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Talking Our Break Up w/ Nick Viall - Dropouts  

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This week we have 4 time Bachelor, Nick Viall! Former Reality TV show heartthrob, turned "Love Guru," sits down to teach us all the ins and outs of love and relationships. If you have any questionable romantic relationships in your life, or generally feel lost when it comes to love, this is a podcast you need to hear! Let us know what you think in the comments, and enjoy the show!
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Indiana: / indiana
Jared: / jarebearmusic
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Timestamps:
01:13 Nick’s belated birthday celebration.
02:51 Our friendship with Nick and how he met Jared.
03:25 Jared crushing on his crush from a distance.
03:54 Nick’s advice on making a move on your crush.
05:02 Nick’s perspective on why women have their guard up in public.
06:25 Having a gratitude mindset while approaching your crush in public.
09:25 How to pay compliments while approaching your crush.
12:12 Nick on how his podcast is soon about to reach the 500 th episode.
13:45 Zach comes up with an idea for a text crafting app for Nick.
14:19 Nick on his trials and tribulations with love and relationships.
17:57 Nick’s experience of being cheated on by his ex-fiancé and how it became a turning point in his life.
21:12 How to notice warning signs in a relationship.
22:29 Nick’s approach to avoiding past traumas from interfering with your relationships.
24:58 Nick’s analogy between cheating and credit card history.
27:05 Nick on why understanding your choices is more important than understanding other people.
31:26 Positive takeaways on relationships from Nick’s book.
33:09 Nick’s advice on healing after a breakup and being okay with your ex dating someone else.
35:43 Nick explains why ego is a superpower and how we can control it.
38:10 How to accept heartbreaks and turn them into positive stepping stones.
40:15 Indiana on her struggles getting over her ex and finally moving on after being cheated on.
45:42 Nick on not judging yourself and being brave enough to trust people after a rough heartbreak.
48:35 Nick answers Alyssa (our assistant)’s questions on relationships.
54:20 Nick explains the difference between non-negotiables and pet peeves in a relationship.
55:52 Nick on why you shouldn’t text your ex happy birthday.
01:04:24 Nick on the source of his relationship wisdom.
01:07:09 How Nick came to be on ABC’s The Bachelor.
01:10:24 Nick explains the balance between seeking love and letting it happen naturally.
01:13:11 Nick talks about his current relationship and the importance of communication.
01:18:11 How starring on The Bachelor became the starting point of Nick’s career.
01:22:55 Nick running into Harry Styles and how Harry became the dream guest for Nick’s podcast.
01:30:02 Nick answers some of our viewer’s relationship questions.
01:40:30 Nick’s perspective on the second date rule.
01:42:30 Nick’s advice for overcoming writer’s block and the story behind his book.
01:48:28 Nick and Indiana plan to collab on a live TikTok.
01:51:30 Nick’s advice on how to handle rejection as a guy.

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@Lognodotdev
@Lognodotdev Год назад
Happy birthday song copyright expired in 2017. It's public domain now.
@Coffeeisnecessarynowpepper
@Coffeeisnecessarynowpepper Год назад
315 likes
@StrummerFella
@StrummerFella Год назад
319 likes
@meowing-boy
@meowing-boy 7 месяцев назад
362 likes
@ashleybrown2933
@ashleybrown2933 Год назад
Watching this video after the one that just came out today knowing what Zach and Indi were going through and that he's actually asking for advice for himself....
@opjames__3197
@opjames__3197 Год назад
Fr
@saladballs_0
@saladballs_0 Год назад
55:30 veeery interesting how he basically outed the swearing etc right here and she was like *gasp* The shared look between the guys was priceless
@ramiboy_y2049
@ramiboy_y2049 Год назад
Indeed
@gavinholmes4997
@gavinholmes4997 Год назад
Oh wow So true I’m doing the same thing
@gavinholmes4997
@gavinholmes4997 Год назад
@@saladballs_0ohhhhh wow That’s tough
@stephanyc1222
@stephanyc1222 Год назад
"Cheating and Credit History are kinda the same. Past performance predicts future occurrences and the only way to gain that trust back is time." OMG so happy to see my field of studies in Credit Management come into play in this episode!!
@Aja_jh
@Aja_jh Год назад
This is literally the perfect comparison
@stephanyc1222
@stephanyc1222 Год назад
I know!!!
@toriwootan3607
@toriwootan3607 Год назад
Q
@ThePestilentDefiler
@ThePestilentDefiler 6 месяцев назад
Do you think cheating and amount of sexual partners hold any correlation?
@doodbropersonthing8558
@doodbropersonthing8558 9 месяцев назад
It breaks my fucking heart to now know that Zach was asking for himself ☹️☹️💔
@Jadewonderland
@Jadewonderland 6 месяцев назад
Time stamp ?
@anthony_urick1148
@anthony_urick1148 6 месяцев назад
​@@Jadewonderlandthe whole thing when he'd ask for people listening he was asking for himself
@laikenwilliams3993
@laikenwilliams3993 4 месяца назад
I just recently started watching Dropouts bc of Tara and I just have to say that I’m glad I didn’t start earlier. Indi bugs the shit out of me.
@Karlinj
@Karlinj 4 месяца назад
She is truly so annoying. It changed my opinion of everyone else on the show.
@Max-cx6qb
@Max-cx6qb 3 месяца назад
That’s so real
@kamilahmarch
@kamilahmarch 3 месяца назад
fr im stalking all there old videos rn to see how indy was😭
@HasanPikerIsADouche
@HasanPikerIsADouche 2 месяца назад
Fr... she's such a wet blanket
@htswhitey963
@htswhitey963 Год назад
Got dumped after a 6+ year relationship a few weeks ago. I needed this so bad. Answered so many questions and was so helpful on one of the days I’ve struggled the most. Timing could not have been better
@GizaVAL
@GizaVAL Год назад
wtf 6+ years???? maybe too long to be honest should have pulled out the ring or ended sooner if its going to stalemate like that man
@htswhitey963
@htswhitey963 Год назад
@@GizaVAL we started dating when we were in 7th grade so no money for a ring as a freshman in college😂
@Coffeeisnecessarynowpepper
@Coffeeisnecessarynowpepper Год назад
Indiana
@gostavoadolfos2023
@gostavoadolfos2023 Год назад
@@htswhitey963 love is a bohemian kid who follows no rules. I live by this French saying, feel free to join the cult 😅 I did the same and ended a 4 years old relationship even though my highschool sweetheart was the cutest most forgiving girl... we had to split for the betterment of both of us.
@meggedwards7303
@meggedwards7303 Год назад
This is absolutely one of my favorite episodes of yalls. I had no idea who he was and i’m usually very reluctant when podcasts have guests that I don’t know or i’m not interested in but wow this episode was absolutely incredible
@sofiaramirez1184
@sofiaramirez1184 Год назад
Best compliment I ever got was from a random guy I accidentally bumped into at a store and we went to the parking lot at the same time, he ended up stopping me and telling me “I just had to let you know you are absolutely beautiful” and got in his car and drove away. My hands literally were shaking lol
@Danny-wy7is
@Danny-wy7is Год назад
this guy is so good at staying on topic
@jacobmate1537
@jacobmate1537 Год назад
I first read your comment before I started watching and half way through I felt the urge to come back here are say you are 100% correct
@mirandaunverferth8603
@mirandaunverferth8603 Год назад
I think everyone needed to hear some part of this. Thank you ♥️♥️
@Threewisechicks
@Threewisechicks Год назад
I really need this episode and I relate to Indiana so much because my first boyfriend cheated on me and got a girl pregnant and we broke up a year ago and he’s already with another girl and it’s just been really hard on me so I really needed this
@margaretheilman881
@margaretheilman881 Год назад
yall this is one of the best podcasts that u have EVER done in the sense of it hits hard cause yall are connecting with the people going through shit
@chrysanthi_
@chrysanthi_ Год назад
what hurt the most after my breakup is how i lost the friends i met because of him, and i miss hanging out with them more than him
@jadeariellevaughn4695
@jadeariellevaughn4695 Год назад
@chrysanthi P. The reason I stayed in my last relationship as long as I did was because I knew I was gonna lose my friends - and they were the only friends I had because I spent so much time w my boyfriend they just kinda forgot about me... Still haven't gained those friends back, but that was a good couple years ago; I am now in a great relationship w what I feel is my soulmate and the friends that aren't in my life now I've noticed truly didn't have my best interests at heart
@chrysanthi_
@chrysanthi_ Год назад
@@jadeariellevaughn4695 happy you found your person ♥️ and thank you for giving me hope
@jadeariellevaughn4695
@jadeariellevaughn4695 Год назад
@@chrysanthi_ You will find your person - just think of it as the universe is waiting until you're your most confident, comfortable, and abled self so once you do find that soulmate you two will be the best part of yourselves so you can experience the best love has to offer!
@klaire1058
@klaire1058 Год назад
“Probably a lot of people have more bandaids than they do weapons” SON OF A . That’s so poetic man
@TheOnsieWithConverse
@TheOnsieWithConverse Год назад
i was expecting a podcast not a therapy session this episode is so wholesome
@wolfwhisperertf
@wolfwhisperertf Год назад
I have adhd and dyslexia but I've always liked writing. It's a struggle but hearing about someone that struggles with the same things I do and succeeding always give me a little more hope that I'll write something I'm really proud of some day.
@Ronell2Brazy
@Ronell2Brazy Год назад
I found your podcast last week and I’ve been watching many of the Dropouts Podcast episodes. Much Love ❤️
@maybeor1524
@maybeor1524 Год назад
Forgiveness = Realistic Forgetting = Fantasy
@PuckCld
@PuckCld Год назад
Super solid content everyone seems involved and like they genuinely care about hearing multiple opinions more then forcing a narrative
@keti_chkonia.22
@keti_chkonia.22 Год назад
Guys every your episode get's more interesting. Wish you soon have 1 million and then near 20 millions. People really enjoyed your postcsst, and are glad hear your voice. It's means alot humans around the world. Maybe you don't see that, but your postcast really help meny people. So guys thanks for your for this. :)
@orderingstuffthe3rd879
@orderingstuffthe3rd879 Год назад
I saw the thumbnail of Zack crying and I’m already sad
@klaire1058
@klaire1058 Год назад
THE ONE OF INDIANA KILLS ME :(
@DannyDarker4
@DannyDarker4 Год назад
This has a lot of REALLY good messages I think a lot of people need to hear more often
@DaphneGsell
@DaphneGsell Год назад
What a GREAT episode. Love Nick and this pod’s content.
@llogan21
@llogan21 Год назад
This kinda stuff is sooo relatable. Wish i had this advice when i was younger!!
@lukamoore5434
@lukamoore5434 Год назад
I really needed the part at 51:00. Thank you!
@madisonb9632
@madisonb9632 Год назад
3:15 38:29 42:32 55:42
@Jiselle-id2hw
@Jiselle-id2hw 6 месяцев назад
i can never watch the pods w indiana on it. Y is that?
@gabrielleg2765
@gabrielleg2765 Год назад
I’ve been binge watching all of the podcasts lmao
@benkoloski6332
@benkoloski6332 Год назад
Thank you so much for this specific podcast! You guys are so brave and strong for opening up and talking about your vulnerable experiences to benefit your audience. Every word was right from God for me today. Thank you.
@franciscocastro9542
@franciscocastro9542 Год назад
probably the best pod you ever did
@alanapope828
@alanapope828 Год назад
This is gonna be an interesting one, I can't wait to watch it. They get some awesome guests on so this is gonna be so good
@jackiemoolekamp6529
@jackiemoolekamp6529 Год назад
Great show - this hits home with me and sure with others. Don’t let anyone steal your personal joy ❤
@TwoCoppersTim
@TwoCoppersTim Год назад
I really loved seeing this version of zach
@jaredsmith4986
@jaredsmith4986 6 месяцев назад
Watching it after she cheated on him is gold. What a loser lol
@eylulidilyildiz
@eylulidilyildiz Год назад
Watching these after seeing the one which they talked about the things they’ve been going through hits different
@celestinamartinez2012
@celestinamartinez2012 Год назад
By far one of my most favorite episodes !
@n.nakuthaharissudeen591
@n.nakuthaharissudeen591 Год назад
This is such a good podcast. Great work guys keep going!! Really opened me eyes
@borderlinetrailandvine
@borderlinetrailandvine Год назад
We gotta hear about Zack meeting Tana!!! I saw you mouth Tanacon to her in the vid hehe
@WorldOfSamm
@WorldOfSamm Год назад
The Happy Birthday song is in the public domain in the United States. You're good to sing it.
@TheJaspa12
@TheJaspa12 Год назад
This was so good! ☺️
@PuckCld
@PuckCld Год назад
Yeah the copyright for happy birthday is expired so its public domain
@Jiselle-id2hw
@Jiselle-id2hw 6 месяцев назад
she is just really loud for what
@ashslay123
@ashslay123 Год назад
Great podcast as always!
@FlagirlJess
@FlagirlJess Год назад
Good podcast!!! Explained a lot of bad feelings from past relationships!!! #GoPackGo
@megandeanda7999
@megandeanda7999 Год назад
I'm 30 and I've been single 6 going on 7 years....and let me tell you that I'm the happiest I've ever been . Not because oh I can go do whatever I want because that was the last thing on my mind I was a sad sorry sack of human in the beginning and on top of that he abused me right when I had to attended my best cousins funeral and it was on my birthday . Literally worst time of my life . I was an emotional wreck and just felt like my life was coming down BUT I was there for my family I got communication with people I hadn't spoken to family wise and it was a beautiful moment for me . I felt like that part of me was starting to make up with my family for lost time . I wasn't okay as in my relationships with my friend with myself and it just had me sad I didn't even want to be out or talk and just die in my sadness because I was " so used to him " he was my everything LOL . But I was young and I wanted him to know that he had someone that wouldn't ever give on him and it was the worst choices of my life . I loved someone more than I loved myself and that's not healthy on no level . I'm so happy now I found myself I'm very awear of my surroundings now I'm very defensive in good ways lol but I just am living and loving life like I don't let anyone ever make me feel like he did or do what he did but I do get lonely cause I want what I deserve and I won't strive for less. So on that level it sucks but I'm happy .
@emilylajoie901
@emilylajoie901 Год назад
I started thinking of breakups as I'm thankful, I'm thankful I got the opportunity to be with that be person for however long an I'm thankful I get the opportunity to do that again with someone else an it may be even better
@harrylederman1679
@harrylederman1679 Год назад
Great guest watch his podcast all the time & now that I've seen yours I'll be a convert
@itsme_tnc5347
@itsme_tnc5347 Год назад
I love this episode i need to hear a lot of what ive been holding on to.
@asha2710
@asha2710 Год назад
indi looks so fucking good❤❤
@alishba8220
@alishba8220 Год назад
fav podcast ep u guys have filmed
@jamesoncourtney2761
@jamesoncourtney2761 Год назад
I follow y’all on tik tok and never really listened to pod casts but I listened to this whole episode on apple podcasts and loved it! Also purchased his book but don’t know how to post it here as you asked at the end 🤦🏼😂
@REVERBxCALIBER
@REVERBxCALIBER Год назад
Did I miss the part where Zach said he was on The Reacts channel for the jimmy Neutron try not to eat
@gabrielleknowles7882
@gabrielleknowles7882 Год назад
Same
@user-tt3ni4gb5i
@user-tt3ni4gb5i Год назад
Funny enough I picked up the paying a compliment thing from an episode of Drake and Josh.
@Jieraly_Vargas
@Jieraly_Vargas Год назад
Can't wait ❤
@justmemadison
@justmemadison Год назад
It's OK to sing Happy Birthday now.
@klaire1058
@klaire1058 Год назад
Hemingway “write drunk, edit sober”.
@Peacenluv.c
@Peacenluv.c Год назад
I hate all happy birthday texts.
@user08234
@user08234 Год назад
catfisherrrrrrrr - the photo of zach crying was from the smelling salts and indi from ANOTHER CATFISHHH clip (when indi left dropouts)
@abbysheets3198
@abbysheets3198 Год назад
Okay but is the five app real because I can’t find it?😂 definitely trying to do that!
@flyboy3510
@flyboy3510 Год назад
I'm not even gonna lie, I get daily cases of massive guilt because me and my friends made up a flame of going up to strangers and asking them out, or even asking them to straight up get into a relationship, and it hurts my heart every time I see the sad expression on some of them. I am probably the only one who goes about carefully articulating to not hurt them
@aslug243
@aslug243 Год назад
You could just stop
@flyboy3510
@flyboy3510 Год назад
@@aslug243 can't, really
@aslug243
@aslug243 Год назад
@@flyboy3510 alright keep being a dick to people then crying online saying you feel guilty about how much of a dick you’re being. Makes sense really
@anjahuggins5333
@anjahuggins5333 7 месяцев назад
@@flyboy3510 lmao who is forcing you to hit on strangers
@jaybrundy5512
@jaybrundy5512 Год назад
Everyone: Hey, I have relationship problems Nick: It’s your ego! (No hate it’s just a joke he’s like actually really wise)
@gomlbondoc
@gomlbondoc Год назад
Don’t apologize. It’s really down to that. He just has a masterful skill of stretching it out and explaining it to laymen’s like me and seemingly many others.
@miggs7483
@miggs7483 Год назад
Trust is like a eraser the more you use it the less there is...
@tristantimothydelosangeles8588
Happy Birthday Hannah
@hannahkirkland1301
@hannahkirkland1301 Год назад
as a woman with anxiety im gonna disagree with him. if a man approached me and told me i made his day im gonna get nervous and just say thanks, and if he doesnt ask anything after that im gonna assume that was all he wanted to tell me.
@MoonlitPhoenix0
@MoonlitPhoenix0 Год назад
As Madara said, Hatred is born to protect love 👀 so if I hate you enough to stab you that's just because I'm protecting my love don't take it personally
@meppys
@meppys 7 месяцев назад
good podcast.
@alphahost5031
@alphahost5031 Год назад
lol, lets be honest here... this is a therapy session not a podcast. kek
@lydiathegoat
@lydiathegoat Год назад
2 hours dang
@RaptorClawStudio
@RaptorClawStudio Год назад
HIS NAME IS NOT PRONOUNCED LIKE THAT ITS PRONOUNCED LIKE VIAL!!! I went to high school with his sister and my older siblings went to school with him and his other siblings. We make fun of him lying about the pronunciation to sound fancy lol
@klaire1058
@klaire1058 Год назад
Zach . Did you really bring up posty after YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENED
@asmaaboobaker9688
@asmaaboobaker9688 Год назад
cant wait im early
@ernestoberger7589
@ernestoberger7589 5 месяцев назад
It is not that women own approaching men something. Is that everyone own other people a humane or even a polite treatment.
@klaire1058
@klaire1058 Год назад
Who the heck would cheat on Indiana .
@cliffypoo11
@cliffypoo11 Год назад
im here for mustache grooming tips.
@jamesbjorlie-fp9qh
@jamesbjorlie-fp9qh Год назад
Well, he’s wrong about gratitude. Definitely has an opposite.
@RBFR01
@RBFR01 Год назад
Hear me out, the best way in my opinion and experience is to just not give a fk at the start. Just talk to them like they're just another person you talk to everyday, find out some stuff about them or talk about whatever and just become friends and talk frequently and become a part of their life and help them with things as friends and don't make it obvious you're into them and if something happens in their life like they get a bf just continue to stay friends and be happy for them and when the relationship goes bad be there for her and pick her up off the ground. Love as friends goes a long way and once you're best friends sexual tension builds up a lot until one of you cant take it anymore and you or her explodes and rips your cloths off and yeah you become that next thing. Don't get attached instantly it's growing a friendship overtime that creates the best relationships because they know you better than anyone in the world, better than your parents and that emotional bond is so powerful words cant describe it.
@Endoptic
@Endoptic Год назад
Who gets to know random people, much less every day though? I rarely leave the house and couldn't tell you who I had to talk to most times I have to go somewhere. There're like NPCs only in a really shit game. Not giving a fuck means they stop existing the second I can leave. Now, at this age a girl almost can't wow me, but, back when it was somewhat normal, that's pretty different effect to just another NPC. I never had a single instinct to SPEAK to a pretty girl, so it doesn't upgrade the default lack of desire to communicate. I specifically didn't and don't want to be friends since, again, that's also a very different thing from NPC or a crush. You're describing something foreign then something awkwardly hellish, either way contradictory.
@dzikijohnny
@dzikijohnny Год назад
Should I eat this cookie....More people have bandaids than knives...
@abdulrehmanirfan5488
@abdulrehmanirfan5488 Год назад
Finished 10:48PM October 19th
@remy3579
@remy3579 Год назад
🔥🔥
@ousmanfatty2492
@ousmanfatty2492 Год назад
Fire
@annah6212
@annah6212 4 месяца назад
can someone tell me in which episode they announced that zach and Indiana were broken up?
@annah6212
@annah6212 4 месяца назад
and also what happened?
@Danversdiary
@Danversdiary 2 месяца назад
Apparently Indiana cheated I just saw another comment saying that she did so I don't know, there are no replies to the comment and it only has 6 likes Edit: she cheated
@dash5573
@dash5573 Год назад
Yeah don’t be fucking weird is bad advice, easier said than done
@sherry1253
@sherry1253 Год назад
uggggggghhhhhh Indie, shhhhhhhhh.
@Noonethatis
@Noonethatis Год назад
Dude …
@C3p0pussiboi
@C3p0pussiboi Год назад
Is indie sick or just crying lmak Aw poor girl. Probably allergies
@flyboy3510
@flyboy3510 Год назад
Pretty crazy
@locker-roomdwarf3549
@locker-roomdwarf3549 Год назад
GOD BLESS
@Endoptic
@Endoptic Год назад
I don't understand being grateful for an awkward minefield. I can literally get creep shit for explicitly just having a face. Rarely get that exactly from other men, but, holy hell, they're not a joy to interact with at random. Pretty women that have any idea you MIGHT find them attractive is a bad experience by default. Ugly chicks can be presumptuous and freely offensive, even when it makes no social sense, and there's nothing safe about suddenly running into one of those, much less the more normalized appearance of a creep-shaming setup of a pretty girl and even an average looking guy.
@levikeller7916
@levikeller7916 8 месяцев назад
Thumbnail of her is uhh 😬
@niamhleishmann4431
@niamhleishmann4431 Год назад
slay
@thisgustin
@thisgustin Год назад
These three are cool.
@Cleanframe
@Cleanframe Год назад
I hope Indy and Zach make the "Not Married Pact" Y'all know the pact; If two people are not married after an agreed amount of time they agree to marry eachother
@chloezammit6850
@chloezammit6850 Год назад
Are they dating or did they use to date and broke up?
@isaiahcrew4602
@isaiahcrew4602 Год назад
@@user-xb8sg2su6s hes like 24
@isaiahcrew4602
@isaiahcrew4602 Год назад
@@chloezammit6850 she said in the video shes been cheated on by everyone
@graham.crakaaa
@graham.crakaaa Год назад
they were dating at the time of this podcast lol
@jasperbhogal4953
@jasperbhogal4953 Год назад
lads
@kayteebarga9694
@kayteebarga9694 Год назад
How can people listen to monotone for an hour? Great guy great topics but had to stop halfway. Quite boring.
@Noonethatis
@Noonethatis Год назад
And ..
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