I know how you feel about that as it happened to me and it was 2 months after we broke up and she was with a new man who ended up being her husband but she didn’t want to marry me as it was not in her future plans prayers and thoughts for you and your family love your Aussie family friend John 💙💙💙
yas sarah make ur monayy also i just was sitting in my car trying stressing out thinking what would i do if i met sarah baska and now i’m trying to think of a joke for you.
Hiii 😊I have been watching your channel for a while now but just found out you are gluten free & I wanted to shared these snacks I found at ALDIs, they are peanut butter & jelly bites from the Simply Nature brand! they are amazing 🤩
Very humbling, I’d get second hand embarrassment for how weird they are to me now, and also for past me for dating them before… like bitch is this really what you went for like wtf were you onnn😂
The fact that he’s going to be looking out for Sarah every time he goes to the gym. She’s gonna live in his brain rent free for a bit, as she should. 👏🏼
22:27 “My treadmill… still going. It’s probably STILL going. And that was days ago.” 🤣🤣🤣 Sarah you are so effortlessly funny. I know this was stressful for you but the way you are able to turn moments like this into laughable stories is such a talent. I do hope that you’re feeling okay now💕
I saw my r*pist at the gym and all I can say is most people just want a reaction and want to feel like they’re still important to you. If you go back and just focus on your body and DONT pay them any attention GENUINELY you’ll feel good. You’ll realize your life is YOURS. It’s hard. But it gets easier after time. You’ll be paranoid, some days more than others, but you get stronger and it gets easier.
I feel like if I were to run into my ex, the gym would be the best place. Whenever I see someone I don’t like at the gym, I run faster, longer; I lift heavier; I work out harder. If you ever see them there again, ignore them and let it motivate you!
I had this same scenario happen to me once babes. Literally use it as motivation. Nothing made me feel better than working out in front of my ex and his new girlfriend looking good af, and being confident while doing it 😂
as someone who lives in a reasonably small city, i’ve had the experience of running into an ex/ex-friendship way too many times. let me tell u, don’t live in fear of running into them bc u know u don’t need them in ur life anymore. hold ur head high and if anything let it motivate u more, go out looking good af and rock up to the gym pulling ur A-game. even if u feel like shit, turn that anxiety and uncomfortableness into motivation girl
Us small town girlies can totally relate to the mix of emotions you had when seeing them! My ex high school friend and I split up at the beginning of the semester (she was emotionally abusive) and we were in the same class of 10 people. I had to continue taking my history class with my teacher after accidentally insulting him (and he never let me live it down). Then my ex friend ended up going to the same college in the same hometown as me, and we bumped into each other (the trauma ugh). The resilience I've built from all that is astonishing though. I'm pretty sure I could go anywhere even if satan was standing next to me.
i love all your videos but i love when you’re vulnerable with us like this!! so many of us are also in our 20s trying to navigate love, relationships, and friendships. you being so open is like having a friend to talk to!!
Girl don’t let that fool ruin your workout, if you see them, pretend like they don’t exist and just do you and run on that treadmill like you own the place 👏😂 Their opinion means nothing
Sarah girl you have no idea how much I relate. Im genuinely starting to think Im insane for how much I run into my ex and no matter how many times Ive seen him, HE'S NEVER SEEN ME. He drives me most distinct car ever, you can't miss it and anytime he's home from school I see him every time I leave the house without fail. Fun story, he changed his name when he moved to college (lets say he went from Jacob to Edward) and the first guy I went on a date with after him was in a band with his two best friends... Jacob and Edward. I started seeing him repeatedly every time ide eat at a specific restaurant so the next time I went to eat there with my friends, I decided to take the food to this park nearby to eat in hopes ide decrease my chances of seeing him and guess what.... he was at the park with his friends (including the girl he left me for) eating the same food. I drove right in front of him and he still didn't see me. I see his name everywhere and I went to this concert last month where the singer told us to turn around and make a friend... boom the person I meet is coincidentally an Edward. I meet the singer after the show and tell her how much I relate to her music and talk a little about how I've been healing from my ex, then I find out he sees the same girl on tour the day after me and met her also. Anyway, hope this makes you somewhat better about your situation, its really difficult when you feel like you have to change where you go and what you do because of seeing an ex partner and I understand your anxiety. love you, thanks for helping me feel less crazy.
This is the year of running into your exes. I had a very similar situation a few days ago and sheeeeesh... The way your stomach drops and fight, flight or freeze kicks in. You run, I freeze (if I don’t move a muscle they won’t see me). Anyways happy new year Sarah, you got this girly! ❤
this story made me LOL. The way you tell stories is the best. The fact that your treadmill was left on HAHAHA. I love that you let us laugh with you at your situations.
I'm pretty sure you can order a McMuffin without the bread to save you the trouble/temptation. They'll usually give it to you in those little paper trays they serve pancakes in 😅
Fight or flight is real lmao! I went to a music festival once with my best friend at the time, and saw a guy I absolutely did not want to see. (A little backstory is that he was a huge fuckboy who broke my heart and was an overall POS.) As we were making our way through the crowd drunk, I said out loud "Oh my god is that Matthew?" as a complete joke but it actually ended up being HIM. He proceeded to turn around and recognize me, and instead of being mature I ran away into the crowd.🤣 I was so embarrassed.
There must be so much pressure to upload and stay “relevant” for that algorithm I couldn’t imagine.. so ill never say Hey upload , please upload etc .. although yes i check if you posted because genuinely miss you - etc ! But above all.. I hope you’re okay and pouring into yourself. Fill your own cup first because you can’t give if its empty ! True fans can wait. I hope you are healthy and well. Stay Amazing Sarah❤
Your videos are helping me get thru a friendship break up. She willingly tried to have a relationship with my 17 year old cousin and she’s 22. I trusted her so much and let her get to know my family but then she straight up started being weird. It was so uncomfortable and unexpected. I can def relate to that feeling
hahahahhahahahah her rant on The body light weight vs body language LITERALLY ME CAUSE WHY I WANNA KNOW WHAT THEY WAS OR WASN’T THINKING. She’s my spirit bestie
ALSO, I met Bryan Cranston and Aaron Paul about a week ago. They’re beautiful people and Bryan is everything you dream of (I too am in love with him and had the same rabbit hole affect happen to me once I watched breaking bad). I have Bryan’s book and endless merch of him and BB and I’m SO GLAD I found someone to relate too lmaooo. Favorite RU-vidr for a reason. ❤️ Hope you get the chance of meeting him one day bestie. Love you ❤
Oh wow that is crazy the way it all happened 😱 same gym, same time and right next to you?? I hope you don’t let that discourage you! Keep showing up for yourself girly ❤️
omg I know EXACTLY how you feel when you said "I don't wanna see it", I work with my ex and his new gf is from another dept and I see her come every day and they talk and flirt I had to get over that shit quickly because it HURTS like a b!tch!!! and guess what, I did it so fast I'm amazed how good I feel now, I learned the trick is to love myself more, and now Idgaf when they're together I feel at PEACE.
Oh my god, running into an ex in public is so mortifying! And I totally feel you when you said it felt like a sitcom. Quite a different scenario for me but I also ran into my ex once. We both went to a small, private university (so like everyone knew each other) and we dated for a month. He was my very first boyfriend and it did not end well so that shit took like 6 months for me to get over. He also said he was not ready to date at the time but was flirting with new girls and dating someone new almost immediately. So it sucked. Fast forward 3 years… I went to a wedding of someone who also went to the same university. I don’t know why, but I did not think about the fact that he would probably be there. Not only was he at the wedding, but also 3 OF HIS OTHER EX GIRLFRIENDS WERE THERE TOO. LIKE EXCUSE ME????? I ended up in a conversation with one of the other girls by accident and it was just so awkward that we had to acknowledge it. So I was like “do we need to take a group picture or something??” I felt like I was in a rom com that I did not consent to being in. It was wild. I also had to scream about it just like this so you are not alone!!
Literally have had the same thing happened to me but left and never went back. Canceled my gym membership and now only workout at home. The thought of going through that again terrifies me. Don’t be like me. You got this 💪🏼
I had just picked up pizza for dinner and opened RU-vid to see you dropped this video. Night = made. I love your videos! Also leaving the treadmill running is so fucking funny 😂
You are NOT alone in this feeling. I avoided my ex so hard after our messy, MESSY on again off again breakup. Long story short, he came to my college and I had no idea he was there so I was studying one day in the hallway and I looked up and saw him walking right past me. Nothing even happened but I felt so awkward and uncomfortable I left campus and cried the whole way home. It's 100% just the realization hitting that this person is right in front of you in real time and you were completely unprepared. I kept wondering how I looked, how I acted, etc. basically freaking out wondering how he perceived me and the situation, or if he even noticed at all. I've seen him a few times since and I made it a point to make eye contact after a few times as a way of acknowledging his presence and not acting further. Kind of my way of saying "yeah, I see you but that's all I plan to do."
something like this happened to me yesterday I love that you shared this with us because now it doesn't affect me as much since i know this is a universal experience
i’ve been in a super similar situation. there was one day when i was at the gym where i saw the guy that SAed me, when i wasn’t completely healed. & i saw him and immediately started sobbing - luckily i was with someone at the gym so i wasn’t alone. but i felt paralyzed in that moment, and tried my best to continue the workout but was just SO fuckin anxious. & after that i would have panic attacks before going in cause i didn’t know if i’d see him or not. but as time went on, i didn’t see him as much and i was pretty much fully healed by that point. so when i did see him again, it didn’t scare or intimidate me anymore. i think it’s interesting that you said “you had a weird feeling” before going to the gym that day, cause that’s how i felt too. but keep goin to that gym girlie. or a different location & maybe it’d make you feel better if you went with someone, that helped me a bunch. ❤
I relate with you so much with having to warm up to environments. I've tried getting gym memberships, but the thought of walking in and feeling/looking lost really do be stopping me from being a fit asssss bish!
Oof giving me flashbacks to 10th grade w my first love. This man cheated on me with his ex and would throw it in my face everyday at school. Totally broke me so I feel ya girl. It isn’t easy seeing them move on
Omg girl I feel for you. I was in a very similar situation where my ex and I of almost 3 years had just broken up and I decided that I was going to start rollerblading to get my mind off it. I start rollerblading around this path in my neighborhood and it going great. 2 weeks in im rollerblading minding my own business and I pass by someone walking their pug (which is the dog my ex had) and I turn around to see the dog because I think dogs are cute or whateva and of course it’s my ex and his new fling ONLY 2 WEEKS AFTER WE BROKE UP…… I was so enraged I started to rollerblade fast asf and after that night I was a bit traumatized of that trail but I still kept going and luckily I never saw them again.
GIRL tell me why this just happened to me last fucking week 😭 split up with boyf of 5 years just to see him at the park with his new girl and their dogs 2 WEEKS LATER
SARAHHH I HOPE U READ THIS❤️ i had a similar situation i was hosting in a restaurant and dude started coming in all the time, i had to greet him and his friends at the door once and they didn’t even acknowledge they knew me. come to find out he’s been dating my coworker lmfao. it had been a goal of mine to learn how to serve which is why my mom also told me not to quit so im glad you are sticking with the gym too and deciding to go earlier. im proud of us
keep going to the gym, don’t switch!!! I have the same problem, my ex goes to the same gym as me and I see him sometimes. Just cause he’s there doesn’t mean you should leave. Just ignore that he’s there, focus on you and your workout. Act like he isn’t even there, if you just focus on yourself it makes you look mature and very attractive! LOVE YOU SARAH!!❤️❤️
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash
after a breakup with my ex i went to eat at a restaurant with a guy friend and my ex was there… i literally sat there with no appetite even though i usually LOVE the food, shaking and about to cry LMAO but i ended up going back a few months later and ate in peace❤
Thank you Sarah for giving us all the content lately we have been loving it! I’ve been watching you since vine and I feel like we grew up together. Thank you for still giving us tons of videos and always be you we love you!!! 💕
SARAH WHERE ARE YOU IVE BEEN HAVING BASKA WITHDRAWALS FOR MONTHS!!! I MISS LIFE IS STRANGE WHERE I KNEW I HAD SOMETHING TO LOOK FORWARD TO AND WOULD BE SEEING U REGULARLY. am sad /:
@@himenyx153 I know she’s ok, but I just hope she doesn’t throw RU-vid away… it’s a career that gives you so much freedom. Maybe she’s got a new career path in mind? Ya never know!
OK, but Sarah, you forgetting to hit the stop button before jumping off is such a relatable anxiety moment. 😂❤️I relate! I love that you were able to tell the story in confidence it makes me feel less alone for all the moments when Ive been anxious.
Every time I run into my ex I go through a manic episode convincing myself I have to move across the country. Screaming Silver Springs by Fleetwood Mac helps a lot
