You're not a fool, you have never been one but you're tolerance. You're in love. You gave your relationship a chance..Phepi this is a very strong wake up call to those who are in the same journey..As for the In-laws most of time they know and take their children's side..Heal woman..You're strong 💪 to be telling your strong without tearing..❤❤❤❤❤❤
My jaw dropped at the Magistrate’s advice of dinner and stuff😮 I think Christians sometimes like giving very unrealistic advices.. I know it’s “Faith” and he meant well but nah. Btw you’re my new favorite storyteller❤❤❤
@keoneeG true heey. And God gave us options incase we find ourselves in these situations because He knew that at some point we will want out. But we choose to please people in the name of Christianity 😢.
@@allthingsluxury6877 Listen.. I get the people pleasing part in Christianity..🤦🏻♀️ I was once in the same predicament and did I not go through hell😭 I just wanted to be an “obedient child of God” Lol. 🤡😂 I was young and very naïve shem.. but I grew through my experiences and now I don’t give a damn and 💯accountable for my life. And I’m glad 🙂 that so many women are standing up for themselves and are leaving toxic marriages..
20:56 your ex husband sounds so much like a narcissist.. 1 minute they’re nice to you 1 minute they’re very awful 😞 😭very toxic. They’ll really make you second guess yourself 🤞🏻
@@keoneeG 😭😭 yoh i saw it with my ex , once the mask falls off you will think you are with a stranger and it falls of immediately after they get what they want in this case he wanted to trap her with marriage so when she gets to see the true him it wont be easy for her to leave . My ex wanted to trap me with a baby but i made sure to take the pill without him knowing cause i knew he was unstable ….
@@ScissorN I’m sorry you went through that 🫂 I can only imagine the pain🥲 Love and Light to you Baebs.. You’ll surely meet someone who adores you and whose love is pure 🫶🏼
Yaba ntse ke khotsa feela😅😅😅 So sorry you had to go through all these. Good thing is you're on the other side and I can see you've healed. not completely but time will heal. Also, you're an excellent story teller. I enjoy listening to you🙂
Yooh my heart is breaking from the moment you read that text that was sent earlier 😢also is this your car kaha ena ka nako eo ona sa khanne!! Why would you allow that
She's all over the place. There need to be improvement in storytelling. I'm also confused at a lot of thought processes that started randomly in the middle and left hanging. She just started talking about "funeral." We are not told who's and what happened. She's likable and can be successful at this. There needs to be some deeper work here.
It sounds like you went from being a wife to being a side chick without you knowing cos he would rather leave late than sleepover at your place. He didn't respect you. I'm glad you left that marriage.😢😢
And what happened to the custody case? And why was her lawyer suspicious through the process? Yho! The struggle we find ourselves in for like other people's news. Maybe its the editing.....there's a lot that's not making sense
How old are you? I can’t tell you everything if I hint an idea you need to conclude for yourself, I did say that the custody case was withdrawn, listen before you comment.
@Ithabeleng_Kopo the only thing that separates those who succeed and those that remain failures in life is the ability to take feedback and grow from it.
As a lawyer, that was terrible use of judicial discretion,power and authority. He was supposed to adjudicate your matter based on the evidence before him not give matrimonial advice.
@@Ithabeleng_Kopoyes dear, Lesotho is a common law jurisdiction and that is the position even here in Kenya. But I’m glad your story has a beautiful ending of you leaving. Not many women get to leave terrible marriages. For that I applaud you
@@Ithabeleng_Kopo you’re most welcome dear😍😍. Proud of you and you sharing your story is taking your power back. Continue to heal, thrive and prosper in your new life post divorce
