Spot on. I don’t chase. Together 3 yrs. He started drinking heavily. His counselor mother manipulated him, made him feel guilty. I didn’t work & I was unwell, which I’m still working on. His family said I was only after his money. I was self sufficient, I paid my way. Not him. He had low self worth & childhood traumas. He started to get confused about his ex wife, who got the house & the kids, & his mother preferred him with her. So he left. I won’t hear from him again. He’s too stubborn. I’m so lonely. Oh well. 😔 I’m hoping to move! 🙏🏻