculous but, it's my birthday too! This was an amazing gift, thank you sooo much!
@sarcashd3991
@sarcashd3991 5 лет назад
😂
@yeetuslol9269
@yeetuslol9269 5 лет назад
Hahahaha
@nilufertrylandkilicaslan1696
@nilufertrylandkilicaslan1696 5 лет назад
Good point, but what if I said it out loud too... You'll never know...
@ihatetobethatguybut7175
@ihatetobethatguybut7175 5 лет назад
Exactly 365 likes nice.
@dea7623
@dea7623 5 лет назад
365 likes😱😱 Btw happy birthday!
@Jay_and_Meeka
@Jay_and_Meeka 5 лет назад
So because I've said them out loud then I won't complete them? Challenge accepted, Mitch. Challenge accepted.
@grass4655
@grass4655 5 лет назад
Can’t drop your resolutions if you don’t write any :’ )
@sylendraws1249
@sylendraws1249 5 лет назад
Stop having new years goals at all instead of waiting for a new year to achieve your goals just do it nowwwwwwww
@kamillavaland7275
@kamillavaland7275 5 лет назад
Omg his voice changed when he said that😂 2:38
@skeldare
@skeldare 5 лет назад
OMG I was just thinking the same thing about Tyler Oakley lol When did he get jacked?
@sage2658
@sage2658 5 лет назад
Jeff Conser honestly i stopped watching a while ago when he was a lil twink with rainbow hair and now he’s always shirtless cuz he hot as fuck now
@mimimarcus
@mimimarcus 5 лет назад
When he wanted to be a power bottom
@mahirorigami
@mahirorigami 5 лет назад
Broscience. If you want do it, just do
@brandthemanlee
@brandthemanlee 5 лет назад
Dude u have the sickest paper airplane channel
@brandthemanlee
@brandthemanlee 5 лет назад
Im so glad i decided to watch asapscience today(after like years of forgeting about them, but u know how it is with them dying channels)
@x1dark230
@x1dark230 5 лет назад
Mahir is my name omg
@shrimp2612
@shrimp2612 5 лет назад
This is actually really accurate for my life...oops
@Sirrantsalot
@Sirrantsalot 5 лет назад
I don't make resolutions I just do it.
@MidnightEkaki
@MidnightEkaki 5 лет назад
JUST. DO. IT!
@TheLukas9922
@TheLukas9922 5 лет назад
Are you a Nike hypeman?
@ericvisser5253
@ericvisser5253 5 лет назад
Ayyyeee I can get behind that. Let your actions do the talking
@aquamarinedream8304
@aquamarinedream8304 5 лет назад
The 'stache confirms your statement.
@MidnightEkaki
@MidnightEkaki 5 лет назад
But I think if you tell people, you're also making that pressure on yourself to actually go through with it rather than being like 'Im probably gonna do this' to yourself. This can backfire with pressuring yourself too much so you don't feel like a failure. I don't know but the resolutions I've achieved in the past came from me knowing it was something I'd be motivated to do, and start putting steps in place from the getgo to get it done. Things that were more vague or I knew would be too difficult to actually achieve didn't get done.
5 лет назад
Everytime knows people don't actually do their resolutions so that doesn't apply
@sharathkumar8422
@sharathkumar8422 5 лет назад
That's not true. What Mitch is saying here is well documented, do read up on the research if you're curious.
@aquamarinedream8304
@aquamarinedream8304 5 лет назад
Personally if I tell someone I'm going to do something, not doing it embarrasses the fuck out of me. So if I'm not sure I'll do it, thats when I say nothing. This research confirms the trend of the majority, it is not the same for each person though. I know myself.
@diyeana
@diyeana 5 лет назад
I've learned that I accomplish the most when I don't set any goals. I got out of bed this morning? Way to go! I didn't kill anyone today? Gold star for me!
@brianpso
@brianpso 5 лет назад
Nah, the pressure of not being truthful to your word is bigger than that "bad side" to me. It works for me to have told someone else that I'd do something.
@samuelmoore8932
@samuelmoore8932 5 лет назад
THIS YEAR I WILL STOP SAYING MY NEW YEARS GOALS OUTLOUD
@DasPuppy
@DasPuppy 5 лет назад
Sometimes our brain sounds like a badly written reward based AI ... :-/
@gallantcp
@gallantcp 5 лет назад
I hope my resolution is 4k
@doysgermian9287
@doysgermian9287 5 лет назад
Shhhhhhh dont tell it
@Maerahn
@Maerahn 5 лет назад
THANK YOU! I spent a few years making vocal New Years' Resolutions - and without fail I found that, every single time, I only succeeded in achieving the OPPOSITE of my goal! So I stopped doing it, and now I find I'm much better at achieving the things I'd been wanting to anyway, on the down-low, simply by NOT turning into my Mission For The Year.
@LokirofRoriksted
@LokirofRoriksted 5 лет назад
I told my goal to my family and proving them that I can fulfill them is what policies me
@drnrnd176
@drnrnd176 5 лет назад
Greg and Mitch is back!
@ellen3093
@ellen3093 5 лет назад
I think the opposite is true. No one congratulated me on my goals, they’re like “suuure, right” and then it becomes a huge motivation to prove them wrong. If I kept it to myself I wouldn’t have that motivation to achieve the goal and I could as well quit without any consequences.
@Leugim010
@Leugim010 5 лет назад
Oh shit this happens to me too often, I didnt know there was a scientific explanation for it... 😂
@garf_luvr
@garf_luvr 5 лет назад
Great video! Please revive this channel I can't get enough of you guys!!!💞💖💝
@JJBabbles
@JJBabbles 5 лет назад
This has me conflicted! It's really interesting & I've never heard of the 'Intention behaviour gap' before. I'm so used to being told to set goals & tell as many people as possible (presumably so they'll hold you accountable) but this way makes more sense to me personally. Thanks for sharing - especially at this time of year!
@Lilechek12
@Lilechek12 5 лет назад
I hope there will be more of such videos. I miss them!))
@rosiedawson4399
@rosiedawson4399 5 лет назад
My resolutions are private so I don’t share them anyway but this is really interesting
@nebula3576
@nebula3576 5 лет назад
Tell me😡
@shereewiley8452
@shereewiley8452 5 лет назад
Thank you for this explanation! This is what I've been looking for and simply didn't know what to search LOL!
@usffan5979
@usffan5979 5 лет назад
Fantastic idea for a video, and great presentation. Keep doing great work guys!
@jeanclaudethedarklord6205
@jeanclaudethedarklord6205 Год назад
100% agree, as much as I want to say it out loud, I try as hard as I can to keep the serious goals in my head
@khaled-rq6gh
@khaled-rq6gh 5 лет назад
I want to hug him 🙂
@liethrabi9685
@liethrabi9685 5 лет назад
I respectfully disagree, i was a skinny dude and 2 month ago i decided to bulk up and told everyone imma do it, i gained 10 kilos of mostly muscle so far, and a big motivation for me was that i didn't want anyone to think i make empty promises, i wanted to impress them a lil bit, i think it'd ve been easier to give up if hadn't told anyone.
@owietooneowietoall
@owietooneowietoall 5 лет назад
Lieth rabi yeah thought and heard it kept people accountable
@alyssanguyen6031
@alyssanguyen6031 5 лет назад
Yah i agree. He says its backed with science but then again everyone has the potential to respond differently to the outside motivation. I dont say my resolutions out loud because i havent accomplished anything yet. I also have friends who have to say it out loud or they wouldnt get the drive to do anything. But then again it only works for them for about two weeks...
@annietyrey1880
@annietyrey1880 5 лет назад
Thank you for this.
@haleighwalker243
@haleighwalker243 5 лет назад
This is really useful ! I'm glad I know this now
@lynseamontanari7661
@lynseamontanari7661 5 лет назад
I noticed this to this is crazy! I wasn't telling any of my goals this year for this reason and didn't even know why!
@danbee6103
@danbee6103 5 лет назад
One of my favorite posts is when yall watchin over Niel GT at the museum
@TheTechNiShan
@TheTechNiShan Год назад
Thanks, i needed this
@miracleschmidt4342
@miracleschmidt4342 5 лет назад
I completely gave up on doing resolutions. Mainly because I had to write my resolutions in school so.
@scorpiomischief
@scorpiomischief 5 лет назад
this is extremely helpful! thank you!
@lizi3721
@lizi3721 5 лет назад
I decided that I wasnt going to tell anyone about my new year goal of learning the guitar and now I'm super excited to learn it and then surprise everyone in a year when I just bust out playing lol
@semaibrahimova2045
@semaibrahimova2045 5 лет назад
Omg i needed this..
@thePinkKitty3
@thePinkKitty3 5 лет назад
Very smart point!
@ChellyTheGreat
@ChellyTheGreat 5 лет назад
I learned this in high school and never forgot it, I just forgot to actually apply it. But that’s life and we’re here now lol!!
@canttouchdylan
@canttouchdylan 5 лет назад
I love this vlog style format! I love the AsapSCIENCE videos but this feels more candid and relatable in comparison!
@austinmoon6974
@austinmoon6974 5 лет назад
Same!
@ezeqkr
@ezeqkr 5 лет назад
Thk !!!!! I wanted to know why this happen a long time ago!! Goodyear!!
@austinmoon6974
@austinmoon6974 5 лет назад
Same!
@Doowatdooby
@Doowatdooby 5 лет назад
I thought saying it to others makes you more likely to do it as it's not just you that knows that you want to achieve x and as a result you feel a little more pressured into following through
@aquamarinedream8304
@aquamarinedream8304 5 лет назад
That's how it is for me You just have to monitor your own behavior and see how you personally work
@creepyteemo3587
@creepyteemo3587 5 лет назад
@@aquamarinedream8304 I think is really bad if that works for you. Imo is pretty bad if you get to a point where you care so much about what others think about you that you get to continue something ( even if it s good or bad).
@creepyteemo3587
@creepyteemo3587 5 лет назад
@@aquamarinedream8304 Ok, sorry but I didn t think about the fact that you are getting motivated by the ones that are close to you and not by every "friend" (not a real friend)
@aquamarinedream8304
@aquamarinedream8304 5 лет назад
@@creepyteemo3587 No problem
@FruityHachi
@FruityHachi 5 лет назад
i've noticed that too, telling people my goals makes me lazy to accomplish my goals
@qu0b3n66
@qu0b3n66 5 лет назад
I couldn’t stop looking at the circle reflecting off your eyes
@sandybrooks8390
@sandybrooks8390 5 лет назад
Love that you put a clip from BBCAN in here.
@JenniieeFurrRobles
@JenniieeFurrRobles 5 лет назад
I noticed it this year!!! I’m keeping it to myself. It’ll be my own self-improvement secret.... mwuahahahahaha
@Vikash137
@Vikash137 5 лет назад
Stop saying it out loud, write it here and check back at the end of the year to see how much you missed it by
@nebula3576
@nebula3576 5 лет назад
@semoholmes2964
@semoholmes2964 5 лет назад
perfect timing in a scary way ♥ I love you and good luck♥
@101nka
@101nka 5 лет назад
Its the beginning of the year its not coincidence
@semoholmes2964
@semoholmes2964 5 лет назад
@@101nka 😂😂😂😂😂 no I mean that I was talking about that in that same moment with my friend 😅
@101nka
@101nka 5 лет назад
@@semoholmes2964 ooh i see my bad😅
@Gt-cx3sp
@Gt-cx3sp 5 лет назад
You should’ve made this before New Years. I hit a blunt 3 hours into my resolution. Will try again next year
@magpie913
@magpie913 5 лет назад
Ahaha! Uploading a video once a year is not bad! XD I'm going to subscribe to that
@karolis1397
@karolis1397 5 лет назад
This video needs more science Should we make an experiment? LOVE THAT!Melting lipsticks
@diversityproductionz
@diversityproductionz 5 лет назад
thanks for the info
@andrewkonhouser2052
@andrewkonhouser2052 5 лет назад
That photo shop worked to perfection
@FluffyJellyfish
@FluffyJellyfish 3 года назад
✨ shifts uncomfortably knowing I've just posted a video about my goals for this year ✨
@robynlobana
@robynlobana 4 года назад
Thank you
@ishanm1021
@ishanm1021 5 лет назад
I realized it long ago but I can't stop saying others because it's too rewarding 😣
@teresar.7086
@teresar.7086 5 лет назад
I don't make new year's resolution anymore, one day I heard superwoman saying something that changed my opinion drastically 😱 and I totally agreed with her.
@micetails
@micetails 5 лет назад
A bit late- my family, friends and that guy from kfc now knows that I want to stop eating trash. 😬😬 Always next year?
@ChellyTheGreat
@ChellyTheGreat 5 лет назад
Gia Lol “the guy from kfc,” 🤣🤣 but anyways, start again Tomorrow, we can’t wait for next year hunni lol.
@sophiewilliamson2326
@sophiewilliamson2326 5 лет назад
If you fail, you can just try again. You don't need to wait until next year.
@tristynthegreat
@tristynthegreat 5 лет назад
That’s one guy from kfc... yeah that’s guy
@leodahvee
@leodahvee 5 лет назад
I've got a few more tips... One is to turn your goals into actionable plans, turning it from "I will read more books this year" to, "I will read 10 pages of a book per day", from "I will lose weight this year" to "I will go to the gym 1 hour every morning". Another tip is to seek accountability, basically just tell one of your friends/family members about your goal/s and pay a price to them whenever you fail to achieve your goal. If you plan to read 10 pages of a book per day, then you should pay $5 to your friend whenever you fail to read 10 pages. Make sure to practice self-discipline and never rely solely on your motivation. Have a great year, remember, you can create new goals and act on them any time of the year, just do it!
@Yeeeeeehaw
@Yeeeeeehaw 5 лет назад
Thanks bruh :)
@fallingjupiter
@fallingjupiter 5 лет назад
I think this is somewhat true but also the real problem behind resolutions is that people don't set realistic goals or thoughtfully outline the steps towards reaching those goals. They set themselves up for failure pretty much.
@jeanclaudethedarklord6205
@jeanclaudethedarklord6205 Год назад
Agree 100%
@moalhusseini6061
@moalhusseini6061 3 года назад
Lol is anyone in love with Mitch he is totally the cutest person ever
@phana3922
@phana3922 5 лет назад
I love all of your chanel ❤
@mid9moth
@mid9moth 2 года назад
1:05 "As soon as Ricky says good job-" Sis literally went ______👑_____ ✨︶👄︶💅🏻 While saying that PERIOD
@DonViolaDelPensiero
@DonViolaDelPensiero Год назад
I've actually read a report about the exact opposite (just not about resolutions but goals in general): If you tell people about your goal, it becomes more real and the more people who know about your intentions, the more you are inclined to follow through. 🤷
@ulemj
@ulemj 5 лет назад
Accurate 100%
@mjstory1976
@mjstory1976 5 лет назад
Happy New Year everybody
@grim855
@grim855 5 лет назад
this is pretty accurate cuz my last resolution was to drink only water and that lasted for about 8 months 👍🏽 and I never told anyone
@ketameanii
@ketameanii 5 лет назад
Chris that’s a nice time tho
@imperfectisperfect9630
@imperfectisperfect9630 5 лет назад
Ok literally for the last few months I've been trying to get in better shape, so I started doing just basic, small workouts at home, and then one of my friends brought up that she wanted to start working out together, so I told her that I had been for the last few weeks. I stopped almost right after that, and I'm only just getting back into it.
@evelinepieternella8088
@evelinepieternella8088 5 лет назад
I actually noticed this too and it's super interesting! This is why I'm not doing it anymore 😅
@melissamegathlin10
@melissamegathlin10 5 лет назад
People can keep you up to the goal goals and force you to and check up with on your goal
@nejcvranic3421
@nejcvranic3421 5 лет назад
Except if you are using it (telling your resolutions to one or two people) as a way to ensure that you stick to those resolutions (because you wouldnt want to let your friends down, or embarrass yourself) It all depends on the intent.
@BrianParker500
@BrianParker500 5 лет назад
That's very interested.
@tanbirh1514
@tanbirh1514 5 лет назад
Thanks.
@gumunduringigumundsson9344
@gumunduringigumundsson9344 5 лет назад
I have felt something get less indeed after i said some stuff but if you never say it you never practice it either.. so its a balancing matter i think.
@WaytoDeen561
@WaytoDeen561 5 лет назад
Thnks dude
@safakgunaydn2629
@safakgunaydn2629 5 лет назад
I lived that through a lot.
@daneilo777
@daneilo777 5 лет назад
I noticed a little while ago that I sometimes do this, and its the same type of thing, but I try not to tell somebody I am going to do something until I actually do it
@veronikavarakova3927
@veronikavarakova3927 5 лет назад
I hate telling people my goals thanks for enabling
@Mgkayoutube
@Mgkayoutube 5 лет назад
I cant believe mitch is part indian ....i wish he came to india once
@luiza3394
@luiza3394 5 лет назад
badland brawl master he already did
@Mgkayoutube
@Mgkayoutube 5 лет назад
@@luiza3394 when
@nebula3576
@nebula3576 5 лет назад
@@Mgkayoutube now
@bigboy6191
@bigboy6191 5 лет назад
@@nebula3576 ?
@jeetusingh3030
@jeetusingh3030 5 лет назад
I will become Hokage!
@deoxysgeneration2126
@deoxysgeneration2126 5 лет назад
Naruto is dead.
@matttipton5403
@matttipton5403 5 лет назад
If you have good friends, they will make you stick to your resolution. You should tell them and ask them to hold you to that promise.
@supernovatronfilms8200
@supernovatronfilms8200 5 лет назад
It is sceintificly proven that telling people you will do something will higher your chance of doing it.
@livmarks
@livmarks 5 лет назад
me fowlling my new years resolution never happened
@MrBugatii12
@MrBugatii12 5 лет назад
Dont tell me what to do. I speak things into existence.
@zzsayeed9526
@zzsayeed9526 5 лет назад
Can you do a video on vaping vs juuling? Some kids at my school do that and I don't understand the difference. Also are they the same thing?
@namankumar9478
@namankumar9478 3 года назад
True, psychology confirms it.
@stefanadamek367
@stefanadamek367 5 лет назад
❤️
@heavenkleinschmidt6340
@heavenkleinschmidt6340 5 лет назад
this year I'm quitting soda again! it feels really good. Just fresh water.
@mwitchb
@mwitchb 5 лет назад
Last time when I told them out loud people said they were stupid so I felt like it didn’t matter so...
@oreocarter7482
@oreocarter7482 5 лет назад
💗💗💗
@brianific
@brianific 5 лет назад
Strange, I always feel like I have to follow through if I tell people. Then again my social circle tends to be pretty doubtful so its less of a reward and more of a well now I have to prove you wrong haha. One year I said I wanted to lose 30 pounds and then did it to spite my mom was who was like "sure you will"
@violetsplaycenter3610
@violetsplaycenter3610 3 года назад
Mitch you are such a beautiful man. I definitely have heart eyes on you😍
@joeg6401
@joeg6401 5 лет назад
I already knew this. But good video anyway👌
@TheSpyGuy384
@TheSpyGuy384 5 лет назад
If I’m not sharing my resolution, I might as well say I got a shiny Ho-Oh on New Years Day at 1286 encounters. I named it Phoenix.