You’re a very good speaker and charismatic. That’s a big plus. I think I have good looks but suffer from not being so silver tongued. You have a good attitude about this stuff. Just stay focused on what you control in life, your routine, and as corny as it is stay positive. That’s what I’m trying to do.
Good videos man. Woman don't care about men's feelings yet a man does to them like they do to us. They get upset. It's a ego letdown when women get rejected
Most women are looking for this romance novel or book connection Nick. It's unrealistic. Vast majority of our parent's never had it. I'm older than you and been ghosted many times.
The reason people/ woman don’t give that courtesy, is that they aren’t conditioned to. It’s that whole cop out response, “ it’s not you, it’s me?” They are conditioned to maintain their social status. Saying, ”I’m not interested, ” Is socially crippling to them. Also, they are cowardly, and find ghosting a whole lot easier, FOR THEM. It’s just easier, consciously than openly saying, “I didn’t feel a connection ,” Saying that, I’ve seen some people being savages and just saying, ”Sorry, but not sorry, no. End of, sorry….” Passive aggressive. Really, you’ll know when it’s good or not. When it’s not, you’ll find it’s you wondering, and knowing, “ I wasn’t feeling it, but I wouldn’t say no either, ”
Last night, sort of same scenario. I led this girl from Tinder on that I wanted to go out spontaneously at 10:30 at night then backed out. Mood soured. She unmatched on Tinder immediately. We were texting but since the unmatching had to respectfully delete her number.
Dating nowadays is like a market, people keep browsing and be picky and then got the worst deal at the end of the day. Sad but so true IMO She was just confused and not sure what she wanted stringing people along until they find someone better, rinse and repeat. Don't give them the attention that they are not deserved. Keep your chin up Mr.Danyall!
