아가들 입장에서는 어린이집 가는 것이 어른이 직장 출근 하는거랑 비슷한거 같아요! 어른도 새로운 직장 가면 적응하는데 빨리 또는 늦게... 사람들 마다 다 다르고, 사회 초년생들이 새로운걸 배우면서 사회에 적응하듯이 아이들은 아직 보고 느낀것이 어른과 다르고 경험도 작기 때문에 울음으로 표현한다고 생각해요! 루다 적응 너무 잘 해준거 같아요!!! 오늘도 너무 예쁘고 사랑스럽네요 루다♥
Offensichtlich ist Anpassung in eurer Kultur wichtig. Jedoch wo bleibt die eigene Persönlichkeit? Besonders jetzt ist die Persönlichkeit gefragt. Weltweit folgen die Menschen den Regierungen. Sind wir sicher, dass die Politiker es gut mit den Menschen meinen oder ist es für die Mächtigen nicht bequemer angepasste Menschen aus uns zu machen? Da gehört es auch dazu, möglichst früh die Kinder vo der Mutter zu nehmen und sie zu angepassten Individuen zu machen. So kann man das Volk gut steuern. Die kleine Seele von Ruda ist schon gebrochen. Eine Oma, Tante oder gute Freundin wäre besser für das Kind, um für die Eltern einen Freiraum zu schaffen. Ich wünsche von Herzen, dass es noch eine gute Lösung für die kleine Seele gibt..
@@gisela8893 제 글에 개성을 왜 찾습니까? 어린이집은 아이가 자라며 개성이 사라지는 곳이 아닙니다. 많은 것을 경험하며 작은 사회생활을 경험하는 것이라 생각합니다. 루다의 작은 영혼은 부서서지지 않았습니다. 루다는 더 튼튼하고 단단하고 멋진 영혼으로 자랄것입니다. 어머니의 품에서 자라는 것이 아이에게 더 좋을 수 있기도 하겠지만, 가정에서 접하기 어려운 많은 경험을 어린이집으로 통해 루다는 자신만의 개성을 찾아갈것 입니다. 다른 영상들을 보면 루다가 어린이집을 즐겁게 다니는 모습을 볼 수 있을것입니다. 저는 그런 루다가 적응해가는 모습이 기특하고 그렇게 느낄 수 있을것이라고 쓴 글입니다. 나쁜 시선으로 보지 마시길 바랍니다.
she's literally the cutest little angel everrrr!! and im so happy to see her adapt to day care!!! she's so brave and I hope this girl never loses her smile:))
you can stop filming only if you want to and if you have to, it really depends on you. do not be pressured on what the other people say. we raise our kids differently and you as parents of Ruda know what is best for her. i totally understand and respect your decision :D god bless to you and your family!!!
Ruda is so use to being at home so she's scared.Try a half a day every other day for 3months then try a whole day every other day.Then proceed to a whole day.U must not give up or give in.Just let her cry.She will win always all the time.Be strong and stand ur boundaries.
@@mabelreid2918 lt is not that Ruda is so used to be at home... Toddlers in that age need their mommies around them to feel safe and for their emotional development... To send toddlers to nursery, away from their mummies in very early age cause stopping their special feeling improvements between mommies and babies...
It's not about winning. That comes from a power struggle. Letting her cry is confusing to her. Years ago Letting a child cry it out was thought to be the way to go. It's not. I've seen the consequences of the let them cry theory. Rudy's parents will make the right decision.
@@ouyeht actually allowing babies to stick to their mothers at that age constantly makes they co-dependant and more shy to talk to other kids. I know this because I had two nephews who were super clingy to their mothers and didn’t go to school till a certain age. I found out from other school teachers and experts that children who go to school earlier develop their social skills very early and are super social butterflies. And least codependent and more independent on wanting to do their own things.
I worked in a daycare/preschool for several years. Those first couple weeks are always the hardest! Good job to all of you for being brave and following through! Now Ruda will be able to socialize with her peers and mom and dad get a mental break as well. ❤️
What's that mean?? Toddlers who are with their mums, dads not able to socialize??? In that age, human beings need their mum and dad around them for their emotions and emotional connections with their parents, not strangers whom they cannot give real emotions to babies but physical care as their duty... Please have a look the pediatric articules around the world about the affect of sending babies nursery in early age...
@@ouyeht it means exactly what I said. I didn’t say going to daycare was the best and only option. I’m commenting specifically on their video. Mom and dad have some child care provided so they can work and have a metal break. While that’s happening Ruda is making friends and learning in a different environment. I think that’s valuable for child and parents. I stand by my statement. Parents who have a need/want to send children to daycare should not be shamed by those who think their way is the only and right way to take care of children.
@@sarahcasias823 Then you exactly say "Now Ruda will be able to socialize with her peers" as if without daycare Ruda cannot be able to socialize, this is exactly what you say... Ruda needs to socialize when she speaks and keeps her moves well, she cannot do these as a toddler yet.. Babies, toddlers need mums and dads and their own place.. not peers not different environment.. The most valuable thing for babies and toddlers is constant emotional connection with their mum and dad, which cannot be provided by peers or carers in the nurseries.. Assume that to be mum and dad as a mental breaking "another job" is degrading being parents.. To be mum and dad is totaly unconditonal and instictive, it is nothing about "job" as it is showed to the society by the media... No one shamed parents as you falsely blamed but no one should courage parents to send their babies or toddlers very early age to nurseries either...
@@ouyeht Every parents are different just because for you it's not good it will be applied to everyone. Sometimes it's better for kids this age to learn this than later when they're older and they still cry when their mom or dad leaves them in Pre-School/Elementary/Grade School. 2 hours won't even hurt a child. It's normal for them to cry like that because they're attached to their parents. My mom raised me that way, and every time she send me there she prepares me emotionally. Talking to me, telling me that she's going to be back...and would even bribe me that if I don't cry she will give me a treat or she will treat me somewhere when we get home. I remember these things because up until pre-school we would have a talk every time I go to school. I always end up looking forward for the whole day without crying at all. Again it's different for each and every one of us.
현직 어린이집 교사 하면서 이렇게 적응 잘 해주면 참 고맙죠~ 간혹 왜 아이가 어린이집 가려고 하면 우냐며 부모님이 의심하시면 마음이 상하기도 하고요...저희가 최선을 다해도 처음 접하는 새로운 기관이 어린아이들에게 낯선것은 당연한 것이고 어린이집보단 부모님이 계신 집이 제일 좋은것이 아이들 마음이겠죠? 이해해주시는 분들이 감사할 따름입니다🥲
I owned a daycare for 10 years, children learn what works for them in their first year of life. She will also have separation anxiety in the beginning but will learn that you come back for her everyday. She will learn to socialize and comfort herself and in the long run that’s what we all want for our children. Confidence and strength. I would always tell parents to drop off quickly and leave without showing their anxiety and fear. Children mimic what they see. Best of luck w your adorable daughter!
That age she doesn't need to socialize, she needs "first" her mum and dad around her to improve her emotional connection with them.. Nursery cannot replace that very special connection between toddlers and their parents... but stops that connection which they will need later in life...
@@wantedu2812 No one would agree with your disrespectful, rude insults... Obviously you are the proof of bad affect of the early age daycare... you cannot discuss without insulting which shows you have anger issues...
Ruda is doing a lovely and amazing job at adapting! I'm an Early Childhood Education major in college and her crying while separating and even talking about going or getting ready to go is completely normal! between ages 15 mo- 2 1/2 their brain is starting to make new emotions, so she actually is learning how she feels so they can be very sensitive and irritable during this time because they simply don't know what they are feeling. But you guys are doing an amazing job at reassuring her! And i was so proud of her the day she didn't cry when you got to the daycare!
It took my son who was already 3, nine whole months of crying when I left him every morning before he could stay a whole day, my heart broke so much but I persevered and never broke the schedule and he finally waved bye to me with a big smile rather than screaming with tears 😍❤️
@@daisydukes8252 He was three years old. It took nine months for him to stop crying. It sounds like it was partly developmental. He wasn’t old enough. I think kids should home with their mommies. That’s my .02.
living god,s in world are actually kids. till they turn three or four year they have universal connections that adults can,t feel or see. so that make them so special n adorable.
현 어린이집교사입니다^^ 적응기..참 힘들죠 저도 아이들이 적응기간에 낯선곳에 평생 옆에 엄마아빠도 안계시니 슬프고 무섭기도 할게예요 적응기간 오래걸리면 6개월까지 걸린 친구도 봤어요(현재저희반)ㅋㅋ 루다 적응하는거보니 중간중간 울음만 있는게 아니고 울음참는모습 보이는거 보니 빠른 적응할거같아요:) 한달뒤쯤이면 엄청 씩씩하게 갈거같네요~
She’s absolutely adorable, you two are great parents, remind me a little of my own parents, they as well had (and still) have standards with me until my stress is gone. That’s really great 👍
Engraçado que quando o pai dela pede a mão ela não dá e quando a mãe pede ela da kkkk muito fofa. Também quando ela tá com o pai pergunta pela mãe, e quando tá com a mãe pergunta pelo pai. Muito fofa ela. Essa fase é assim mesmo, adaptação.
When my boy went to day care for the first day. He cried a lot and it made me cry a lot too. The feeling of separation is equally painful. But we get used to it... Love you lil angel. You are a brave girl.
I am so happy and proud of Ruda, she really is a brave girl, she is lucky to have such great dads who care about her and educate her since she was little correctly 💘💘 Good job, I love this family 🥺❤️
When KJ said that they can take better care of Ruda physically and mentally when she comes back from daycare, it reminds me of the saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder".
no you shouldn't put baby anywhere at this age a mother should teach baby to talk first its precious time for baby the way of talking their accent and behaving you can make baby socialize with let them interact with adults at this age she has nothing to gain from playing interacting with same age she is still baby she will go to Kindergarten and school and stuff for physically and mental growth she will not gain same attention she needs at this age she needs to learn to talk and behave from parents first
@@xzxz2169 well some parents want to take their kid to daycare, or sometimes they just don't have an option, especially if they are both working, so get over it and don't tell other people what they should do with their own life ,peace!
@@mrim1722 what they should do with their own life i mean you can do whatever you want but should you ? some ways of doing things are objectively better than others you dont need both people doing job or earn money specially if you have baby you can do job after kid grow up i had both parents working it sucks for kid trust me a kid doesn't care about you earning money so at least you should be with them full time till they can do basic things at least till they can talk and express what they want to say
@@xzxz2169 uhhh? Do you have children? Parents have to work to earn money to fed, cloth and house the child. Not every family can afford to just have one parent working. Your comment is ridiculous because it doesn't even include single parent families. My mom worked all the time and I was in daycare, preschool and with my grandma. I loved it. Your personal experience is not everyone's experience. Also, it is very important for children to socialize with other children. Social skills are important and it is good to learn them early on.
루다가 잘 적응해서 다행이에요~ 유아교육과라 교수님께 이야기 많이 듣는데 한 달 지나도 적응 못하는 아이들도 있어요 루다가 말을 듣고 의미를 알고 대답도 잘하는데 집에서 어린이집에서 있었던 일? 밥 잘 먹었니 잘 잤니 잘 놀았니 어린이집과 관련한 말을 자주해주세요 책도 많이 들려주시고요 그럼 루다의 앞으로 얼집 생활이 더 편해질 것 같네요
Она так выросла!!! Чужие дети и вправду бустро растут))) Я достаточно долго за ними следила, а потом перестала. Такая красивенькая!! Ей очень идёт с пучком!!
20개월 울 아들 얼집댕긴지 오개월째 인데 아직 들어갈땐 우는날이 많아요 문닫음 바로 눈물그치고 신나게 놀아요 ㅋㅋㅋ 저도 항상 등원길에 밝게 인사해주고 시간맞춰 데리러 가고 놀이터에서도 놀다오고 하니 어떤날엔 자기가 얼집가자고 가방메요 ㅎㅎ 확실히 가서 배우는거도 많고 몰랏던 모습도 알게되서 장점도 단점도 잇네요, 루다 너무 이쁘게 잘키우시는 모습보고 저도 배우고 있어요 건강하게 세식구 늘 행복하시길!!
Parabéns pela filha linda q vocês tem, dói muito qdo tem q deixar na creche e vê o choro deles, mas faz parte da vida, que bom q ela se adaptou era feliz! Deus os abençoe 🙏🇧🇷
She’ll be fine. It’s the best place to teach her that’s when you are gone she’s okay. It will be harder as she gets older. Her fake cry is hilarious. 😂
Родители молодцы. Они сделали всё правильно, постепенно приучали Руду к садику. Детский сад выбрали очень хороший, воспитатели тоже отличные. Ребёнок должен быть в детском коллективе, социализироваться, узнавать других людей( а не только маму с папой). Это большой шаг маленькой девочки Руды в самостоятельную жизнь. Она молодец.
Estou tão contente que ela está se adaptando na escola e não chorando tão constante como antes. Vocês são um exemplo para todas as famílias que queiram ter filhos!! ❤❤
É tão bom ver ela se adaptando cada vez mais !!! ❤️❤️ Muito bom ver o rosto cheio de lágrimas se transformar em um rosto confiante e corajoso ❤️❤️❤️❤️ mesmo ela ainda chorando enquanto ainda está é casa , mas tudo nessa vida a gente conquista com o tempo !
This channel is such a good repository of Ruda's childhood. I wish I too had sth like this while I was a growing up. But I guess every time period has it's own pros and cons. I ❤ Ruda. She's become so dear (to so many people) even though I, and others like me of course, don't know her personally.
I love that you are filming sweet Ruda every day with daycare. It breaks my heart to see her cry, though the fake tears are funny. You are making great progress getting her use to daycare. Keep up the good work! Daycare is important for Ruda’s development. Love the three of you so much!🥰. ❤️❤️😘😘😘
The cutest little manipulator! Ruda learned this cry hard get what I want so early! Woah! 😵😵 Ruda is doing well .Ruda We love you ❤️ MJ & KJ you are very great parents. I pray God will bless you more and more as you grow and go through life.
Definitely agree with you. And I think it will be best for them to stop mentioning the daycare as a scary thing to her like, "I don't know if she would cry today when we go to the day care" she might interpret it as something she is supposed to do because she only cries when you mention the daycare. You are the best parents a child could ask for and the reason of what I said above is because Roda is very smart and she picks up fast too.
Foi uma jornada e tanto. Eu sempre na expectativa de como ela iria se sentir. E compartilhava das emoções de vocês, pais. Coisa boa que a Rudá se acostumou e agora pode aproveitar a convivência com os amiguinhos!
I watched my son from the door window of his class everyday while assuring him that I wouldn’t be far (advice from his teacher) and when he started making friends his looks toward the door became minimal until he no longer needed to look. It was a very easy process for us both. Just keep reassuring her that you’ll be there to pick her up. I love her soooo much. 😊
Ruda is the worlds most adorable child! You are doing a wonderful thing by taking her to pre-school. I had an only child. I felt he needed it to be more socially rounded. They get so much out of it! The adjustment with so many tears is really difficult initially! You are both terrific parents and she is so blessed with a Mom and Dad like both of you!
So interesting are these videos of Ruda adapting to kindergarten. When the parents gave her the stickers to share with her friends, I think that helped her a lot.Good job Ruda's mom and dad👏.
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