Dr. Liz, you can feel however you feel. No one has the right to tell you how to feel. I am so sorry some people can make you feel so upset. I wish I could go treasure hunting in your yard. You have beautiful hidden gems there. May your heart be comforted. You are one amazing human being.
Thank you, Sopon. They certainly get me out of bed in the morning. I'm glad I neglected them. Now I have a lot to look forward to. Have a wonderful day!🥰
You're healing. Don't let anybody rob you of your joy. Cry if you feel like crying and laugh at good memories. Sometimes, people don't know what to say. You are loved. You have life, enjoy. ❤
I know it's hard to hear those insensitive words, Liz. Hope you continue to get better mood each single day, and have healthier mental state each single day. Praying for you . Please take care 💖
Thank you Siew Lean. I'll be okay as long as I don't answer the phone anymore.😂 I can't control what other people say.😔 Enjoy the rest of your evening. 🥰
Thanks, Rebecca.😘 I guess he wanted to make me feel better but was shock to hear that I sounded better than he expected. Maybe he just wanted to be of use. Thanks for watching and have a fantastic day!🥰
Hi Liz! Like you I am a positive person and happy. Sometimes I think happy, positive people throw people off . Everybody grieves differently...don't let opinionated people get you down ❤
They throw me off for a day... Then I move on. There are plenty more fish in the sea.😂 That's what I was meant to say in the video. Just sad that I have to get rid of people like these in my life after spending so much time with them. Another lesson learned. Thanks for watching, Molly and have a fantastic weekend!🥰
Dear Liz, I've been watching your channel for a long time and have learned a lot from you. Now I would also like to give you a tip. If you place a four-leaf clover between book pages, it will be pressed smoothly and look much nicer afterwards. I always do it like that. All love from Germany Eva
Aww Liz I'm so sorry, some people just have no sympathy for others, silly man. Don't let him make you feel bad. Everyone grieves loss in their own way. 🙏
I think maybe he thought that seeing how much I loved my husband that he expected me to be in a big ball of mess for the next 10 years. I still got upset though. Cuz now, I'll have that in my head (not too jolly) when I answer my phone.😔 Thanks for watching, Alicia and have a great day!🥰
Oh my Liz. So so sorry you went through that horrible phone call. The nerve. But my gosh and there are more and more succulents. Love it. And I so love the leggy succulents. It looks so precious. Thank you so much for even making this video for us knowing what you arrhythmia through. You are so awesome. God Bless Liz always.
Everyone is different in grief. You take as much time as you want. Though don't take every comment too seriously. Many people are uncomfortable talking about feelings, so when they ask how you are, they have no tact because they aren't vocal about feelings because its awkward for them. Big hug from Northern California. You know I watch your videos all the time, when I make cactus pots for sale and for my plants.
Thank you so much for watching, Stone. I'm glad you're enjoying my videos. Now that you've mentioned pots, have to remind myself to utilize my natural stone pots.☺️ Have a wonderful day!🥰
@@GrowingSucculentswithLizK you too! You also got me into growing echeveria. I didn't really keep them before. Now they are everywhere. Front yard, back yard, side yard, someone stole one or 2 from my yard...😆
Hello Liz - Thank you for your videos; I've learned much from them. I am with your other subscribers, so sorry your old friend made you feel badly for your utterly normal mood. He was wrong. Your emotions are yours, and they are whatever they are at any given moment and letting yourself feel them is healthy. Even shutting them down when you need to do that is healthy. Thank you for the tip on your Kiwi Aeonium. I have a mature one like yours and I noticed new babies inside, the other day. Didn't occur to me to trim and expose those. The thought of cutting her is ... Yikes. In my zone (10a) (SF Bay Area), Kiwi is happiest in AM sun and afternoon bright shade. Don't know what I'll do with all of those cuttings. Anyway -- thank you for the info! And... Often when I'm upset about something, i go out and Kiwi makes me feel better. Seems crazy ;), but she is so lovely, and so cheery, and right outside my back door... She simply makes me smile. Best to you from Northern California. ❤
Aeonium Kiwi was the reason I got addicted to succulents. When I had my first one with no name, I was so fascinated with her that I research about succulents just to find her identity. Didn't even know she's a succulent.😂 Thanks for watching, Rebecca and have a fantastic weekend!🥰
Love you too! I'm sad but not sad.😁I'll be okay. In time, the wound will heal to leave a scar but it's okay. Thanks very much for watching and have a happy weekend!🥰
Good idea to not answer some phone calls & only answer for immediate family or close friends. Better for your mental well being. Some people are not very flexible in their thinking and think things have to always be a certain way. Everybody grieves differently. On a different note, isn’t it amazing how the baby succulents outgrow their mother? I just had this happen with my Topsy Turvey pups. So interesting! We’ve hit a cold & rainy spell again in Perth so I’m staying inside with my cats this weekend. ☕️🫖 The wind feels like it’s coming from Antarctica … soooo chilly! 🥶 Looking forward to your next video. Enjoyed the treasure hunt. 💚🪴🍀
7 day forecast for Canberra is max of 22°C and no frost,☺️ which is ideal for growing my babies and working in the garden. Hope your weather warms in your neck of the woods. Thanks for watching, Susan and see you on the next video.🥰
Hallo my lovely, The only ones responsible for living our lives as we choose, are ourselves. And your decision to live your life as happily as possible according to your circumstances is sobering. I send you loving and supportive hugs.
He's just a miserable......😔 I don't know how it feels to be him so I have to be civil in doing my exit strategy.😂 Thanks for watching Toni and have a great weekend!🥰
Mao di ay wala kay video granny …just live day by day granny … Anyways mo surrender nako sa sedum clavat granny oyyyy ahahahaha dli jud sya ganahan dri sa Mandaue Cebu ahahahaha
Ang Clavatum o labing sedum, ganahan og gamay nga bugnaw nga panahon. Mao nga dili sila ganahan sa init ug umog nga panahon sa pilipinas. Salamat sa pagtan-aw day, ug pag-amping.🥰
I'm cheerful, Cynthia. Very cheerful. Love to laugh and giggle. Not happy at the moment but I find happiness in everything I do.🤔😂 Thank you for watching and have a great day!🥰
I’m sorry he said that to you… Sometimes people are complete asshats 🤦♀️ You’re allowed to feel however the hell you want. Like others have said, don’t let nobody steal your joy! That said, grief and death can make everyone say weird shit. Is it possible they were taken off guard by your joy? We know the world thinks that women are to be all sad, mournful, and dressed in black. No shade to any of that, let your inner Emo out🤘😂
A couple of years ago, my husband was looking for another husband for me 😂because he doesn't want me to be sad when he's gone. I'm generally a happy person. I'm easily content with simple things.😁But I also easily get affected by negative people. I got sick/affected by this person not because of what he said but because of what I'm about to do again. He's "another person" I have to delete😂 in my life. It's okay to not be okay but I will be. Thanks for watching and have a great day!🥰
First of all that person that called you should have said to you! How r you doing instead of saying stupid stuff! How rude of that guy! Just take good care of yourself Liz! ⚘️🌵🌻🪴
There are some people that really annoy me. Another person ask me how I am. I said...I'm well, thank you! Then she ask again...NO...Really! How are you? I'm fine thank you! No, no, no....Really? How are you? She ask the third time. I burst out crying and she said....I'm sorry. I said now....You know how I am! 😡She was dumbfounded and I change the topic to her daughter. Wal's passing had brought out a lot of people that I really want to delete in my life.😂 Thanks for watching and have a great weekend!🥰
If you keep picking your 4 leaf lovers they won't come back. I found that out when we first moved to this place 3 yrs ago, I was finding 4 leaf clovers all over, but after I picked them, they never came back. :(
I need them out.😂This area will eventually be covered with synthetic grass or pebbles. I can't have grass here or clover.😔 Thanks for watching Kathy and have a great day!🥰
How people can be so insensitive sometimes 😰 Your plants is showing your true emotions...😢 they are not neglected.. they are neglected for a reason 😢 they are sad beacause you're sad... tight hugs!
I can’t believe you just dump the leaves and they grow so well ❤I’ve come to believe that the more you look after succulents they die so I’m just letting them survive on their own and I never use labels I don’t care what their names are 😮only when you tell us names so we can buy 👍🥰🐨❤️🦘I think it’s dandelion you can make a tea from the yellow flowers ❤Liz don’t explain yourself that person is not a person you need in your life don’t think twice.
I will try dandelion tea. Thank you, Louise! My late stepfather loved dandelion salad. We'd walk around his garden and he would pull out a couple of leaves from his lawn and chew on it.😂 I'm a stickler for names because I have to find the ones that will survive in my garden. Also saves me from buying them again. Thanks for watching and enjoy the rest of the evening.🥰
Thank you for another video. I am glad if you are happy doing another video while working on your beautiful garden even just cleaning up for we learned some ID on your succulents. Sad to know some people have negative views on good people. Anyway have a fantastic day too. Take care stay strong and God bless.❤❤❤
That was very Rude of your friend to say that to you. That you shouldn't be Happy. You have every right to be Happy, and it's so nice to see when you are. Don't let people put you down like that ever again, it's wrong.
In a way, I felt sorry for him that I still managed to talk to him for half an hour. 😁 As I get older, I learned that there are a lot of miserable people in the world. They are attracted to people who are not like them but also resent them for being not the way they are. 🥰
I love you for who you are. Please, you do not have to be sad for someone else. I love your videos and listening to you tell us how you are going.. stay strong Liz. Sue from Australia.
I'm doing fine, Sue. One step over the other, one day over next. I find joy in my garden, things I do in my home, my rocks, my shows, my food.... In everything around me☺️. Even comments from someone like you gives me comfort. So... thank you very much! Have a great weekend!🥰
You could be happy or sad does not matter it's however you feel that day I hope you start feeling better God bless you and your family don't listen to the people😊😊😊😊
I also lost my husband afteer a long illness. I was shocked when it happened but not surprised. I had been preparing for years so I went into go mode once the first day was gone. I had family to help me through everything, but not to be a crutch and I think that helped me a lot. I have lost a lot of friends because he passed and now hlf of his family has nothting to do with us. We just made the best of it all and moved on. I like you will always grieve for him but I waited 1 year before dating again and I am glad I did.
So sorry for your lost, Laura and also for losing his side of the family and friends.🤗 I'm on the same boat as you but I'm fortunate that I'm still very close to his parents. It will be a long while before I even think of dating. I'll see how I feel after 3 years if I don't become a nun. 😂 I have a house to finish and lots of places to go. I'm excited and cautious at the same time of what's up ahead. Thanks for watching and have a wonderful day!🥰
Your friend may need a lesson in tact. Regardless of the reason someone may be sad, that is not a very friend like thing to say. And its certainly not in this kind of situation
I think he was reflecting what's going on his life to me. How can I still be happy "considering" what happened to me, in comparison to what's happening in his life. It's like....How can you be happy when I'm sad?🤔 Now I'm sad bcoz I found another unreal friend. 😔 Thanks for watching, Corrie and have a great weekend!🥰
I know, right? I just don't like that some people like to stir it up. Hard enough to be breathing what more putting up with their BS. Thanks for watching and have a great weekend! 🥰
People should be more thoughtful before they speak and realize you've been in mourning for a very long time... more than likely a huge part of that 15 years on a subconscious level.... I began watching you while mourning my mother... some days it was all that would take my mind off it... thank you Liz ❤ don't let people dim your light ✨️
Thank you, Sassy for a very thoughtful and encouraging comment. 🤗You hit the nail right on the head. I think sometimes, one needs to dim our light a little bit to know who we turn it off to.😂 Have a wonderful day and thanks for watching. 🥰
I just love the way you say “any who” 🤣 instead of “any how” my mums German (lived in the UK for 50yrs now) & still makes me giggle with her word mix up 🤭 keep that chin up Liz ❤ & cut anything (or anyone) out of your life that makes you sad- is my advice x
I'm not mixed up. I really meant to say Anyhoo! Don't know if you heard of this... Here in OZ, we have that saying....ANYHOO😁 Thanks for watching and have a great weekend!🥰
