🗣PSA...I know y'all don't wanna watch the MAFS Afterparty but Keisha is killing it!!! She is an amazing host & she's doing a phenomenal job getting to the bottom of things & even calling ppl out on their foolishness & bringing correction when needed....I think she's absolutely crushing it! Y'all should even get her as a guest once this season is over, that would be awesome!🤞🏽🤞🏽😉
She’s also stepping up and saying well actually for Black people it’s like this, or Black people don’t have that luxury. Basically don’t bring your White woman tears here, they aren’t welcome.
Instead of saying “I’m sorry YOU feel that way” Say, “ I’m sorry I MADE you feel that way”. The difference is you taking responsibility for their feelings vs. making it seem like their feelings have nothing to do with you Edit: Im not saying he was right. He was dead wrong💀! My comment is simply giving an ALTERNATIVE STATEMENT bc she genuinely didn’t know how else to say it And many ppl don’t.
Yes! All she needed to say is, 'If I made you feel that way, it definitely was not my intention. I certainly did not cut you off on purpose and I am really sorry if that hurt your feelings.'
@@LisaS483 Yea instead of saying I dont think i did it so im not sorry. How can you remember if you cut someone off or not? He was the one that felt cut off lol
Its about time they did because they certainly keep taking their feedback on the show....already this season we've seen & heard the producers photographers etc in the show. I think its a direct result of them making the comments that they are editing people to appear a way....their like nah these people are showing their crazy once we start filming.
I was pleasantly surprised everyone got dressed up for this episode. I was like "heeeey. Y'all look cute." Then I thought how long will it take Kevin to stay dressed. Here it is 7:27 and Kevin already out of his sweat shirt. 🤣🤣🤣. I'll make a bet, in another 10 minutes them shoes gonna be kick to the side. Kevin don't like no clothes, especially shoes. Y'all really need a desk to hide Kevin's uncomfortabltiy,, but the again it's entertaining. We should make a drinking game out of it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I was cracking up when Mark said he don't know if a boring day w/ Lindsey would be boring or amazing. I thought that was hilarious but also very valid. 😂
Mark and Lindsey consummated their marriage , so for him to now say he wants to pull back, I can understand why she was angry. He knew she was a lot before they had sex. Should have thought about that before doing the deed.
I can't stand Lyndsey in her full Karen-ness, but I agree with her on this. I'd be pissed. Don't get the nani then build up this great romantic night just to let me down.
he didnt communicate his words right....he want her to slow down on the bullshit of getting into it with cast members....lindsey took it wrong but i understand why she took it that way because he didnt use his words right......he is into her but he tired of putting fires out....
@@karendrives970 Yea she was lying. She said " that morning" them when she got a reaction she goes " and that afternoon and right before the dinner" If that was the case why not say that because that was the point Keisha was trying to make.
I wonder if Jasmina cut Michael off several other times during their scenes and we as the audience only saw that one example. But I think Jasmina isn't being held accountable for her mistakes during this process. She criticizes Michael for assuming the worst while ever since she spoke to Michaels sisters, she's always assumed the worst about him. Jasmina is letting Michael know the terms for which their marriage will survive and she's not giving him a say in the matter. That marriage never stood a chance.
@@Qeqezwisdom boom! Michael comes off as tense and overanalyzing things because his wife is judging him at every turn. A softer approach will go a long way.
On the After Party, we find out that the whole eagle tattoo was a lie. According to Lindsey and Steve, Alyssa's psychic actually saw a lion tattoo on the chest. Steve happens to have a lion tattoo on his chest. But when Alyssa told them about the lion, Noi got upset so she changed this vision to an eagle tattoo.
There's more tea y'all 👀... According to Tamara Tattle Tales, per Alyssa's friend, one of Chris's friends at the wedding matched the description the psychic gave Alyssa to a T - lion tattoo and all
Not only are Steve and Noi just perfect for each other and balance one another perfectly, but they are also so clearly there with the right purpose and don’t get wrapped up in everyone else’s drama. They are the only couple staying completely out of everyone else’s problems. I love them so much.
“All those beautiful words..mean NOTHING” and I AGREE 😂 Some Men truly say anything . The moment he said “it was a test” I would’ve given him and a divorce decree. Test this fool..I can’t stand an adult “testing” me just to see if I work hard for their love/devotion. Gtfoh
@@Klgray7373 I get your opinion. I’m just saying I feel like if you’re living with some one every day, you’re going to see everything you need to see. No need to test.
Soooo, I saw it differently. Micheal was trying to answer the question in the most delicate way possible. He got stuck and looked to his wife to give him the answer. Jasmina basically finished Michael's thought but he wasn't done talking. Regardless of whether or not we feel she did or not, Jasmina hurt her husband's feelings and that is where the apology should have came in. Besides, Micheal was right to say that had he responded ,"I'm sorry if you feel that way", she would have been fire, red hot. Just be acknowledge how you made him feel. That's all he was looking for.
Yea I agree. That will be one of their downfalls. She doesn't listen to hear she listens to respond and be right. And he is understanding that they are in a marriage and he's trying to compromise. he could have come to her sooner and maybe it would have been settled closer to that moment. Her inability to see her part is alarming. She definitely overtook the convo when he simply was trying to include her. She didn't even say "yea, i agree because blah blah blah" She emasculated him in a way. But I will say, we didn't hear what he said that morning when he approached her about cutting him off, he could have been a maniac about it.
I never thought of it this way. It seemed like he looked to her for her input but I can def see it both ways now. I think Michael was too sensitive but Jasmina is def argumentive.
I agree and I think I’m sorry you feel that way is not the right way to pose that apology. I think a better way is I’m sorry that I made you feel that way. It taking accountability for possibly hurting their feelings without admitting something you didn’t do.
I don’t blame y’all for not wanting to watch the afterparty but Rudy does so good as a host and honestly I get more out of the afterparty than the dang on show 😂😂😂. Sidebar: Angel’s story about Price Tag had me crying laughing. Reminds of me when I have my niece.
now you know that the girl’s name is not Rudy 😭😭 black folks crack me up , once an actor or actress is in a movie or show that’s their name for the rest of the life. maneee i love us 💀
After party does give insight So Lindsey was saying Katina charging at her triggered her not O. Keisha and Katina explained certain things said about a black man is dangerous so that's why it was necessary for his wife to take over. Alyssa's psychic actually said the tattoo would be a lion which Steve has. Noi found out and was upset so she started saying eagle.
I know you guys already said you don’t want to watch the after party, but hear me out. It’s not a fluff show like it was when Jaime hosted it. Keisha is getting ALL the tea and getting answers to every single question you guys are pondering over. I think it’ll enable you guys to have a much better conversation about the couples. She helped bring to light what the deeper issues were in the argument between Lindsay and Katina. She also had Lindsay share why she was so agitated during that dinner with Mark. They literally had sex 3 or 4 times THAT DAY and then he’s asks her to take things slow. Anyway it’s definitely worth the time. Especially with how Liss likes to have deeper or thought provoking conversations… I think she would enjoy it 😊
I absolutely agree!!! I was going to say the same thing....Keisha be getting ALL THE TEA!! I love her as a host, much better outcome than having Jaime (no offense)😂
I am thoroughly *CONVINCED* she made that whole interaction with the psychic up. Mainly because I'm a subscriber to the saying that the more detail people try to put into a story, the more likely it is the person is likely. And given what we've seen of Alyssa, that's a high likelihood.
On the after show STEVE explained that Alyssa was actually told by her psychic that her soul mate had a LION tattoo (which Steve has on his chest) & it upsetted NOI so she changed it to eagle to shoot that scene. But the way Steve & Lindsey were talking on the after show it seems like something went down off camera between Steve, Noi & Alyssa.. like maybe Alyssa wanted Steve or something because they said she ended up having to apologize to Noi for being or saying something inappropriate.
This was such a good episode. I know that Unfiltered was slow but you guys should really consider watching the new aftershow. Every single episode thus far has given us some tea. Keisha aint as appeasing as Jayme and I love it! She asks them real questions.
Olujawon was love bombing Katina during that entire episode. Legitimately, the emotions that he was conveying were entirely fabricated and coming from this fantastical idea of how he SHOULD feel which is why he felt a way when she didn’t immediately say that she felt the same way and wanted to protect herself during that bedroom scene.
I do appreciate that Michael didn’t call her out in front of the other couples. I get that she wants it to be pointed out in tbt moment, but if he thought that was interrupting, it’s good he didn’t do it in front of everyone because that could have been another fight.
I thought the same. He actually nodded his head and moved right along. She will appreciate things like that if they stick it out. I do think they both overreacted.
He turned to her to interject, it would be weird for him to call her out for anything. He shouldn't be so insecure and low confident and should have finished his thought. This is just basic communication
Alyssa is making me want to choose violence towards her each and every episode. And I'm honestly tired. I can truly handle watching the rest of these people cause what they do don't irk my soul. What she does deeply irks my soul and spirit and I can *NOT* handle seeing her act this way for another two months or longer.
On the show’s fb group someone stated that Olajuwon was love bombing Katina.. which is a sign of manipulation/narcissism..I thought that was a good point because I can totally see that in him
Jasmina’s “apology” was definitely not an apology. An apology requires acknowledgment. If she didn’t feel like she did it, that’s fine. She could even say she don’t feel like she did, “but if you think I did, that was not my intention and I’m sorry.”
I think that was intentional. She said more than once she didn't interrupt him and had nothing to apologize for, but he refused to accept that. "I'm sorry you feel that way" was all he deserved.
But he's was being so demanding and needy with it. I wouldnt say to appease him either. He's a weirdo and I don't see why he thinks she should have apologized, he literally turned to her so she interjected.
@@icomeinpeace3756 If he turned to her and intended for her to interject, he wouldn’t be asking for an apology. I don’t think he needed to be demanding, but I can easily see how both of them needed to be more willing to bend. He ended up being more flexible than she was in the end, in my opinion.
@@karlenwilson2909 it's not if he did turned towards her. So she carried on the convo how she wanted. Like this is crazy we have to analyze the convo so much because he's so small weird and insecure
I’m from Chicago. My husband and I went to a wedding in San Francisco in AUGUST. It was so cold, I had to BUY a TRENCH COAT AND A HOODIE while I was there.
Here’s the problem with blaming Alyssa for signing up for the show-you can’t just sign up. You are cast. The casting department selected her. I believe she was even recruited. So she was chosen to given exactly what she’s giving now. Our beef is with the casting department who selected her and gave her Chris knowing that it would create drama and allow everyone to collectively hate her. She never should have been selected and it’s cruel that they put these two in this situation.
It's a reality show first and foremost so yes, they are going to make sure that they have to ability to get an entertaining cast for their audience. She also should have known there would be a possibility of them ignoring her physical type. She just doesn't seem like she took into account that she's got to be open and they are going to want to disclose things. She's trying to have privacy on a reality show.
@@Msladyrae92 yeah but he asked for a “slim fit” woman and got one. Would he be coming across different if he got a plus size girl? Would people be more forgiving of him than they are being of her? She was set up to fail from the start.
Yes they knew exactly what they were doing bc she said ‘I hope he doesn’t have horrible teeth’ then bam they do a close up of his horrible teeth. They can’t have everybody getting along smh.
Maaannn I said this the same thing the other day on the App ♉♉ especially about cutting someone off, and either all the way in or out, no in-between #taurusgang
I get why Mark wanted to slow down. He has had to defend her multiple times while still getting to know her. She is expecting her ride or die but they literally met two days prior. He's trying to navigate tip toeing around her feelings but also trying not to let things slide that could potentially be a problem later on.
Yeah I agree. I wouldn't be attracted to him either. She is wayyyyy out of his league. And I think he's insecure about it. She seemed to be in the beginning willing to build attraction to him, but his pessimistic attitude is just making him look more unattractive.
Per AFTERPARTY: Alyssa psychic told her that her soulmate had a lion tatoo, Steve (Noi's husband) has a LION tatoo BUT bc this made Noi upset Alyssa changed the story to Eagle tattoo
Olajuwon was so excited to talk about 3sums. It really shows his immaturity. If something is " in your past" You really don't talk much about it because its the old you and you're not proud of it. Katina isn't asking the right questions and I think she is allowing alot the fly. He is always in " bro" mode or love bombing her. Men at a certain age and that are marriage minded don't really see having multiple women as a badge of honor. He keeps saying " You are my WIFE" like okay dude marriages can end. It takes work. He's acting as if just because they had the wedding, now its forever.
Ok TBTB, I see y'all got that advance release hook up! I'm here for it and celebrate the fact that someone at Lifetime recognizes the value you add to their viewership. I'm so proud of y'all! I miss the shenanigans of the live and applauded the growth. I had told the Boos, y'all were bout to move differently and here we are. #BRAVO 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 #GrandmaRuthieWeMadeIt #PeterCame 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I was totally on Lindsey's side of the argument with Mark. When he told her about drinking 3 bottles and toning it down that was earlier and she took it in stride. At the "romantic" dinner he told her all the lovey-dovey stuff was moving too fast and he wants to slow down. So yes lets slow down all the being extra comfortable too and how about you try to court me then Mr. doo-doo butt
They need to get to Know the person they married before it gets physical. Now Lindsey feeling like shes been used (she probably initiated it) and is upset. They all need to look at the red flags!!
I think both are right. Kink = small problem / flaw. Chink = a small opening / weak spot. “kink” literally means a short, tight twist or curl in a rope, string or other line. As a metaphor, it means a flaw likely to cause problems. A chink is a crack or fissure. It could very well appear in armor and might make the wearer vulnerable to a blow.
Yea, I would have been like ... hmmm I didnt ask you to do that. (Not sure if Katina mentioned it to him) He has a really skewed sense of what marriage is, you don't have to give up your independence and if you gonna cheat, you don't need ig to do it.
Lindsey being able to ingest 3 bottles of wine is so concerning. Your body has to be very well trained to handle that much alcohol. I would be in the hospital.
Kale has always been good, but you needed to grab it from your actual garden. I was blessed to grow up in a home where all of our major veggies & greens came from our backyard.
I was so impressed by Woody bc the family and friends made it seem like he was just not remotely ready and I believe if they didn’t find him his perfect match like they did it could’ve been a problem, but he fell in love with Amani at first sight and never stopped showing that 🥲
I promise Alyssa is a Trump supporter and has been sheltered and told things about herself that aren't true. Included but not limited to she is special, beautiful and is a prize. These are the lies her mom told her
He’s definitely going to get mean, spiteful, and hurtful when they settle in. They’ve already shown a clip of him grabbing her phone, reading it, and yelling at her.
Suggestion: you guys may benefit from buying the season on Amazon prime or something. That way you can spend less time watching the live version since there won’t be commercials (cuts off almost 30min & you can skip the recap/intro) . The after party (previously unfiltered) is really less than 20 min in total run time. + you may be able to write it off as an expense for your content- just a thought.
The after party gave more details on the tattoo situation. They mentioned Alyssa kept saying her person is supposed to have a LION tattoo. The physic told her, her person will have a LION tattoo. Then they find out Noi’s husband Steven has a Lion tattoo on his chest. Alyssa felt like she was matched with the wrong person. They changed it to eagle on camera because Noi was getting upset.
Sorry to say, I suspect her mother acts the same way. Lindsey remarked that if her mother had attended the wedding, Mom would have required someone to buffer and keep her outbursts /disruptive behavior in from ruining the day. Sounds kinda familiar...
I think Michael just didn’t like what Jasmina said. I don’t even think it was that she “interrupted” him. He knows they’re not even close to having that connection , so it’s going to be a minute.
It’s weird bc it’s normally on Patreon at least a day before RU-vid and it’s unedited, but it’s not there and this been up all day. I had to watch the episode and the after party and then this. And now I’m in the comments sleepy smh
I just wanna say every week yall say the things I yell at my TV during the show... and also they need to come to MAFS with $50k on hand so we can stop with the Chris/Alyssa type drama. They are only together cause she can't afford to leave...
I felt Jasmina should have took accountability and apologized for how she made Michael feel instead of debating what happened from each other's perspective. She could have simply said, "I do not feel as though I interrupted you and that was not my intention, so I apologize for how what I did made you feel." Done.
But its weird what went down, and he's just being weird. Who gets so worked up over an interjection, let alone one you initiated, it's screaming insecurity and low confidence.
@@icomeinpeace3756 I agree it's weird and I agree he got worked up over what most would deem as something insignificant. However, people with insecurities need to be called out in love and they also deserve grace especially in a marriage.
