okay i’m just gonna go cry, dylan’s voice broke so hard when he was explaining why he unfollowed her :( it’s clear he was and still is in love with her and wow my heart is broken
IKR. Same. I feel like giving him a big old bear hug and letting him cry with me. I’m not even a mother and I feel some crazy mother like instincts kicking in rn lol
I’m sorry like I love summer, but it makes me so mad when she says she’s “breaking out” when she isn’t even, when someone like me actually has breakouts.
sorry to be off topic but does someone know a method to get back into an instagram account..? I somehow forgot my account password. I would love any tricks you can give me.
Ugh I know. I've been noticing that ever since she slimmed down and got more into shape she has changed a lot. She kinda seems more into herself now, she never showed her body the way she does now and etc. Her vibe is just different.
And even in their love story video when they were talking about first impressions and Dylan was saying how he knew she's the one and he fell in love and she would say 1st impression was that he was attractive. It was clear from the beginning who loved the other more
hmm yes and no. Dylan is an amazing guy but i’ve been in a relationship with someone who is very similar to him. They are amazing but some people feel very trapped with people like them, because they (the guys in this case) very much build their life around the relationship. This can feel super restricting, even though this is not at all what they want us to feel, which is ultimately really sad because it ends in a break-up where one feels freed from a potentially amazing spouse& the other one is heartbroken.
it is, and when you are with him it just feels magical but things happen and some ppl aren't meant to stay in your life forver even if you thought (SO MUCH) that he was the perfect person you needed which makes it harder when you realize he has to go cause you are scared of losing him and of what life wll be without him and of how you will never find someone like him but you just gotta let go and continue your journey of discovering yourself
She’s not going to find someone who’s achieving goals, becoming successful, waiting until marriage, and loving her to an extreme like him. Ever. People like him come once in a lifetime
Very very true. Once I found out he was waiting for her I just lived dylan so much more. He literally is the perfect guy. And they’re saying the problem is that he was too involved with her. Like damn. If I found a Dylan I would cry and thank the lord man like there are not many guys like him.
I feel like telling her that she’ll never find a man that respects her beliefs degrades her as woman all together and is very disrespectful. women aren’t just sexual objects and aren’t just meant to fill a men’s sexual needs. if something wasn’t right she shouldn’t feel like she has to be with someone just because someone won’t comply with her beliefs.
She’ll find the right one for her. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with waiting till marriage, and although there aren’t as much guys that would wait, those few are very special.
@riona clariss, did you not watch the entire live stream? She literally told her fans to shut up, and was being extremely obnoxious, rude, and immature. She's changed a lot.
@@xmellowdrama oh sorry 😂 not an extremist it's just irritating to hear some refer to a church as a cult??? Like those are two completely different ends of the spectrum
riona clariss I can understand what she’s going through but her tone at times was very harsh and out of character imo. not blaming her for anything, I love the bits of her life she shares on the internet
i don’t know why i don’t notice anything she just seems unphased because she’s so used to telling people. she doesn’t seem like she’s acting weird to me
People deals with pain in different ways, we don't know what happens behind the cameras, if i was in her place, i'd probably act the same way, bc it'd so awkward and i wouldn't want to seem sad and pathetic
tanner isn't ok I definitely understand that this was uncomfortable for her I definitely feel like there are better ways to address things though but I can’t speak for her hopefully she didn’t mean it in a rude way
Y’all are all 12 years old and have never been in a relationship... everybody grows up and changes and you don’t have to stay with someone if you aren’t happy
Summer will regret initiating the break up with Dylan. He is going to college in Laguna and will have thousands of beautiful girls fall head over heels for him, and see how incredible sweet and HOT he is. A rare combo!
thomas getter she’s a good person, as is he, and it’s obvious that they are both grieving even if they show it in different ways. They’ll both move on, they’re young and have plenty of time to find the one
Bruh tbh I ran XC at South Eug HS and she ran for Sheldon and all my girl friends on the team said she lowkey was so mean during races and after. Like they’d even just try to say good race and she would give em looks.
This video kinda makes me feel different about summer she’s so rude and annoying in this video “it’s our personal thing” 5 minutes later “ask questions about our relationship”
it's sad that summer was the one initiating the whole break up thing because i think that there aren't many boys like dylan, willing to respect her choices and to love her the way we does. ofc none of us knows the whole story and summer might have her own reasons for having decided to do this, but i'm sure there are a lot of girls wanting someone like dylan and i just hope she doesn't regret it:\
Well maybe there are a lot of girls wanting "someone like Dylan" but what does it help summer if she is not one of them? Of course she has her own reasons, maybe they were fighting every single day of their relationship and then why would she stay in the relationship if she's genuinely unhappy just because he's a good catch?? Doesn't make sense to me..
i know, you are so right. it is nearly impossible to find a teenage boy that will want to be in a relationship and commit to only you, without having sex. as a girl, i absolutely HATE saying that, but its the sad horny truth about young boys :/
Mia Gotsch i think she just felt uncomfortable and awkward because they said they hadn’t actually talked about the break up on their own so there was some areas that were uncomfortable for her
I mean we all need to understand that everyone ( mostly teen youtubers like hannah meloche idk ) is literally fake on youtube, they're not their ' real ' self on youtube lol
summer needs to be mature.. like she keeps saying "I owe this to yall' and then complaining. like lol it's your life stop letting social media take over it. that's your fault, not anyone else. she also keeps snapping on Dylan when he ACCIDENTALLY cuts her off and then every time dylan speaks she talks over him. like wth lol
No how are you blaming her? She just wants to live her life without telling EVERYONE what’s going on with her. They did not talk about their relationship status apparently that’s because they wanted to keep it personal. They aren’t supposed to update their relationship status on the internet just because they are youtubers. You’re the one needs to be more mature, not Summer. She keeps snapping on Dylan that’s because everyone just kept asking the same question over and over again, just like what happened in their comment sections on every single Instagram post. She even said it herself that it’s so stupid and annoying they have to talk about it just to let everyone know “they broke up”.
Raven Smith I think they're both really uncomfortable at the beginning Dylan does the same thing I don't think it's right thing to blame her she defiantly is just trying to find a way to make it seem like it isn't awkward for her
Bertha Lovejoy Oh, she's not having sex before marriage? That's great and all but wasn't she involved in some kind of drama bc a video of hers got leaked? Just askin
erika aesthetic i don’t necessarily think she said that because she was annoyed by the questions i think she was upset that some people were commenting about how they “made a mistake” and they should “still stay together and just have distance” and i think she said that because they didn’t want to explain themselves. that’s just my opinion though
Summer: “i feel like u guys have the right to know what happened since yall were so involved” 2 minutes later summer: “uGH THIS IS SO ANNOYING WE SHOULDNT HAVE TO DO THIS SSKKDK ANNOYED WOW”
I mean it was Dylan's decision to livestream so she was just tryna be supportive of that and get the questions coming but the reason she was getting ticked off was prolly bc she didn't want fans, who don't have the whole story, blaming her for the break up.
@@audreymatthews9311 true but if you ever involve people in your relationship there's going to be those people that just have to express their opinion on their relationship
@@ChocMocoMonster ya I could tell she was frustrated but when you're a role model to many people, things like that you have to keep your cool and explain
Why’s she being so patronising and condescending?? Like when he said he will always have love for her, and she said it back, it was said with literally zero emotion and heart. And then making such a massive point that he’s never been through this before and she’s his first girlfriend and this is his first break up. You can tell that means so much to her, and not in a good way. It means so much to her because she has this sort of power over him or higher standing just because she’s been through this before with another guy and because she’s the one who initiated the break up.
Same I had a girlfriend who acted like this and I cut her off quick she kept tryna be my friend then acted like I was the wack one. Lowkey psycho asf but she knew I had fallen for her hard. It was just evil. She wanted to feel like the better one so bad.
SarahTheMango Even if he didn't agree,what did you want him to do beg her to stay with him? It was only a matter of time that they would break up, you cant have a one sided relationship
summer is so mean in this one.. just don't do a livestream if you are annoyed by people typing after you encourage them to ask you questions. Like wtf, get it together
I don’t think that she’s being rude but i think that u can obviously tell that she’s uncomfortable and the way she’s acting shows it. There’s definitely still tension between them tho
I hope summer won't regret letting go dylan cuz there are barely guys like him walking around on this earth and summer was one of the lucky girls to find a guy like him but I guess she won't realise that until she loses him forever
@@CanHSoccer1827 I never said to stay in a relationship you're not happy in, seeing the reason for their break up wasn't being unhappy but simply to have more time for themselves is the reason I said what I said and I never said there were no guys like dylan I said there are not a lot of them and even if there were a lot of guys like him doesn't mean you'll find love with those guys that's my point really, finding someone who's truly in love with you and cares about you is very damn hard, like I said you have to be very lucky to find true love in this lifetime but you have a point as well they are indeed very young and have plenty of time but I never denied that though I'm just saying summer might one day look back at what she had with dylan and regret the decision she made cuz like they said themselves what they had was very special but then again if they're meant to be one way or another they'll find their way back to each other
Lol this is why you don't make your relationship so public. This livestream was honestly so unnecessary, they shouldn't have to address anything, because honestly I don't think it's that big of a deal.
Thats what all these insta/yt couples do for clout -.- its super cringe when people go public to address their breakups like seriously WHO CARES LOL they gotta stop blowing their own trumpets 😹
She's gotten a lot thinner this year and I know it sounds stupid but I think that gave her an ego boost and now shes more into herself. And she's probably noticing guys wanting her more now too.
she's changed so much since they first started dating, the more fame she has had the more different she has become; i feel like the more she's hung out with popular youtubers, the more like them she became and kind of lost her unique personality and became like them
@@jesusfreak7796 I feel like she's now trying to act like her old "weird" self again tho but to me it's coming across as "people have been saying ive changed so I am gonna convince them I haven't to keep fans" type thing.
Chloe Maslansky if it’s what she needed she has the right to break up with him and not be blamed for her fucking choice. grow up. stop tearing women down and making them feel guilty for leaving a relationship they don’t want to continue
@@chihiro7861 i was debating whether or not to reply to this but after putting in some thought... how you boutta tell me to stop tearing women down after you just told me to grow tf up? My last intent was to tear Summer down. I do understand that as a young woman she is entitled to do whatever she wants without explanation. However, as much as I love Summer, I felt the need to defend Dylan because in my opinion (which is a god given right to myself) I felt like she was speaking for the both of them and justifying the reason that they broke up improperly and quite inappropriately. Dylan was clearly heartbroken, and I felt that it was wrong of Summer to assume that the break up was something they both wanted. A true feminist does not believe that Women are superior to men, which is why I chose to defend the male in this situation because IN MY OPINION, I felt that the female was in the wrong. Again, a young woman is entitled to action without justification... but it is not my fault that Summer decided to justify her actions and I disagreed with the justification.
Honestly, to everyone saying summer is lacking emotion or whatnot, it sounds like they've already discussed this and she's probably already cried or whatever she needed to do to feel better. It's been 2 months. They're probably just annoyed they have to sit down and explain something they don't even necessarily understand themselves
just watch the christmas vlogs (vlogmas) of that summer made with dylan in them. you can see the difference then and now between how she seems to act. she doesn't necessarily act rude or selfish BUT she is just isn't as down to earth as she used to be. i mean she is friends with media popular girls and guys and just since moving to la a lot of people can see this change. i have watched her videos for two years and i can safely say that she has changed and i just want her to find her roots again. no hate just my opinion. also she seems salty about a lot of things her fans say, she gets easily defensive.
•savannah• exactly. I have watched both of their videos over the years and summer has changed so much . Not in a good way. Dylan however is still the same grounded, mature person that he always was.
riona clariss she might be going through stuff! a lot of people do and it can change who you are as a person i agree! BUT in the beginning of this specific livestream she asked for everyone to say their questions (about their relationship), and when they did she started degrading their thoughts and was getting fairly defensive. she may be having a problem and i know that a social media break would be good for her instead of being objective towards her fans :) i love her and always have so i just kinda know a change in her on screen** when i see one
Yeah I kind of agree but I think the reason she is particularly snappy is maybe because she’s human and she’s just gone through a breakup. Everyone deals with breakups differently and she seems to be the type of person that instead of getting sad she stuffs all her feelings down and either gets on with it or gets angry. So she is probably just trying to cope
Saqina Qamilia i think when relationships become public it becomes really hard to stay together because you have unnecessary pressure. it’s like when you feel something very strong, but then when you put it into words it losses its importance... i believe it’s something like that.. but anyhow a relationship is between two people, not three and definitely not thousands
i totally understand it was an awkward situation.... but like I don't think that gives her a right to be rude to her fans after she literally said ask questions about it. obviously people are gonna comment like it's a livestream, that's what happens in livestreams incase she didn't know. so yea like what does she expect??
I feel bad for Dylan. He is such a sweet guy with good looks and a kind heart, and Summer just broke it off with him. I wish them the best tho and for Dylan to find someone who loves him back.
Their relationship was toxic from the moment Summer broke up with Adam for Dylan and started dating right after, like wtf who does that? That’s disrespectful for both sides. I wouldn’t trust someone like that. Like how do you expect someone to respect the relationship and the break up and be mature about it when you MET HER in pretty much the same scenario, just with her ex. They were cute and all but being so young and so invested in a relationship is draining, especially when you want to achieve more things. We obviously don’t know what happens behind doors and I feel stupid even leaving this comment, but from my perspective they needed each other but they weren’t meant to last as they mentioned.
Beth Rodgers true like I’ve never seen her act like that before.. especially not with dylan. And I know it’s all really uncomfortable to be filming and explaining publicly with one another, but dylan seems to be wanting to be mature about it and he’s hurt, summer seems more reliant and is being kind of immature by saying “this is so awkward “ and “this is weird”. Tbh she’s making it more uncomfortable
Dylan is so so respectful to Summer, he was really mature, serious and loving in their relationship. That’s the kinda guy u need. I don’t get why Summer let him go..
I feel like summer just lost feelings for him little by little and it took her a while to notice that and now he needs to accept in order to keep her in his life and to stay friends. He’s obviously hurting but he needs to stay strong around her to keep their friendship stable now
I think summer just got overwhelmed with all the thousands of people asking hundreds of questions every 3 seconds. And I do feel bad for Dylan.. because he’s so in love with her and still is I feel like. And I think summer just got annoyed bc she was in a public relationship, but her past relationships weren’t. I just think she’s overwhelmed.
Dylan is breaking my heart I wanna cry i know we’re all just fans and don’t know the full story but I only knew Dylan through summer and he always seemed so in love with her. I wonder why she felt they need all this “independence” you can be independent with someone too.
I agree 100%. Obviously we don’t know the full story and may never know but his heart eyes were always so obvious from the beginning. I found him through her and they were the only couple I could find that didn’t make me want to stab my eyes out. It’s because their relationship was so amazing. I don’t know how to put into words all the great things about them. The fact that they waited until marriage was such a big thing to me (not shaming anyone else) and they just seemed like the best role models ever. I’ve never been so involved and depressed about some youtube couple who I don’t know breaking up. I literally just want to ball my eyes out and I’m not just saying that. It’s literally the saddest thing ever.
dylan is a once in a lifetime guy. he converted for her, wrote a song about her, treated her like a queen, and was willing to work anything out with her! he’s so genuine and it makes me sad bc he was so in love. hope summer knows what she’s gonna lose. ),:
i’m balling my eyes out i can’t believe this they were so cute and dylan seemed so in love with her and then she just broke up with him really makes me sad😭😭 the reason he unfollowed her😫😫
Right when he said it's been 2 and a half months since they have broken up, I instantly remembered heartbroken Dylan crying so bad in the Snapchat series that they put out. I felt so bad for him he's such a nice guy :(
Because all of their fans keep pushing her and keep asking her those same old questions on insta, Twitter and youtube??? She apparently gets annoyed by that. She probably just wants to do a livestream and finish all this real quick because it’s too annoying
This sucks but I'm not surprised tbh :( they were moving way too fast. He literally converted to a different religion for her after dating for like a year which just boggles my mind, like they're barely adults. Hope they actually ended on good terms bc they seem so annoyed with each other:/
I feel like people are not being fair on Summer. I get her and I feel her 100%, she’s one of those girls who has always kept it together in public so she probably doesn’t cry on camera because she hold things in. It’s not because she hurts less than Dylan, it’s just because she’s strong and when you’re in the public eye, (or not), often being too strong eventually becomes a norm for you and you just stop feeling altogether sometimes. It numbs you. There’s nothing such as it’s easier for who and it’s harder on who. Please stop and give both of them space. Just my two cents.
Adeline Chai i think this is a bit misleading. i agree that yeah she probably just hides her feelings but that doesn’t necessarily mean she’s strong. it seems like you’re saying the guy isn’t as “strong” for showing how he feels. this is exactly what makes young boys and even older guys feel like they can’t show emotion - because people will think they’re not manly enough! other than that i agree with you and i hope people don’t feed into the societal norm. thanks for coming to my ted talk 😋 ( AND i hope you or anyone else doesn’t take offense to my comment bc this isn’t meant w bad intentions)
Gabby Espina I didn’t mean to say that Dylan wasn’t strong, I stand with you, believing that by any means any guy should feel free to show his emotions in any form and our society should 120% support that. My comment above was directed specifically towards people who were bashing her for what they saw on the surface - she “looked” like she wasn’t “hurt enough”. I’ve supported Summer before they got together and the reason why I stayed was because I loved her as a person and as an influencer who has depth. I could relate to her and her personality based on her videos so I just wanted to voice my opinion above. I’m so sorry that my comment came off as something else, but thank you so much for the feedback too 😊 appreciate it.
