Strangers, again 

I know this pain

i want to change this

Ouch

Nevertheless, people change so much overtime that the person that was originally your closest friend and significant other is someone you can't even recognize or even believe you shared a segment of life together. 🙁🙁🙁

what in gods name would cause you to do something like that?

This person is no longer a person in my life.

It really is the saddest thing

i can relate

hit like a fucking brick

Shit.

This is the video that got me hooked onto wongfu

Thank you so much phil

I’m 16 almost 17 and I just went through my first break up literally yesterday. We were each others first love but I’m in my senior year of high school and she’s a freshman in college she said she doesn’t feel as happy anymore and that we are at different points in our lives. As much as I didn’t want to accept it she was right. I thought we should’ve broken up too but I didn’t have the strength to do so. My heart hurts so much right now the day after we broke up. I would also like to mention that we never met, we met on line and have been FaceTime for 6 months (waiting till we can meet) but Ig the universe didn’t have that in store for us. I will always love her and the moments we had

i love u phil

You’re a king who helps others process feelings even we don’t understand and thank you so much for being here :) i hope you stay happy and you stay safe my guy

meeeeeeeeeee

THEY'RE MAKING A SEQUEL . . . . . . ngl im just here cause I know I'm in the honeymoon stage and I'm scared of what will happen when it ends

YESSSSSS

Never saw it comin lol

😭😭

Here with you man, 18 years old, crazy how life used to be so simple, now its not, miss it.

19 as well here

yea watched this wayyyy back when i was stupid and single. now that i just went through a break up and its getting hard, i can relate to this video so much.

David Nguyen wow!

wow I was 13 yrs old when I first watched...I remember watching a teaser or something on facebook.. wow now I'm 20 (even more confused at life)

Same here. Never know it's gonna hurt that much.

this comment

yea. it really hits home.

I didn't fully get this video either when it first came out. Now, it is totally relatable and I appreciate it so much more.

Oof so true

your comment is in Wong Fu video

same girl? or ended up with someone else?

@@Psychetwo someone else ☺️

@@user-11528 oh my god I just watched the video!!

@@DVMotions congrats

Thank you for this amazing short film- both for introducing me to Wong Fu Productions and for giving a greater understanding of romantic relationships.

2023 and still on my favorites list!!!

When is rje sequal coming, I've gone back to this video over a thousand times and watched it in its entirety idek how many times. I need a sequel

I just found this channel yesterday after I had a breakup yesterday. And I wasn't even trying to find anything like that

me too

Did you bring headphones in there or something?

It must be fun to party with you.

Oof

It's pure truth. I think it's good to keep in mind.

Sammeeee

lol my mom and dad took the marry route but they still argue like this like every other day. It's nuts how they're in their late 40s/early fifties now and they still use the exact same arguments as angry teens.

@I Need You but that's how life is ! Just hope they're always together for their best and worst phases!

broked my heart

Hope you’re in a happier place

HAHAHA omg literally same it’s like oh funny seeing me here again

Oh no

same

Hang in there, I’m right there with ya. We’ll find love again some day, believe that everything happens for a reason no matter how hard it is💜

Make sure to watch After Us

@@sistersundays5717 yeah, I know this needed to happen. I wasn’t able to grow when I was with him. I look and feel like a completely different person now. Even though I know this needed to happen, it still hurts that we couldn’t grow together.

@@WafflesandCiderXDis that a movie?

@@itsjustmelissa omg I feel the same! I definitely feel like I outgrew him but even though I knew that, I was willing to do anything for him and wait for him to become the man he wanted to be. But then he gave up on us and it was over 😭 it’s really sad but yeah, we will get through it

True dat 👏👏

So true

A B S O L U T E L Y and unlike relationships, being "frienddumped" isn't talked about at large even though friendships form our rudimentary knowledge and expections about love. Friends are the folks who you rely on to help you during the aftermath of a messy breakup. What happens when those supports are missing? Or never there to begin with?

That's what I was exactly thinking at the moment and I just saw your comment.So weird.

U chasing your friend? Thats f up man

Sameeeee😭

+Jasmine Riva DeGuzman me too :(

:(( sigh

+Daniel Kam are you feeling better?.. I hope everything fine now.

+Daniel Kam are you feeling better?.. I hope everything fine now.

How old are u

nochu heyyyy Also hey kpopper

the friendzone

Army yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

Ayeeeeeeeeee

gang gang

Lil Nut I just went through the Downhill stage 3 days ago.. and on the same day. . The breakup.. It sucks, but that's life.

That shit hurts when you start to feel her lose interest which makes you lose interest and it turns into just a slow death for your relationship

truer words have never been spoken. my ex always reassured me that I could confront anything that was bothering me to him, but when I did, it went south, every time. I was only trying to fix things, y'know? it eventually lead to our breakup, and he was already moved on within 3 days. knowing you were that easy to move on from just, idk, it sucks. it sucks a whole fucking lot.

For me, it's me trying to make changes and the other person resisted the change. So I had to pull the trigger.

This this this

Any advice

Welcome to adult world 😌👍🏻

Quonlei me 😂😂😂

ME sometimes. The only thing to do is to call out what exactly is happening "look I am having a bad day as well! Let's breathe and take some space. " and then you're both gonna have to go off and have to find a way to release that pent up emotion probably :'(

I was surprised to come back to this video after a long time, get hit in the heart by the last exchange in this video, and then scroll down to find someone in the exact position as me. About 6 months since he dumped me as well. I agree with you on the memories part. I hope you've been healing.

@@Chirlgurl I'm gonna slip into your DMs so we can cry together or something 😂 I have been healing, but I still love him so much... Idk, but what I do know is that I'll get over this-- I always do. I hope you're doing better than you were when it first happened, and I'm always here for you if you need someone to talk to ❤

@@Chirlgurl hangouts/Instagram?

What u said is so true.

Being on the other side is also not easy. Breaking up with someone, even if the relationship was toxic, will always leave you with the though "Did i do the right thing?". You forget everything bad and your mind only focus on the good memories and this hurts. But eventually you'll heal. Some days are better than the others, but with time everything will be fine. Even if the person is with someone else, nothing can change the moments you had together.

It sucks how a guy is friends with this girl and then in the end he's strangers with her when he likes her

i want to thank you guys. i watch this from time to time. it really helps me. thanks Wong Fu.

Happy Easter Day to you(Wong Fu Production) and your family...if..you know, you celebrate this day. Thank you for your hilarious, inspiring and heart-wrecking videos. I hope I have enough money to go and watch your movie! Congratulations! You guys(Chris and Christine included) and the rest of members of Wong Fu Productions, greatly deserves it!

Wong Fu you're right... I have a new understanding of this video after this year when I went through my first relationship. Back then I didn't quite understand why this was so popular, but now I see it. It's so realistic...and it's comforting to know that many people feel the same way. It feels good to not be alone sometimes.

Thank you for re-sharing this video on Facebook. I remember watching this a few years ago. After the past year, I have a completely new outlook on this video. It's so real, so honest, and so accurate. I'm glad I saw it again, it reminds me to appreciate the positives.

Congratulations on surviving the truculence

Thank you so much for sharing man. Hope its all working out i feel some hope too now.

Plus one with the love is a terrible thing to lose.

I'm going through the same thing right now hope one day I will forget about the pain and move on

Only if God would give me a chance to right my wrongs towards fiance . I had the perfect guy who even asked me to be his wife.. I said yes. 5 months later. I dunno the monsters we became.

Hi my gongzhu

You’re a great dude. Hope you’re doing well 11 months later, may you have a great day and many more.

Me... But then again I never try

+Lino Fragoso it'll fall in place in the future b

same here....

+Hi Katie soon you will find someone, keep your head up (:

+Ally Chen everyone does like you, it just depends on who you're around :D

abstractdiscovery 😂😂😂😂

Sad Dude Hours😂😂😂😂

😂😂😂😂😂

😂😂😂😂

the best comment I've seen in a long time

Just went through this last month.

@@buddha48264 it is hard now for you just like it was hard for me back then. But you will feel differently after a year or two, i wish the the best of luck to you man

@@kwmoong, I know. It's not my first time, and it never gets easier and it always hurts the same. Just a matter of time and distance. But thanks for the kind words.

:(

It's the perfect quote to remember when reflecting on the past

When “our” paths aligned.

I wonder the background music here, someone please help me out!

@@Nano-vc5vf it’s Cambridge by Kina Grannis

Agree

dyrdek9632 i feel u . because im going through the same.

TheNoobzaizai thanks man

dyrdek9632 that shit deep bro

他妈的，说的好像你女朋友多漂亮，傻逼

things definitely will, Melanie.

Have you met @RichardChhun?

pwangs

Same thing happened to me. After 2 years and a half of being in a relationship everything became so routine till we both decided that its for the better but I still couldn't imagine him with someone else. It's breaking my heart that someone has his heart now and he's happy with her. Sometimes, I wonder, maybe if I rewatched this when we were in stage 6 maybe i could've saved everything but I guess that's the way it should be. I cannot stop crying while watching this too. It.hurts.so.much.

Tac Espinoza Its ok gurl. I got your back..same boat as well. 2 days ago and after going on for 2 years he decided to call it quits. There's a whole world out there that will support you and your move. As time moves on, we will look back and say, "wow, I was so lucky to experience the love." Forgive yourself, be someone that makes you happy. :)

L

@@averyinterestingpineapple6038 Why toxic?

should go see a doctor if that's the case man.

800 likes, congrats

Stage error 404 when you're online dating someone, lmao.

😭

you will. it's just a matter of fighting for them.

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Aprikosen Klang I think the answer to your question is better answered with a question. Are you BOTH trying to improve the situation? Are you both trying to better yourselves for each other and sitting down to talk openly about why you keep hurting each other and how to prevent that? If the answer is no to any or all of these then i suggest you do that. The point to give up and walk away would be the point in which the other person has given up already and there is no improvement been done on their end even though you have talked about it and you are trying to improve the situation and yourself for them. It is when the other person has stopped trying even when you still are that you need to take a step back and say. Have i talked about this with them? are they working to improve this? have they proved they care enough to keep fighting for this? If the answer is no. Then maybe it is time to let go. But in all honesty even if you hurt each other constantly, If you are both working toward making that better and trying to fix it so it doesnt happen and bettering yourselves so it doesnt keep happening then there is no logical reason to give up just because your going through a rough patch where your both hurting each other. My boyfriend and i have been there numerous times and when we realize this is getting unbearable and something needs to change we sit down and talk very openly about what keeps happening and what hurts each other and then come up with compremises and decide to change things together so that it doesnt keep happening. If anyone has ever told you that your love should just accept you for who you are because you are good enough, lied. YOU should constantly be bettering yourself and learning and growing with your significant other. CONSTANTLY. I mean the whole reason we go from been really good together to been in hell is because we naturally change and we change because we learn new things everyday, and in order for us to both adapt to that change within us and each other we need to be honest and open about that. Things that might not have hurt us a month ago now hurts us. Things that didnt get on our nerves now get on our nerves. Things that seemed harmless last time dont seem so harmless now. See? So if you find your hurting each other constantly and your relationship just seems to be spiraling downward. Try sitting down with them, been kind, and open, letting them see you vulnerable, and tell them what hurts you and why, talk with them not out of anger or pain but out of love and patients. Ask if there is anything you can change so that you dont hurt them as much or to make them feel more loved or important to you. Ect. Don't make it just about you but each other as a couple. Express your love or care for them and tell them you dont want to hurt them and that you need them to help you learn to better care for them so that doesn't happen. Expressing change with love and kindness can help the both of you tremendously. In my own opinion though, the only point when you give up is when the other person stops trying for you. when they stop caring, when the relationship and you. are no longer important to them. And then it is not you giving up but rather getting rid of a toxic relationship in which you have tried to bring about change and asked them to help and they did not. hope that helps! If you would like to message me privetly and talk about this further, or have any other questions. i am available to listen whenever.

I think I would like to do that. But I'm not sure how to write you a privat message here on RU-vid to be honest ^^" And thanks for the long answer already!

Infernoofdoom555 isn't it couldn't have said it better not Couldn't of said it better

how long was the break/re-evaluation?

A U R O R A a question needs answers

@@Masonubia seriously lol

Yezmam'am the feelz and wayy better

What isn't a better love story than twilight? lol

lol

The birds and the bees is a better love story than twilight.

+Uncrowned you forgot kevjumba, bring him back too

there are also some good gamer in that time and they have stopped making vids now like STAR_

well he didn't stop but he definitely isn't uploading as much as he did.

+The Firetruck true, back then i enjoyed gameplay videos, the people told stories, talked with everyone and we all had a good time, now its just screaming, talking about drama and fast cuts.

+Uncrowned Let the asians take it back :cc

i feel you.. same thing happening to me

I know you posted this last month but the next time you see your girlfriend tell her "I love you"

+Saif Nasser Agha I wish I could. I mean, I want to tell her that. She's my ex now. She did something stupid, so I guess that's where I'm leaving things off with her. As exes.

+Adrien Salvador Holy fuck this is a sad thread.

...... this is a sad thread....

this will never not be relevant

7! Let's keep the show on the road

Nevirrelevant 😁

10 years…

You got that right

+Christina Yao You are a strong damn woman

I have a little special present for you and all past and future broken hearted life wonderers. RU-vid search "jordhon crushed." You're welcome.

Wow your picture fits your comment... this is making me sad :(

Denny & Michelle same😭😭

First home

Same, I watched it about 5 ago and it’s still great

I watched this my first year of college with my high school sweetheart. I can't believe it's been 7 years since that moment...

Funny girl

Yeap that's right! I really love it! It was great to meet you and Wes at the bowling session that day :D

It is really an amazing video. Sure, it wasn't like that in every situation, but this is just a cool story. NICE!

i like u

sory man but fuck u u maked me feel so fucking sad

I remember watching this video 4 years ago. Shortly after this same exact thing happened with my ex and I. I just remember watching this telling myself, "why? Why couldn't I have changed that comfortable stage into a positive instead of dreading the inevitable". I have never been so moved by a short like this did. I mean it has so many real and deep lessons we can all learn about human connection. Needless to say I first saw this and cried for what seemed like was going to be an eternity. I remember even showing this to my ex and telling her that I'm sorry I didn't do better at certain points in our relationship. This video depicts such a common plague of young healthy relationships, complacency. It is an amazing cautionary tale. The frozen yogurt and piggy back rides dwindling down to dessert for one, the 4am late night talks end with 10pm good nights without an "I love you", not picking your phone up right away putting everything else before her. The writing and concept is absolutely brilliant. I want to thank you guys for making this and for this lesson being etched into my brain. I'm a fan of all your work and this will always have a special place in my heart. I watched it again today , 4 years after the lowest point of my life, and I was surprised to feel that same emotion. It wasn't sadness about my ex but it was acceptance. This video helped me accept the things happening to me that I couldn't control or rather no longer fix to make better. Today I'm so happy to be with there person I love dearly and I can honestly say that I wouldn't mentally be here at this point without such an amazing video to teach me this perspective of love. I know I'm one of 15 million views but if it means anything at all to you guys, I just want to convey how grateful I am to you for connecting such a positive message through this brilliant artwork of the human condition to some 18 year old kid who didn't know any better. Thank you wongfu

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+Mayur Ahire I havent been in a relationship either but this still gets me too. I think its cause people like us just understand the feelings of others

+Mason Jones true maybe we feel what they feel after a break up love is so complex it's even harder if you are married if you are truly in love it's best to love one each other, let's say you are married right and you had a baby but the relationship is well not doing fine the reason they stay together is because they try to keep there love for the baby and to be honest it's hard I haven't been there yet but I am not sure if I want to. Sometimes you just have to accept what life gives you either it's good or bad they is always a way to get back together even thou you broken up love is complex sometimes it's a journey of mystery for others but the journey has began when you meant that person it's hard but you will figure it out when you single not all love begun with a happy ending some are darker then this but sometimes you have to give up for the both of you ❤️💔

Ikr

same here

There are many ways of experience. Sometimes, watching something happen has a greater impact than actually living through it. A simple example of that is watching a friend fighting with his/her girlfriend/boyfriend. You will remember it, perhaps out of worry for the friend. They will probably forget all about it the same evening.

Angel Of Astora fuck off and don’t ruin people’s hope just because you’re lonely

@@cautiouscoconut2327 His comment isn't even negative. Just think about it: Say, you find the love of your life with 23. Before that, you already had a relationship of half a year and one relationship of 2 years. It would still count as 2 failed relationships in contrast to one relationship that lasted over 60 years.

Chris ,The first time we met 1st , October I missed you so much until now...

@@user-qd7pc7th7z 😂😂

My ex's name is Chris, we just broke up 😭

Yes!!

I'm a girl and we went through the same thing. This short hits me hard too. I'm pretty much the girl in this video.

that would be amazing

After us

Stop yulinstop torturing dogs and boiling them alive and killing them

VK same feeling lmao 😂

Lil

Maybe that's me and btw I'm good in bed 😌

Me too 😂

😂😂

I think that's what he meant by when one person stops making an effort in stage 5 I think. So in this case it was him, in some other cases it could be her. But yes you are right!

No arguments here, agreed!

Yvette Harvie-Salter ain't even gonna lie, same exact thing here but more like three years ago. Looking back at it now shows you how you can take each other for granted. Myself, I feel like I'm a terrible person for trying to argue a lot and honestly, it has a lot to do with the type of person I am and I want to change that so I can be better for her.

Yvette Harvie-Salter hows it going now?

How did you know she was the love of your life?

Ericka same... 😔

Ericka and she looks like cathy nguyen 😭

RJ and PAULA I think you have to sign up for RU-vid Red. They still make mini episodes there.

RJTroncoso really!? Is it free?

RJ and PAULA free for the first month