Synastry- Moon in partner's eighth house 

i saw someone saying that this is either a love or a hate type of relationship, and for me personally, it was a literal love-hate thing lol. i'm the house person and he was the moon person, i hated him when when we first met, then he seemed to see things about me that nobody else around saw and for some reason he cared about me, and we grew closer and closer. as the house person i was okay with keeping things to myself even if i felt comfortable sharing stuff with him, but he opened up to me like a book, completely randomly and willingly without me ever asking, telling me the deepest, darkest things about him and his life, from his trauma and family life to his sexual preferences, stuff that most people would keep to themselves. he really knew how to push my buttons though, i couldn't even begin to count how many times he has made me mad at him, but i just couldn't end the friendship, the bond was too strong. 8th house stuff really is not for everyone, it's super intense and far from surface level and superficial, even if it seems all light hearted filled with jokes, you will FEEL the intensity and the crazy magnetic bond. as a Scorpio rising i live for it lol.

I have this with someone. I'm the 8th house person. In my opinion, if the moon person has some "negative" or "dirty" tendencies I think the the 8th house person can rip this out into the open without even trying to. I feel like I bring out the absolute worst in the moon person. Everyone thinks she's so sweet, compassionate and nice but I bring out the real manipulative and two faced person she masks. She can't really hide who she is from me and she knows that. The moon person despises me for it. I feel like this is an aspect where two people either completely love each other or completely hate each other. No in between.

Im the house person and he is the moon. I have never felt like this about someone before and doubt I ever will again. Its like I know for a fact that I will love him forever even if he’s not in my life but he never fully leaves. I feel like I own him and he literally says to me he owns me lol. Its weird lol. Sometimes I will long for him so much, I feel a part of me is gone. We also have a bunch of pluto aspects plus I have 3 planets in the 8th. About 2 years ago, I wanted a baby with him sooo bad. I could literally visualize the whole thing. As powerful as this placement is, its a very sad one to have with someone that the universe doesnt want you with. It makes all other relationships/connections feel like ur 1st friend in daycare...meaningless, shallow, , connected with a thin thread, and lifeless

Have this aspect with my boyfriend. I'm the moon. And with my best friend it's a double whammy. When I first met her in middle school, I told her that we were gonna be friends. And here we are as adults still best friends lol

Me and my husband both have our moons in each other's 8th house..His Venus, sun and Mars also fall into my 1st house.My Saturn falls in his 1st house and my sun is in his 4th house...25 years together, 25 more to go..LOL.Its ironic that she said that about sex because usually after a period of time being in a relationship the sex life dies downs. Ours is still as hott as it was when we were 18 years old...I always thought it's because of our Scorpio placements but now I find out there's more to it....hmm..How interesting.😁

i have that with somebody and it is true. i am the house person. i am also an empath and now i know what that feeling was when i met him and when i see him :) Once he was 20 meters away in a store and i knew he was there. :) So strange. This feelings are so intense for me.

I can’t imagine how ANYONE could not like this video. THIS WAS POWERFUL! So on point! I’m experiencing this right now with a woman and it’s blowing my mind!

As a Plutonian, I love this placement. Great, in depth, enlightening video. Astrologer Jewel smashes it again! Amazing you are at what you do.

We both have moon in each other’s 8th house. I think it’s deep scary and wonderful at the same time

I'm the house person and I'm going through this with the moon person... the sex is so amazing and I'm so drawn to him can't get him out of my mind..

I’ve had experiences with being the 8th House person and being the Moon person. The main thing I notice is that I’m much more comfortable and relax my boundaries with this synastry. I’m fine with discussing 8th House topics with the other person and it’s not embarrassing or awkward.

Sometimes when I'm in the presence of the house person I can literally feel their energy. Their energy feels very heavy like I'm literally being pulled towards them almost like a magnet. It's usually the strongest when I don't see them for long periods of time. I remember once it was so powerful I hadn't seen them in a year. I wonder if the house person can feel anything while this is happening.

Excellent. This exactly happened to me. My Pisces moon falls into this guy's 8th house (right at the beginning) and I always end up sharing way too much and strange things. Thinking back I can't remember how I dared to to broach the topics I did. I'm a pretty private virgo -- it's hard to get anything out of me -- sometimes even I don't know what I'm feeling.

both me and my bf have this with each other. it's a tight relationship with lots of love, chaos and acceptance.

This is the creepiest connection I've ever experienced. On top of this person's moon being in my 8th house, my scorpio sun and venus are conjunct his mars and pluto. His mars is in the 8th house, also. Scary, scary connection! Our moons are conjunct each other's, but mine is in the other person's 5th house, which thank goodness exists, because this is a deep, dark, frightening connection!

omggggggggggggg wow im blown away ok so Virgo is in my 8th house and this guy has his moon in virgo he says im the only person he trusts and feels safe with and can confide into and he has confided his deepest darkest secrets to me and still does things that nobody would or could ever know so no this all makes sense

I’m the moon person in this situation and my boyfriend is the house person. He is pretty much the only person I’ve ever met that I feel like I’m truly myself with and for him, sex is not something to be talked about to absolutely anybody but me. And I definitely have felt the whole “destiny” and “meant to be” stuff, and there are a few things in our composite that I blamed for that, but almost everything in this video described our relationship. The only thing is that I think the only fear here is about losing each other

I(cancer sun, libra moon,mars,sat,pluto,vertex in Libra in his H8). His sun,merc,uranus,and True Node is in Scorpio. So with my moon in his eight house, I could feel this deep intensity laced with a bit of apprehension. My affections for him ran deep but I had to get up the courage, in a sense, to hug him. On the other hand, I was very affectionate. Even more than he and he was very affectionate. He was protective and I felt very safe with him. My emotions felt safe with him. I felt like he saw right through me. Flaws and imperfections were laid bare. I felt bare in front of him,period. It was hard to look into his eyes for long stretches because I could feel him unraveling this imperfect me. We had many moments of saying the same words, same thoughts,etc. There was an instance when he played a song I requested. The thing is I didn't say it to him, he just played it as I wrote in on our playlist. I am not certain if these are 8th house but I am ever changed. I saw myself on a level I've never experienced. I have not known passion so deep and so pure. I love him, unconditionally. It is def life changing and not for the faint of heart. Prepare to be and feel vulnerable. Thanks, Jewel. You are the best. Now, on to the video.

This is spot on!! I am the moon person!! I’ve never felt a deep bond I have ever in a partner like I have and we are only in the beginning stages.

I've only ever had this in relationships that are platonic (on my end). Both my parents, a really good friend (who it turns out was secretly attracted to me romantically - to me, he was my best friend, and to this day I still feel that way), and some random other people (they felt attraction, I did not). In every situation, the moon person (I'm the 8H) is very needy and feels like I don't love them, I'm withholding, or they're not getting the level of attention and love they want from me. What they want from me, I always find, isn't real love, but some deep need for validation and worth from another person that they really need to find in themselves. Suspicion, paranoia, assumptions, projecting... I suppose if I bought into this energy and participated, I would have a similar experience as others who feel very drawn in, connected and compelled by this aspect. But, I'm not interested, at all. I can see everything that the moon person is going through, but I'm not drawn in in any way. I do feel an unconditional love for them, though. And a deep compassion and joy in spending time with them. Which I find to be a more real intimacy than what they think intimacy is.

This is very accurate. I am the 8th house person and am currently experiencing this synastry with someone. It’s the most intense experience I have ever been in. Circumstances prevent us from being together, however we feel spiritually and emotionally connected to one another without even having sex with one another. I’m a Scorpio sun and he’s a Cancer Sun, we love and welcome the intensity!

My ex has a moon in Pisces in my eighth house. He is always asking me about my fantasies but I will never tell. I know that he is secretly bisexual but I accept it. He always says that we are soulmates because out Sun Signs are the same and we met on our birthday.

I have this with my current boyfriend.. we've been together for 3 years and I lost my virginity to him almost immediately the first time we hung out. I'm the moon person and I have a Gemini moon in the 8th house. I am not kidding when I say he brings out the absolute WORST qualities of me. And it sucks because I feel like he's telling his friends all of the crazy shit I do, but it's not fair because that's not who I really am, I usually have complete control over my emotions, but it's different with him. He will push me and push me and push me until I snap, I almost feel like he gets pleasure out of making me snap. I feel like he secretly likes it.

I've had this on again off again connection with someone for 3 years. IT IS VERY PSYCHIC AND INTENSE . His moon falls in my 8th house pisces, and my moon falls in his 12th house cancer.

I love your interpretations because they are not cookbook... I definitely learn more from you than reading about it from the internet!

so true, omg. so intense, so passionate but safe, so good and nourishing. such a connection

Great video and series! Helpful to understand better

Jewel this is such a beautiful description! you are a poet

This is me and my partner of 6 years. Absolutely compelling to be together no matter the odds. I felt him, all his strengths and weaknesses when I first met him. I could feel right thru him. I’m the moon person.

My moon is in my husbands 8th house and u are absolutely correct!

Spot on. My moon falls in my husbands 8th house and conjuncts his Ceres and SN. Being a natal Capricorn moon I had never felt this level of emotional intensity and it initially scared me to death, because as you said - I knew once I went in that cave and gave into my emotions it was done. The vulnerability was terrifying and thrilling at the same time. We both felt an immediate intense connection and as if we’d known one another forever and been together many lifetimes. We also have his MH and moon conjunct my 5H Pisces NN and his sun and Mercury conjunct my 5H Pisces POF. Several “double whammy” aspects - the most intense being our ascendants conjunct one another’s vertexes. His in my 8H and also conjunct my lot of spirit and mine in his 6H and also conjunct his Neptune. We met when transit Venus was exact conjunct my vertex and thus also his ascendant. Never believed in love at first sight, but our souls literally touched immediately- the attraction was not of this world, it’s a spiritual world. Unconditional love, as you said.

Brava! Brava! This Video is Absolutely Fantastic and Brilliant!!!

l LOVE THESE SERIES~ I REALLY LOOK FORWARD TO SEE MARS IN PARTNER'S HOUSE SERIES IN THE FUTURE^^ THANK YOU !

You, my Jewel, has your moon in my Libra 8th house and I feel you emotionally stimulating me in this video 😱

I'm sooooo happy I found this channel!

@ 10:46 "Cuz it's so easy to doo" Jewel sounds so adorable right there. Another amazing video by my favorite astrologer, Ms. Jewel Mayberry. Thanks as always, Jewel. You're the best.

Every word spoken in this video perfectly captures the synastry between me and my lover. His Moon, Venus, Sun, Mercury all conjunct my Venus, Moon, Sun and South Node in 8th and part of 7th. Lol I could feel his resistance for the longest time - about 9 months but the pull between us was so powerful that I just knew this was going to be the one who was going to make me cave..and I did! I usually prefer to not be involved with anyone but I really can't resist! Oh and my Pluto opposes all of our conjunctions that I mentioned. Your videos are so on target. Thank you for sharing

*Both* my parents have their moons in my 8th house. My meditation teacher once said that its unnatural when a child is more spiritually evolved than the parents. I didnt understand then but i do now. I think the 4th, 8th and 12th houses are the most profoundly emotionally bonding places and moon, pluto and neptune are probably as bonding as the angels and nodes.

I have this with a (former) friend. I have NEVER in my life felt any connection as powerful as this one. We got each other without words. I'm Plutonian, so that's fine with me. She has a lot of Leo & she flaked on me a LOT. It felt like a breakup when we stopped talking.

Your outfit is so cute!

your videos are so profound!!!!!!! woow, thank you so much!

From my experience, every person I know that I’ve had 8th house placements with (particularly the moon) it seems to bring out a lot of jealousy, spitefulness, resentment, nastiness and subtlety trying to put each other down (as if to expose and make vulnerable/see their weakness) and yet at the same time there’s a strong attraction and sometimes even obsession, like “can’t live with them can’t live without them”. If you can overcome the negativities then it’s connecting, deep & binding like no other. But if not it can get very ugly 😑😖 & hard to let go but you can eventually. I still prefer 11th & 5th house placements!

I had this with a man who’s moon, Venus and mars conjunct my Pluto/Lilith and in 8th house. His sun conjuncted my Venus. 😭 He turned me on in EVERY single way.

Damn. I had pretty obsessive thoughts about a specific guy. Thoughts that I wanted to dive into his soul and see all his darkness... and always accept and be here for him. His moon was in my 8th house. We weren't even dating though. I just started dating a guy and just found out that my moon is in his 8th house. We have only met irl once and I don't have those obsessive thoughts... yet... There was nothing sexual going on when we met but I think about it quite a lot now when we are apart.

I had this placement with an ex. I was stalked and even raped by this person. I don't know why didn't call the police and press charges. I was the house person and he was the moon person. And i was never really that in to him like he was in to me. When I first met him he fell in love with me very fast. My Venus in Aquarius did not like that. I broke it off with him. After I broke it off with him, he continued to call me and profess his love and I'm like "I don't even know you". Further turning off my Venus in Aquarius. Eventually he grew on me and I wound up giving in because he just wouldn't go away.. Yet he was still more in to me than I was in to him. After three years I left him for someone else, and he still wouldn't go away. Long story short it's been fourteen years and I've had three serious relationships with other men and had a child, between that time and he still stalks my social media pages and ask people about me. I've blocked him on every social media site, changed my number, told him to kick rocks, told him to go to hell. And it really pisses me off that he believes were soul mates. Uggh. I'm repulsed by him , just the thought of him makes me feel uncomfortable and makes my skin crawl. I really don't like him. It's a deep hatred I have for him.

Woman you are the best ever

Hi Jewel, thank you for your wnderful videos! I ended up watching this one many times, since I had this with someone and eventually found out that it was a double whammy - both our moons are in each other's eighth house. The attraction and magnetism is through the roof, but sadly the other person is unavailable and this causes a lot of pain. I also found out that their Sun is conjunct my Pluto and my Venus is opposite their Pluto, which makes the situation very intense and also the friendship very hard to break. Plus, we're both plutonian individuals (my Sun in 8th, their Venus in 8th), so intensity is a desired thing. What are your thoughts on heavy plutonian/8th house synastry?

Omg the most abusive relationship I've ever been in -8th House person.

u nailed it..love ur videos

I have this , my partner is male and it's is moon and my 8th house , my his relationship style is avoident and mine is anxious !! It's very Rocky x

This could not have been more accurate it’s wild actually …

Lol... I am the house person. 👌🏻

I am the moon person and I definitely agree with you . everything is spot on ..dunno how the house person feels though

Explained VERY well thank you jewel

Thank you Jewel, very informativ and deep insight! Love your videos. Me and my partner have this, his moon in my 8th. But his moon is in aquarius in 7th house. So he will express it in a rather detached less emotional way? Or I have wrong. Blessings

I have this with my partner his mars is in my 8th house and my moon is in his 8th house we often have power struggle but enormous sexual attraction he has his sun in the 8th house so he's very jealous als his venus in scorpio i have my venus in leo but in the 8th house we are both jealous and very deep and intense sometimes too intense i'm addicted to him i admire him adore him he's my everything but he's also very distructive and selfish

Thankyou for your insight 🌸🙏🌸

Great videos!!

Please do a video on Mars in the 8th house, thank you!

I don't understand how it's the planet person experiencing this more than the house person. In any synastry overlay of the houses. It doesn't make sense to me that it would work that way, but actually would be the reverse

If I could like this twice, I would! Well said, lol!!!

Hi Jewel. I'm intrigued by what you say around 10:20 about the Moon person's potentials that may be expressed in this context. I'm spending a lot of time with someone whose Moon-Uranus(-Vertex-Black Moon Lilith) conjunction in Sagittarius falls into my 8th house (conjunct my own Sun). I don't necessarily mean for you to address that entire pile of information, but if you might say something to clarify what you meant in the video about this. Thanks!

Interesting. The synastry happens in Virgo, which makes it all the more interesting....

Well, that explains a lot! Thanks.

I had a relation where her moon was in my 8th house scorpio and conjunct to my north node, Sun, Mercury and Jupiter. But unfortunately we have major hard aspects so it didn't work out in the end. This goes to show that you have to look at the entire synastry chart and not focus on only one aspect because in the end it might not be as good or as bad as it seems :).

omg I love this!!

This man I was interested in has his moon in my eighth house. I met him at a art show and he literally pulled himself to me it was so strange I wonder if that was the moon pulling into my eighth house

My husband is the house person and I'm the moon person. It's almost like we know what the other person is thinking. Someone mentioned it's almost like you can feel the house person's energy. I 100% agree with that. It's like I can sense him and it is like a pull towards him. However, due to our other placements, he really gets under my skin and annoys the crap out of me. 😂 We do have an intense bond though. Edit: For instance... my Aries moon and his Virgo moon. Or my Leo Venus and Mercury with his Virgo Venus and Scorpio Mercury. 🤦🏻‍♀️🙃

I’m the house person and when I saw him I was like woah I want that in my life 😂 his Venus is also in my 7th house

It’s flipped for me the moon person’s moon becomes pretty much a Scorpio moon when with the 8th house person (me) I don’t get jealous possessive none of that with him

Thank you so much for your excellent videos. We have DW moon in partner 7 house but in our synastry chart of current progressing, our moons DW in 2 house of each other, will we consider this overlay? If we take into account of overlay progressed moon, should we compare the overlay between 1 person's progress to another person's natal OR progress to progress? Thank you.

I have this with a friend. His moon falls in my 8th house, his Mars is in my 12th house, my Sagittarius ascendant conjuncts his sun, and my Pisces Mars trines his Scorpio Mars. I try to limit the access other people have about my personal life due to a traumatic experience I had in the past, but everything comes spilling out when I'm with this person. He also seems to share things he wouldn't normally let other people find out about. It's thrilling and scary at the same time, but that's the eight house for you. Now I'm curious where my moon falls in his chart.

Wowwww love this video! My Leo moon in my 8th really got what you were saying here. Now I’m wondering what it means when both you + your partner has Venus in each other’s 8th house😳 (I have my sun, Venus, Jupiter + Mercury in his 8th + he has his Venus, Jupiter, Mercury, Psych, Vesta + Chiron in my 8th)-Jewel are your books open for readings? Now I def gotta look into this😂

This is so accurate!

How do you think this plays out in a parent/child relationship? My mom's moon is in my 8th house and vice versa (hers is libra, mine is scorpio).

Hi Jewel. great video, thank you. Can I ask what happens when my Moon in Sag meets his Saturn there? Seems pretty hard to me :-/ Thank you xx

I have this with someone I’m seeing now. I’m the house person and we are both Scorpio moons although my own moon is in my 9th house natally. His falls into my 8th. It actually feels like we are holding back a lot. I am very attracted to him. It’s really early on.

My Leo 3rd house Moon/Mars is conjunct my husbands 8th house Moon in the 8th. I’m very Scorpionic (Sun exactly Conjunct Pluto and three planets in Scorpio:)). My husband is the first man in my life (besides my dad) who I can show all of me. There’s still a bit of me who feels like I can’t show everything, but so far, nothing shocks him about me and I feel safe.

Our moons are both conjunct in Scorpio within 1 degree. Mine falls in his FIRST/12th house cusp, whereas his falls in my EIGHTH/7th house cusp. I feel married to him in my soul, and I'm looking back at the whole year like woah what happened. Negative patterning/fears is what happened.... Toxic connection, or soulmate?

My Moon (Gemini) falls in his 8th house conjunct his Venus. His Venus falls in my 7th house conjunct my moon.

Love your videos! Had a question: how do you interpret the moon or other planets when it falls near the end of the other person's house in overlay synastry? For instance, my moon falls technically in the other person's 7th house, but it's 2 degrees from the 8th house cusp. His moon, on the other hand, falls technically in my 8th house but it is 1 degree away from my 9th house cusp. I'm using Placidus system. For the natal chart, I know many people interpret the planet in the next house when it's at the end of the house, but does that apply for synastry overlay as well? Thanks!

haaaate this placement

does this aspect always indicate attraction if friends have it?

When you talk about trauma bond, are you saying "nurture" as in heal or "nurture" as in enable? My moon is in his 8th hous3👍🏾💯.I have experienced his shadow side more than once and no one has seen it but me. It's crazy.

Please do a video on mars in 8th house synastry!

I had this placement with a recent relationship. I was the moon person. It was very toxic cause we had a lot of 8th house and Scorpio placements and aspects as well as mats square pluto it was very intense

I have this with someone, as a DW. We also have Pluto-Moon DW and Moon-NN DW. It was intense, he wouldn't admit it as he married... but I know how he felt!

His moon is in my 8H & my moon in his 1H 🖤

I am just melting💖. You are so adorable. You make me think that you are watching me while I live this situation. Love you, beautiful lady😘

The moon person leaked out that’s he’s married ugh BYE -8th house thank goodness he told me within a week but the bond was serious.

What happends if she has her Moon in my 8th house using equal and whole sign, but when I move to placidus it goes to my 9th house ? Which interpretation is correct ?

Oh wow. . . I have Scorpio in my 8th house. . . so I would have this with someone with Scorpio Moon.

Thank-you.

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what if this aspect also creates a moon-jupiter conjunction, in the 8th house? wo

Hi If there is bad aspect in The chart of The moon person for exemple : he has mercury square to his moon I dont know if his aspect can affect an aspect between moon with 8th house in synastry? Thanks

Is there anyway you can tell me about me and a partners charts ? I have them both but it’s hard to understand for myself. A few comparison of Natal charts says this is soulmate connection. But trying to understand all the planets and aspects is hard for me 😩

I’m the house person and he’s the moon. We just met about a month ago.

Jewel, this video was so helpful and thanks for posting. I'm the Moon Person in a relationship with a House Person who has their own natal moon in his 8th House, as well. We also share Scorpio Sun and Capricorn Asc signs within close orb. (On top of all that, we have Moon-Pluto conjunction in our composite chart !!) *Specifically, how does the Moon-to-Moon synastry play out in our case pls?* Advice, anyone?

so this is the same as composite moon in 8th house?