In the menu options you may set the game speed to adjustable, allowing you to change the speed as you wish. At 0:48 you can see three messages saying that Andros has adjusted the game speed. It's been a while since I've played but I believe you change the speed using the + and - keys.
ayo uhm if you go on supreme commander 2 and then you go on multiplayer also then you type in Andros if you don't see him online then do it another day ok pease out ✌️