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This Shomolu conductor abi wetin him nickname be, he’s very myopic in his thought process. First he is confusing the role of a wife and a care giver, second he assumes that the so called younger wife will be willing to take on such role. What a silly thing to recommend. Why side step the main issue, which is to advocate for men and women to be kinder towards each other. If men are kind it will go a long way to enable women forgive them and vice versa. Older men are going through hell because they were wicked in their youth towards their wives.
I comprehend Edgar's point, and I'm aware that many couples are facing difficulties, but they're reluctant to openly discuss their issues due to fear of being judged or labeled as failing in their relationships.
Smh, as I watched this it just dawned on me that this Edgar man really doesn’t know what he’s talking about! Nothing factual , just chochocho that’s all.
My dear! Just open mouth waaa dey yarn nonsense upandan! Hian!!! He is talking a lot but making no real sense. Absolutely no regard for women, young or old, because either way he sees them as nothing but care givers and men’s ego maintainers. These are the toxic and patriarchal values young Nigerian men are brainwashed into 🤦🏾♀️
Try to make your research very well young man b4 you conclude. You must be a marriage counsellor to delve into this. Younger girls seek for more than what you mentioned. In this whole world, it's only Joke's issue is the only haven't met Christian married men. You need Christ Jesus to control your life.
Charlie Boy is correct, young people today have low tolerance for patience and are easily diverted. They often prioritize social media validation and attention
One very important aspect Edgar is missing is the fact that, you cannot clip the wings of a bird and expect it to fly. When a man maltreats a woman and treats her as an option, on what rationale does he expect that she would treat him with priority? Each time a man hurts a woman she looses something within. When she forgives, she can only heal if the action is not repeated by the man. And that is when she may become compassionate if she forgives. When couples are into each other, whether old or young, they respect one another and strive to ensure they support themselves to be the best version of each other as the years go by. That is where friendship is very important. They must be friends. Moreover only a devilish woman will be nasty to a man who loves and treats her well. Children if present, also know and feel the "climatic atmosphere " of their parents union. So men should evaluate their attitude towards their spouse from time to time when they notice a drift from the woman. When children become grown ups, they become sympathetic to their ill treated mother who stayed on in the toxic marriage because of them. So this can explain why unfortunately, it will seem mother and children abandon the man at later years. At least for the woman if the beginning was bad, she can correct the ending to make it count for her. Summary: man LOVES, woman SUBMITS and friendship grows ❤️ Arguments and bad belly reduces.
This Edgar Shomolu whatever needs to take some notes from wise elders around. He's generalizing, and his 'hypothesis' is faulty. Some men even bring in troubles when they engage these so called young ladies who just want to cash out. So, young lady just wants to be your nurse abi? She no get her own dreams abi? He's not making sense (see as Aunt Joke dey look am lolz). All these clout chasing, table shaking on shallow conversations need to stop abeg. Even Charly Boy surprised me a bit in his submission, but he made sense. This Edgar guy should pls goan sit down.
Life is about perspectives. Everyone is talking from their own perspectives. After all that is said and done God has a standard for marriage and once that standard is not followed there will be chaos.
At the end of the day, this all points to polygamy. Shutting down Edgar wasn't helpful in the conversation and assuming that men did not show compassion, that is why they are receiving this treatment is also not analysing the issue. In the past, men will get more wives at that stage. That example he gave is true, see finish don enter am and she can take his needs for granted. Again, it is not everyone that will need another wife but it is a necessary conversation to have. Women are not willing to talk about the real issues here. They want to have their way and manage him until his death. We have seen cases where the women will take advantage of that man's weakness to remind him which is what Joke said, women don't forget, though they can forgive. The children will also not want their father to take another wife to protect their mom. Everyone abandons the man and cannot afford to give him the quality care and attention necessary that a new blood will give him. Let's be factual here. I also think that the word *replace* should not be used. It can be *add* not replacement.
@@christieezeanyanwu i like the fact that he brought up the conversation. Men need to be aware of that time and begin by investing in care and empathy to expect same.
Watching this and remembering a chance meeting of Joke Silva years ago in an underground train in London. Such a lovely soul. She was kind and soft in her responses to me. Much respect 🙏🏽
"Baby gurl, come put eye drop"!!! Even the show host laugh because she know say e no go dey easy to show compassion to man wey you perceive to have dealt with you for decades!!!
Edgar men have to take accountability of their previous actions. Before a man becomes that lonely to pass for days before people knows means he must have been a terrible hubby and dad.
What happens to be intentional about sowing good behaviors in your marriages when you are young, so you can reap a compassionate wife at old age. All I hear is a selfish man who has refused to grow up and still insist on his selfish ambition by seeking a hospice wife because it is still all about you.
