We can understand that nobody knows the actual pain but still the other person can be a help just to listen to that person and ultimately to find the solution to that particular problem
Agree we can't reach then nor they will reach us .. it's just gonna be same it's all in mind even if you think of doing such thing you'll end up doing .. coz the person has decided and has braved himself...
Not at all ! I am also sucide survival! Just few month ago I drunk and I took bunch of different kinds of medicine but next morning I just wake up and I realize that my time is not at! I will never do! I will live no matter what even no body care! I will care myself! That’s what’s I thought as a suicidal survived!
Most depressed people seem very jolly and outgoing from the outside. Fact - They just wish someone will give them the positive energy that they try to bring to people in return.
When you said that this world is a hard place for someone who is so sensitive and kind it literally took me.These words are utter truth of life which no one can overcome
Then why do we marry and procreate? Why we want our kids to go through this? Why can't we just adopt and make their lives better instead of initiating a new one. We crib but we are all to be blamed. Nothing is going to stop. The benchmark is getting higher and higher.
@@VenuGopal-tt3ee i always wanted to adopt and not give birth! M still hoping if I would be able to do so ..but this is india ..99% of in-laws would want their own blood 🙂 so husband and in-laws would not allow things to go this way!
Fake smiling for the world is agreeable But One must not hide it from whom they love Becoz its our family's job to understand us, atleast don't fake with your own blood
Fuck this shit man.... This era is literally fucking shit... Everyone wants everything but gets nothing... Peace and satisfaction is utmost important but look who has these two qualities around you. Almost none. Everyone is complaining about something and so called successful people say, that's the life. Then look... Suicides happen. And it will continue.... You can postpone the suicidal thoughts but never get rid of them until you get Peace and Satisfaction.
"it's not a world for someone so kind and sensitive" - that hit me like a nail. We should all take out some time in our lives to help someone in need whenever possible and be positive and spread that joy.... Changing one heart at a time...
I'm in my 20's Every time when I meet my relatives n other people all of them shower their questions what r u upto these days? What r u doing in academics? What next? Today I ask to all of u ,why u r into me so much. Do I ask u. then why u people keep on asking to me and to my parents. Now I have became so much stronger n fearless. I m ready to give answer. Here I AM WRITING A BOOK title "MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS"...
@Eta0 R why are people blaming the world and society for it, it depends upon how you see from your perspective. There is no need to be bounded by what is accepted in the society, there is always a way out Kind people only accept the truth blindly And only the revolutionists have bought the change. What I actually mean is Sugar coated words will never help u Try to be empathetic, try to understand them, make them tell you the truth.. Becoz lie only turns into misery
Sadly it's become normal to put others down, insult others, mock others and say dosti me sab chalta hai. If only we could lend a listening ear to just our friends and treat them with respect, because we love them.
Been five years my sister has committed suicide I'm still struggling to come to terms with it, my whole world has come crashing down seeing this women being so strong and doing something good out of the tragedy really inspires me,God bless you sisiter.
@anand Modigari, stop saying committed suicide to show respect to her. She didn't commit suicide. She died by suicide. People commit crimes but they don't commit suicide. "Sometimes people choose death when it is the only way that they know how to surive for the pain is that great." If you are angry, I don't know if you are...this is a good place to start ...from my experience.
@Nikita _She_SPACES_out 🙏🏼 Perhaps luckiest are those that never have to understand. People can afford to live in a boxed in world and not think critically when they haven't had to face much in life. As a society however, we need to change. Working in front of screens, living robotic lives, living through a pandemic...mental health will have to become a bigger conversation...as it is.
people say suicide is a coward sign but the truth it takes a lot of courage to die to kill all those dreams along with u it takes guts to end everything forcefully all of a sudden
It takes lot of courage ,it is not a cowardly thing , sometimes there is no will to live , and there is no light at the end of the tunnel and even worst when people you want to live for don't understand your turmoil and you can't communicate
Depression is real but someone people sometimes your own parents don't understand how you'll get affected by their actions ,not everyone is strong to deal with things happening in life , it is difficult . Very very difficult , it's like you don't want to die but you don't really see a better option .
@@riffatanwar8955 ya it will get better soon that's my hope for everyone , also I want everyone to stay positive and to find reasons to smile and be happy.
@dev gana ya I'm living so that I can have a better life , not just for myself but for my family , my parents have faced a lot to raise a up and I can't make their sacrifices go in waste so that's why I'm living . I know things will be better one day so I'm just waiting for that day 😊❤️.
It's true depression can get hold of you, ive been there too. The best way to get out of it is to know your worth which people don't realise. People should know how to love themselves by practicing self love coz God loves us so much that He always wants us to be happy in every situation but we are humans after all, we just keep worrying for nothing at times. Sometimes we even try to fix things so much but we forget to take it to God and let Him fix it for us. Hence know your worth everyone coz you are precious to God and your family.
@@Vanilove653 if depression is real then let me you ask this do you ever here a poor guy ( who don't have money to feed himself properly or don't roof on his head) committing sucide because of depression
This is so sad, I'm heartbroken😭💔 but this too shall pass. Im sure she is proud of you, loads loads and loads of strength and courage to you! You brave man
I lost my dad too to suicide. And for years my suffering has been magnified by the horrible attitude of the people around me. Sometimes I feel like asking them all to eff off.
I lost.my DAD to suicide 6 yrs ago.... It was so tough for us to understand why he committed... still no answer.... My Mom was taking care of him like her son.... Suddenly it.was shock for everyone.... Still I ask why he did this.... Still I feel crying
My younger brother took his own life too nearly six years ago. It still pains me exactly the same way it did when I got the news six years ago but just that my breakdowns have spaced apart more. Pains me so much whenever I hear of suicide. My brother was the most amazing human being I've ever met. Didn't have a single enemy, cared for everyone deeply and made all their lives happier and better. But not once did he ever share his pains with his friends or me. Could only briefly understand what he was going through and not once in our wildest dreams thought he could take his own life. Every single moment I had with him throughout my life will always be remembered. I had not once fought with him besides the childhood sibling rivalry. I love him way too much beyond anything in this world that I can let go of anything else to get him back. Since we lost our father at our young age, I was kind of his father figure too although Ive always felt he was more mature than I ever was or will be. He was great in academics as well as in all extra curricular activities. Just came so naturally for him and we never pushed him to be any high achiever. He was a state topper in 12th exams, aced his MBBS course and was all India 7th ranker in AIIMS medical exams. Sure I have my own family now but this void I have can never be filled nor this pain will ever be gone until my last breath. If he died of natural causes or accident, I could have come to an understanding of life. But coming to terms of a suicide of my dearest person and one and only sibling is impossible to deal with. No therapy will ever solve what I am undergoing or will undergo for the rest of my life. I understand how much of pain he must of gone through to take such a drastic step and no he can't be a coward. It takes the extreme end of bravery to be able to take such a step. I will be carrying on his pain for the rest of my life. Miss you so much kanna. Hope we get to meet again in the after world if at all there is one.
Bhaiya, wht he committed suicide??? Please tell me as I also also my best friend, she also committed suicide in 25 th november, 2019 and it broke me everytime if I heard anything like that. We nver get to knew the reason of her suicide.
She is. Number with the volunteers are. They're trying. May not be successful but they're trying. Can't disregard them. However, yeah, there are times when both the cases happen. It's not absolute.
False. It is true that everyone is inherently alone but if you reach out for help, there will always be someone. It doesn't have to be someone you know in real life, sometimes strangers from different parts of the world help more than your own peers can.
most of the people who seem to be so happy and cheerful from the outside are actually the ones who are the most sad please dont forget to check on such people everyone is facing something on the inside that we know nothing about please be kind please be helpful whenever and wherever you can! 💙
90% are attention seeker....the one who is depressed is never able to share his/her thoughts ....its the close ones who should look out for each other...
@@abhijeetdangi866 you probably need to be a little more open minded. I agree with how we should look out for our own. But dubbing someone as attention seeking can be counter productive to those who do want to come forward with their trauma. Have a nice day
@@abhijeetdangi866 even if you think it's attention seeking.. Just give that damn attention because they feel like they want it.. What's wrong in sending attention to the people who says they want it. They just want people to notice that they are sad so just notice them.
Always remember dear ones, "suicide doesn't end the pain, it just passes it on to someone else..." I am also a suicide survivor, sending you love, peace and hope. There is always a happy ending, and if it's not happy then it's not the ending :)
I have to add this: Our Science II textbook (mostly consisting of Biology and Social Sciences) had this one chapter, plainly named 'Social Health'. Here's the chapter's take on suicide: 1) Suicidal people are mentally ill and tell their friends through messaging about taking their own life. 2) They are only looking for attention and are mentally ill (yep, 2 times). 3) Main causes of suicide: humko nahi maalum 4) How to help a suicidal friend: humko nahi maalum If this is what we teach our children about mental health, then nope. India would NEVER have a population aware about this topic and would shrug it off as a joke. But hopefully, this generation is taking some good steps. Almighty bless you.
Constant comparison looking at other’s edited moments of life on Instagram,facebook etc...lack of genuine people who really listen for the sake of goodness..and sidelining people who are emotional and sensitive, calling them melodramatic are all just cool these days and anybody who are claiming to be depressed and using it as a fantasy word doesn’t know what depression does to an individual are gaining attention while the ones who are really suffering are unheard. Be kind irrespective of others giving you credit for your efforts, in this society that just wants likes and five star ratings.🤷🏻♀️
U have shared one of the real reasons of suicide these days.. The social media impacts us in ways we cannot comprehend. People pre Facebook period we living happy lives. Free of all the pressure. Now a days even if u try to avoid being in social media u r laughed at.
It's just so unpredictable when loneliness changes to solitude and just keeps pulling you deeper n deeper.. Smile on a face doesn't always mean happiness within. Have a sense of compassionate listening towards other.
Oh god ! My brother died too 😭! He was a medical student who was pursuing his 3 year ! Three days ago 😭 he hanged himself to death ! He was first doctor in our family ! He never shared anything ! He was depressed and stressed ! He will always make people happy who is around him but he couldn’t share anything ! Our family’s big loss 😭 please check on people you love ! Death leaves Heartache no one can heal ! RIP brother ! You will be forever missed 😭
When I was at my lowest phase of life, these thoughts used to hover all over my mind. I tried calling almost all the suicide helpline numbers I got on google search not once but many times and trust me those phone calls were never picked. I realized no one cares whether you die or live, it's your pain, and you have to solve it.
I just want to add most important point... Depression and anxiety comes from none but from your own people... They are the one who don't understand u... They don't support u.... This void can never be filled.... This void of being alone despite being surrounded by so called family and friends
[ NOTE : This truth is just to help all the people for good in their life, it's not at all to encourage anyone to die but it's actually to find YOUR OWN BEST WAY TO PEACE AND HAPPINESS IN LIFE, NO MATTER WHAT !!!!! ] A small token of truth to all the people who perceive suicide as crime and selfish decision - PLEASE DON'T MIND THE FOLLOWING TRUTH. BUT IF YOU BELIEVE SUICIDE IS OFFENSIVE AND SELFISH DECISION, THEN IT IS ABSOLUTELY WRONG AND ONE DIMENSIONAL THOUGHT. YOU MUST THINK LOT FROM THE CHILD POINT OF VIEW, AS LITERALLY NO BLOODY IDIOT UNDERSTANDS THE PSYCHOLOGICAL PAIN AND TRAUMA THE CHILD GOES THROUGH IN LIFE, ESPECIALLY IF HE HAS NO ONE TO CONFIDE IN. IF SUICIDE IS WRONG, CAN YOU ANSWER WHY ALMOST EVERY PERSON ON THIS EARTH HAS CONTEMPLATED SUICIDE AT LEAST ONCE IN LIFE?? WHY DOES THIS SO-CALLED BLOODY FAMILY NEVER UNDERSTANDS OR CARES ABOUT THE FEELINGS OF SEVERAL CHILDREN AND TEENAGERS??? WHY DOES FAMILY ALMOST NEVER KEEP FAITH IN CHILD AND NEVER EVER ENCOURAGE CHILD TO EXPRESS OWN THOUGHTS, NO MATTER WHATEVER THE LIFE SITUATION IS??? WHY ALMOST EVERY CHILD IN THIS WORLD IS UNDER TREMENDOUS BURDEN OF SO CALLED FAMILY WHEN IT COMES TO SPEAKING HIS FEELINGS MINDSET AND CHOICES, TO THE POINT THAT CHILD IS FORCED TO FIND DEATH MORE PEACEFUL????? NO MAN, NO MATTER HOW CORRECT BRILLIANT OR SUCCESSFUL YOU (OR ANYONE) BECOME IN LIFE, YOU CAN'T HIDE YOURSELF FROM FACING THIS TRUTH THAT THERE'S ALMOST NO TRUSTWORTHY AND TRULY UNDERSTANDING PERSON IN LIVES OF MAJORITY PEOPLE, AND THIS IS EXACTLY THE REASON WHY ZILLIONS OF INNOCENT MINDS ARE FORCED TO EMBRACE THE REAL PEACE. TO ALL SUCH EXTRA SMART BELIEVERS SAYING SUICIDE IS RUNNING AWAY FROM LIFE, YOU MUST KNOW THAT IT WAS NEVER AN OBLIGATION FOR ANYONE TO FACE PAINS AND CHALLENGES IN LIFE. LIFE IS NOT A WAR STARTED BY OUR OWN SELF, IT IS AN INDIVIDUAL'S JOURNEY AND HENCE IT IS SOLELY UPON THE INDIVIDUAL TO DECIDE HIS CHOICE OF CONTINUING (OR DISCONTINUING) HIS LIFE IN HIS OWN WAY AS PER HIS CHOICE. NO ATTACHMENT CAN STOP ANYONE FROM DOING THIS BECAUSE NONE OF THOSE SHITTY ATTACHMENTS EVER STOOD BESIDE AND SUPPORTED CHILD IN HIS TOUGH TIMES !!!!! SO IF THE PSYCHOLOGICAL PAIN AND SUFFERING IS EXTREMELY UNBEARABLE TO ANY INDIVIDUAL, IT IS HIS OWN DECISION TO FIND BEST WAY TO PEACE (NOT NECESSARILY SUICIDE BUT IN FACT OTHER SUPPORTIVE PEOPLE IN LIFE) AND EXPERIENCE SOME HAPPINESS AFFECTION AND CONTENTMENT IN LIFE. REMEMBER, NOTHING IS MORE IMPORTANT THAT YOUR HAPPY PEACEFUL MOMENTS AND EXPERIENCES IN LIFE. AND ALL OF MONEY FAME SUCCESS IS FOR THOSE WHO ARE REALLY INTERESTED IN IT. ELSE REAL EXPERIENCE IN LIFE IS ALL ABOUT EMBRACING AND THANKING ALL THE GOOD THINGS IN AND AROUND US, AND HELPING (IF YOU CAN) & HEALING OTHERS FROM BAD THINGS IN LIFE. BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY, NOTHING OF MONEY WORK FAME OR SUCCESS IS TO BE CARRIED IN THE GRAVEYARD. ONLY THE HAPPY THANKFUL AND TOUCHING MOMENTS IN LIFE WILL BE CARRIED AS FOND MEMORIES IN LIFE. SO WHY WAIT FOR TOMORROW???? LIVE LITERALLY LIKE YOU'LL DIE TOMORROW. HAPPY LIFE EXPERIENCE TO ALL DEAR READERS. AND APOLOGIES IF I HURT ANYONE'S FEELINGS. 😊😊😊
With all the crap on the internet. The words by Rashi really awakened me while I'm in the worst part of my life. Sometimes it's a miracle how the right words are said to us in the most unexpected way Thanks for this video.
As someone who has a younger brother who is just 8 years younger than me I never suppressed him nor let anyone do it to him. I've always told him since he was toddler that it was OKAY TO CRY, it was OKAY to share things , never feel burdened don't listen to people who say men should not cry. He is 12 years old now entering his teenage and I gave him sex ed classes. He's been such a patient boy always understanding towards women he questioned my parents everytime they would deny me to go out. I taught him things I wanted to learn I gave him a glimpse of what racism is how to not make fun of people who are dark skinned how to not call east asians cheeni meeni, I'm so proud of myself he is just 12 but is such a good human he can snub a 70 year old if they are body shaming or calling someone out for their skin colour. Above all he is expressive in front of me he opens up cries if he's sad. My father got brain Haemorrhage last year and is still on bed me and my mother are on the front dealing with everything financially mentally and that boy alone is taking care of his father who is a 45 year old man treating him like a 2 year old. All I want to do is find my path in life and finance his entire education and give him things I could never have. I'm blessed to have him in my life I got him into anime😂💀. We fight like dogs but I still love him very much. My heart aches for what happened with the sis in the vid , stay strong. . . Just a side note the only way you can teach a young one in your family is being open with them before anyone else. He knows about LGBTQ com(he does not make fun of such people) Sex Ed(he does house work when mom gets her period he's such a young one but still the efforr though 😂) Racism, bodyshaming And the best thing is I got him into anime 💀
Reading this message made me wish of how lovey it would have been if i had a sister like you,my sister is 2 years elder than me and she complained to my mom when i watched vulgur stuff on youtube 6 years ago when i was 15...and good that you got him into anime as it helped me fight through suicidal thought when my parents forced me into getting science after 10th grade.
The world: tortures you and makes life difficult * After someone has enough and decides to end their life * The world: oh we're so sorry, why didn't you come to us for help
@@JustForfun-hy6ng Not only that. If a victim decides to live somewhere bearing all the pain caused by the culprits, still this world is not ready to let them live. They want to make the person die for sure . Some cases are worse and unexplainable.😔
Depression is real. And the propaganda going on twitter against mental health, please don't listen to all that. Mental health is important. Take care of your family, friends.
Literally every night I cry, recalls everything happening and think of ending everything but it is not easy ... Giving up on every dream, giving up on people we love and taking this decision is not easy...I can understand that pain...But please whoever is reading this do not do this... There are hopes for everything... Today might not be a good day for you ..but there is one day for you...This things keeps me motivated Everytime...I remember this things wipe my tears sleep and next morning wakes up with new hopes❤️ Whoever needs to hear this...You are a gem keep going there will be your day soon❤️ A virtual Hug ✨
I remember my condition was same, i never ever cried in front anyone but inside i was dying i tried but one thought was to live for others who are like you. To help them.
The best line I remember from her, why people hate those who suicides, why people see only the endings, why people don't see how amazingly the way they lived their life
My niece few yrs back committed suicide. She left a note that since she couldn’t get a job so she’s taking this step and loves her family and no one is responsible for it........ I was like that’s it... and end of a blooming youth. Just few days before we both had a chat on fb and yes she was upset and I thought I’ve pepped her up enough. You knw it’s just a phase n will pass on, we all go thru the same, don’t be disheartened. But few days later I found that was not enough. Sometimes I get up at night blaming myself for her death. Had I talked to her more, taken her for counselling. ......but it’s too late for all that😔
He didn't want to go, He wanted to stay.We judge people before we understand their emotional distress .No one has the ability to fight thr mental anguish every day . They may find no other way to get rid of it. Sorry brother , We lost you badly. Don't come back to this cruel world. I can feel ur sisters pain. She loves u
4:42 I will never call them a coward. In fact, it takes absolute courage to take conformed decision in doing so. Well, sadly I have been that coward who failed in my attempts. In 2015, when I was enduring excruciating pain and wanted to end my life, the attempts failed as I turned coward in doing so.... My humble request to all, is not to judge anyone and reach out the best way we can to help ease one's pain. Thank you. Regards from Malaysia.
@@shikamarunara7491 thank you so much for reaching out. Well, I have been immersing myself in the spiritual line and definitely found solace in this journey....🙏🙏🙏
@@nirmalanagalingam8789 I am also on the same path. Currently reading all yogas by Swami Vivekanand. It is really good. But how are you now. Feeling better?
@@shikamarunara7491blessed to be acquainted here in this platform. In regards to my status, it is difficult to say... There are at times where, I do drown myself in the past, without realizing. Then, I pick myself up when I am aware of my mental state. It is a constant practice and reminder for myself in being mindful of my thoughts. Thank you so much once again for your lovely gesture. Regards from Malaysia.
@@nirmalanagalingam8789 @Nirmala Nagalingam things will only get better. You have choosen a spiritual way to heal yourself that's really great! I also ruminate a lot about past things, but there is no point in doing that because we have no power over past. I will tell you one thing frankly, it will sound a bit rude but this type of thought process has helped me a lot. Bad things or vile things happen to us, our first reaction is to resist it because we deep down think we don't deserve it. This will further push us into pain. Whatever things we get good or bad is a result of our karma, in this life or past life. We should accept it. If something bad happens to you just think that you knowingly or unknowingly might have done something bad to someone else, which you are paying for. Best thing to do would be to focus on your present karma which would indeed bring you, good days. Do good now, whatever days future will hold for you will be good. This thought process will help you to stay in present and be mindful of your present deeds. Good days will come. More power to you 👍🙂 .
I have no friends, or nobody with whom i can share what i am going through. I am suffering from anxiety attacks i am a medical student. And i feel that something in me is changing and i hope i will get someone in life who will get me out of this sad and lonely life and i pray that even the thought of suicide never ever come to my mind. I wish my parents could understand what i am going through 😔😔😔
Most of us here are because we experienced a phase in life where we just wanted to end our lives but didn't.Keep it up people,we are growing stronger and stronger..♥️. I was one of those who signed this petition at that time.
this breaks my heart sm.. there r so many broken people struggling on daily basis n hiding it from people around them by fake smiles. I hope u get the light which u r seeking. Hang in there.. If u do, a better day will come soon!
Pls follow these when you have some troublesome episode in life and feel like giving up: 1) Eat something immediately and nourish. 2) Head out in the open,when the sky is seen we know the world is huge and there are many others in this world.Lots to explore hence gives rejuvenation happens. 3) Talk to anyone a friend,a relative a parent.Just about anyone.Just vent.(inclusive of counselling).Talk to yourself seeing the mirror if anyone else is unavailable to listen. 4) If you are anxious or sluggish then workout everyday to boost endorphins.
What do you have to suggest to children who were sexually abused in their childhood? Who have suffered trauma and didnt get over that event? If nourishment was the solution then suicide will not be an option to many. Proper counselling and therapy is needed because you dont know what has happened in peoples lives. Mostly importantly listen to them without saying I understand, people dont have the ability to empathize. If empathy is present the other person will feel comforted and wont drown in their sorrows
@@elva136 People can heal. It takes time n efforts. But they DEFINITELY DO HEAL. You have to find closure for the trauma, so that u can breath freely n live ur life. Each case is different. So u have to deal individually. 😇😇😇 stay blessed.
I had stress management lecture in my BBA stream in college. Nothing great was taught. On top of that the professor was a dick. All the time used to scan our bodies and it was horrible to even attend the lecture but still had to😊 i hate my college life and never ever do i want it back
I had tears rashi . I can’t tell how much I have been through and yes you are absolutely right about society . The victim blaming and yes it’s humble request stop calling them coward and stop telling them to fight back up bec u never have been there and come out of it to label anyone . If you can’t encourage some one kindly do not bring them down either . It’s not correct and you don’t have that right to do that to anyone ☮️ We love you RAGHAV AND RASHI . My consoldences and lots of strength to you and your family 👍🏻
As someone who suffered from severe depression to a point where I didn't want to live, this video is very personal. I can so deeply relate to the pain expressed here. Thanks to my family, am alive and I'm very vocal about mental health. And I speak on my RU-vid and every other platform. We need to speak more about suicide, depression etc so that these topics don't remain a Taboo.
I feel the pain... lost my amazing brother a fat after his 27th birthday. It's TRUE he was too happy and full of fun.. but he was in pain.. unfortunately the person he loved betrayed him and he gave up and left us . I will never hate him . Miss him still even though it's been almost 7 years it still feels like yesterday. He really was a beautiful human being.. that's the irony though .. all good ppl leave and the shitty ones say around .. like I would do anythin to get him back but I hold on to his memories.. and anyone reading this if u are u know anyone happy all the time dont assume the are. They might be on the inside ... check up on your friends .. reassure them of how much u value them.. Thanks for sharing and I pray for u and your family I know it's going to be a long road ahead . Bit it was lovely seeing u both had so many good memories together
I am so sorry about your brother, only by the look in his eyes I can tell he was truly a kind soul!... and I'm gonna say, that I'm glad I survived my suicide attempt 3 years ago knowing that I spared the pain to my loved ones, even though I have to bare mine until the end!.....
When someone commits suicide, everyone who'd been around that person thinks what they could've done better. What they could've done to not let this happen, and the answer simply is JUST BE THERE FOR THEM. You don't have to give them solutions to their problems. All they want is someone who can just understand them and be there for them. Just tell them that you're there for them, and actually be like that. And for god's sake, don't ever try to belittle their problems, no matter how small they seem to you. People have varying level of emotional tolerance, so you never know how much pain their problems bring to them. :)
I completely understand my best friend would be somewhat open about this stuff and I would just do anything i could to help unfortunately I had moved away, got the news 2ys later I got a text nd it literally broke me apart nd I always thought I could handle anything but that killed a piece of me I'll never get back
I was abused in my childhood. What could I have done better at that time? A married women is slapped by her husband for small things. What could she have done better at that time? There are a lot of factors and the people who judge are not aware of the world. Sensitive people must be protected because they easily get depressed.
Rightly said, this world isn't for someone who's kind and sensitive and emotional. When you be emotional, they call you over emotional, when you be sensitive, they call you over sensitive. Families themselves call you these which makes you realize more and more that maybe I don't have a place here, to stay in this world where showing emotions is taken as a sign of weakness. So many suicides happen silently, people kill themselves silently, because the society calls us weak for showing our emotions.
The loss is so big that it's impossible to recover hats off to this big little girl and I think this helpline number should work 24*7because thought process includes Sunday's as well
Thank you for this video. I remember one night in 2011 when I was just on the verge of ending it all. Since then I have thought about that night many times and it sends shivers down my spine thinking about how close to the end I was. Looking back I'm glad now that I didn't do it.
Raashi, You are creating awareness. Helping others. You are making a difference. That matters and means a lot. Light and peace to the soul. Recently, I lost a friend. I can relate and understand. If there is anyway in which I can help, just reply.
Losing my mom to suicide when I was 10 was the worst thing ever. I'll never forget that day. July 16 2004.. I wish they taught about depression in school. I could have stopped her or told my aunty. I had no clue what depression is. I thought I was a bad kid that's why mom wanted to die. People called my mom a coward and said she was horrible etc. I get super angry when they tell this. It hurts me. I am taking anti anxiety meds now but therapy is so expensive.
I've attempted suicide on 2016 due to intense pressure from family & other things going on in life. It was a very futile attempt & I ended up at hospital. My father never talks about it. Nobody at my home talks about it. But I could feel they were disappointed with me. I feel the burden everyday. It's not financial but something. I am not saying I might do it again but this burden parents & friends make you feel when you survive an attempt is just too much to take in. They always expect you to talk to them but you cannot because they do NEVER make things comfortable for you. I know people love me but their love is so selfish. They don't even try to understand/feel what I am going through. The societal norms are so depressing. It makes you feel low, burdened & like a failure every time. This woman's words, her tone is so kind. Why would anyone I knownot talk with me like her? No I don't like talking to stranger I am a very private person but this woman she kind of gets us. My best friend keeps telling me that suicide is a choice of coward person! I can't take her words sometimes. This world wants you to live for them not with them. Life is very hollow. I would not say I am thankful I survived, I am just living comfortably. It's okay. Sometimes you just can't handle things and that's not your fault.
Dear sudipta.. love from Nepal. World is beautiful dear. Its for us who love themselves. Plan for a beautiful future just imagine it. Listen to Sadhguru. You can even join him. Trust me you will feel better.
@Siddhi Raul Wtf? I do get it advice is free but this ain't it. Him attempting suicide is not disappointment. The disappointment is the circumstances that lead to him thinking about ending his life. The disappointment is seeing insensitive jerks like you and his family who couldn't make a person feel safe and comfortable in this harsh world. The disappointment is how society couldn't seem to forgive those who couldn't fulfill ridiculously high expectations and always build pressure on people. Just like OP said, the world mostly want others to give but do not want to be with others. Who asked you if you're or someone else is going through some deeper problems or not? Thinking that others are going through the same/worse isn't going to comfort him, make him feel understood or going to solve his problem. Every one got a different life to lead. You are just a random stranger who might have got good emotional support + financial support with you and you definitely seem to have completely different perceptions and standards for yourself than the OP. The disappointment is seeing people like you being a real coward and avoiding to comfort people who are struggling emotionally.
I understand what you are going through. It is not your fault to feel that way. If you're hurt, you are hurt. If you feel like giving up, you feel that way. It is normal for a human being to feel low when they're hurt. You were not a coward. You were just tired and needed help. And then you managed to win the battle against negative thoughts back then. I am glad you are alive. Seriously. If you're feeling low and sad, just seek for therapist if you feel there is no one around you who understands you. I am sure you will manage to overcome it. I don't know your exact situation but I do hope things will get better for you. Bad times passes just like good times. And this world is so beautiful, it is worth living even if your family feels distant sometimes.
@Siddhi Raul You........ *Laughs in disbelief* You're not in the wrong. It is just that...... You seem like you understand you are right because "you saw darkest phase of life" and you made it out with your expertise. This little thing, it is going to make you pay for something heavily one day. Let me give you a free advice, do not say these things to a suicidal person who is a good hearted person:- "Temporary phase" "Crime" "Importance of life" "Attention seeker" Next thing you know, you'll be the reason of their death. You were just lucky that the person whom you claimed to have saved is alive. Afterall, everyone is different and has different perceptions.
I have studied psychology as a subject in my junior and senior year of high school. I knew the importance of mental health and this whole lock down period i myself was so depressed and yet was not able to communicate with anyone . This feeling , it feels so heavy in your head and hearts that there are definitely moments when you feel it is not worth any of it . But please keep pressing yourself, keep making yourself believe that the future holds something better. It is very very important to communicate but please try , try every day to get extra molecule of air cause life is very beautiful and precious and worth living . Like she said this too shall pass .
Yeah true !!most of time i feel shattered but I always try to boost myself by thinking may be something better is still waiting for me...nd see how far I keep on moving with this hope....optimism is most important thing to remain balanced nd happy when we are all rounded by negative vibes☺💫
Thank you ❤❤.......Thank you for not tagging them as coward,selfish,abnormal,mental and what not....from the bottom of my heart I knew she had loved us more than enough but maybe she was in so much pain and trouble that no one could ever imagine......yes that's true that everyone keeps hiding it....I was too small when I lost her I even don't know the exact answer of when, how, why(and no one ever talked with me about her)....the only thing I know is that....the person, the part of me and my family whom I loved most is not here......yes I can't move on I love her, cherish her and little faded the memories I remember to have with her.....I cherish all of them....I miss her...... I thank her for making me happy and my life bliss for the time being she was with me......❤🧡💛
I cried so much every moment of this. I'm glad one of those four lakh signatures was mine 💜 Thank you so much for being so strong Raashi 💖 The world needs a set of wounded fighters. Say, those who have injuries know how to heal them the best. Thank you for helping heal this world. We need so much of it here. My sincere prayers to Raghav, this world was not good to you man and I wish for you to be in the best place right now 💜 Andrea Gibson in their poetry about the people who are gone from this world because of suicide said: "You didn't expect the other side to be better, you expected the other side to be nothing at all. Imagine choosing nothing at all. Imagine, something hurting that bad" and I think they were talking to Raghav too 💜 Even though, he didn't expect much from the place he decided to go to, I hope he has gotten the best there.
I tried attempting suicide 2 times in 2017,2018 and know the depth of pain which made me do this to myself,luckily I was saved,whenever I look back at the tough times I had in my life I feel grateful that my attempts got failed..I thank the moment that changed my mind n I'm still there where I was at that time but a new version of me ,who is grateful for everything even for the lessons that life had taught me!
"Hang in there, this too shall paas" So proud of youu ❤️ Raghav is definitely looking at you from heaven, cherishing the fact that he's got such a wonderful sister
When people say "cowards Take such step" I've been saying exactly what you've said. They are the bravest, they are the strongest because you do not know the enormous amount of strength you need to do that to yourself. You don't know what that person much have gone with to have had taken that step. Being coward is easy, but this is not easy. And trust me there's no easy 'why?' after all of these. Some people themselves cannot figure out and they have no answer to this 'why!'. Even if there's someone who says that he is feeling he should end his life , let's not ask 'why' this 'why' is very very painful and burdening at times. Let's be kind. Let's give us our hand, let's be soft to them.
But how is running away from problems brave?? I mean no disrespect to people who go through depression and horrible life problems but they can always ask for professional help right? Suicide for me is like quitting or giving up and life is the most precious gift given to any living being to give it away can never be the right choice.
@@weom7374 sometimes, people find no reason to Live, they feel left out and too weak or numb to call out for professional help, they don't want their family or friends to know what they are going through, fearing that it would make them all worry a lot more about them, apart from the day to day worries that they go through
@@weom7374 you're right. Not denying this at all that giving up is definitely not an option and people needs to be encouraged to seek professional help and this is a true must. This is everything an individual himself can do. What I said is from the angle of what his or her near or dear ones needs to do. If we try to give that person 'that one reason' to come out of this, or even look at life in a better way probably this could be the driving force. You cannot make a already disturbed person understand the benefits of therapy if you don't explain him why he needs therapy. We want to heal and cure ourself because there is an underlying cause behind that right, we need to help find that cause for the person may be. Then therapy does wonders, we know that.
@@subhi222 who really wants to die? That process of facing the problem is hardest as you've said already, the person with all his strength goes to face that and the exhaustion of the strength is what brings such strength. And what do we do? We keep telling that person, "it is not your cup of tea", "leave it, you're good for nothing", "why don't you chill, nothing happened to you", "there are people with talent, you've got none", "you cannot do anything for yourself" ; and several other things like that. What do you think the person wasn't trying to fight against this? All that the person or for that matter all of us wants is little a love a little, "don't worry beta/bro, you can do it..I know you'll do it." Probably nothing will change but it will fuel his will to live.
Kudos to Raashi for leaving her job and spreading awareness on mental health care. Only a person with big heart and kindness can take up such step to help others and not let them feel or go through the same pain she has. We need more Raashis definitely.
This is such a sad story. I wish I could hold your brother tight and tell him that everything will be ok. This is so sad. Your little brother looked like such a sweet person.
Thanks for this video and helpline number. I've been low for past few months and have been consistently thinking of suicide. I'll try talking with the people in that helpline number and see if it does any change.
Hey, brother!!! Even though I can't completely relate to your circumstances, I've been there, and I know how it feels. Every time thoughts like these cross your mind just remember that this too shall pass, and that this is just one moment of your life, and there's a lot left to live!!!!
Any problem that is outside n u can deal it or leave it, ignore it, face it, wait for right time. Time is never same. Show ur strength...u r stronger than situation. Smack it. Hv patience n don't let family or friends thoughts n opinion even matters u. 👍👍👍
Hey brother.... Don't worry.. trust me you will be fine... Don't give up.... Belive me this time will pass... You will emerge as a winner... Nothing is bigger than life itself.
For unspeakable reasons, my brother has never been able to warm up to me like Rashi's brother did. There is a general lack of warmth within my family. It kills me inside sometimes. I hope things turn around before it's too late :( This gal is now her brother's keeper. I wish you well mate ❤
In My 20 years of experience of this world , I have learnt one thing the more cheerful you are from outside is proportional to your depression from inside !
So so so happy to see somebody doing this!! I also wanted to do something for people who want to end their lives, cause i also lost my most precious person,the love of life to death!! Wanted to end my life in 2016 when this happened to me, i was pretty young, didn't knew what to do, how to take in all this pain!! But then my father took me to a counselor and things changed with time!! Today i am preparing for civil services and trying to help as many people as i can around me in fighting the depression!!Time is the biggest healer, just talk to somebody, or if there is nobody around then write it down in a diary, cause more than the counselor i guess the diary thing worked for me!! Everyone out there watching this video,if u are in a such a state of mind,i have just one thing to say, please trust urself and give urself time!!
