Please don't spread hate for any of them understand their point of view and support them Hoping they resolve their misunderstandings and move on and find a partner who understands them and love their every flaws to in or outside the show
Eles merecem muito apoio e respeito, são pessoas muito corajosas pois estão em um programa que vão expor suas intimidades, espero que lá encontrem seus pares para amarem e serem amados ❤
Myeongnyun has a weakness for Youngjun that he doesn't want to talk about. He is still feelings for Youngjun, he still likes him. But because he had been so hurt in the past by the sudden and one-sided interruption of contact with Youngjun, his pride was greatly hurt. Under no circumstances does Myeongkyun have the courage to admit this to Youngjun, for fear of being rejected again. When Youngjun keeps pushing him to give him a clear answer, Myeongkyun displays a calm and relaxed attitude in front of him, tactically chewing a small snack. Myeongkyun's calm and slightly indifferent attitude annoys even more Youngjun, who fusses like a puppeteer around Myeongkyun for nothing. As we see in several scenes, Myeongkyun is very good at beating the bush! Both are self-centered, each is willing to see only their piece of happiness. They are focused on their old expired story and do not take into account the sensitivity of the other story colleagues whom they can hurt emotionally. The communication between them is on different tracks, each one thinks only from his point of view. The two will never be able to understand each other as long as none of them gives up their pride...
명균인 영준이가 갑자기 관계 정리도 하지 않고 잠수 탄거에 상처를 받았고 남의집에서 상반된 모습을 보면서 앞뒤 다른 사람 내가 아는 본모습이 아니라고 생각한듯 , 영준이 말처럼 연락 안되면 끝난거라고 생각하면 되는거 아니냐는 일단 너무 주관적임 생각인듯…그리고.. 솔직히 이둘 보면 그냥 지치는 느낌만듬… 이둘 스토리는 그만 보여줘도 될거 같은데…
명균이와 영준이는 과거 스킨십 챌린지를 찍어 올릴 사이였다. 그정도로 가까웠는데 영준이가 잠수를 했다. 여기서 오랜만에 만나서 영준이는 명균이가 너무 많이 말할까봐 무서웠는지 왜인지 그냥 아는사이였다고 거짓말로 빨리 말해버리자고 우기면서 성급하게 명균이를 통제하려고 했다. 끝.
영준이는 어느날 갑자기 이유도 모르게 잠수타서 1년이나 답도 없이 사람 미치게 하더니.. 명균이한테는 단 하루도 못기다리고 10분만에 쌍욕하면서 즉답을 요구하는게 맞나? 명균이는 말하기 싫겠지. 자기가 일방적으로 잠수이별에 당했는데 자존심 상하게 1년이나 구질구질하게 연락을 했으니. 명균이는 아직 맘이 남아있으니 영준이가 다른사람이랑 꽁냥거리는게 배아프고 영준이 본인피셜 회피형이 아니라고 거짓말을 하질않나 여러모로 명균입장에서 황당하지. 썸도 아닌 지인 관계였다고? 단순 지인 관계였다면 왜그렇게 영준이는 첫만남부터 안절부절 못했나? 왜 명균이는 이 정도 관계면 다른사람 누구한테도 더 이상 연락을 안한다고 하는지? 명균이 혼자 착각했더라도, 설사 지인관계라 해도 사람간 예의란게 있다. 얼굴모르는 배민라이더한테도 전화가 여러번 오면 뭔일이냐고 연락 그만하라고 문자라도 하나 해준다. 싫으면 싫다. 연락받기 싫으면 연락하지 마라..어려운게 아니잖아? 본인말대로 회피형이 아니면 확실하게 하자
@@premkumarirai7848 TBH I do feel that YJ has deep feelings for MK and is using Hanmin to mask his feelings. I hope they end happily together or with someone else. However I totally understand MK, if they were never in a relationship then it's no one's business what happened between them in the past. MK is giving him the space to explore his options but also keeping an eye on him. YJ has been trying to control the entire situation but he's consistently annoyed because he wants MK to be aggressive in his feelings towards him but because YJ disappeared before MK is afraid to do so. YJ ensured to flaunt the ring and his flirting with Hanmin in front of MK to try to get a response out of him numerous times but in the end he got annoyed because MK didn't give him a response. Then YJ intentionally switched back to MK bed when Hanmin moved downstairs and entered MK group chat to basically assert his position and force a response. Leading to the discussion which I feel YJ got louder because he wanted the house to know. But MK responded nonchalantly because why should MK tell him that he did fall in love with him if he's only gonna use it against him and disappear again. I think if YJ really listened he would have understood that is what MK was saying when he said that it was his weakness and that he was only focused on YJ in the past but then YJ disappeared.
명균님이 영준에게 받은 상처가 아직 아물지 않았나 봐요. 근데 서로의 대화 방식이 너무 다르네요. 그리고 영준님은 본인 잠수 탔다고 생각하지 않는 것 같은데요?! 잠수 탈 스타일은 아닐 것 같기는 한데... 명균님 입장에서 보면 잠수가 맞을 것 같은데... 헷갈리네요. 어쨌든 영준님이 이 영상을 보게 되면 명균님이 왜 그렇게 행동 했는지 이유를 알게 되겠네요. 명균님의 상처가 어느 정도 회복이 되었을 때 대화가 가능할 것 같아요.
싸우다가 명균이 생각의 시간이 필요하다고 해서 영준이 10분 생각하는 시간을주고 다시 돌아왔는데 명균의 첫마디가 "내가 ENFJ가 아니면 뭘까?" 이럼 ㅋㅋ 난 이때 명균이 너무 재밌다ㅋㅋㅋ 이말을 들은 영준은 황당해서 헛웃음침ㅋ 전날 영준한테 관심 있는 한민이 찾아와서 둘이 MBTI 이야기 하면서 재밌게 대화하는데 이때 명균이 둘을 빤히 쳐다 보는 장면이 있음. 그날 방에서 명균이 본인은 ENFJ라고 하니 영준이 인정 안한다고 했음ㅋ 명균은 그동안 머리속에서 그것만 생각하고 있었나봐. 명균 머릿속에는 온통 다 영준이랑 연결 되어 있음 ㅋㅋ
둘다 잘못이 있다해도 어쨋든 과거에 확실히 사이정리안하고 그냥 관심없다고 알아서 알겠지하고 흐지부지 끝낸 영준이 잘못인게 더 맞지않나 명균은 계속 친한사이라 생각했고 호감있었고 회복되길바래서 연락한거같은데 그때 난 더이상 이 관계안이어가고싶다 제대로 얘기했음 명균도 깔끔하게 맘 접엇을텐데 말없이 자기한텐 잠수타노코 연애하겠다고 여기나오니 열받을수도,, 그리고 명균이 자기들 둘 사이에 대해서 사람들한테 얘기하든말든 첨에 상관업다햇는데 영준이 오히려 무슨사이였던거처럼 괜히 아는사이라 알릴까말까 얘기좀하자이러면서 먼저 얘기도꺼내고
Personally i dont even want thm as friends/acquaintances. I just want them To have a good talk, resolve their past issues and never speak to each other. Move on from something that clearly is too much for them. Stay as a good memory and cut ties. Just because they were on the show should mean that they should be friends outside
People are saying that mk should talk about his feelings to YJ but think from his perspective that after being ghosted and leaving on seen for such a long time , do u think it's easy to say about his feelings,no it's not,and YJ doesn't even want to hear about past at all , he be like answer only this one question, I don't care about what other things you want to say
한쪽은 상대방 마음을 끌어낼줄 모르고 본인얘기만 하고 답답하다고 와다다 쏘아붙히고 한쪽은 본인 의사를 제대로 표현할 줄 모르고 자존심은 부리고 있고 이게 연애프로그램인지 금쪽상담소인지 .... 약간 관찰카메라로 사회실험 보는 것 같음 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 둘다 방송으로 본인 모습 보면 뉘우치는게 있을까.....ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
Even if I feel for MG, it is frustrating to talk to someone that won’t communicate back to you. I have such a person in my life and when in discussion, they just remain silent and barely express what they’re thinking. Maddening 😤
If you allow me... in my country there is a wise saying that goes like this: "Quiet waters are deep". The meaning of this saying refers to the hidden character of a person. In other words, quieter, more closed people can be very deceptive, they have a mysterious soul! Take care...
Myung thought they were kind of dating but youngjun didn't even considered it as flirting, lack of communication and closure.......i felt bad for myung when he cried but it was really frustrating even as a views to see their communications reaching no where, i hope they sort their problems out.....but it'll be interesting if they get back together 😃....
I was thinking of the same thing😆What if they got back together. Them being in the house together seeing each other with different people. What if it brings them back closer 😅 maybe after this conversation things will change between them🤷🏼♀️ who knows LOL
People are saying that understand the yj point of view but did you even think that after ghosting for such a long time and leaving on seen , he want mk to reply to his question right then and their and even if he is trying to say something, YJ be like I don't want to hear all those just say why did you say that that's all , bossing and ordering and so many abusive words, they literally have to beep the sound.
MK just decided to give YJ the same treatment he gave him when he ghosted him. I don’t know why people make it about lingering feelings, that’s not what’s going on
@@justinegr9692 I watched yesterday’s episode but I still don’t see any romantic feelings.. MK was comfortable in that relationship and find it shameful to end it this way but he probably knows it will never be the same
@@nyukyunyu so what if he KNOWS? Mind and heart can go in different directions ;) He said he was happy seeing YJ on the first day. And everything went down when YJ wanted to pretend they don't know eachother...
@@justinegr9692 I agree but he was clearly turned off by how much YJ changed (or evolved?) and he keeps bringing it up so it feels like he was happy to see him because he was ready to give him a second chance to clarify their situationship but he got hurt and doesn’t recognise him anymore. You can miss your ex relationship without still being in love with that person if that person changed and doesn’t suit you anymore
Yoon is so worried about his image! Making everything M fault when Yoon is one who was irresponsible and ghosted M, without giving him any reason and he wants answers from M immediately?! That's a bit rich isn't it?
It might be frustrating to talk with someone who won't tell you things properly, but it might be frustrating to know that someone doesn't respect your feelings and past and talk so aggressively. I hated watching this conversation, they are so toxic to eachother in different ways. Hope they move on . There is no future for them. Not even as friends,in my opinion.
This conversation could have gone better this if only Mk communicated better, but I get him though🥺 I just hope they sort it out during the next episode
Of course we don’t know the full reasons and story of them still but getting ghosted .. left on read is something that had broke me so much … it have really make me unable to make first moves anymore .. get attached to anyone .. getting comfortable with any new persons as I always gets thoughts of maybe they are also someone temporary in my life they will also leave me … I would also act same with that person if I meet one day I will also do my stuff while they are talking not give a attention and reply to their questions
It seems like a never ending conversation. There's nothing that can be solved by it. Even in all of the interviews, neither have stated that anything bad happened, nor anything good. They just lost touch, and were thinking different things. They have different mindsets and shouldn't try and talk it through, nothing to be solved cause there's nothing really wrong.
Why is Yoon getting so agro?! When he is the one who went on the chatting session and acted like a snake. He lied about Myuk not wanting relationship, when he is the one who ghosted him because his feelings changed, who does that?! And then he goes on smear campaign against Myuk implying he is on the show for wrong reasons,and makes small things into big problem making everyone in the house uncomfortable.
YJ babe I'm with u, you are fine, everything must be fine now, u probably even have a bf now (hope no this one) 🥺 waiting for this to end so I can see u upload again on Instagram, fighting!! U are very loved❤
Esa bola de nieve se hace ciamdo no se hablan las cosas claramente ahora hau que cerrar ese siclo ya no preguntando que paso sino dejando claro que cada uno busca cosas diferentes para su ❤ perdonen lo pasado y sigan adelante deseo que prosperen sus sentimientos con las nuevas personas que han encontrado en la casa sean felices no carguen con resentimiento de lo que no fue en el pasado
couldn't wait for the day after tomorrow to listen their myeongkyun and youngjoon conversation about it.. Will it be ressolved or not? Will they able to convey about each others feelings or not!!! 😢❤ Wish they wouldn't be together. Could wait for till Friday.
While watching this episode I Felt like that older guy could have hit the younger one if the cameras weren't rolling. It's selfish to suddenly stop talking to someone and completely ghost them be it a partner or friends or even acquaintances and think they would understand that they are not interested. This clearly shows how he doesn't want to own up to his actions . As I could relate to the younger guy - an incident in my teens where she stopped talking and started avoiding me with no explanations ,broke my heart and I went into self loathing and completely avoided any romatic relations with girls and started venturing with the smae gender and it's been 10 years I haven't been committed to anyone, it's difficult to let go but I will some day. I am clearly with this younger guy, where he has seen that older guy's cold and selfish side and how he is acting way too friendly and considerate and trying his best to please others, it's like putting an act. 😢😢
I think I am half agree with you but reading your story I hope you let go and believe me the feeling of letting go is really good I did recently... Damm I was crazy for someone who didn't even take the initiative to talk... But sonner Or later I just asked him one day I want our friendship to grow... And you know what we met 2 Times both times he didn't even reply to my message
Invece di rispondere 'non voglio dirlo' sembra che davvero no voglia che esca con nessun'altra persona, si chiama egoismo magari crescere e andare avanti non sarebbe male .. vivi e lascia vivere
I just want youngjoon to be at least a little more sensible and mature Alryt…he knows he did wrong to myeonkyun that why he is so insecure I would also be angry if someone I like and we going dates and stuff even if we don’t later be together just start ignoring my messages Alryt it will hurts to some extent
I really don`t understand why there would be people saying that Youngjoon is annoying. Every time YJ is trying to communicate with MK. MK is stretching, eating, looking around, joking.... He is clearly not listening. And most importantly, HE IS ALWAYS NOT ANSWERING THE QUESTION. If it was me, I would`ve already slapped his brain out of his head. Also, when YJ was confronting MK about the anonymous question session, MK was like '''What? I didn`t do anything'' WTF How are people defending MK just because he cried I`ve seen people saying the YJ ghosted MK but I don`t really think that`s the case. It`s so obvious that YJ wanted to start a relationship with MK. But MK`s detached attitude made YJ think that MK didn`t want to be in a relationship so his just left. And MK is obviously a narcissist so he`s shocked that YJ stopped liking him like MK thinks YJ would. MK is just trying to prove that he is attractive by raising YJ`s attention.
I totally agree with you. MK is very immature and spoiled child still. He is still not able get it into his head that they never had any relationship and YJ moved on from him. He realized later he lost YJ and now wants full attention. He is lying and building up stories clearly to spoil YJ image. I couldn't stand watching their conversation, imagine how much frustating it must be for YJ . May be MK was just the same before.
Ен.видет себя как дикарь. Зачем так вести себя не красиво. Он как Дикий Мустанг😡 все спрашивал у Мен.ТЫ ХОЧЕШЬ ИСПОРТИТЬ МОЙ ИМИДЖ и сам испортил себе ИМИДЖ. Мен.беги от него куда подольше. Он не заслуживает твое внимание. Хотя мне и Ханмин не нравится с первых дней,мне его жаль.Что он связал себя с этим Диким Мустангом🤦🏻♀️
In the last episode 8 I found Sungjoon out of control, I thought he was going to attack Myeonkyung. There are many conflicting feelings between them... I understood what Myeonkyung meant, Sungjoon was building a relationship with him and one fine day he simply ghosted Myeonkyung and left him without knowing why it had ended, then some time later they meet In a reality show, where the possessive Sungjoon wants to dictate rules, as soon as he could, he started treating Hanmin like his boyfriend, so I think that's what Myeon meant by "he's not acting the way he used to"...I don't know. , a lot happened and I'm on Myeonkyung's side because no one deserves to be deceived and abandoned no matter how bad their communication was. (MY OPINION) I didn't like Sungjoon from the beginning, he seemed fake and manipulative to me, and if you can't understand that, be careful, someday you could end up in a toxic relationship. Sungjoon plays sweet and innocent in front of his current prey (Hanmin), but the discarded prey (Myeonkyun) just needs to jump on his neck and attack him. There is nothing saintly about him, Sungjoon is very controversial in his attitudes.
mk doesn't express himself well. i don't understand people who want to push him so hard. he was able to talk once things calmed down, but it just wasn't enough to some :/
ppl in comments can comment like yj should do what,,, mk must be what... is because they are not the ones in the rs.... this is reality. not everyone can be good in rs, but maybe after this yj and mk reflect and can be better in their next rs...
This was a disheartening episode to watch. While it's clear for us, the audience, to see both sides of the situation, I just wish Myeongkyun had the courage to properly talk to Youngjoon about his feelings on their relationship. While it looks like Myeongkyun may have trouble expressing himself, you can clearly see that he has no problem doing so in the confessionals - he just has difficulties talking to Youngjoon. And knowing Youngjoon's personality, I don't blame him! Youngjoon is too controlling, too demanding, and while I sympathize with Youngjoon feeling frustrated over Myeongkyun's inability to properly convey his feelings, the way Youngjoon was screaming at Myeongkyun and later making him cry, made me lose a lot of respect for him. Overall, the two just aren't a good fit for each other. Myeongkyun is too laid-back and goofy and Youngjoon is too uptight and controlling. I hope that they're able to reconcile their differences and be on speaking terms with each other, at least. I want to see all the 'His Man 3' cast get together in Jaeseung's croffle shop like we saw in the previous seasons, but I feel like Myeongkyun or Youngjoon are going to refuse to hang out together or just make the reunions feel tense.
I can understand Yj.. Mk is too laid back nd didn't expressed his feelings directly to Yj.. So Yj got confused and thought Mk was not interested in relationship.. Or Mk didn't told him.. In one ep Yj even expressed why Mk is here, he is not into relationship.. So naturally Yj moved on... These things happened months before... For Yj its a closed chapter nd for Mk, he is stick there like a sloth... Yjs energy is fast moving while MK is slow moving... For me Yj did everything to get answr for the prblm.. But our slow moving Mk is still confused nd dont knw wat to do.. Mk really gaslighted Yj to this extend.. Yj is shouting bcz of Mks response. Yjk wants a closer but Mk is not ready for that...
How is YJ controlling and demanding? YJ had asked for MK`s thoughts for like 10 times and MK was just eating, joking, stretching, yawning. WTF was that attitude? Do you think that`s the attitude of the person who want to communicate despite having trouble expressiing? He is not `having trouble expressing himself`. He just doesn`t want to communicate. Also don`t forget that when YJ asked MK about the anonymous question, MK said ''What? I didn`t do anything'' c`mon you`re a grown ass man and you dare not to admit what you`ve done? seriously?
Mg was liking ALL Yunjun's IG posts like a stalker or fanboy, anyone here likes exes all pics? I can't say i like all pics of my BF or Bst , only BTS and Jin's pics as I am a fan then who needs fan in real relationship? Yunjun lives without Mg well and will live even better, Mg needs psychology to work with himself as he makes same mistakes as 4 years ago, ge needds to put his crown down and start show real feelings to ppl you like and not lie to ppl who you don't to Ms for example, it is obviously Mg adores Yg and lies to Ms there's no chem8stry between only from 1 side. According to Yj yes he needs to control his emotions but Mg actions brought even me to irritating point and i don't know him at all. Reputation in Korea means a lot not like in Western countries they could su...de even remember all idols and moviestsrs who did that and Mg sending anonymously QA about not being honest, then in common chat telling Yg keeps a secret plus annoying him by all small action towards Yg. And finally when Yg decided to talk with Mg he received back only nothing was observing how Mg eating cookies or yawning fase , excuse me WHAT? of cource everyone could be irritated. I understand Mg reaction as it is more likely protection reaction to aggression from Yg that's why he hiding behind it. Mg actions were same like 4 years ago when he didn't show his feelings to Yg and Yg stopped msgd to Mg as thought why should i reply to person who doesn't intrested in me when Mg with his crown was waiting and thought Yg will return to him but how other person will return if he even doesn't know you like him?????! By receiving once a while sms ??? It could only annoy why the person who not intrested in me message me? Of course i would not respond on it. That how happened that Yg disappeared. Bcs Mg never let understand to Yg that he liked him. And now after so many years Mg makes same mistakes. Again even he intrested in Yg he doesn't show his real feelings only lie to himself, annoys Yg and lie to Minsong. In relationship you MUST be honest first of all with yourself and no play games like Mg do.
Honestly myung was really frustrating to talk to too he was kind of poking youngjun so he got frustrated, if he has no feelings for youngjun he should stop doing such things when youngjun is asking him to stop. I felt bad for him when he cried but either he needs to tell youngjun his true feelings or he should just back off and not talk to him....and yeah youngjun needs to calm the f down too...
@premkumarirai7848 Myeong gyun had his reasons to behave like that. You can't just ghost ppl and expect them to understand unanswered questions. Also, from starting when myeong gyun came to the house, youngjoon tries to control him, and he himself started all these unwanted conversations and even swears at him.
@@gyuniverse313 when he talked to minson afterwards when he cried and when he talked infront of camera he expressed what he was feeling really well, so when youngjun came to confront him he should have just said those things to him in his face too. They were in differnt pages so myeong though they were kind of dating so he wanted closure but youngjun barely even considered it flirting or anything serious and he didn't wanted to continue further so he just stopped talking ..... Yup youngjun looked a bit controlling and i dont support him in that but if myeong wants answers then just ask him like a grown up person directly rather then writing questions or statements like that . When youngjun asked "do you still like me or what do you want?" he just says "i want nothing" so his anwers are bit frustrating too... Youngjun has temper issues and myeong has expressing and communication problem....
All anyone has to do is look who was crying and hurt and look who was looking for cuddles as if nothing happened the writing is on the wall the next episode will be them sitting down and talking it out for the camera the show has lost all respect ratings are low so let’s see if we can spice it up money talks very disappointed and let down by the makers of this show they are real people disgusting
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