Thank You 🙏! So content of being mindful with no reaction to a chaotic day last week ! I was thriving in mindfulness to not react, wasn’t an easy task ( all who heard said they would have lost it reacted screamed : was never that extreme American way) Guess getting stronger in my inner journey ! Even though I was a practitioner of mindfulness , so grateful to your discourses, Sister! 🙏 The contentment received was far greater ! I I want to keep perfecting these moments as it is the only to make my journey stronger as in general I got my nature that I am content ! ☮️
Om shanti 🧚♀️Sister your soothing .. super healing discourse videos have been my emotional doctor ever since the " om shanti om " days when I most needed them .. it's not that I need your guidance any less now , infact now as have grown older n have more responsibilities than before , I get empowered by your magical words all the more .. But sister despite a very submissive acceptance of the teaching from brahmakumaris (especially you ) n after being able to understand every single detail of the concept I still tend to get vulnerable and weak .. I'm an overtly emotional person n my will power has not being supporting me to overcome my so called little flaws like vulnerability n insecurities.. though I have been lecturing people on d same n have a few dozens of followers myself who got a life changing experience after being counselled by me .. I have shared nothing with them but just pure authentic knowledge which I have absorbed from your teachings., so my question is, when others can get better with my efforts towards them ,then y can't I myself get the real peaceful life ..
Didi I am loving to listen to your discourse every single day n I feel the shifts happening in my life 🙏🏻 you are really a divine soul n so m i is wat I have started believing 🙏🏻
di u r shiv baba's angel..u r d most beautiful soul ...u change my life u r making me a better person day by day ..i want to meet u once in my life ..plz allow me to feel ur pure n strong vibration ..thank u shiv baba who send u in dis world ...thank u di
Plz help me .....plz......meri 3yrs ki beti h jo ki sabke satha aram se ghulmil jati h ...aur mere makan malik ka beta jo ki 22yrs old h....uske sath meri beti ki achhi dosti h....bt wo ladka hamesha meri beti ko apne sath lejata h ghumane ....mujhe dar lagta h ....me mana nai kr pa rahi hun.....ham yanha pe 10days hua h aye hen ....me kisi ko janti v nai hun achhe se.....me kya karun....meri beti hi mere satha nai rehna chahti usko ghumna h to me kya karun......plz ans me plz sister.....plz....maa hun na jamana ittna khrab h dar lagta h mujhe
Why are you still waiting for advice? Use your common sense! Do not hesitate to say *NO!* Dont you know about the Kathua rape case of an eight year old girl? There are very sick people in this world, but they can blend in with people around them and you will never notice their intentions. If you have a shred of doubt that this 22 year old man is showing a little too much interest in your daughter, just do *EVERYTHING IN YOUR POWER* to keep him away from her. If you hesitate now to speak, you may *regret* it for the rest of your *life* . Your daughter is too young to take decisions. If you are a responsible mother, then you will know enough to let your daughter know that *YOU* are her parent and *YOU* make the rules that she has to follow. *YOU* have to be strict and let her know that just because she wants to go out with the 22 year old man, does not mean she will be allowed. True love of a parent for her child does not mean that the parent will fulfill all of the child's wishes. She may be angry at you for now, but after many years she will be mature enough. Have a discussion alone with your daughter. Be bold and authoritative and make it clear to your daughter that she will not be allowed to go anywhere with this man. Tell her that when this man comes to your house, she will not make a fuss about going out with him, or else she will face punishment. Enforce some discipline in your daughter. If necessary, distract her from this situation and engage her in different activities like playing board games with you, or reading children's coloured story books; maybe you could meet up with parents of her friends in school and take her to her friend's house to play. Since you are new to this place, it will also help you to know more people. After getting to know them, you all could even discuss about sending your children to art & craft classes, dance classes or any other co-curricular activities, so that you can keep your daughter busy in free time. And occasionally, you should make the effort to spare some time to take your daughter to parks or other places yourself. If the man comes and insists too much about it, be *brave* and firmly say NO. Do not show any sign of fear or hesitation in front of him. Just tell him frankly that you will no longer allow your daughter to go out with him, and tell him that your daughter is not interested. Do not let him talk to your daughter when he comes to your house; keep her inside. Tell the man that your daughter is busy nowadays because of studies and co-curricular activities, and to play with her friends. Make any good excuse. Let him indirectly know that you want him to stay away from her. He should get the message in a few days. You, too, try to avoid talking to him. Do not be rude, but maintain your distance. Remember: DO NOT HESITATE TO SAY NO. YOU MAY REGRET IT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. Maybe in future you find out that the man actually was not bad and had no evil intentions towards your daughter. HOWEVER, you cannot *RISK* it. IF this man has some bad intentions, he will try EVERYTHING to gain your trust. You have to be wise and not fall for his words. It is always better to be on the SAFE SIDE, especially when you are new to a place. You don't have to worry about what he or anyone thinks of you for being so careful and concerned about safety. If the man is sensible, he will understand that any mother will be concerned about the safety of her 3 year old child, especially in a new and unfamiliar place. If the man is sensible, he will respect your concerns and stop doing something which is worrying you. And remember that your daughter is your number one priority in life. I expect that the man will leave your daughter alone if you act wisely and DO NOT SHOW ANY FEAR. However, *if* even after you spoke to him MANY times, he does not change and you feel that your daughter is at RISK, then you have to FORGET about everything else and LEAVE that house, before something terrible happens. There are some bad people around us, but there are MANY MORE good people. I am sure that IF this man does not change even after being told many times, you can simply get out of this house and find another rented house from GOOD people. MONEY should NOT be a concern when it comes to the SAFETY of family. Best of luck, and start *NOW!*
You are not a Muslim, you are a human being like everybody else but chose to or probably was made to believe in the tenets of Islam. Whichever belief one chooses, it is just the journey by different mode of transport, we all end up at the same destination.
We always hear the phrase "Times are uncertain", but was there really ever a time in which everything was certain? Even when we were living in caves, we were never certain if we would be safe from the wild animals roaming around and if we would have enough food that day. One thing for certain is there will always be times that are uncertain.
Sister, i can feel him communicating to me through you. My body name is Ankita. I get disturbed too frequently by kalyugi energy these days. Almost everyday. But Its surprising that your everyday facebook post relates exactly to whatever is on my mind that day. I am still trying to establish strong relation with him. Can you please thank him on my behalf.
I have learnt a lot from you Sr Shivani. I'm ever grateful to you. I had developed auto immune condition because of my emotional mismanagement. Now it's still there. But I manage my emotions well. Thank you. I listen to you so often in a day as I'm retired from my active job. I am a practicing counselor now. Earlier I thought that one person who has to accept me as I'm not doing it. But, those are that person's sanskars. He will never change. I now have changed the way I think sr Shivani. You are an angel helping so many of us. Salute
It was great seeing you at the SF lecture! When you asked the question, "Anyone responsible for your emotions?" One person in particular came to mind: my mother. All my life I've been waiting for her genuine approval, for her to say: "Good job," (and not change her mind), like she has done so many times in the past. And, because this uncertainty would confuse me as a child, I found myself needing and seeking approval from EVERYBODY. It was a habit I developed and I was like a wave on the ocean. What a tormented way to live! So, I'm grateful at least in later life to have found the true meaning of the words you use so often in your lectures: "Sankalp se srishti, NOT srishti se sankalp." What a game changer!!! Thank you so much, Sr. Shivani, for literally saving my sanity (or showing me how to save my OWN sanity). Om shanti.
Thank you to God for everything. Congratulations on your wonderful success. Keep flying in God's love. Also please take care not to create a single negative thought for your mother. Everyone is doing their best, based on their capacity and their sanskars. So let us continue to accept and respect them for who they are.
BKShivani Thank you for the encouraging words! That means a lot to me. There's one more thing please, Sr. Shivani, I heard you mention in one of your videos that you actually cured someone with OCD. I'd like to know more about that as I have been afflicted with OCD since the age of about 8 years old. It would be a true miracle to finally be free of this plague once and for all. Do you still do interventions for OCD and is there a way to contact you in that regard? Sincerely, BM.
I will be keep searching for your videos it's Amazing and it helps me to heal myself and build my character too...on daily vani we will get answer for our souls questions... But the Amazing thing is am getting solutions through your messages too so it's shiv(vani) didi for me.... Love you Didi ... love you Baba...
Om Shanti Shivani Sister🙏🏻🙏🏻 Am so grateful for ur inspiring talks...Thank you so much🙏🏻🙏🏻 Now my problem is I myself is the mic....need to change or shift myself only.....which am trying my best everyday. Any help & kind words to work on myself....please suggest. Thanks 🙏🏻
Thinking too much about a problem will invite another problem of worry and tension also which in turn may lead to other problems . Instead one can think about the solution by remaining cool.
Om shanti didi Didi I want to stay positive all time But two persons that very close relationship to me make me happy. Didi please solve my problem mere husband very time mujhe criticised karte rahte h .har chhoti bari bat ka blem mujhe karte h.tumari vajah se meri job nahi h thumari vajah se m marunga etc kya kru didi.
Om shanti. You can understand his perspective. If there is something beneficial in it please take it. If criticism is just his sanskar then do not allow it to touch you. Look at it in a detached way. Do not consume it. Frequent criticism is a sign of emotionally weak soul - of low self esteem and insecurity. If you create thoughts of hurt and anger it sends him rejection and it deepens his weakness. When we remain stable we radiate love and respect to people. This stability protects us. The love and respect which they receive from us, strengthens them. When their soul power increases changing sanskars for them becomes easier. You can empower your self with daily spirituality and meditation. Do special meditation for him daily. Cook for him with pure vibrations of the new sanskars you want to see in him - acceptance, love and respect. Create thoughts of only of his new sanskars. Please visit your nearest Brahma Kumaris center and the sisters will help you learn Rajyoga Meditation. It is a 7-day course, an hour daily (free of cost). You can fix your time with the sisters. You can find your nearest centre - www.brahmakumaris.com/centers/
BKShivani Om shanti Thank you didi . thank you very much . Maine abhi se yahi karna start kiya h. Aap sahi kah rahe ho didi .ye low frequency or sanskar ka hi reason h.unka childhood or hamare childhood bahut difference h.
@@bkshivani Om shanti M apne aap ko har time positive or peaceful rakhne ki koshish karti hu.but kuch time baad asi koi baat ho jati h ki .meri vo sari mahanat bekar chali jati h.. Fir vo hi negative thoughts aane suru ho jayenge...unhone aisa kaise kah diya ki tumne mera jivan Barbaad kar diya. Means didi ak little bit baat bhi na pinch karti rahti h .dimag fluctuate karta rahta h nahi sahi socho.nahi Jo ho raha h vo socho... Ise kaise handle Kare
No one can shift on my way.but we can shift on their way. It's a easy way to live happily...and didi we has understood that our good habits not only influenced others but also useful to us... Charan sparsh di
Simple comparison to the mic and the brother who brought it to you was brilliant! How often I have been on either side of the equation. Our thoughts are so powerful. I love the saying "The mind is like a camera; it develops what you focus on." We have options. Choose thoughts wisely.♡ Thank you Sister Shivani. Thinking of you in your birthday month! 5/31 will be 50 years this world was blessed with your presence. 🥰🎊🎉💕
Thank you so much for English. This was just what I've been going through. Just what I needed to hear. Your sharing is so wise I listen to same words over and over. What a gift !!! ❤
