Tales From Regretful Parents | TikTok Childfree By Choice Commentary

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The purpose of these videos is to help undecided individuals regarding parenthood make a fully informed choice, rather than one influenced by societal pressure. It’s important to understand that parenthood is not just a milestone-it’s a profound, lifelong responsibility that should be entered into with full conviction, not hesitation. The content posted isn’t to disparage hardworking parents or those who truly desire to become a parent, but to encourage careful consideration of the hard truths and the realities that often go unspoken.
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28 сен 2024

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@bananarama480 8 дней назад

"We'll see"?! 😳 Creepy husband behaviour. 😰

@Jendian 9 дней назад

These stories are so sad. Motherhood is very difficult but it is also very fulfilling. Both things are simultaneously true. The common thread here seems to be how lonely and unsupported these moms are. That and the identity crisis once baby gets here which is very common. It has nothing to do with the baby and everything to do with them and their surrounding circumstances. I hope they can get the support they need and see their babies for what they are: a beautiful gift despite the huge responsibility ❤

@durrr1007 9 дней назад

So no, it’s not fulfilling for everyone. No matter what you do not everyone will be happy they had kids. See the thing is if you don’t have kids and you later regret it there’s only one victim of that choice.

@Jendian 7 дней назад

@@durrr1007 i guess it’s the same of everything in life. It’s about perspective. Some people like working and find it fulfilling others don’t, some people like working out some don’t, some like driving others don’t, etc. I understand people are inclined to different things but that doesn’t mean that the stories shared here about women in miserable circumstances and most of it is not their kids it’s their partners and family. Rewatch and see

@Jendian 4 дня назад

@@durrr1007it may not be fulfilling for everyone but rewatch the video. Almost all of these women are in terrible situations and have zero support from their partners and family. That’s the main issue. I’m willing to bet at least half would feel differently if they had the support they needed. They don’t have the opportunity to enjoy motherhood bc they are completely alone in raising their child(ren) and that’s very tough 😕

@durrr1007 4 дня назад

@@Jendian not necessarily. Of course it’s good to support women but this video is about the fact that women do regret having children. You can say “if only they had xyz” but the reality is that no one ever will have everything that would make them love motherhood. That’s not the world we live in. And so deferring to being childfree is a smarter choice for everyone including yourself considering the current state of the world not the utopia you want to exist. Defaulting to having kids because that’s what we’re told we should do is not good. It should be the other way around.

@durrr1007 4 дня назад

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@Upload-video-terserah-gue 4 дня назад

Enaknya jadi manusia = 1. Ada makanan 2. Fisik sehat 3. Panjang umur 4. Punya keluarga 5. Ada tempat tinggal bagus 6. Manusia Jujur 7. Saling toleransi 8. Masuk surga 9. Dapat rezeki. 10. Damai dengan orang. 11. Mempunyai pemimpin yang mendukung rakyat. Dll Tidak enaknya jadi manusia = 1. Kelaparan 2. Kadang merasakan sakit , ada yang berkebutuhan khusus ( tidak bisa melihat, tidak bisa mendengar, tidak bisa berbicara ), ada yang sakit berat = stroke , kanker , dll , ada yang kehilangan anggota tubuh . 3. Suatu hari meninggal 4. Ada yang tidak punya keluarga 5. Ada yang tidak punya tempat tinggal atau tempat tinggal jelek 6. Ditipu orang 7. Rasis SARA ( suku , agama, ras dan budaya) , Rasis yang lain. 8. Masuk neraka 9. Harus bekerja kalau mau punya harta 10. Di hina orang 11. Mempunyai pemimpin Tidak mendukung rakyat Dll. Maka dari itu saya memutuskan tidak punya anak. Ada gak enaknya jadi manusia. Mungkin anak saya mengalami hal buruk tersebut . Ya walaupun ada enaknya jadi manusia, saya tetap tidak punya anak. ( Indonesia language)

@GospoicaMarijica 9 дней назад

Sounds like a husband problem, not a baby problem.

@bananarama480 8 дней назад

The husband's a nightmare. Doesn't mean that the whole issue though. She never should have been pressured.

@Jendian 7 дней назад

@@GospoicaMarijica 100 percent agree

@thesprinklebox4841 9 дней назад

People have no balls and no grit. This generation has lost the ability to overcome obstacles and look outside themselves for two full seconds. I'm so sick of listening to these disgusting stories about how people are weak and don't know how to ask for help.

@bananarama480 8 дней назад

Then guess what? Don't listen to it! Earlier generations might have raised their kids, but often times in horrible, neglective ways. Now claiming that everybody who wants to do it right is weak. Go somewhere else. Go where only the hard and resilient parents go who never were exhausted or full of doubt.

@alptraum7644 8 дней назад

dont click on things you know will trigger you. simple as that 🤷‍♂

@thesprinklebox4841 8 дней назад

@@alptraum7644 it's everywhere Hun. We live in a world full of professional victims. It's about time people use all pointless therapy and overcome some sh*t.

@bananarama480 8 дней назад

@@thesprinklebox4841Speaking of pointless: Why are you going around searching for videos about people regretting parenthood if you despise them so much? Just let them be and mind your own business.

@thesprinklebox4841 8 дней назад

@@bananarama480 no one searches for these losers. They pop up. Why are you commenting on my opposing opinion?