Sorry you had to go through this sis.! I am very proud that u didn't let this dog back in the house! More sisters out there need to be strong like you! Best of luck
I’m glad she stood up for whats right instead of obeying and following thru with the evil religion/culture practice of letting a 2nd wife into the family. (Religion involved due to the new bride having to get approval from the family dab and yes they approve)
I guess you reap what you sow…Every man controls his own destiny…I applaud you, sister, for standing your ground and be a strong woman. Best of luck…👍🤠!!!
tu me niam tsev aw koj ua yog kawg nkau lawm os thiab hai li koj hai ko yog lawm ib tu niag txiv dev zoo li koj niag ko tsi txhob qhib qhov rooj rau nw kiag li lawm nawb koj yeej ua tau zoo kawg lawm 👍👍👍👏👏👏👏👏
Tsi Yog yuam kev nawb, Nws Yog txhob txwm Ua xwb mog. Vim Nws saib Nej cov Niam Tub tsi muaj nqi, tabmeeg rhuav Nws lub Neej, tabmeeg Tsim Nws cov Niam tub. Qhov ntawd Yog lub Neej uas Nws ntshaw ces twb tau kiag li Nws ntshaw lawm ces yuav li ntawd xwb nawb mog
What he did was not a mistake. It was a choice, a very poor choice which he knew in advance the consequences but decided to go through with it anyways bc he had no respect for you. I do not feel bad for these men who keep using the word mistake to justify their action as if they didn't know.
Tej zaj no yog leej twg lub neej mus raws li no ces zoo li nplog haistias ib tug neeg tuag lawm tab sis tsis tau lwj xwb, ua tsis nyog neeg txuas ntxiv mus lawm, yog tim leej twg ? tim yus tus kheej txojkev siab hlob xav tau ntau thaum kawg thiaj li nyob tsis muaj chaw nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb
Pab koj zoo si asb li os caspeb cov poj niam tsis muaj txoj nmoov es yuav tuaj rau lub teb chuw no es yuav mua cov txiv neej no coj los ntsi roj li nej thiaj li zoo siab mo
Tsis Zam txim los Tsis zoo Zam txim los Tsis zoo. It’s mid life crisis. Either way you’re suffering too. And but putting him in financial hardship will not make you any better too. Men will be afraid of your vicious act too. Seb tus uas muaj kev Zam txim siab dav.
Smart woman, leave the cheaters to themselves to destroy their own lives. You don't even need to help they did it all themselves. I am sorry she wasted so much of her life with a cheater but at least when she found out she got smart and took everything she could. Love it also that the kids were on her side.
Sister aw…cas kuv yuav commend thiab applaud koj ua luaj li os Thov tsa 10 tus ntiv tes rau koj nawb. Cas peb cov no es tus txiv ua rov ua rais los peb sawv kev mus tsis tau li es quaj nyob quaj nyob xwb os Thov koj mus nrhiav kom tau tus zoo es hlub2 koj os mog.
Sister aw txhob quaj nyob quaj nyob maj mog......luag tsis hlub yus lawm cia nyias mus nyias mog.....txoj kev nyias mus nyias zoo dua neb ib tug tuag lawm los mas......kuv xum cia nyias mus nyias, nws tseem yog koj cov menyuam txiv/niam zoo dua AV LUAJ QUAS OS MOG.
@@npauhmoob4746 Ua tsaug os mog. Mus tsis taus lawm ces lam ua cav lwj sib ib nyob ntawv rau tej me nyuam xwb os Lam nyob xaib kom tas tiam no mam mus thov dua ntawv tshiab seb puas tau tus hlub2 yus xwb os
Cov txiv neej los yog cov pojniam uas ua neej nyob qab tswj fwm ntawm nws tus qau los yog nws lub pim ces niam qhuav ntxim nawb. Cov neeg zoo li no mas yeej tsis vam meej li ov. Hom neeg no mas ib sij ntsib teeb meem li lwm. Tus txiv dev zoo li tus no koj txhob txais rov los li lawm nawb.
💪 woman. Glad you're not weak like many Hmong women. Don't waste your life with those that lie and cheat you. Why live with and love your enemy. Love yourself first.
Love it! He been lying from the start! It's a different story if he had this child before your time but f that sis! You're better off moving on without him. Why deal with that headache. Glad you were strong enough to leave 👏👏👏
Tsov txaij nrauv, neeg txaij hauv lub niag siab, you’ll be surprised what kind of secret people keep. You can be married to someone 15/20/30 years and never know the secret they keep from you. Trust me, I learned it the hard way. Txog txij yus paub ces lig dhau heev os.
Good for you sister, and it's perfectly okay to vent when great injustice has been done onto you. I just wish that you could have found out long before. So many years lost and so much potential missed. Good luck. Before any strong relationships, please talk, understand, and set meaningful, obtainable, and sustainable rules and guidelines on important topics like infidelity, sexuality, capital wealth(money), and so on. These are your vows on holding the union truth. Breaking any blatantly is grounds for separation and has the agreed, defined consequences. A lack of sincerity here is not a real relationship. There are those that just want quick attention, simple favors, or slight convenience, and that's okay too so long as both are in agreement, but these are not marriages by a long shot. Be smart, know your worth, give when worthy, and protect your integrity.
Learn to not be passive about issues, thats how men control women and that what they like in a women; someone whos passive and dont pressure question them. A husband is expected to do more than be present when asked, and house the family. If he cant even do the bare minimum then he doesn’t need to be there causing trouble. Cov txiv neej liam mas nyiaj mus tseb noob thoob tebchaws. Tvix neej lim hiam ua ua tau txiv ces thaum kawg ces ua dev thawj thiab.
Bravo. I'm glad you hit him with child support, PLUS spousal support. Wished you would've left him sooner, but it all played out. Let the dog know how a dog should live.
Koj yuav ntau npaum twg los thaum kawg tseem los nyob ua ib kes. Koj txhob tib txog koj tus phau koj yuav tsum tib koj tus txiv xwb npam ham yog koj tus txiv.
I don’t know you but I feel your pain and your courage. Your aunt betrayed you and failed her role as an aunt. Your husband also betrayed you as a husband. He pinned you and your aunt let alone your side of the family against each other. Keep moving forward and have faith.
This guy is a total jerk! He did this to both you and your aunt. Karma is the best revenge ever. So glad you didn’t let him back into your life. It will hurt you but loving yourself is the best medicine you can ever have. Move on and make your ex watch you happy.
WOW!! This is one of the best of your outfits. You look so incredibly..the most BEAUTIFUL hmong wife ever live today. I am so proud of you. 4EVER YOUNG!! 😀😀 😀
Good for you, sister. Love yourself. He isn't worth it. Your whole marriage was based on lies, deceitful, and cheating. He was living a double life during your whole marriage. It's a good thing you found out, and you divorced him. He isn't worth the tears or aggravation or stress. I'm proud that you stood up and got him to pay child support and spousal support, plus he has to pay for the mortgage unto of it all. Most importantly, you did great for not forgiving him and taking him back like all those other Hmong women do. God bless and wish you all the best. You'll find a much better man.
Thov qhuas koj lub strong mind, zoo siab koj tso tus dev ntawm mus.....nws hlub koj tsuas yog dag nkaus xwb.....koj niag dev no siab phem tob tob kawg......nws deev deev koj niam maum dev phauj ntawm thiaj rov los rhuav koj lub neej.
I’m glad she stood up for whats right instead of obeying and following thru with the evil religion/culture practice of letting a 2nd wife into the family. (Religion involved due to the new bride having to get approval from the family dab and yes they approve). Thank God for America. If this was in Laos you would had been forced to participate.
Poj hmoob koj muab koj tus txiv tsim tshaj dhau cai lawm ua li koj ua ko tsis ncaj ncees rau nws lawm thiab koj thiab koj tus txiv neb phem sib xws nkaus
Lis vajhuam aws ..nyuam qhuav haum xwb os tsim Pauj cov poj niam es ruam2 npav lub quaj xwb yuav tsum muaj cov khov kho li no thiab txiv dev thiaj feeb lo ua neeg zoo os
Kuv yeej OK tias 3 cov txiv neej yeej tsis ncaj ncees tab sis tsim tseg siav thiab Kom nws muaj neej nrog luag thiab? Es ua li nej twb muaj cov poj niam tsis ncaj ncees thiab nev. Kuv tsis tuaj 1 tug twg tog tab sis tus tsiaj 3 twb cawm ua cas tus neeg peb ho ua Kom nws tuag kiag ma???