See i feel the opposite. I've always been a pretty open book with people. If you know me, then you know me , not someone I'm pretending to be. This makes me feel like I hold back in every conversation , which I don't think is good either. What can you do
Let me point out…this entire message is about ‘stop telling people about what’s going on in your life’, and then, at the end, he contradicts himself, and says “Let’s share our stories, struggles, and lift each other up”. I do agree with focusing on your blessings, abundance, and trying hard to reprogram your negative thoughts. But, let me tell you,there is sooooo much power and healing in raw connection, leaning on one another, and being authentic in our interactions. We are human and have natural disastrous circumstances, loss, and pain, and we should not be masking the storm inside as it leads to great internal isolation and sorrows. We need ‘authentic’ bonds/relationships/friendships, and they should be built on truth not downplaying and hiding; that’s lying with omission. Staying silent when you’re hurting inside, will lead to great misery. It’s only in ‘TRUTH’ that you will be set free. This means showing up as you are…always come as you are.
I noticed that too and was like, “Wait a minute!” However, I interpret it as not focusing on the negative stories and the problems by telling and re-telling those same stories to everyone we meet and every encounter we have because all that does is reinforce it and we start identifying with those problems and negative stories. Whatever we focus on grows after all.
Totally agree with you. All those who suggest to keep things to yourself don't have this big picture in mind, especially with respect to authenticity and connection.
True. I kept quite for 20 plus years married to a serial covert narcissist. Didn't share. Didn't get therapy, support. Affected my physical health. Lost my life
For example I don't share my stories or vulnerabilities in order to get support or validation of any kind. Mostly I do it so others feel safe to open up about their problems. Because as many of you already pointed out, we need real authentic connections in order not to feel alone. A person with a deep issue thinks they're alone feeling as they do and yet the truth is, we all feel pretty much the same about most areas of our lives or at least we can find a lot of people who do. But I get what Dr. Dispenza is trying to say and inspire us to do - not to FOCUS entirely on your own problem too long, not to obsess with useless old thoughts, even if they seem problematic. So much of what we think about is in the past or is outside of our control and we just love to obsess about the drama. I know I used to and I still need to control myself. And when I catch myself looking for unnecessary drama, I force myself to think about useful ideas how to promote my book or create a new Etsy product. It's about balance I guess. There is a time when we have to tell about our feelings, to just let them out, perhaps get a bit support or even help - in order to be able to move on. Sometimes we tell our current stories in order to connect on an authentic level and not just stay on the surface of 'ladida everything is dandy all the time and my life is perfect' when we all know it never is. And sometimes we've been staying on our current problem way too long simply because we're afraid to move on or reach out for our dreams and then, YES, the thing to do is what Joe Dispenza keeps saying - have productive thoughts and try to feel the life you actually want - and TAKE ACTION. I believe the TAKE ACTION bit doesn't get pointed out enough. It's one thing to visualise, but then you've also got to move your butt ;)
Shift your focus and change your perspective to create transformation in your life. Focus on your dreams, don't dwell on your problems... is basically what he said.
I am looking at something greater! There is a lot of change taking place in my life, at the moment. And I am learning to flow with those changes. I step into the life that I desire......move to a new home in a wonderful location, do my paasion, purchase a brand new car and eat the best food, take regular exercise and be happy!
Found out so.long ago,that NO ONE CARES. NO ONE. THEY JUST WANT WHAT THEY WANT. FROM YOU. I ONLY TAKE MY CARES TO MY LORD. HE CARES. HE HEARS. HIS EARS ARE OPEN. ❤
I always have to tell people about my fibromyalgia and all the pain I have or they expect me to be able to keep up with them especially at work when they demand you to do certain things also when I was in a crisis if I hadn't told people I was in financial need I wouldn't have gotten all the help I did
It was just there, appearing on algorithms before me and entirely for me. It was a total slap in the face moment video. And many thanks for delivering such wise words for mindful mindset. Moments of enlightenment ❤
What makes this motivational video unique compared to all the other similar videos on RU-vid is that it keeps you engaged without dramatic music playing in the background
What’s holding me back from seeing a greater future for my self, and actually from being able to see myself in any meaningful future is my fear of failure. I have had a few successes over the years, but way more failures. It becomes hopeless to continue planning when I can’t see a success behind it. I already have become a pretty isolated human being and this ‘not telling what’s going on in my life’ is helpful in that I have weekly phone calls with my sister in which I will practice. Thanks Joe.
Guys look where we are going to end up , we are questioning about the mostly fuckk guy on earth is true or not on RU-vid. Can we imagine it in 10 dimensions down in people manipulate in full ignorance like 1000 years ago ? It’s is happening
Yep when that starts up, I kindly excuse myself and walk away.... best to not have a sit down in the first place. It may also involve you eliminating those that drag you in, talk down to you or just simply try as they might gas light you to see how long it takes to get your goat...get rid of that/they/them....even if it an employer...don't make the mistake of even mentioning your thoughts, cares or visions....it is your future your are developing ...but, "only" by yourself...in the mean time shhhhh....rock on ..
I totally need to work on this as far as what’s going on in my personal life! Otherwise, I use humor to share personal experiences with coworkers. Mostly because I can’t shut up, but it’s served me well as an EA/ Office Manager. I want my coworkers to know that whatever they’re feeling isn’t odd or bad or weird. I purposely throw all of my stuff out through humor. It heals me and it gives others a sense of community and self-acceptance ❤
Successful people work quietly in the background. Remember the kid at school that wouldn't play with the rest, kept getting consistently good results and ended up achieving something great after school life. The examples are all around us.
❤thank you dude. It's a great day to be alive and kicking. I use my JBL for music and instructional videos such as this one to better my life. This is a lifesaver 🆘️ for which I am truly grateful.
Hi... this is such an insightful one... I'm just struck with my life situations across many dimensions to the extent that I am completely unaware of what I really want from my life.. pls throw some light on how can I find my way out... I really lost myself and mojo for my existence .. pls provide some thoughts on how I can find my dream...
I’m not sure how to handle a situation where I’m meeting someone for a possible romantic relationship and they’re asking me a lot of questions about my life. I have been through the wringer. What’s a short nice way to say I don’t want to tell you about my past?
What do you do when you just got going through grieving for your father and the last two years and it’s been three months grieving for my sister who I lost? I didn’t lose she left earthly body. I understand that they say I’m trying to rush my grief, too fast, but I’m tired of being sad.
I definitely agree 100% people like to let all the world know , whatever they have , how much , what things they doing or going to do , whatever life move , world must know🤣🤣🤣
It can still be helpful, but it is incorrect to represent the content as something he said, when he did not say this. It could say, “insured by Dr. Joe”, but would someone is making money posing as Dr. Joe.
@@malkahkb2the description does have a disclaimer explaining what it is. I don’t think it claims to be authentic, but just a reflection of the philosophy of Dr. Dispenza. It is maybe misleading… but I’m glad to have come across it.
Well when your in constant physical pain that takes over life all your wisdom seems to be for just physically fit people you make great great sense in your talks sometimes but guess it’s only for people that are in good physical Shape with no chronic pain or injury or sickness also heard you tell a story about a woman who’s husband committed suicide only four months prior and you said she should not be dwelling on her pain and like to move on. That is twisted.
As always, Joe Dispenza is all about self-optimization. In doing so, he initially devalues a widespread behavior: you would give your problems power if you talked about them, you would even let your problems dictate your life. - in order to make his own recommendation look like the only right one in the end. This black and white pattern is an age-old sales and manipulation ploy and has nothing to do with science or feasibility. It is merely marketing. The sad thing about it is that it captures souls and confuses them.
I agree with this at the personal level. I do not agree with this at the group or community level. I think it violates the rights of others for your group or your community to think you know what’s best for the world. Just focus on yourself. If you do, the world will probably take care of itself.
Video Description below title says that altho it's meant to honour the motivational speaker (ie Joe Dispenza in this case), it is NOT associated with JD, nor is it JD's views?? It's the video creatir's views. And it says it doesn't affect the original?! Weird word salad. So it's appropriating Joe Dispenza's speech?? Listen carefully. This content can be misconstrued as is evident in many comments. Don't go into shut down, avoidance of authentic sharing, where possibilities live. No human made anything great completely on their own in a vacuum / bubble. Balance.
Unfortunately we live in a bit of a cluster fuk of a world and you need a resume, credit check and all the above to rent a room in most cities now. So yeah ya gotta do what ya got do to stay in.
This is an AI voice reading a script. Nothing wrong with the script but I'm pretty sure it's a case for copyright infringement or etc. This isn't Joe. It would be great if they said "in the style of" Joe Dispenza, because not explaining this and copying his voice to leverage his popularity for their gain is super shady.
is there an AI voice thing to make these motivation speeches by him and Deloris canon in their voices to click bait viewers into thinking they are actually listening to them speaking...but it isnt...just a content creator using AI generated voices??
What a load of nonsense! John 14:6 is all you need for a wonderful eternal life....not all this crap about attaining a higher self under your own strength etc.
I think I found Kamala Harris speech writer. The circular repeating statements that mean nothing concrete is the hallmark of her speaking style, and it is undeniably what this garbage is. 😂
This is what I did. and two years later, I finished school and I am having an exhibition in a gallery in a major city. I never said a word to anyone about my life or what I was doing. "Work hard in silence, let your success be your noise". We complain to other people for validation. what if you just prove to YOURSELF that you can succeed? You dont need anyone's validation but your own.
True, I find that most people really don’t care at all. They’re just nosy. Even some of your closest friends and family. So I just keep it brief, I might mention a challenge, but then quickly lift up to something more positive going on. I’m trying to practice stoicism.
Plenty of people have no one to truly hear them, not too many. You really need a couple of people to tell what’s going on in your life to, it made everything better for me.
Guys this is AI, it’s not the real Dr Joe’s voice or speech (there is a disclaimer in the description of the video). Although the message is not bad, as many people noticed in the comments it has a lot of inconsistencies and flaws and gets very repetitive. For those who may not be very familiar with Dr Joe Dispenza, I highly suggest you check out his actual RU-vid channel/ interviews/ books/ audiobooks (eg. You Are The Placebo), he’s a genius and his work is absolutely brilliant and life changing! 🙌🏻💫
*Thank you* ! I'm not familiar enough with him to know it's not authentic. It was starting to sound annoyingly blithe and trite and mushy, and by about 12:00 in, I was getting ready to put him back on my default "ignore all" setting, so-to-speak. ... I'll go find one of his real talks!!
*Thank you* ! I'm not familiar enough with him to know it's not authentic. It was starting to sound annoyingly blithe and trite and mushy, and by about 12:00 in, I was getting ready to put him back on my default "ignore all" setting, so-to-speak. ... I'll go find one of his real talks!!