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@havestrength5802
@havestrength5802 Год назад
Being happy with a single life is such a blessing.
@dawnreneegmail
@dawnreneegmail Год назад
Isn't it⁉️ I'm hoping for clear sailing in my final years and if we get too old we can expect care. Trying to improve my social skills in such an event 😉
@katerinagiannioudi401
@katerinagiannioudi401 Год назад
I've been single for over 4 years (husband passed away) and hv no desire to live with someone new. My life is fine and I'm happy going out with friends.
@actionsammy1
@actionsammy1 Год назад
You got that right!! I'm very happily single and the more programs like this that I watch the more likely I'll spend my remaining years single!!
@cynthiapressley8455
@cynthiapressley8455 Год назад
Amen! I'm content being single. I have been for many years. Just me and my Shepherd, Loki. Don't need this kind of mess in my life.
@justanotheralmaroad1923
@justanotheralmaroad1923 Год назад
Been single since Nov20 2009. People ask if I have someone or going to get married again. I answer: no takes to long to train them and I don't have the patience anymore and to old to go through that!lol
@marthasalter405
@marthasalter405 Год назад
A person who would rather accept ANY companionship rather than be alone is headed for trouble.
@humbleopinion1499
@humbleopinion1499 Год назад
Nailed it.
@TomikaKelly
@TomikaKelly Год назад
Yes. She was bound to get caught up in SOMETHING.
@somayyamughal8313
@somayyamughal8313 Год назад
Agreed... this companion is a death trap
@Sun-s6n
@Sun-s6n 6 месяцев назад
Dating apps may work better?
@judithgrace9850
@judithgrace9850 5 месяцев назад
Just dumb.
@dawna4185
@dawna4185 Год назад
Desperation is always attractive to predators!
@maycasper2661
@maycasper2661 Год назад
Hyell yeah it is. Me too.. Though...
@dawna4185
@dawna4185 Год назад
@@maycasper2661 don't be a predator magnet
@samdoors5132
@samdoors5132 Год назад
So is someone who smiles too much
@katrinahetherington3425
@katrinahetherington3425 Год назад
Well said.
@PennyPaws4
@PennyPaws4 Год назад
🎯🎯🎯
@karencramer6491
@karencramer6491 Год назад
The narrators final comment that she was murdered by someone you would never expect to be a killer. He was a stranger without credentials, waving red flags (if she and her daughter bothered to look). Aren't they the typical killer?
@sharpedge3355
@sharpedge3355 Год назад
Yes, cuz. after a while, the prey becomes a bother and since they don't care, death is an easy option.
@luana1600
@luana1600 5 месяцев назад
A charming narcissist.
@MakemeupMentor
@MakemeupMentor 4 месяца назад
Exactly
@truracer20
@truracer20 2 месяца назад
100%
@bjb2099
@bjb2099 Год назад
The puppy idea is awesome🙂My husband of 35 years died 2 years ago....I have no desire to get seriously involved with a man.....but, a puppy, YES!
@user-jy3zl2vp4b
@user-jy3zl2vp4b Год назад
Or if a singleton is not into a pet that is so needy....a kitten is good too. Two kittens are even better! : )
@Cheezclown
@Cheezclown 6 месяцев назад
I’m sorry about your husband passing. Wishing you peace
@debbiegrasse3920
@debbiegrasse3920 4 месяца назад
Cats & kitties have worked for me for 10 years.
@frazierlori89
@frazierlori89 День назад
Puppies are a lot of fun. I just got one May of this year.
@annamariehewitt3173
@annamariehewitt3173 Год назад
Imagine a stranger walking into your home who you know nothing about and letting him live with you...Lonely is a dangerous place to be...
@lesleymaner2851
@lesleymaner2851 Год назад
I couldn’t sleep for fear he was steal everything in my home.
@misstbull
@misstbull Год назад
NEVER
@merlegouveris3166
@merlegouveris3166 Год назад
It's very sad and quite heart breaking.
@esthershuruggs430
@esthershuruggs430 Год назад
Very dangerous
@mightymouse8026
@mightymouse8026 Год назад
Happens all the time esp in this Internet Age. At the end of the day, no one truly knows anyone else, even high school sweethearts.
@macevelly5645
@macevelly5645 Год назад
Sounds like the dumbest idea to rent a room just to find a man!!! Go to a dating agency. Geeezzz
@mickeybell8933
@mickeybell8933 Год назад
Dating agencies are no better
@fredajordan5704
@fredajordan5704 Год назад
Mac I understant I understand her being lonely. But did this Lady ever realize what she really had in her life? The wealth, the success, the beautiful daughter amd the many good friends?? I doubt it, sad all around.
@MasterCedar
@MasterCedar Год назад
One reason could be that renting out a room makes money. Dating agencies cost money .
@fredajordan5704
@fredajordan5704 Год назад
@@MasterCedar True. But money wasn`t the problem here....For him yes, not for the poor murder victim, wished so bad she`S listened to her daughter and friends....
@videoettaceo8900
@videoettaceo8900 Год назад
Just pay someone for the boyfriend experience.
@abroadlivingabroad3412
@abroadlivingabroad3412 Год назад
Why would someone who is so "successful " need to rent a room? That would've been my 1st warning sign.
@fredajordan5704
@fredajordan5704 Год назад
A Broad : Yes, and then he ain`t had a bloody penny on him. Takes a lot to fool one into the things she did for him....
@PennyPaws4
@PennyPaws4 Год назад
It ought to be anyone's 1st warning sign. Sadly, the world is full of people living in their own fantasy.
@honorladone8682
@honorladone8682 Год назад
You know that's the first thing I was thinking aside from his "lost wallet".
@alexisgreene8952
@alexisgreene8952 Год назад
Conveniently, he lost his wallet, which is the 2nd warning.
@monicamontego1637
@monicamontego1637 Год назад
They said "she was lonely"
@lucy2014
@lucy2014 Год назад
I wish they'd drop the "Handsome Devils" part. I haven't seen a handsome one yet!
@elizabethperry2622
@elizabethperry2622 6 месяцев назад
“Devils who have enough charm and dark charisma for unsuspecting victims to let them into their lives and become vulnerable with them” is a bit of a mouthful. Handsome Devil is at least a common phrase
@lisacup6876
@lisacup6876 5 месяцев назад
Lol!!😂
@Shyknit
@Shyknit 5 месяцев назад
I've noticed intrue crime shows/documentaries thry always take liberties describing the killer AND victim, obviously beauty is subjective but it definitely gets old hearing every woman that's died (especially if they're blond haired and blue eyed) was the most beautiful woman to ever exist and every killer was charming and drop dead gorgeous/handsome...
@GloriaReyesUrKrazzyMom
@GloriaReyesUrKrazzyMom 5 месяцев назад
😂😂
@Blair332
@Blair332 5 месяцев назад
😂😂😂
@digitalwasabi2
@digitalwasabi2 Год назад
Poor woman died from her own stupidity. Then the daughter “knows” Taw is going to commit suicide so she goes into a locked hotel room ALONE to confront him about killing her mother???? What a moron. What made her think she was safe in that situation? Then she HUGGED HIM??? Bizarre woman.
@sharpedge3355
@sharpedge3355 Год назад
I think this was generational naivete. Notice there was no man between them for any balance, so they were at risk from the start.
@redo73
@redo73 8 месяцев назад
There was a cop outside the door. Also ..she believed it was her mom's spirit that made her touch his hair & cuddle him. This irked me too but I guess both mom continued to be forgiving even in death 😊
@baptistangel3
@baptistangel3 6 месяцев назад
😂😂right
@angelwingz892
@angelwingz892 6 месяцев назад
Pair of morons.
@Sun-s6n
@Sun-s6n 6 месяцев назад
I can see that
@glee070
@glee070 Год назад
The man hadn't paid a dime in rent yet 'he knows what he is doing'. Wow, total blindness.
@fredajordan5704
@fredajordan5704 Год назад
Geral : Absolutely. Blindness, lack of common sense and naivity to the max.-...These shitbags smell weakness in a woman....Every time.
@carolyndavison6095
@carolyndavison6095 Год назад
Renting to a man, first mistake. Buying his BS about losing his wallet and no ID, 3 strikes he’s out. I’ve been a widow many years and never met any man that would make me that desperate for him. Where was her common sense?
@paulaellis6242
@paulaellis6242 Год назад
@@carolyndavison6095 Good for you, desperate is very dangerous.
@honorladone8682
@honorladone8682 Год назад
So SAD yet it happens every day!
@Userxyz-z2d
@Userxyz-z2d Год назад
Yah no common sense. Some bring it on themselves.
@KPbouj
@KPbouj Год назад
Girl, you could have picked any random unhoused guy off of a corner to shack up with your mama and they would have at least had an ID and a food stamp card, probably SSI or VA benefits too.
@mahmoudmohamed2929
@mahmoudmohamed2929 Год назад
So funny
@nnvincent3
@nnvincent3 Год назад
Telling it like it is!
@Ladybug_62
@Ladybug_62 Год назад
😂😂
@lisanicon6996
@lisanicon6996 6 месяцев назад
She will rent to a broke white man EVERY TIME😂😂😂😂😂
@angelwingz892
@angelwingz892 6 месяцев назад
😂😂😂😂 this hare-brained scheme is the daughter's fault. 😊Darwin law. The daughter probably hasn't much longer either. Desperate is desperate.
@jackiebrown5003
@jackiebrown5003 Год назад
Why wouldn't the daughter hired an attorney or an investigator from the initial buy out request of the business. Her an her mother were already suspicious.
@ChrisAndCats
@ChrisAndCats Год назад
I don't understand - as a 57year old single woman - how either of them could be that naive.
@kimbok5971
@kimbok5971 Год назад
The daughter claimed Taw talked them into letting him handle it due to saving the money it would cost to have someone draw up the agreement. Such BS when she already knew what a loser he was, a liar and a financial leech. I think both mother & daughter needed their heads examined.
@VioletJoy
@VioletJoy Год назад
@@kimbok5971 Yeah, she said she was hesitant, but having him in the business was dangerous. Well, wouldn't that include drawing up legal papers?!?!
@dabossbitch
@dabossbitch Год назад
@@kimbok5971 The daughter set her mom up to get got by this fellow in my opinion
@ArtCurator2020
@ArtCurator2020 Год назад
Like MANY women, thia mother was so blinded by Romantic Love that she was couldn't see the Reality that was right in front of her. The daughter was also blinded as a "proxy" of her mother's Romantic Love of the same man. Women like these get into trouble because they believe that they can find a Pronce Charming while, in reality, ALL men are just Toads.
@nanzyz
@nanzyz Год назад
I will never again feel bad about feeling cynical and distrustful of people...
@Laura-tp8wz
@Laura-tp8wz Год назад
Me either.
@TheCeciD
@TheCeciD 4 месяца назад
Same here 😅
@sheliabryant3997
@sheliabryant3997 3 месяца назад
@nanzy. X 93 million 🌈🌈 ESPECIALLY "family".
@openheartsavagemind6443
@openheartsavagemind6443 2 месяца назад
I agree!!
@GeminiJonson
@GeminiJonson Месяц назад
Same
@LoriFeldmanTheDatabaseDiva
@LoriFeldmanTheDatabaseDiva 6 месяцев назад
Running an ad for a strange man to move into your home with no background check, no money, an inventor and a CEO….what could go wrong?
@ABab-jf2jb
@ABab-jf2jb 6 месяцев назад
She appeared to be so proud to come up with that "roommate" idea. The mother ended up losing her life.
@babyturkey8342
@babyturkey8342 2 месяца назад
It wasn't uncommon to do that back then. It's not the same as it is today. It's easy to judge when you're not in this situation.
@lindavirgilio4225
@lindavirgilio4225 Год назад
Getting a puppy/dog as a companion instead would have saved this family.
@maggiethecat1538
@maggiethecat1538 Год назад
Or a cat.. 💗🐈 😻
@thetreekeeper143
@thetreekeeper143 Год назад
But she wants a man. A woman has urges and needs you know.
@maycasper2661
@maycasper2661 Год назад
Please. When you go there... Remember you are King.
@doriangrey9702
@doriangrey9702 Год назад
Yes 200% correct, however she was an innocent person looking for a partner. Unfortunately, he is evil incarnate. No room to blame the victim.
@bacchus2726
@bacchus2726 Год назад
@@thetreekeeper143 The daughter wanted that she had a man
@user-gj1me4mf5c
@user-gj1me4mf5c Год назад
I'm 2 minutes in and can't believe any woman would ever be that naive and foolish. Or desperate. He was a former CEO yet broke??? What a giant b.s. lie.
@ChrisAndCats
@ChrisAndCats Год назад
As a 57 year old single woman, nor can I!
@davisholman8149
@davisholman8149 Год назад
If someone needs the ‘rent a room’ - they are NOT ‘brilliant’.😜
@FenderBender5150
@FenderBender5150 Год назад
It's cause a lot of women think with their feelings.
@happysally764
@happysally764 Год назад
Exactly & it took the daughter a while to cotton on also!
@jeffcampbell2710
@jeffcampbell2710 Год назад
He didn't mention it was The J Dahmer blade company. He was over the Carl slang blade production.
@DrAnderson1
@DrAnderson1 Год назад
Holy shit! Anyone who grew up in Arizona, grew up with Terri’s Consign and Design! It was HUGE. I had no idea there was such a dramatic, nightmarish backstory. That’s so sad.
@jazura2
@jazura2 Год назад
Wow that makes a whole other story out of this.
@DrAnderson1
@DrAnderson1 Год назад
@@jazura2 - I’m not really sure what you mean?
@jazura2
@jazura2 Год назад
@@DrAnderson1 I meant that you actually knew the business. It made it more real.
@sheliabryant3997
@sheliabryant3997 3 месяца назад
@DrAnderson. Yes. I discovered they sold several things I consigned or same things I had purchased at retail FOR MORE $$$ THAN I HAD PAID FOR THEM.
@carrob704
@carrob704 Год назад
How she treated her friends and then her own daughter was unreal...over a man with no money???
@NycBeauty
@NycBeauty Год назад
Even if he had money, that’s wrong how he treated her daughter in friends.
@itsdebs
@itsdebs Год назад
Crazy, right?
@cindytartt4048
@cindytartt4048 Год назад
Hell, I was sympathetic but she angered me. Really foolish woman.
@debbie9050
@debbie9050 Год назад
Sone women are thick
@sakhilemathumo-mhodi2901
@sakhilemathumo-mhodi2901 Год назад
Rob C , over a man she didn’t know !
@eleanordefreitas979
@eleanordefreitas979 Год назад
It's really upsetting when a close family member gets under the spell of a person who is a real fraud.
@s_vincent6942
@s_vincent6942 Год назад
The daughter and mom were gullible. Terrible instincts and lack of common sense. Unbelievable!
@dianaveronicakambanis9690
@dianaveronicakambanis9690 Год назад
Dumber than dumb
@samichgrrl
@samichgrrl 6 месяцев назад
Not the brightest bulbs in the chandelier.
@glddraco666
@glddraco666 6 месяцев назад
blame the victim
@ZeppelinR101
@ZeppelinR101 6 месяцев назад
​@@glddraco666💯👎👎👎👎👎💯
@lindaajide2115
@lindaajide2115 Год назад
They were very silly from the start! How could you trust a random man to move in with you and do no background checks
@sooraj949
@sooraj949 Год назад
I wouldn't keep a house help like that!
@norabederna21
@norabederna21 Год назад
Hard to believe no job,no money,no ID,and she let him move in.🤦‍♀️
@RBS314
@RBS314 Год назад
@@norabederna21 / Very hard to believe.
@deborahcooper9085
@deborahcooper9085 Год назад
Did I misunderstand something? Did they say someone called the daughter to tell her this man had her expunge his records? So that would mean they wouldn’t see anything on his background check?
@InHitchWeTrust
@InHitchWeTrust Год назад
Yes, my thoughts exactly
@melissathabetha2929
@melissathabetha2929 Год назад
in every story theres always that person who sees through the BS and usually they are ignored
@susandhifaoui
@susandhifaoui Год назад
Yes. Ignored them shunned for not being a “loyal”friend. Sometimes we have to hear what we cannot see.
@lady.leo12
@lady.leo12 Год назад
This whole story was extremely sad but also frustrating. I can't wrap my mind around the mom staying in such a one sided relationship for so long. Him not having the deposit or rent money would've been the first 🚩 for me as well as having no ID or other ways to verify who he was, HELL NO!!
@digby_dooright
@digby_dooright Год назад
Not only that, but she's lonely and looking for a mate, so she takes out an add to rent a room in her house??? What could possibly go wrong? 🙄😬
@inspired9239
@inspired9239 Год назад
This is a perfect example as to how our vulnerabilites can result in total brainwashing. That's the only explanation I can wrap my head around as to how she could've turned against her only child and sue her. Unbelievable!!
@vuksgitau
@vuksgitau Год назад
Right?
@kirstyhesketh1416
@kirstyhesketh1416 Год назад
@nunovurbiznis
@nunovurbiznis Год назад
18 years?!? She dealt with this evil man for 18 years!
@reelmermaid8844
@reelmermaid8844 Год назад
Yeah......that's really hard for me to wrap my head around.
@elizabethsohler6516
@elizabethsohler6516 6 месяцев назад
People stay in relationships with evil people much longer than that.
@greatrunner1
@greatrunner1 3 месяца назад
I agree as well. I don’t even think they got married after 18 years. That is a long time not to figure out he was fake.
@thymefordham6179
@thymefordham6179 3 месяца назад
I thought she was single for 18 years
@PatchaChel
@PatchaChel Год назад
Having friends with good discernment is always a bonus in a friendship.
@thirstonhowellthebird
@thirstonhowellthebird Год назад
Discernment never matters in a situation like this because the friend won’t listen. They will just throw you to the curb and dump you and smear you and runoff with the loser guy and all you can do is wait until it falls apart but by then, the friendship is ruined and all you can say to the person is yes I know how you feel that he has treated you this way and dumped you and disposed of you because it’s exactly what you did to me when I tried to help and warn you. Ultimately karma came for her because of the way she treated her friends and her own daughter. She was actually quite horrible to them all and got what she deserved. I don’t have a lot of sympathy for that kind of stupidity. Love is blind that’s for sure..
@TheDriftwoodlover
@TheDriftwoodlover 6 месяцев назад
Having friends with discernment and trusting what they say is key. She pushed her sister aside. Her sister knew he was no good.
@taylorpresley4604
@taylorpresley4604 6 месяцев назад
She wouldn't have listened, she was desperate
@thesilentgeneration
@thesilentgeneration Год назад
Incredible, nobody thought to go to an attorney in this thing?
@fredajordan5704
@fredajordan5704 Год назад
The Silent. This is what`S astonishing to me too, SInce there was mio involved.....Maybe there is more to the story we all don`t know.
@MayThereBeWorldPeace
@MayThereBeWorldPeace Год назад
Therapists, the police even!
@lilianhaggland2031
@lilianhaggland2031 Год назад
Yes that's what I was thinking.
@nimue4325
@nimue4325 Год назад
Surprising that these business savvy women would not involve an attorney, or discuss matters with the police once they felt something was wrong with this guy. If they suspected him in the disappearance of the mom and he was threatening suicide, how did things get back to "normal" where he even moved back to the house etc while she lost precious time ? He killed himself while spitefully witholding information on the whereabouts of the mother. And why would the police allow a suicidal man to meet with the daughter behind a locked door? So many opportunities missed. I am glad to know the daughter survived.
@mightymouse8026
@mightymouse8026 Год назад
My experience with attorneys is that they are worse than useless. William Shakespeare agrees with me.
@creatorschild8247
@creatorschild8247 Год назад
Why are women…. Sooo desperate for a man? I never understand this. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Desperate women attract devious men.
@taramis829
@taramis829 Год назад
The same the other way around.
@ignatius1681
@ignatius1681 Год назад
I stay single that age and have friends. What is missing is something to relate to and keep the rythm at home. No, problem: my cat expects me to get up at a certain time, to be feed at certain times a day and he seeks attention for 10 minutes between his naps. And I know that his affection is for real :)
@KarlMarxFanClub
@KarlMarxFanClub Год назад
I hope you’re kidding? Men are the biggest simps on the planet!
@MayThereBeWorldPeace
@MayThereBeWorldPeace Год назад
Men are as well, unfortunately a lot them end up killing to keep the women they want.
@mobutter2879
@mobutter2879 Год назад
*understood this
@sabrinawilliams3854
@sabrinawilliams3854 Год назад
A friend of mine said “This world is filled with vampires and their victims” Recognize when you’re about to be a victim 😢
@buffys3477
@buffys3477 6 месяцев назад
Really! You think renting a room to a complete stranger with no money is a good way to get a boyfriend? I’m in 5 mins and flabbergasted🤦🏻‍♀️
@blupoppy608
@blupoppy608 Год назад
ok the guy tells you he lost his wallet on a flight back from the UK, all his id is in his wallet? what about his passport? Then how did he get back into the country without his passport....c'mon..! then he tells you about all these wonderful jobs hes done, and hes some CEO? ok, then why does he need to rent a room???? And why does he have money difficulties?? first red flag right there...
@maycasper2661
@maycasper2661 Год назад
Always ask this many questions. Always. Always. If someone fights you about them, they're prolly hiding something. ( unless you ask the same question 5 times. Lol. Don't bother with that it's just not functional.) And if they have the answers they'll give em. It's a very good system should you trust yourself.
@PennyPaws4
@PennyPaws4 Год назад
People believe what their desperation and fantasies require them to believe. Even in the face of facts. Maybe especially in the face of facts.
@cactusqltr
@cactusqltr Год назад
Hell, I lost a phone plug on a flight, but the attendant was able to find that! Sure they would have located a wallet!!
@sweetness1586
@sweetness1586 Год назад
@@maycasper2661 huh? what ?
@bokani79
@bokani79 Год назад
The woman was not educated. Remember the daughter’s story in the beginning. Taw smelled her weakness from the beginning.
@sheilasmith7779
@sheilasmith7779 Год назад
NO circumstance causes a change in character. The mother did not change when a man came into her life. BUT her character was revealed by the circumstance of this man in her life. Having him was of greater value, than her relationship with her daughter. Something missing in her character was always present, just not visible until this man. We learn the most about the character of others when difficulty or conflict arises. It is then that the true character of another is revealed.
@sharpedge3355
@sharpedge3355 Год назад
Sadly, he saw it from the first encounter and knew his goose would lay the golden eggs he needed!
@bellabell737
@bellabell737 4 месяца назад
👌
@chrissyparkins1615
@chrissyparkins1615 Год назад
If he’d done all these incredible things with his life, why is he renting a room? First red flag….
@Acts-xu7th
@Acts-xu7th Год назад
The first red flag was that he Was a Friend of Donald Trump 😳😷
@jenniferlawrence9473
@jenniferlawrence9473 Год назад
@@Acts-xu7th True, and as it turns out they were a lot alike. Both grifters and narcissists.
@eldajackson1
@eldajackson1 Год назад
@@Acts-xu7th I caught that, too!
@eldajackson1
@eldajackson1 Год назад
@@jenniferlawrence9473 You & acts 2:38 were all over this!
@angelabueno120
@angelabueno120 Год назад
@@Acts-xu7th Yap! True! Huh!
@Bee-ly4gx
@Bee-ly4gx Год назад
So this woman didn’t mind him scamming her daughter but when she realised she was being scammed herself she confronted him. I feel very sad for her but even sadder for her daughter.
@Bea-ok8ci
@Bea-ok8ci 5 месяцев назад
I never cease to be amazed at how naive people can be. He had no money and no ID but wow, what a catch!?!?
@marjorjorietillman856
@marjorjorietillman856 Год назад
The mom’s sister was her early alarm system! The mom’s loneliness made her very vulnerable! She was dangerously in-love!😢
@fredajordan5704
@fredajordan5704 Год назад
So true. And she was loved by so many, didn`t she know??
@PennyPaws4
@PennyPaws4 Год назад
She wasn't desperately in love. She was desperate to BE loved. Not a good recipe for relationship success.
@FaithandNova
@FaithandNova Год назад
She wasn’t in love she wanted to be loved.
@janlundberg5924
@janlundberg5924 Год назад
Loneliness can b suffocating. Especially as a woman gets older, realizing in many ways she has been "put out to pasture". It breaks my heart for older folks. And we know men always want younger & younger. I watched my mother go thru it. It can b so insulting and painful. So u surround urself with friends and family but what u really need is another spoon :)
@dawna4185
@dawna4185 Год назад
that wasn't love; that was co-dependency
@videoettaceo8900
@videoettaceo8900 Год назад
The daughter wanted her mom to rent a room to get a boyfriend? How weird.
@lisamac8503
@lisamac8503 Год назад
I thought this was very odd myself Made no sense to me at all
@mayurakutappa1626
@mayurakutappa1626 Год назад
Very strange indeed!
@TomikaKelly
@TomikaKelly Год назад
Yes. So if the relationship doesn't work out he's still in her house. If either one of them moves on and brings company over, they're still in each other's space. 😬
@LynASullivan
@LynASullivan Год назад
Yes that's always going to end well
@kirstyhesketh1416
@kirstyhesketh1416 Год назад
@angeesteiner8493
@angeesteiner8493 Год назад
I have no idea why the daughter, number one, trusted someone that she believed had stolen $10000 from her, to draw up paperwork. Number 2, why on Earth she would pay her mother out a second time?
@peterbradshaw8018
@peterbradshaw8018 Год назад
Love, ever heard of the concept. I understand your point of view as I point out bullshit before it reaches this far hence most people can't stomach me.
@brigidtheirish
@brigidtheirish Год назад
I don't understand how Loretta could betray her daughter but the *house* being in foreclosure was the breaking point. Then again, it was the *daughter's* idea to set up a romance movie plot by renting out a room in the first place and *neither* of them cluing into the *fountain* of red flags he spouted from the moment he entered their lives. His *wallet* went missing, so he has *no* money *or* ID? And he's trying to rent a room *before* that's sorted out? He supposedly went to school with Donald Trump? He's got sure money because he's an inventor and entrepreneur? The most unstable careers *ever* besides artist?
@maycasper2661
@maycasper2661 Год назад
This is idiotic. Not you, just the thought. ( Which most people have about this kind of situation). Let me tell you why in a way everyone will understand... We have all had... A Really Bad Ex. Sure, they're your ex now. But the point is that when you met, you had no idea. Everyone on this planet is gullible in more ways than one. Even experts about body language get it wrong all the time. That's why people get off the suspect list or get away with murder even. Or why gacy shook hands with politicians and dahmer got the kid who doesnt speak english -back-, back from the cops, naked and bloody. Even. Always remember your exes. Lol. Don't trust people so much you let them hold your heart. You hang on to that. And always be kind. Cause when you look at tgis world you have to realize that beauty is the only thing worth hanging onto. Everything else is meaningless.
@terredee
@terredee Год назад
@@maycasper2661 Are you a writer, May? You have a way with words, and mood.
@cathal4921
@cathal4921 Год назад
The daughter, it seems to me, is a quity pushy type. It was her, in the first place, who did so much to get her mother to find a partner. She is so matter-of-a-fact that I somehow think, that she might have done decisions on behalf of her mother and thereby put her into a vulnerable situation. I was divorced many years ago and prefer my single life. Glad I didn't have a daughter pushing me into something, because she "thinks I'm too young and still good looking" to live alone.
@steemdup
@steemdup Год назад
How could anyone ignore the MASSIVE RED FLAGS surrounding this Taw person?
@lollie880
@lollie880 Год назад
1 thing they never mention is “what in hell did this man do with all the money he got from Loretta n her friends??” Gosh, he had no kids, no house payments, no loans bills, nothing! I would have liked to know where he spent all this money. Did he have gambling addiction? It’s a mystery!!
@bubbabroad9051
@bubbabroad9051 Год назад
Thank you, I wondered that too!! What did he buy or need
@greatrunner1
@greatrunner1 3 месяца назад
It seems like he spent some of the money on knifes and guns.
@avi10000
@avi10000 Год назад
I don't understand why she started to look for a partner by letting a room. Why didn't she go out dating in the conventional way...?
@avi10000
@avi10000 Год назад
This is difficult to watch.
@maycasper2661
@maycasper2661 Год назад
There really isn't a conventional way. Also prolly didnt have the apps bro. Either way she had her reasons, obviously. She could have wanted to rent and also find love then figured itd be the best way to fall in love. Pick a guy you like, don't tell him you like him. Just see what happens. But it couldve been different altogether. Really does sound like a crash course for love though, living together. I could see why a perfectly sane person might venture on that if they were the daring adventurous entrepreneur type.
@avi10000
@avi10000 Год назад
@@maycasper2661 OK, May. All the blessings to all good people, Avi
@FaithandNova
@FaithandNova Год назад
@@maycasper2661renting a room in hopes it’s a man definitely wasn’t smart at all. Meeting someone at church, the bank, supermarket etc was a 100x better option
@oliviamartini9700
@oliviamartini9700 Год назад
It's totally creepy. My first slumlord only rented rooms to young girls and was a total lech. Little difference here.
@glennjones6574
@glennjones6574 Год назад
That's a bizarre way to find a partner. Truly
@Sun-s6n
@Sun-s6n 6 месяцев назад
I know some woman did that she had two bedroom, and she put an ad on the paper for a roommate and they were in love at first sight or something like that so they married. I don’t know if they’re married but they had two little girls. I don’t know what’s going on now, but it happens a lot. It was in 90s.
@omariwest9068
@omariwest9068 Год назад
This woman’s love and courage and determination; her incredible ability to endure such a despicable and heartbreaking fraud against her mother and still search for her body among hundreds of miles desert is truly a story of strength. I am literally in awe of her character and hope to exhibit a 10th of her courage on my life. If I met her I would give her the biggest hug in the world and tell her how much she has inspired me to become a better person.
@dolceanstar
@dolceanstar 11 месяцев назад
You got that right
@bornaries7213
@bornaries7213 7 месяцев назад
Lies you tell!
@annfisher3316
@annfisher3316 Год назад
I am flabbergasted, this is almost unbelievable.
@dread357
@dread357 5 месяцев назад
Agreed😂 i wonder how much ahem artistic license was (or wasn't) taken in video production
@kellymurphy6642
@kellymurphy6642 3 месяца назад
Unbelievable is right. I believe there a whole lot of “dramatic reenactment “ in this program. Most of it is incredulous to the point that I was scratching my head watching this saying how can this be true? Like why would you lie all these guns out on the bed like that and invite her into the bedroom so she can see them? Who would do that? no one !especially when they are the accused.
@cynicannkeel8899
@cynicannkeel8899 Год назад
Separating an individual from their family, friends is standard abuser behavior. They're also pros at targeting vulnerable people whom they can manipulate, abuse.
@deebest4202
@deebest4202 Год назад
She was a narcissists dream come true. I bet he couldn't believe his luck when mother let him stay without any cash or Id.
@CC12398
@CC12398 Год назад
I feel so bad for the daughter. Her mother was the type of person who did not have any insight into the fact that she did this. She had a hand in this, she created her own fantasy world for her own enjoyment at the cost of anyone and everyone, until it directly affected her
@kevinbernard9791
@kevinbernard9791 Год назад
Did the daughter not go to school? You put a desperate add like that in the paper it's gonna attract conmen? Never known anyone so gullible as this mother and daughter
@susanboyd5471
@susanboyd5471 Год назад
Never let a stranger into your home!
@steveramsey6562
@steveramsey6562 Год назад
The daughter lets the man who she already knows is not legit, draw up the contract for the business buy out and then later buys into the "kidnapping story" of her mother's disappearance. Obviously, stupidity runs in the family.
@Texas_Made_
@Texas_Made_ Год назад
LMFAOOOOO damn🤣
@bubbabroad9051
@bubbabroad9051 Год назад
I also thought, after all that she believes the kidnapping story 🤔
@bubbabroad9051
@bubbabroad9051 Год назад
I was so scared when she went into that hotel room alone with him, even if the plain-clothes cop was outside the door.
@2Live4Christ1
@2Live4Christ1 5 месяцев назад
😂😂😂😂
@TheHarrisonHarry
@TheHarrisonHarry Год назад
Dislexia is the least of her learning difficulties
@edwardbrianna9729
@edwardbrianna9729 Год назад
Lol Omg I almost choked on my food when I read your comment , harsh but true
@williamegler8771
@williamegler8771 Год назад
D-Y-S-L-E-X-I-A
@MasterCedar
@MasterCedar Год назад
@@williamegler8771 Whoever thought up that word had a sick sense of humor.
@craftycriminalistwithms.z3053
@@MasterCedar yes 😂
@toasted_.coconut
@toasted_.coconut Год назад
I just snorted
@annettehellingrath8288
@annettehellingrath8288 Год назад
Take it from someone who spent almost nine years with a guy who never lifted a finger to help with anything I need help with at my house. He came over and ate my food every other day, and spent entire weekends watching TV and being waited on by me. Funny thing is that I can count the meals he actually bought for me on one hand - minus two fingers. Literally the last meal was sushi, because, according to him, I was in a good mood, which he felt was the perfect time to tell me that we were through. His reason? He wanted to have children. Was there someone else I asked? He lied and said no. Her name was (and still is) Shelly. So my religious boyfriend, who was constantly looking down at the rest of us who weren't religious, was seeing two women at the same time for at least a year. His mother Pat, a god fearing woman, knew all about it. He married Shelly, who still to this day doesn't believe that I ever existed, that Matt was this pure man who waited until he met her. So both my boyfriend and his mother lied to Shelly from the first time they met her and continued to lie to her for years about what Matt had been up to before he met her. These people are out there. Unlike other women in these types of relationships I did not lend money to this man or have him live at my house. He never struck me as someone I could ever rely on, he didn't seem to like working and didn't last long at the jobs he managed to get. He and Shelly went on to have three children and I must say, I kind of felt sorry for her knowing how lazy this man truly is.
@angelam886
@angelam886 Год назад
How do you know what he was up to after he married Shelly and what he and his mother told her ? We’re you stalking him ? Unfortunately religious men do this and wait for the chaste woman which you probably weren’t. If they’ve had 3 kids and are still together I’m assuming he’s changed his lazy ways.
@defenderofdecency7218
@defenderofdecency7218 Год назад
You stayed in a relationship with a man for almost 9 years whom you described as someone you could never rely on? Wow. You must be a very, very patient woman. Note: I bet you feel some sort of jealousy towards “Shelly” whom he decided to marry and settle instead of you regardless of how irresponsible and lazy he is. That must hurt a bit. But don’t worry. If he was not marriage worthy for you and was incompatible with you, then you dodged a bullet, so to speak.
@taylorpresley4604
@taylorpresley4604 6 месяцев назад
Codependency kills
@Sun-s6n
@Sun-s6n 6 месяцев назад
Annette, I married a man for several years and divorced. He quickly got married again and had two boys all grown up by now. Guess what I heard from my daughter that was with him she told me past Thanksgiving that he left her for younger girl so if he didn’t marry Patty after me I would be the one left in the dust when I’m old and, no use for him I’m so glad that I divorced him. I’ve been feeling guilty for leaving him all these years not anymore thank God.
@gigilamoore2656
@gigilamoore2656 3 месяца назад
Next time, get rid of the guy. Why were you putting up with that?
@cactusqltr
@cactusqltr Год назад
I lived in Arizona when this happened and absolutely everyone knew that the leach of a husband had done it! Some people can be so gullible!
@cathybassett6432
@cathybassett6432 Год назад
I empathize with Loretta. It's most unfortunate her close loving relationship with her daughter wasn't enough. She had a thriving business and was very comfortable financially. How could she let this go on for 18 years?
@admeliora4822
@admeliora4822 6 месяцев назад
Why? She did it to herself
@melissagreen_
@melissagreen_ 6 месяцев назад
NEVER confront fraud alone. Probably just get to a safe place asap and call the police.
@vixxcottage
@vixxcottage Год назад
I know someone currently in a similar situation 🙃. She lost her husband to death and an old boyfriend took advantage of her loneliness. He moved in and has taken over her home and her life. Lazy sits and smokes and drinks all day while she works. Does absolutely nothing, contributes nothing. She has lost most of her friends and strained relationships with her family. Had get togethers and barbecues at her home prior to this relationship. Was so sad to see this happen but many women have low self-esteem so make these bad choices.
@dawnreneegmail
@dawnreneegmail Год назад
I've skirted a few creeps like that and when clear boundaries are set the name calling and shaming can start up. I got really limerant over a dude and it took a couple of decades to finally get over him ( never lived together) but at the end of my conversation with him he just wanted to 'sleep on my couch' on an interstate visit. Not only was this liar married more than once ( I asked up front, always do and usually get lied to), but 2nd wife found my number somehow and wondered if I'd seen him as he was missing his step daughters confirmation 🤦🏼‍♀️. I got a hand written letter on school kid notebook paper 3 months after his wife's query saying how great we'd be together while I'd sent him $1100 for a visit never made previously and the cash seemed to go for a Memorial Day blowout. I needed to suffer a minute to get the point but the sting was enough to close that ideation for good. Bad boys are bad news no matter what age group.
@thirstonhowellthebird
@thirstonhowellthebird Год назад
They also tend to be brutally ruthless to their friends, especially the ones that try to warn and help them. They tell everyone the friend is a busybody and interfering and usually the really good friend who’s just trying to help gets shunned until the truth comes out but of course, by then the friendship is ruined.
@vixxcottage
@vixxcottage Год назад
@@thirstonhowellthebird you are so right. The good friend becomes the enemy for pointing out a lazy freeloader.
@Challenger2A7
@Challenger2A7 5 месяцев назад
Vixx, I can never make my mind up whether these women (or men) suffer from low self-esteem or incredible vanity with a truck-sized ego. Years ago an attractive friend of mine was in a relationship with a violent abuser, there were no children involved, and when I asked her why she tolerated his appalling treatment she said "Well, I'm too beautiful to be alone." I gave up on her after that.
@vixxcottage
@vixxcottage 5 месяцев назад
@Challenger2A7 wow!
@michaelarchangel1163
@michaelarchangel1163 Год назад
To quote the Marquis of Queensbury {from Oscar Wilde, on Oscar Wilde} ' He has charm, I'll give you that. Men shouldn't be charming - it's disgusting'.
@maycasper2661
@maycasper2661 Год назад
That. Was the best comment I've heard in months.
@michaelarchangel1163
@michaelarchangel1163 Год назад
@@maycasper2661 Tom Wilkinson was superb as Queensbury in the 1997 film. If you haven't seen it, I'm sure you'd very much enjoy doing so. Happy New Year, from me in Wales.
@yebo-gogo
@yebo-gogo Год назад
"You know what? The next time you need my attention, pick up a sledgehammer and hit me on the head - because it would hurt less than what you did". Terry is an epic storyteller, and a very loving daughter. RIP Lorreta.
@fredajordan5704
@fredajordan5704 Год назад
yebogogo : I never heard this before, And if I did I`d run!!!
@sharpedge3355
@sharpedge3355 Год назад
Predators don't care that you make those inane dramatic speeches, they are searching for prey and the more you line yourself up, the more they are ready to go for your throat! Same with victim impact statements. Unless you know the criminal's weakness and what would hurt them the most, say nothing cuz. they live off your angst and emotion cuz. they have none!
@ayamore
@ayamore Год назад
She had a ton of money, and probably didn't care that he hadn't paid her anything in 18 years. What she did not count on however, was him killing her when she tried to throw him out. I feel sorry for her daughter, who she threw aside for this useless man.
@barbarasevenoaks6821
@barbarasevenoaks6821 3 месяца назад
If she was wealthy, surprised she would still have a mortgage.
@creatorschild8247
@creatorschild8247 Год назад
A “ mature” Man answers the add…..shows up to rent the room….. but says I have no money & no I.d.😳……. All I hear & see is🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🤷🏻‍♀️ I would immediately say no thanks…bye bye
@maycasper2661
@maycasper2661 Год назад
Yeah but everyone who met Ted Bundy would disagree. Also I think you're victim shaming rn, just sayin.
@terredee
@terredee Год назад
Same here, Creators Child. No way would I let someone like that - no matter how charming or handsome - move in under those circumstances. That’s how you get stuck with people who won’t move out, or worse.
@lindaajide2115
@lindaajide2115 Год назад
The first question should of been why did you respond to the add did you expect to get it for free !!!
@cynthialewis3785
@cynthialewis3785 Год назад
May Casper, what is victim shaming about her post? The woman acted foolishly inspite of the 50 million red flags. Sometimes you just have to accept the truth, even when it hurts
@oliviamartini9700
@oliviamartini9700 Год назад
It was a trap to ensnare men to begin with for God's sake. What a foolish woman.
@RaeBattleRapsMood
@RaeBattleRapsMood Год назад
I’m about 7 mins in and my brain is screaming “noooooo!!”. HOW do u show up to conduct a transaction to rent property with no identification or $??? I’m just reeling from that ALONE. Wow her mother really turned her back on her, those pillow talks must have been something else. She said they buy out had been done wrong but stated before TAW knew how to conduct buy-outs…so that’s on him! He could have wrote down where she was since he was committing suicide. Very sad & tragic story.
@PetroicaRodinogaster264
@PetroicaRodinogaster264 Год назад
What a sad story. I have been on my own for 25 yrs. There have been times that I felt lonely but never so lonely that I felt that I could trust any man to be honest loving and true to me. I prefer to be alone than be in an existence like this poor woman was. Some woman cannot be their own best friend, but I can. There are exceptions, I know 4 women who have successfully married again after a long first relationship ended when the husband died. But generally the odds are stacked against the women.
@user-jy3zl2vp4b
@user-jy3zl2vp4b Год назад
I feel that too. You are my kindred friend. I had hoped to have a partner in life....but so far I haven't found anyone responsible or trustworthy to spend time with, much less move in with or share bills with! And I have accepted it. I have been told the loneliest you can be is married to the wrong person and miserable. At least when I am in a bad mood, I don't have to deal with someone else doing something that gets on my nerves. Ha Ha!
@PetroicaRodinogaster264
@PetroicaRodinogaster264 Год назад
@@user-jy3zl2vp4b I hope you continue to have a long, happy and successful life…as your own boss. I read something that is, in my opinion, very true. It is not loneliness that hurts as you get older , but rather it is being forgotten.
@angelabueno120
@angelabueno120 Год назад
I feel you. I would rather be single and happy than with somebody else and be miserable. Happy being single, I tell yah! 😊😊😊
@panchatapanath7588
@panchatapanath7588 Год назад
Well being alone is far better than with someone and yet lonely!
@deniseatlanta6102
@deniseatlanta6102 Год назад
The daughter is just as gullible as the mother. I am very protective of my mom. Ain't no way would she be moving someone she just met into her house. What's wrong with asking her many friends if they have brother uncle, cousin etc.. CRAZY
@jaqueitch
@jaqueitch Год назад
The daughter is an incredible story-teller
@maycasper2661
@maycasper2661 Год назад
That's just a weird comment to make. You know, what with the situation and all. It just was fuggin weird.
@jaqueitch
@jaqueitch Год назад
@@maycasper2661 The filming and the production value of this is well done. It's just a compliment
@efrain6783
@efrain6783 Год назад
@@maycasper2661 Who are you to decide what others might comment?
@alycmatrose1501
@alycmatrose1501 Год назад
Was looking for this comment
@ElaAusDemTal
@ElaAusDemTal Год назад
I thought so, too...and her overcoming her learning difficulties to successfully run a business? That's an accomplishment.
@carolinerowles5951
@carolinerowles5951 Год назад
Sometimes you reap what you sow. I'm happy with my cat after my fiance died the other month. He treated me like a princess & I'll never find that again. I'm 41 with 2 boys & 2 girls, I have all I need.
@maryannoah8036
@maryannoah8036 Год назад
I love this ❤ good for you. Don’t ever let anyone use you or break you.
@carolinerowles5951
@carolinerowles5951 Год назад
@@maryannoah8036 thank you, I really needed to hear that right now. 😘 From England X
@cUser691
@cUser691 Год назад
@Caroline Rowles Sorry for the loss of your fiancé. Glad you are in a good place w your children and cat 🐈. Greetings from an “ Internet stranger” in Chicago 🙂🌸🌸
@chrisgitaka2553
@chrisgitaka2553 Год назад
Iam 47 lets get together carol.
@ampa4989
@ampa4989 Год назад
Forty-one seems awful young to give up on companionship.
@pattimaeda6097
@pattimaeda6097 Год назад
People who gave him money are fools. Loretta should have used her own money to pay them back.
@TreasuredDay
@TreasuredDay Год назад
Exactly. You invest by giving the money to one of the companies that's involved with the actual product & you do so after having a biz meeting with their execs & seeing detailed proof of what's going on. You don't give the money to the person who told you about it.
@redo73
@redo73 8 месяцев назад
Good point!
@bluefm7370
@bluefm7370 6 месяцев назад
Something about the daughter makes me uncomfortable. Any man who would answer an ad without the means to complete the transaction to the ad he responded to should not be taken seriously. The sister was the only one in the family with common sense. Cannot believe adults were so gullible. Sad, pathetic story, great channel.❤❤
@VicTheFigGuy
@VicTheFigGuy Год назад
"Just want to put your hands on something your mother touched" wow that made me emotional. That part of her finding the gifts were so heart breaking.
@californiatravelnurse318
@californiatravelnurse318 Год назад
Those women couldn't be helped, they were determined and profoundly naive
@fredajordan5704
@fredajordan5704 Год назад
Califirnia : Absolutely. You analyzed thi ´s case correctly. Some women need a man at any price, and I mean at ANY price. Too bad she couldn`d manage her luxury - problems better, she had help and friends....She was not lonely.
@zazzifizzle
@zazzifizzle Год назад
Totally agree!
@samichgrrl
@samichgrrl 6 месяцев назад
That's a generous way of putting it.
@netherlandsue3564
@netherlandsue3564 Год назад
I pay my utmost respect to the daughter. She was royal to the end to her mother and loved her so.
@bacchus2726
@bacchus2726 Год назад
I would also feel guilty if I had made my mother have a stranger move in
@fredajordan5704
@fredajordan5704 Год назад
Netherland Do you mean loay??? Her daughter had the very best intentions, but we all see how it worked out. Can´t just forget all about common sense. Sad all around, hope the dauhgter can find some healing some day.
@tessaducek5601
@tessaducek5601 Год назад
@@fredajordan5704 i believe they meant " Loyal "
@WhoParkedTheirCarOnMySandwich
Nah that daughter was part of the problem. Let's go ahead and trust a guy, whom you already have a horrible feeling about, to draft LEGAL buyout papers.
@tessaducek5601
@tessaducek5601 Год назад
@@WhoParkedTheirCarOnMySandwich With you 1000 percent! 👍👍👋
@ninachkah13
@ninachkah13 Год назад
In between meeting him and the dinner, it would've been wise to run the situation by an outside party, at the very least. My immediate thought: who goes to see a listing knowing they have no idea, no cash, no ANYTHING? I don't care how charming at first - with him out of sight - these glaring red flags should've been apparent
@laurajeanhay6251
@laurajeanhay6251 Год назад
It’s amazing how little we can see when our desires and emotions are clouded. Trust your friends and family observations
@la381
@la381 Год назад
HOW COULD THE DAUGHTER TRUST THAT CON???!!! And, HOW IS SHE SMILING SO LARGELY WHILE SHE TELLS THE STORY ABOUT HIM AFTER HE MURDERED HER MOTHER???!!!!
@rosiesneed6933
@rosiesneed6933 Год назад
This sounds cold, but always consult with a lawyer.
@maycasper2661
@maycasper2661 Год назад
That's only cold if you make it that way. For example, if you consult a lawyer but are apologetic and repeat 50 times "im just afraid because tv and i do this with everyone all the time now and I also lock my doors and don't tell my real name online" it's not cold or mean. Just, paranoid. *nods affirmingly*
@janetch7384
@janetch7384 Год назад
that's what i don't get also, it's a business- why on earth would you not consult a lawyer!!
@jackiebrown5003
@jackiebrown5003 Год назад
It's not cold it's common sense. Geeez.
@fredajordan5704
@fredajordan5704 Год назад
@@jackiebrown5003 YES!!!!
@thekittyqueen3495
@thekittyqueen3495 Год назад
The daughter’s story is bizarre.
@janetch7384
@janetch7384 Год назад
loneliness makes people desperate, i remember another similar story, but the rich lady married a younger guy and he killed her
@kkcook3743
@kkcook3743 Год назад
Our Mothers Murder.
@Gwen3344
@Gwen3344 Год назад
@ janet ch Anne Scripps Douglas, 42-year-old heiress to the Scripps-family newspaper fortune
@samichgrrl
@samichgrrl 6 месяцев назад
This is yet another reason why i am blissfully single. ❤
@davidlincolnbrooks
@davidlincolnbrooks Год назад
Just that name alone-- "Taw Benderly" -- is enough to send chills down my spine.
@lesley_lezley
@lesley_lezley Год назад
I personally don’t believe you can be soooo manipulated that you can betray your daughter like that. I feel more sorry for the daughter and I can overlook her gullibility because of her condition.
@fredajordan5704
@fredajordan5704 Год назад
Lee : Good point.
@auntkaz815
@auntkaz815 Год назад
She also betrayed all her friends who invested in her “boyfriend “ and never got a cent back. Sorry but taking advantage of those I love would be a total deal breaker in a relationship!
@oliviamartini9700
@oliviamartini9700 Год назад
What condition? Dyslexia doesn't cause mental deficiency or absence of logic!
@wendyqallab6906
@wendyqallab6906 Год назад
What a sad story but she was very gullible. What a shame to put him over her daughter.
@bokani79
@bokani79 Год назад
These people are some small town, non educated red necks.
@samdoors5132
@samdoors5132 Год назад
Everybody on this planet has a personal story to tell and it’s never good to bring a stranger into your life because you don’t know what their story is.
@FaithandNova
@FaithandNova Год назад
We’ve all done foolish things but at her age it’s quite concerning that wisdom wasn’t used. We are suppose to gain wisdom from our life experiences
@MayThereBeWorldPeace
@MayThereBeWorldPeace Год назад
Definitely not someone who immediately tells you they have no rent money, plus, plus then have a romantic relationship with them. Never do this!! Direct that man to a shelter.
@wendythompson6323
@wendythompson6323 Год назад
I'm thinking if he globbed onto a different family and friends maybe someone would have been suspicious/intelligent enough to call the police or at least taken him to court to recoup the money they lent him.
@Sinsteel
@Sinsteel Год назад
It's not the story they tell you need to worry about, it's the truth.
@rosecolwill5383
@rosecolwill5383 Год назад
Sounds like a con from the get go!
@casewojo6186
@casewojo6186 6 месяцев назад
Wow, ya think? lol
@hannehanskov7560
@hannehanskov7560 Год назад
After he signed the things over to the daughter and she knew everything he owned was ripped from her mom and that he had killed her in return... the daughter still lets him stay in the house. He was a creep but the story is so similar to Dirty John, it is unbelievable it can happen so many times to intelligent women.
@sheilaboston7051
@sheilaboston7051 Год назад
We don't know exactly what he signed over to the daughter. If he and her mum were married then I guess the house would legally be his. Strange though, because there was no mention of them having married, but the police refer to Loretta many times as "your wife" when questioning him.
@sarahmariah100
@sarahmariah100 6 месяцев назад
She says her mom looked like "Alexis from Dynasty" - if you are young and unfamiliar w Dynasty - Start at Episode 1. Its so far out. Alexis isn't in the series until later, but it's still great. Then, when she's introduced, it's extra far out. It's insane 80s fashion and hilariously unbelievable, yet awesome, plot twists. Alexis is the best. EDIT: and the fact that she compared her mom's glamor to Alexis is so sweet, it's like the ultimate admiring compliment.
@joecamel6196
@joecamel6196 Год назад
Not telling where the body was at shows he was not remorseful. He only killed himself to avoid prosecution & prison or the death sentence.
@redo73
@redo73 8 месяцев назад
You're right He didn't even have the decency to pen a note as to where her body was before suicide. And the audacity to hand the daughter cash & a statement saying she will get everything he has if he dies.
@tangerinefizz11
@tangerinefizz11 Год назад
I can't believe he was with her for 18 years!
@ruthferguson7175
@ruthferguson7175 6 месяцев назад
From the moment he walked in the house first time taking inventory. He hit the jackpot once he got foot in door. She should have listened to her friends.
@hippopotamusanonymous1580
@hippopotamusanonymous1580 Год назад
If there was one penny left in the world I would give the whole thing to my children.
@jadsakr7700
@jadsakr7700 Год назад
She was pretty , successful and loved by her family and friends. She didn't need to be with such a loser. .So sad . RIP Loretta
@casewojo6186
@casewojo6186 6 месяцев назад
She was a terrible person and mother.
@tangerinefizz11
@tangerinefizz11 Год назад
I've just begun watching this, and it's painful to see, because I can see where this is headed.
@redtobertshateshandles
@redtobertshateshandles Год назад
Always remember the Doors. "Keep your eyes on the road and your hands upon the wheel". And " there's a killer on the road, his brain is squirming like a toad". Two priceless Jems.
@jeanineberna8458
@jeanineberna8458 5 месяцев назад
Love yourself MORE than the need you have for someone to love you!😊
@HISandHISAlone
@HISandHISAlone Год назад
I'm only a few minutes into this, and all I can say is these ladies were so unwise! EDIT... I will never understand how one allows a perfect stranger to come into their lives and totally molest them in every way possible even unto severing relationships! It's so sad to be that needy concerning a man or companionship. Sad, and in this case, deadly! 😢 She never even knew this man!!!
@TS-rd7oy
@TS-rd7oy Год назад
Strangers are never perfect.
@janetspell1396
@janetspell1396 Год назад
I’m 63 y/o and married 44 years to my one and only true love. When/if he passes away before I do,..I don’t think I could/would want another man in my life,..not even for companionship (I might be wrong, I don’t know),…but it’s how I feel. Even if I would want another man in my life,…you can bet I would have his background checked out throughly. This case is so sad for mother and daughter.💔
@msriver11
@msriver11 Год назад
Same . I've been with my hubby almost 15 years . He's 14 years older. I don't believe I will want another man in my life if he passes before I do
@firenze5555
@firenze5555 Год назад
Don’t be so harsh on this victim. She was lonely and vulnerable and targeted by a charming sociopath. This happened in the days before the internet when she met him so looking up someone’s past or references was not easy. By the time things got really bad, this con artist was completely enmeshed in her life. Awful story.
@gigilamoore2656
@gigilamoore2656 3 месяца назад
She's an adult, not a child. After a time, you are no longer a victim but a volunteer. Her journal writings prove that she new what was going on with this dude, too weak to leave.
@firenze5555
@firenze5555 3 месяца назад
@@gigilamoore2656 I agree but my point is that sociopaths are expert on zeroing in on vulnerable people. They will not bother with a strong and smart personality, instead, they look for someone in a weak position that they can con and manipulate. They can be incredibly convincing. Just be thankful that you have never been targeted by a sociopath.
@klgm63
@klgm63 Год назад
While she didn't deserve it, she definitely allowed it.
@pixels2u
@pixels2u Год назад
More than allowed it, she and her daughter absolutely courted disaster.
@Babygirl54782
@Babygirl54782 Год назад
Being sarcastic, I would have to really think about a guy named 'Taw'. Totally crazy to rent a room to find a boyfriend/future husband. No ID, come on people. I am glad she found her mother. RIP
@dejonc6z
@dejonc6z Год назад
Sad the woman died.. but sorry She really brought this on herself. Desperate for a man and ignored every red flag even after he told her he was lying..
@maycasper2661
@maycasper2661 Год назад
This is idiotic Let me tell you why in a way everyone will understand... We have all had... A Really Bad Ex. Sure, they're your ex now. But the point is that when you met, you had no idea. Everyone on this planet is gullible in more ways than one. Even experts about body language get it wrong all the time. That's why people get off the suspect list or get away with murder even. Or why gacy shook hands with politicians and dahmer got the kid who doesnt speak english -back-, back from the cops, naked and bloody. Even. Always remember your exes. Lol. Don't trust people so much you let them hold your heart. You hang on to that. And always be kind. Cause when you look at tgis world you have to realize that beauty is the only thing worth hanging onto. Everything else is meaningless.
@Acts-xu7th
@Acts-xu7th Год назад
Once he told her that he Was a Friend of evil Donald Trump She should have said Adios you MAGAT ! Don't let the door hit you
@IceSkater8491
@IceSkater8491 Год назад
If I were renting a room out, there's no way I would accept anyone, man or woman, without a background check and security deposit and first and last month's rent. How ridiculous she was.
@parkcitystudios
@parkcitystudios Год назад
After he became her lover, she probably would have stopped charging rent anyway.
@grindingdeviance1864
@grindingdeviance1864 Год назад
As someone who has personally been 'taken' before (luckily, only to the tune of a few hundred dollars and that was the only time, yet I still feel 'dumb' thinking about it years later...), I can coin a phrase for people like us: Hope pushes common sense out the door. As foolish as it all seems in HINDSIGHT, at the TIME, I really believed that the gal was coming to live w/ me. Everyone ELSE can usually see it before the 'mark', but it happens and every single person is vulnerable to this type of reaction on some level and to some degree.
@user-jy3zl2vp4b
@user-jy3zl2vp4b Год назад
So true. And as soon as we learn THIS type of con.....there are already 50 NEW cons we wont recognize or know how to handle safely. The young think they know it all and that con jobs don't change. It is a never ending battle...which ends with us trusting each other less and less...and refusing to show kindnesses to strangers. So sad.
@lindajackson2382
@lindajackson2382 Год назад
Poor Loretta! She DID deserve a man who was kind and financially stable. She, well her daughter, chose the wrong way to go about that!
@casewojo6186
@casewojo6186 6 месяцев назад
You’re as smart as Loretta. Good job!
@OzarkGiGi
@OzarkGiGi Год назад
This episode touched me emotionally. Probably not why most people would think, but because she had so much of her life being close to and being loved by her mother. I didn't have that and I can't imagine having it and losing it to this horrible man. I wish her healing and peace and blessings. From Grandma Gia in the Ozarks
@sharpedge3355
@sharpedge3355 Год назад
If it was as real as they say, NO-ONE could've come in between, of course, the only other witnesses are dead!
@Sadbuttrue-ThatSwedishGirl
@Sadbuttrue-ThatSwedishGirl 8 месяцев назад
❤❤❤
@bonita7335
@bonita7335 Год назад
Sad story what’s wrong with these people they know somebody’s a killer they know they’re dangerous and then they go to their house, their apartment or their hotel room by themselves and trust that they’re not going to be hurt. unbelievable she should’ve contacted the police at every turn so they could’ve been able to rescue her if something happened…😮 sad how her mother gave up everything and turned on her daughter for a MAN and his attention.. how a mom could do that to her child for ANY MAN is sad and crazy.
@sharenahartley649
@sharenahartley649 Год назад
My mom did the same
@TAROTKATREADINGS
@TAROTKATREADINGS Год назад
@@sharenahartley649 same
@maycasper2661
@maycasper2661 Год назад
This is idiotic. Not you, just the thought. ( Which most people have about this kind of situation). Let me tell you why in a way everyone will understand... We have all had... A Really Bad Ex. Sure, they're your ex now. But the point is that when you met, you had no idea. Everyone on this planet is gullible in more ways than one. Even experts about body language get it wrong all the time. That's why people get off the suspect list or get away with murder even. Or why gacy shook hands with politicians and dahmer got the kid who doesnt speak english -back-, back from the cops, naked and bloody. Even. Always remember your exes. Lol. Don't trust people so much you let them hold your heart. You hang on to that. And always be kind. Cause when you look at tgis world you have to realize that beauty is the only thing worth hanging onto. Everything else is meaningless.
@CC12398
@CC12398 Год назад
The mom didn't give up anything except her daughter. Remember she was dressed to the nines when she served her
@fredajordan5704
@fredajordan5704 Год назад
@@maycasper2661 Yes true enough. Since my parets were born in 1913 and got me in `56 I was raised very old fashioned. My mom always told me: Never pay for nothing if a guy invites you or showes interest in you. She was right!! And never forget about common sense.
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