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Student sent back to 9th Grade from 12th Grade 

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@Drbevmentalhealth
@Drbevmentalhealth 10 месяцев назад
Mother takes no accountability and blames the school. SMH !!!
@MrTee12
@MrTee12 10 месяцев назад
Soon the blame will be on Society or the Community or the Police …
@Faithistheanswer
@Faithistheanswer 10 месяцев назад
Sadly, these parents do t be active with their children. She should be his mentor before anyone else. Like she woke up and said he’s a good kid yes but wasn’t participating In his studies . Smh
@Qutypie22
@Qutypie22 10 месяцев назад
Facts!!!
@lisathompkins1301
@lisathompkins1301 10 месяцев назад
Exactly…..100%…….BLAMING everyone else but herself. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ #Sad #Takeownershipmother
@rickeshahinton4829
@rickeshahinton4829 9 месяцев назад
Teachers and the school are always blamed. I guarantee he was failing before high school.
@spacexghost888
@spacexghost888 10 месяцев назад
She didn’t know that??! BS!!! That’s her fault!
@Happy-nu2lk
@Happy-nu2lk 10 месяцев назад
Like he said, "momma where is the YOU" truth and facts.
@inmhop3729
@inmhop3729 10 месяцев назад
And his dad's.
@chuckandshasta
@chuckandshasta 10 месяцев назад
💯
@loveHislove
@loveHislove 10 месяцев назад
She failed him!
@Artsyracoon
@Artsyracoon 4 месяца назад
Well in the original video it said she worked three jobs and she wasn’t really concerned because he was ranked in the top half of the class
@FranklynFMMcInnis
@FranklynFMMcInnis 10 месяцев назад
I guarantee that she doesn't give the school a working phone number or has the school blocked. She doesn't look at reports. She doesn't attend conferences. She lets him decide when he wants to attend.
@TheCommonGentry
@TheCommonGentry 10 месяцев назад
for the most part, it's the kid that gets the info card or report card. helicopter parents fill it out. also, parents tend to phase out by high school if their kid isn't in AP, DC, Sports, or Band. Students are also the first to find out about the online grade tracking system and fill out as the parent.
@stephanies3862
@stephanies3862 10 месяцев назад
Exactly! Despite being in high school students are still minors, and the parents should be keeping up with their education as well. And like you said, her address contact info possibly was not correct in the system. Parenting doesn't stop once your kid enters high school.
@Eternity4ME
@Eternity4ME 10 месяцев назад
​@@TheCommonGentry If I hadn't seen a report card, I'd have been up there trying to find out what was going on. He might have slid by one quarter, but not more than one.
@Britt4770
@Britt4770 10 месяцев назад
Exactly!
@Absynthe12
@Absynthe12 10 месяцев назад
I was just thinking that. In 4 years no one from school called her?
@truth4you349
@truth4you349 10 месяцев назад
That mother should be ashamed of herself. Did she never look at his report cards? SHE is to blame for not being an active participant in her sons education!!
@badbookbabe
@badbookbabe 10 месяцев назад
Her oblivion is beyond me. She's blaming everyone & taking no accountability.
@tracyjacksonjackson4221
@tracyjacksonjackson4221 9 месяцев назад
There are only 2 people that she can truly blame for this situation. Her son and herself. As the mother of a Black Son, I wouldn't dare leave him totally up to the school system. Unsupported young black men are targets of the school system.
@a.j.3088
@a.j.3088 10 месяцев назад
So she never once looked at a report card to see what his GPA looked like? In other words, he was raising himself. She never once scheduled a meeting with his teachers. The apple does not fall far from the tree. These parents do not want to be held accountable just like the children don’t want any accountability for anything.
@nicholebryant7359
@nicholebryant7359 9 месяцев назад
Better yet, have you gone to a store, restaurant, etc and saw that he could read and count money? She should have seen the deficits in everyday life!
@LuciaAIArt
@LuciaAIArt 8 месяцев назад
The school doesn't give out report cards and they only contacted her once for a conference in 4 years.
@horacecomegna335
@horacecomegna335 4 месяца назад
@@LuciaAIArtBullshit! 😂😂😂
@ewright7274
@ewright7274 10 месяцев назад
The mother takes no responsibility! How could she not know?
@brandijoy1
@brandijoy1 10 месяцев назад
She didn’t care to know. As long as he “passed” and didn’t “really” get into trouble she was fine with being ignorant in his education.
@marydixson7251
@marydixson7251 10 месяцев назад
Thats about right!
@lizfraiser3993
@lizfraiser3993 10 месяцев назад
They make me call parents every time a kid is late, or fails a quiz. That many absences means teacher calls, admin calls, calls from guidance. There is no way they weren't trying to contact her. She's been dodging the school's calls for four years. I deal with this every day. It's never their fault Little Timmy is failing all his classes and hasn't been to school in over a month.
@dawnwalton1099
@dawnwalton1099 10 месяцев назад
Exactly. I have had students return to school with notes that said they weee sick and the students would tell me that they weren’t sick but that they had to babysit, get their hair done, went to get their nails did, etc.. so mom probably knew he wasn’t in school
@r-aandrew2901
@r-aandrew2901 10 месяцев назад
My friend would drive to the next city over to drop her step kid off at his high school and watch him walk in the front doors every school day he was with them. Months later they learned he had been walking right out the back door. They finally learned this from the school when they gained access to information - the mother knew the attendance record and just didn't care. Kid and his brother dropped out after age 16.
@zakiya1635
@zakiya1635 10 месяцев назад
@lizfraiser3993 They even do home visits for that many absences. Not to mention truancy court.
@denyshadials5702
@denyshadials5702 9 месяцев назад
And now that the school has inconvenienced her, the news is involved. So it’s not that she couldn’t respond, she actively chose not to.
@SophisticatedTeacher
@SophisticatedTeacher 9 месяцев назад
I know you’re a teacher by saying Little Timmy. That is the universal name for all the kids in his situation. 😆
@sharonbrown5157
@sharonbrown5157 10 месяцев назад
WOW!!! Where is “the YOU” is the number one question!!?
@jenniferhardy8073
@jenniferhardy8073 10 месяцев назад
He was "Absent" or Tardy more than an entire school year. How is that not on the child AND parent?! It's called straight out laziness. "I don't wanna go...."
@kathleenkirchoff9223
@kathleenkirchoff9223 10 месяцев назад
That's a truancy court date.
@rejoyce318
@rejoyce318 10 месяцев назад
@@kathleenkirchoff9223 Thank you!
@laurieadams7236
@laurieadams7236 9 месяцев назад
I feel bad for the child, I also have never heard of sending a student back! There are a lot of parents who have no idea what their child does during the day! I also know of Parents that don't answer the phone when a child is sick or in trouble! There was a failure all around!
@KittyKat65Austin
@KittyKat65Austin 8 месяцев назад
@@laurieadams7236 A child will be sent back to a lower grade if they do not pass the required state exams. They need to pass to move up a grade. The exception is Sped students who can have a committee decide (with the parents) to accept their score. The parent had literally no involvement! How did did she not know that her kid was out of school for more than an entire school year? At my high school we phone (voicemail is usually full), email (no longer working), send notifications home and then get authorities involved. There is no way that this "parent" had no clue.
@stephanies3862
@stephanies3862 10 месяцев назад
As a high school teacher I have seen it first hand. So many parents wait until months before their kid is supposed to graduate to suddenly care and get involved...smh
@RY-os9vw
@RY-os9vw 10 месяцев назад
Yes! In middle school we see this in 8th grade in the last semester before culmination and 8th grade activities.
@tracyjacksonjackson4221
@tracyjacksonjackson4221 9 месяцев назад
The mistake that is made at this point is that the school will actually try to get the kid up to speed in that short time. This is wrong and does a disservice to the students as the world will not work that way.
@wall47291
@wall47291 9 месяцев назад
In my first year teaching, I didn't understand why I had so many parents show up to the last parent teacher conferences in late April. A veteran teacher said, "They want to make sure that their child will pass to the next grade." 😮😮
@Valecan
@Valecan 10 месяцев назад
I have been teaching in some manner for almost 20 years. I remember a friend of mine when he first started teaching I gave him a piece of insight about the profession. I told him all students fall into one of two groups. The first group, when the kid does something wrong, the parent will hold their kid responsible for their behavior. These parents are loved by teachers and admins. The second group is made up of kids when they do something wrong, the parent hold someone other than there kid responsible. The second group is why you keep detailed records of assignments, call logs and include an admin in email chains with problem parents. Not to mention the counselor meetings with all the student's teachers that was setup with the parents days ahead of time that they magically never show up to; I lost track how many times this happened. Don't misunderstand you can still have a failure on the school side if they didn't do there due diligence, but often in my experience the failure point was with the parent.
@gaylechristensen6285
@gaylechristensen6285 10 месяцев назад
Ugh. I can't stand parents who believe that their little angel could do no wrong. Much respect for you and your profession. That is one TOUGH job, and getting tougher as time goes on.
@MrTee12
@MrTee12 10 месяцев назад
As a school administrator…you’re 💯 correct!
@dawnwalton1099
@dawnwalton1099 10 месяцев назад
There are also two groups of students that come to school The first group comes to school to actively participate in their education. These children want to learn and are eagerly engaged. The second group are students that come to socialize and care absolutely nothing about learning or their future. They just come to see their friends. They can be disruptive but not all are but they are certainly not engaged in anything other than free time and lunch. If a grade was offered for this they would pass with flying colors. It should be a priority of every parent to find out what group their child is in and either accept their failing grades or climb on board with the teachers and staff to partner in their child’s education. The first group is generally no worries, although I have had some students who I have never seen a parent yet the child is invested heavily in their own education but for the most part parents make the choice of which group their child belongs to.
@gaylechristensen6285
@gaylechristensen6285 10 месяцев назад
@@dawnwalton1099 What I discovered with my daughter, is that she just didn't react well to the curriculum. She is a visual learner, rather than a book learner. She waa also on ADD meds, that made her more ADD. I think that alternative schools are the place for kids like her. She dropped out in 10th grade.
@dawnwalton1099
@dawnwalton1099 10 месяцев назад
@@gaylechristensen6285 congratulations. Your comment states that clearly you are an active participant in your daughter’s education and schooling but as you can tell everyone is not. I hope that your daughter is progressing well through her journey. She might benefit from a self pace online program to obtain her diploma or GED God bless
@angelahernandez6250
@angelahernandez6250 10 месяцев назад
So you never checked his grades? Where is the you? Not really involved? You usually get phone calls when your kid is marked absent as well. 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️
@kingkuntaSWM
@kingkuntaSWM 10 месяцев назад
Where is the YOU? Dassit dassall!
@tenacious1
@tenacious1 10 месяцев назад
Exactly where's the you? Good parents are up on their kids. She made herself look crazy by not accepting responsibility and placing blame elsewhere. I would imagine that at least one teacher requested to see her in those 4 years. And she appeared to be reasonably intelligent. She failed him more than anyone else. I hope she sees that at some point. And also for him this doesn't mean that his life is over that he'll never amount to anything. He can use this moment to change the trajectory of his life. God bless him
@rejoyce318
@rejoyce318 10 месяцев назад
I can just imagine the discussions in the faculty rooms after that segment aired.
@denyshadials5702
@denyshadials5702 9 месяцев назад
@@rejoyce318 The whole district probably knows who she is. Unless you’re a transfer, you don’t just pop up in 9th grade failing nearly every class every grading period. It’s likely they’ve been reaching out since mid-elementary due to him ruining the state testing average. Every state doesn’t have the same policies for holding kids back and pushing forward. Texas will hold you back as early as kindergarten and will do it for 2 years before sending forward no matter what. Illinois doesn’t hold kids back until high school , because 1) they actually have an understanding of why they’re being held back and 2) the curriculum is set up just like college. Both scenarios have their pros and cons. Either way, she’s an active non-participant waiting for him to get out of her house and now she’s been inconvenienced. If she decides to take anyone to court, they’ll eat her alive and crap her out before lunch.
@Caseytify
@Caseytify 10 месяцев назад
"Where is the YOU?" $64,000 question.
@valleyval7
@valleyval7 10 месяцев назад
The audacity of this mother 🤦🏽‍♀️
@nwatson2773
@nwatson2773 10 месяцев назад
When parents don’t stay involved
@denyshadials5702
@denyshadials5702 9 месяцев назад
When parents have never been involved from the start. You don’t just wake up and start failing everything. Education can builds on itself. You fail the foundations, you fail everything.
@denitarobinson2380
@denitarobinson2380 10 месяцев назад
This is sad to watch. As a retired educator and mom of three, she truly needs a mom mentor and academic support herself. Parents are their child’s first teacher. Expectations for them established in preschool and your expected to be fully present through college graduation as a parent. How do you not know what’s happening with ALL that schools are required by law to do? 🙏🏾
@shaunaholmes6561
@shaunaholmes6561 9 месяцев назад
My mom was a teacher and worked in the next town (30 min drive) over. Dad was at work by the time we would eat breakfast. For a year, Mom was working in the next COUNTY over before landing a job at the local university. Out of 3 of us, I think my baby brother had the lowest GPA (3.0), and the only time school was missed was when my sister brought home chicken pox when I was a junior. I don't think my brother got sick.
@denitarobinson2380
@denitarobinson2380 9 месяцев назад
@@shaunaholmes6561 Awesome parents! When we make our children a priority, as we should, success is inevitable. My story is similar to yours. All are excelling in life! To God be all the glory!
@tewanwilson
@tewanwilson 10 месяцев назад
The school failed him? Let’s run with that for a minute. Why would you leave your child in a place where he was being failed for that long? How is the woman not charged with neglect?
@brandijoy1
@brandijoy1 10 месяцев назад
I work in a childcare facility. Where we had to unfortunately put children out not do to the child’s behavior but the parents and on a couple of occasions when this happened an irate parent would accuse us of neglect. My Director would look them straight in the eye and say “If you believe we did this, then why did you keep them in our facility” Then proceed to give them the number to the Child Neglect Hotline. That silenced them quickly.
@colettehawkins4715
@colettehawkins4715 10 месяцев назад
The school, the parent, ANDDDD he failed! ALL school districts need a recovery school for repeating 9th grade students separate from the hs campus so they can experience a more focused and direct learning environment. At least get them from the beginning of their high school experience before they get to where this child was.
@tamarabrown1220
@tamarabrown1220 10 месяцев назад
@@colettehawkins4715nah, she failed him PERIOD. Ain’t no way for three years you don’t look at your child’s report card and not see he was failing every class and not intervene once in 3 years!! She should have been asking for help long before now. Social promotion is real, but she has no one to blame for allowing the school system to do so.
@denyshadials5702
@denyshadials5702 9 месяцев назад
@@colettehawkins4715 They do. It’s called special education. The teachers/counselors reach out to parents after the first report card. Meaning the parent never responded for 3 straight years. That’s on her, not the school. And there’s always home school. I’m sure she’d be real successful with that.
@colettehawkins4715
@colettehawkins4715 9 месяцев назад
@denyshadials5702 I know the is Sped Ed. But what I meant was sending him to a 9th grade recovery program separate from the high school. I know it's too late for him now, but I know some districts have such a program that's meant for repeating 9th graders to focus and earn their credits to return to high school. 9th grade is the largest population of students, which includes repeating 9th graders. They're just enamored with being in hs without doing the work. But on the flip, someone like this student was never motivated to stay in school, and possibly, just possibly, truency officers never followed up on him to make sure he came to school. Who truly knows the full story of this issue, but we all know this situation is unfortunate. I taught in public schools for 30 years; this situation is not new, but this one is more unique than others.
@Sandybar15
@Sandybar15 10 месяцев назад
This situation is on both the mother and child. After so many absences he would have been flagged by the counselors and targeted for summer school. Then when he turned 16 our school system would have flagged him, and called him and his mom in for a meeting. He would have been given two choices alternative or night school to bring his credit’s current. His other option is dropping out which is beyond sad.
@Marty1857
@Marty1857 10 месяцев назад
Up until about 25 years ago, students in my area, with multiple absences, were collected by officers and taken to a Juvenile Detention Facility until they made up their missing time. It was an effective deterrent, but it was expensive. Easier to just pass them up and then "graduate" them into society... so we can support the prisons, and deal with the social fallout from rising crime and welfare recipients... I would rather pay for the JD Facility up front, and save a lot of money later.
@Ladycece41168
@Ladycece41168 9 месяцев назад
Baltimore City Public schools are not good at accountability. And so the kids don't attempt to learn at all. Throw in an oblivious parent, and here you go...An educational disaster.
@shaunaholmes6561
@shaunaholmes6561 9 месяцев назад
The school I volunteer at gives ISS for tardies and will send you to the alternative school for a while. Parents are informed about a conference to talk about the kid going to ISS and there's a hearing with district admin before alternative school enrollment. Nope. Can't tell ME she didn't know.
@michaeljones6894
@michaeljones6894 7 месяцев назад
Where is his Father? Mom and Dad were neglecting their responsibility to ensure that he had went to school. A loving and caring parent would have been sitting in the classroom right behind him if that was needed. Mom had made herself look real dumb in front of the world 🌎
@eandttruelove
@eandttruelove 10 месяцев назад
There is no way she didn’t know unless she didn’t WANT to know. The attendance alone would’ve required multiple phone calls, social worker involvement, and reports to the state board for truancy. Yes, the system is very broken and how we promote kids who are not ready to go on. But there is absolutely no way that this mother did not know what was going on unless she wouldn’t give the school working phone numbers or addresses, and never once checked on her child’s progress.
@TheBronzedEmpress
@TheBronzedEmpress 10 месяцев назад
Oh Hell Nah!!! Yes the school should have notified her multiple times during his freshman year. But she never looked at or asked to see his report cards and progress reports?!?! Did she ever go to any parent conferences or at least spoke to any of the teachers?!? My parents were always in our backpacks looking at homework, letters, etc. and asking, "Where is OUR report card?" This was because my Dad always helped me with my homework so my grade was HiS grade LOL! There was no getting around them or hiding anything from them. And when my mother had a day off she would just pop up and sit in my class in elementary school ( then I had to share my mom and I wasn't too fond of that LOL) and by the time I got to middle and high school that lady was popping up in different classes on my schedule and then buy us lunch. I always told my friends, "Don't get it twisted, that was roll call. She was checking to see who's here at school. She will call your parents if ya @$$ ditch." I wasn't the type of kid that would test God or HER so I was a reasonably good kid but baby I believed my parents would get me together with the quickness if I wasn't found trying my best in school.
@keishaterrell1935
@keishaterrell1935 10 месяцев назад
They don't let parents pop up on the kids anymore. I used to do that with my oldest son. Now I have an autistic granddaughter who's in school where we have to make an appointment to pop up. Smh. The pop up is for both my granddaughter and staff/teachers and that rubbed me the wrong way because she doesn't want to go to school anymore and she Loves being around other kids. It's making me wonder what the staff has to hide. It's scary because she's only 4 and can't tell us what's going on.
@RY-os9vw
@RY-os9vw 10 месяцев назад
@@keishaterrell1935You should be able to check in on your grandchild. I know during the pandemic and afterward when the virus was prevalent (and more virulent), parents were asked to stay out for health reasons; today you should be allowed. Please get an advocate to go with you to the school so that you can pop in on your grandchild-if need be, add that in the IEP. You can request a meeting.
@rejoyce318
@rejoyce318 10 месяцев назад
@@keishaterrell1935 I'm sorry that your granddaughter doesn't want to go to school anymore. I can tell that upsets you, and her parents. I know that with necessary increases in school security, pop-in visits are in the past, and that's for your granddaughter's safety. I'm a retired special educator, as well as guardian for a family member. Please keep an open, supportive relationship with your granddaughter's school staff. I know I used to communicate daily with parents when I taught, and I continue to communicate with my family member's caregivers on a regular basis.
@wall47291
@wall47291 9 месяцев назад
I had a parent who would just pop up on his kindergarten child. I would be teaching a lesson and would see him peeking through the window. More than once, he caught her not listening and would take her, and either talk to her or take her home.
@bluewhisper1876
@bluewhisper1876 10 месяцев назад
Maybe she needs to go back to ninth grade with him if she couldn't figure out his report card. And now she's going to embarrass him in front of everybody.
@ashley.taylor174
@ashley.taylor174 10 месяцев назад
😂
@DanielleWilliams-kf1kt
@DanielleWilliams-kf1kt 10 месяцев назад
Like mother, like son...no accountability, no responsibility, no parenting, no initiative, just NO!!
@TangibleReads
@TangibleReads 10 месяцев назад
how mama don't know? Where is the you is correct.
@juliegood7999
@juliegood7999 10 месяцев назад
Oh but she was so nicely prepared for the cameras
@gaylechristensen6285
@gaylechristensen6285 10 месяцев назад
I tutored a guy in my 12th Grade class, trying to help him graduate. He didn't even know how to write his name when I started helping him. I was completely appalled that they had kept passing him through.
@MrTee12
@MrTee12 10 месяцев назад
Special education student?
@gaylechristensen6285
@gaylechristensen6285 10 месяцев назад
@@MrTee12 No. He was just in our normal class. He was one of those guys that everyone bullied, because he was very dirty and always wore the same clothes. I felt sorry for him, and that's how I came to find out just under educated he was. The test I helped him study for was the first one he'd ever passed since 6th grade.
@miamimercenary9623
@miamimercenary9623 10 месяцев назад
My mom was huge on education and hounded me for report cards and updates but I played football and I was pretty damn good. On Friday’s in high school you only had to go to school for a half day to be eligible to play in the game. So I got to school at lunch (skipping the first three periods), had sports marketing taught by an assistant football coach for 5th period and then got a pass to skip 7th period so i could watch film for the game that night. I can’t believe teachers passed me but that was my routine for four years even during offseason. Mon-Thurs I kinda went when I felt like it but I had practice so I had to go eventually. Luckily for me it wasn’t aptitude, I was just stupid enough to believe I was going to the NFL and didn’t need school. Shattered my ankle in college, couldn’t run the same, scholarship pulled, dream world obliterated so I had to figure it out. Now I have a PhD in Economics and work in capital markets but sometimes I really wonder what if I wasn’t blessed enough to get it. They really passed me for doing damn near nothing and it’s crazy looking back at it
@MrTee12
@MrTee12 10 месяцев назад
@@gaylechristensen6285 wow…poor kid. Thank God for people like you
@gaylechristensen6285
@gaylechristensen6285 10 месяцев назад
@@MrTee12 Awww thank you. God cares about everyone. I was just the one He so graciously chose to use. 💖
@Marty1857
@Marty1857 10 месяцев назад
Taught for over 22 years. "Mothers" like this are ubiquitous, and highly annoying. Yes, the system will push the kids through; there is no definitive plan or recourse for educating a student who doesn't wish to cooperate. If the parents aren't monitoring their children's health and education, who will? The idea that Society is responsible for doing a parent's job is ludicrous, but it is the current trend. This situation is all too common, which makes it both pathetic and frightening. Love the commentary, though! It felt like you were reading my mind!!
@TheLadyWolf1
@TheLadyWolf1 10 месяцев назад
I had a single father who worked full time and then some - he still made time to help me with my home work and see that got at least a B in my classes. What's her excuse?
@suzannedarety4058
@suzannedarety4058 9 месяцев назад
I would be embarrassed to have this on the news for everyone to see! No responsible parent would have a child in school for 4 years and not know he’d only passed like 3 classes, total!! 🤦🏼‍♀️
@ktay2124
@ktay2124 10 месяцев назад
My district has robo calls for tardies and absences. It will call, text, and email you. We have online report cards and a system where you can check your childs grades daily. You can even set up alerts for when their grade falls below a certain percentage. But, you would not believe the number of parents who have never logged into their childs gradebook.
@AngelaRGreenArt
@AngelaRGreenArt 9 месяцев назад
This is a big issue in public schools. I have seen this type of stuff for 23 years and am happy I don't have to deal with it anymore. The parents blamed the school for their child failing, but they are not involved in their kids education. There is no way she didn't know. Nah, she's embarrassed now because she failed her own kid.
@katrinajohnson9447
@katrinajohnson9447 10 месяцев назад
WOW! And here I am getting my daughter a tutor because she has a B in Math… I want to sharpen her problem-solving skills... This is just, WOW!
@ashxc
@ashxc 8 месяцев назад
A tutor for a B? Yikes. I wouldn't be surprised if she rebels in college.
@ballen8905
@ballen8905 9 месяцев назад
That mom should be ashamed of her neglect. School is a tool for parents and children, not the legal guardian. She came on tv like a fool.
@sisterstaketoo1981
@sisterstaketoo1981 10 месяцев назад
Come on sis! She had to have inkling he was failing. That’s so sad.
@johnlopez3996
@johnlopez3996 10 месяцев назад
Looks like a kid has been born again---as a ninth grader. Preach, Eddie B. If a kid is absent or late 272 times, then that is over a year and a half of schooling.
@ragazzasolare77
@ragazzasolare77 10 месяцев назад
She failed her son.
@WILDANDPEACEFUL23
@WILDANDPEACEFUL23 10 месяцев назад
Her son missed hundreds of days of school! She KNEW that. Schools OVERTELL parents about absences. She must take some responsibility
@darleneholt2736
@darleneholt2736 4 месяца назад
Exactly, there is typically an automatic phone system that goes out when students are marked absent. For there to be no record of any calls, then she either didn't supply a phone number or didn't give a correct number, because that is tracked in the system as its the system sending out the calls. Teacher calls home, not automatically tracked because it doesn't go through the computer system when they manually call home.
@MachelTheDestroyer
@MachelTheDestroyer 10 месяцев назад
First step is always at home. I’m a parent and I make damn sure I know what going on with my kid in each of his classes. It’s easy to check their bag everyday and see what they are bringing home or working on. Especially when the teachers provide so much information and many ways to contact them. My kids school sends out two mini report cards between each session so you always have an idea of where your kid is at. That’s on the parent to pay attention to it all.
@miamimercenary9623
@miamimercenary9623 10 месяцев назад
she’s obviously not involved because report cards come home at least 3 times a year and to not know for four years means you never checked homework or anything
@darryify
@darryify 8 месяцев назад
I'm not hearing any of that SHE failed her son. The school played their part with just passing him on to the next grade but that mother didn't take care of her responsibilities.
@byronp8158
@byronp8158 10 месяцев назад
I remember this story years ago out of Baltimore. I also remember Baltimore logo in the 90's, Baltimore, The City That Reads. Well, that aged just as solid as a rock!
@MsBG-ye6vy
@MsBG-ye6vy 10 месяцев назад
“Where is the YOU?”That is so key and so many parents miss that part!
@rickeshahinton4829
@rickeshahinton4829 9 месяцев назад
As an educator, I'm glad he was held accountable for his actions. As a parent, the only reason you did not know is because you didn't want to know. Bottom line. The school calls me when my scholar misses a class, not the day a class. When she is sick, I get about 6 phone calls in one day. I go to conferences and everything. This is not on the school. This is a parenting issue.
@tawandahunter5885
@tawandahunter5885 10 месяцев назад
Sooo sad. How did he get promoted? Mama wasn't paying attention.
@docexplorations9768
@docexplorations9768 10 месяцев назад
It's not the school's fault. It's her fault. I promise she hasn't been to the school for any conferences or pop-ups. Parents need to stop this foolishness!! Where were the mentors and such??? Where were you mom???
@claricestarling4964
@claricestarling4964 10 месяцев назад
A principal from a school where I worked used to say that some parents think that school is like a sausage factory: meat comes in, sausage comes out. Some parents do not believe they have to participate in their kids’ education. Also, here in Florida they take parents’ drivers licenses if the kids are absent too many times.
@Kozette007
@Kozette007 9 месяцев назад
I’m a Baltimore native but this, thank you cause everyone here was blaming the school. I say she’s 100% responsible.
@kima838
@kima838 10 месяцев назад
The AUDACITY of that woman! No wonder she forgot to teach her kid that actions have consequences.
@anaceliamartinez-smith
@anaceliamartinez-smith 10 месяцев назад
😂How did she not know? I have 3 kids and all 3 have IEP and I try to make sure I check at least once a week (especially my youngest) how they are doing. I keep in constant contact with the teachers ESPECIALLY if something is going wrong. Sounds like (by the many absences and tardiness) he failed himself. I had no idea they can send someone back like that! What state is this? And why did they even promote him? If my son fails even one major core class he has to go to summer school to be promoted. Geez
@rejoyce318
@rejoyce318 10 месяцев назад
I'm a retired special ed teacher. Involved, supportive parents like you were among my Favorite People. Thank you.
@skittles7306
@skittles7306 10 месяцев назад
The way this parent ENRAGES me....when are you and your child held accountable? And if you think he's the only kid in this type of academic situation with this type of parent, you haven't been paying attention. Talk to a teacher.
@jilforever7476
@jilforever7476 9 месяцев назад
That mother is ridiculous. It is embarrassing and awful. It’s everyone’s fault except for her poor parenting. They should make her take parenting classes as well.
@fableydra
@fableydra 22 дня назад
Typical parents. No accountability. No checking in. Nothing. How could you NOT know your kid failed 22 classes and missed 272 days of school? WHERE WERE YOU?
@darryify
@darryify 8 месяцев назад
I'm sure if she went to a parent teacher conference she would have know about all those failed classes and 272 absences or lates.
@ladyandrews77
@ladyandrews77 10 месяцев назад
That No Child Left Behind is messing these kids up! I used to work with 5th graders who were on a 1st grade reading level & one who I tested for a teacher & she didnt even know sight words that was learned in kindergarten...im talking bout 'the' 'and'...etc. I was so shocked I had to ask the teacher if this little girl was playing with me. Smh. sad, but true. Parents YOU ARE UR CHILD’S 1ST TEACHERS!! Be active in their learning
@Marty1857
@Marty1857 10 месяцев назад
The concept of "No Child Left Behind" is a good one; the pathetic execution of this philosophy is the crux of the problem in Public Education. In order to make it work, someone has to be accountable. Parents don't want to be accountable, and schools don't want to force that issue. The court system in my city told school district superintendents that they did NOT want to deal with a lot of juvenile cases; they were too backed up as it was. Therefore, school districts (not wanting to divert limited funds into a viable program to either educate or expel the unruly) have played a shell game of paperwork. Students are moved around to various classes, passed up into other grade levels, contaminating other students with their welfare attitude. I've seen this in many schools, across many ethnicities. It's not a symptom of poverty; it's a symptom of entitlement. If accountability was enforced (school administrators being fired; parents being sued by school districts; disruptive students going to juvenile detention) the quality of education would skyrocket. Unfortunately, we don't have politicians with the guts for that sort of social re-engineering.
@RY-os9vw
@RY-os9vw 10 месяцев назад
No Child Left Behind left many behind, and Marty defined this issue. Common Core has been out for over a decade now, and we are experiencing many students who are years behind grade level fail because they lack the foundational skills to understand the concepts that are being taught. Many struggle with reading fluency, comprehension and vocabulary, so they will fail across math and science because students must be able to apply written/comprehension/vocabulary knowledge across all subjects. Parents that have supplemented/taught their children the basic skills tend to have kids who succeed.
@ambersample3354
@ambersample3354 9 месяцев назад
Momma where is the YOU. No truer words have ever been spoken 😂😂😂
@fifigurl2011
@fifigurl2011 10 месяцев назад
Correct me if I'm wrong, but doesn't it take TWO people to make a child?? WHERE WAS HIS FATHER!?? He has responsibility in this as well! ALL the blame doesn't go on just the mother! "Where da pappy!??"
@MrTee12
@MrTee12 10 месяцев назад
I just said the same thing 🫨
@miamimercenary9623
@miamimercenary9623 10 месяцев назад
Obviously she’s a single mother. His father may be deceased or anything, we have no way of knowing that. What we do know is report cards come out every quarter and schools call when you miss attendance. SHE is at fault. Let’s not move that goalpost to make everything men’s fault. Accountability really can’t be this hard for women. And I’m sure the ones passing him were women too. Men don’t do stupid shit like that
@milayoc6244
@milayoc6244 10 месяцев назад
​@@miamimercenary9623 I assure you, in my experience, both male and female teachers are coerced into passing kids along by both male and female administrators. It's not about gender; it's about school systems with ridiculous (many times unofficial) policies.
@rosalynnartis2404
@rosalynnartis2404 9 месяцев назад
😮... 🤦🏾‍♀️. After watching the Mom's interview, I just know in my heart that she cussed out a teacher and principal earlier in his high school career because he failed a class and they just passed him through every year after that.
@chandrabaker1255
@chandrabaker1255 10 месяцев назад
So Mom, you didn’t know your son was failing 22 classes and missed our been late 272 times. This is crazy Mom you knew you got to take accountability for this!!!!
@yvonnemp1398
@yvonnemp1398 10 месяцев назад
For 4 years she had no clue? After 3 absences, the school was probably calling. But the most disturbing part is he's ranked in the top half of his class? Oh no! Why don't these parents know what's going on? I check my grandkids. There is a huge hole in those families.
@ashxc
@ashxc 8 месяцев назад
I had about 15 absences in each class during one cardmarking in my junior year. My mom was not called. I continued to skip in my senior year, but only some classes instead of whole days. Still no calls. But that one cardmarking, I brought home my first Cs, Ds, and an F! Thankfully it was one that didn't go on record and I was able to bring my GPA back up to a 3.8 I was grounded for just about ever after that. My mom is a teacher and didn't play about report cards and progress reports.
@laloverobinson333
@laloverobinson333 10 месяцев назад
She KNOW she is lying. This B hasn't checked not one report card, checked no homework, ignored truancy automated warnings, Nada, Zilch, Zero, NOTHING. Her and her son are just sorry individuals!!!
@brandijoy1
@brandijoy1 10 месяцев назад
No I wouldn’t call the son a sorry individual. He is still a child. He needed guidance from his mother and he obviously didn’t receive it. Now the school didn’t help by passing him to the next grade either.
@Qutypie22
@Qutypie22 10 месяцев назад
"Mama, WHERE IS THE YOU?!!!" 🎤🎤🎤
@VisionMusicWorks
@VisionMusicWorks 10 месяцев назад
Wow. 😮 Just wow.
@oshiomowemomodu3724
@oshiomowemomodu3724 9 месяцев назад
I wish that was possible in my school. Parents would fight you in Nigeria for you to move them. Thanks Mr. B !
@gsmith9531
@gsmith9531 9 месяцев назад
I retired from teaching because of parents. They are NEVER wrong - always teachers’ fault. Students have zero to no work ethic, have no concept of manners and time management (like their parents). And, schools are penalized for keeping students behind. So, your choice is a large adult size student in the right elementary setting, or do social promotions and have this situation.
@janedough6410
@janedough6410 9 месяцев назад
Keywords: *schools are penalized for keeping students behind* Interpreted: students are not priority. Yes, the parent was neglectful... but so was the school. Sometimes the teachers are at fault. I've encountered teachers railroad students to save their own azz.
@thehutch7728
@thehutch7728 10 месяцев назад
I appreciate the Muppet Babies reference 😂
@keishaterrell1935
@keishaterrell1935 10 месяцев назад
If you close your eyes and make believe, you can be anywhere ✨️ I loved the Muppets 😅
@RY-os9vw
@RY-os9vw 10 месяцев назад
Right 😂🙌 I was looking for this comment. Go ‘80’s kids 🎉😂!
@lovegames9644
@lovegames9644 10 месяцев назад
JUST WOW, as a parent how could you not know your child’s progress in school or any other matter? These young parents need to talk to these kids instead of trying to be cool with them.
@rejoyce318
@rejoyce318 10 месяцев назад
"Mama, where is the YOU?" 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@bearinharlem
@bearinharlem 10 месяцев назад
Exactly where is the you parent. I see this everyday and parents only care if their child has a babysitter at School
@AmmaLuv
@AmmaLuv 10 месяцев назад
Where is the “you”? But how did he pass? 🤦🏾‍♀️
@brandijoy1
@brandijoy1 10 месяцев назад
No, Mom. You failed him and she should have been ashamed getting on television putting the blame on others and not taking any responsibility that she took no part in his education but wants to get mad that he has to “go back” to 9th grade. Hell based on his grades and absenteeism he never left.
@ariathesongbyrd
@ariathesongbyrd 10 месяцев назад
This is so true and so ridiculous I can't even laugh at it.
@NatouCBS
@NatouCBS 10 месяцев назад
two hunnid and 72 latenesses?? wild'n
@kdon752012
@kdon752012 10 месяцев назад
Gonna live in credit recovery classes for awhile.
@XPLAlN
@XPLAlN 9 месяцев назад
Mother constantly tells her kid nothing he did wrong is his fault with terrible outcome shocker.
@elainal6847
@elainal6847 10 месяцев назад
This is the type of mother who gives a disconnected number and fake email to the school and blocks them as soon as they get her real digits from their child or their kids' friends or another parent .....The only reason she is offended now is that dead beat SHE created is about to be living rent-free and unemployable even at the most remedial position, so in her space and face ALL DAY LONG, OR she is about to lose her SSI check for him.
@zakiya1635
@zakiya1635 10 месяцев назад
I am in my fifties and it hasn't changed since I was in school. You are either getting a report card or a progress report, at minimum, every six weeks! Sounds like parents are in denial.
@stepht5
@stepht5 9 месяцев назад
100% no way that the mom didn’t all of this starting in 9th grade when he was failing nearly all his classes. How did she never ask to see a report card? And they call, text or email the parent of a child is failing or if a child is late/absent. She knew all of this was going on. It’s not the school’s responsibility to find your child a mentor or to make sure your child is during his work. Those are the mother’s responsibilities
@justbenice7448
@justbenice7448 10 месяцев назад
"Momma, where is the YOU?" 😂😂😂 2nd video I've watched on this channel. This guy's hilarious and oh so right! Subscribed ♥
@JJ-ui4ph
@JJ-ui4ph 8 месяцев назад
I knew something was wrong when he asked me “What’s this word”? What do you mean? It says “See Spot run”. 😂
@jemiaholt8805
@jemiaholt8805 10 месяцев назад
She knew this is sad😢
@bigsnyder01
@bigsnyder01 9 месяцев назад
School did drop the ball, but ultimately its the parent's responsibility to supervise, monitor, and advocate for their child. No excuse for being this clueless and absent from your child's education.
@francheskashope2669
@francheskashope2669 10 месяцев назад
Its a parent responsibility to check on their kids. She's absurd and delusional
@horacecomegna335
@horacecomegna335 4 месяца назад
This mother needs a bumper sticker for her car that says, “ Proud Parent of an F Student!” 😂😂😂
@cherrychin867
@cherrychin867 10 месяцев назад
Where is the YOU?! When parents are parents, schools can teach! Facts!❤
@peaches0191
@peaches0191 9 месяцев назад
As his mother, where's your accountability for your child's education? He gets a report card, and you mean to tell me that you never noticed an issue? There's no way he was failing 22 classes, absent almost every day, and you didn't know. Stop blaming others for the job you, as his parent, should've been doing.
@tonim6009
@tonim6009 10 месяцев назад
Schools hsve online portals these days, he and herself got alerts about missing assignments etc. Smh
@chocella
@chocella 10 месяцев назад
Are you spending most of your time shopping for Vogue clothes and fake hair instead of in the parent teacher conferences at school? Sho looks that way. How much homework have you seen? How many times have you asked, what did you learn today? What's A teachers' name? Do you understand that YOU'RE who the report card is to be reported to? Where's the school located? It's not in the mall or in Sephora ya know 🤦🏾‍♀️
@brandnushooze
@brandnushooze 10 месяцев назад
I was placed on probation because my kid had too many tardies. Texas
@voodooquee
@voodooquee 10 месяцев назад
Parents like this always are ready to blame, everyone else. But in reality, the parents failed their own children . You should have checked his grades.
@lchapo5469
@lchapo5469 9 месяцев назад
Mama where is the YOU??? Truest words EVER spoke!!!
@bk58117
@bk58117 10 месяцев назад
Parents are a huge problem these days!!! Goodness gracious.
@RY-os9vw
@RY-os9vw 10 месяцев назад
Thank you to all the parents who actually parent these days-we appreciate you and your support.
@brandnushooze
@brandnushooze 10 месяцев назад
No child left behind ain’t so good, now is it?
@RY-os9vw
@RY-os9vw 10 месяцев назад
No Child Left Behind…was left behind by the Federal Government 😂😂😂😂! Common Core is the new mandate now and has been for over a decade. But yes, he was mostly under the No Child Left Behind era that CERTAINLY left many behind.
@florineanderson2325
@florineanderson2325 9 месяцев назад
Did this grown woman who had this kid really just named everybody but herself????? Ok wheres the daddy? Wheres the family members??? What were YOU doing????
@craiggleason8386
@craiggleason8386 10 месяцев назад
My school would have given him a diploma
@tenacious1
@tenacious1 10 месяцев назад
Mine did give a guy one who was similar.
@ashley.taylor174
@ashley.taylor174 10 месяцев назад
😂
@mafabe1da
@mafabe1da 10 месяцев назад
Why aren’t parents going to the school the first day of school each year talking to their children teachers to find out what expected. Do follow up visits during each month. You as a parent should know what your child is doing in these classroom. Hold the child, teacher and board of education accountable by you as parents being responsibly involved. Don’t allow the child to make decisions. They are not adults. Parents have to make choices and time for their children.
@shaylajohnson2586
@shaylajohnson2586 10 месяцев назад
😂😂😂 She is a liar, she and he knew he hadn't passed. If she didn't know he passed his classes in these 3yrs, how did she find out he wasn't on track to graduate? She should be fined for being unfit.
@juliegood7999
@juliegood7999 10 месяцев назад
She think she about to get paid
@brandijoy1
@brandijoy1 10 месяцев назад
Why would she think that. She did absolutely nothing in regards to her child’s education and I’m pretty sure the school has paperwork and records showing them trying to contact her about his grades, tardiness and absenteeism.
@RY-os9vw
@RY-os9vw 10 месяцев назад
@@brandijoy1Unfortunately some parents are delusional and think that they can sue for anything, even the most ridiculous things like this.
@SherriLyle80s
@SherriLyle80s 10 месяцев назад
Most school districts now have online access to grades and records, this is on her too
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