"Regret is worse than any physical pain", first blast. "You get redemption through discipline", second call. And "Eliminate regret from your life and you will have a beautiful life" - that's equal to a crumble of Grace, coming from this muscular and tattooed Soldier of Faith. (Thanks man.)
I hope these messages reach through to as many people as possible and I plan to do what I can to make sure that happens. As I share these, it's amazing how resistant most men are to what you're saying or even thinking they can gain any wisdom from another man. Thank you for everything.
I am glad youre carrying the message about the alcohol, regrets, and the destruction of your life. Im also glad you didnt kill anyone. Personally, there doesnt seem to be any redemption from that for me. Just when I begin to feel Ive made it over the hump, something is there to remind me of what a fuck up I was. Keep up your good work Brother difficult as it is. Your humility if nothing else is inspirational.
Taylor, you're proper talking to me. I too have rejoined the British army after few years out due to divorce, regret, substance abuse and complete shameful behaviour. In order to reset. In order to regain character through hardship. Nice one mate! Your achievements speak for themselves.
Losing something and regret is hard especially when it's something small that you fixed but it's too late. I'ma simmer in this pain and not think anymore
Brother, I’m going through some stuff personally rn, and your videos are really hitting home. I guess when you are down, there is always going to be a way to get back up. Much love to you and prayers for your continued success and safety brother. Much love from right next to Ft Bragg in NC 🤙🇺🇸👊
Exactly simmer in your shame. I'm a former Marine grunt same downward spiral.I went to France one a way ticket to join the Legion. I did not pass selection because of my hearing. The Legionaires said I.had what it took. But listen this guy has WISDOM.HOOYAH from.an OORAH.
Your guidance and life experience transparency is pure gold my friend. Not because you are in the service, etc. Your honest reflection, your encouragement that everyone can recover/restart if you really want it and your reminder that no matter what we do, life is a gritty test so get dirty and enjoy the fight. Well done.
Still here enjoying the knowledge being shared. The words , smart & Tactical go hand in hand. There’s a million ways to fall into those cages if your reckless. You got just one more year, short timer. You have done a great job at pivoting your life in a different and more challenging direction. While in the U.S. Army active in Wiesbaden Germany 🇩🇪 in 85 I had the privilege to see up and close the FFL on the tarmac. I wish you a safe journey, in what’s left of your carrier. Countries as you know are at each others throats. Sincerely, CVS U.S.Army 83-86 U.S. Marines 86-89.
Wow, I'm glad that you pulled yourself together and not let your regrets crush you. I screwed up my millitary career while I was Phase 2 of OCS. I got on the wrong side of my Senior Tactical Officer and was doomed. Got boarded twice in OCS. I only needed two more weeks to finish Phase 3 and get commissioned. I kinda imploded after that but like you I pulled my shit together. I look back and say it was probably a blessing in disguise I didnt make it. I lacked the discipline and maturity to make a good officer.
Wow! I almost had a DUI once, when I was young, but the cops let me off with a traffic ticket...Nobody got hurt, fortunately, but since then, I've never driven after drinking and really didn't drink much after that in any case, now I go years without a beer. But it was that same thought you mentioned. I had been at the start of my new career in cellular, when cellular was brand new, and all that revolved around being able to drive at the time, going to cell sites, microwave radio hops, etc., plus I was helpng my little brother thru university, and all that could have been wiped out...I've had a dull and boring life, but stayed out of trouble, at least. Thank you as always for sharing your stories, there are life lessons in each one!
It's crazy how many success stories start with, I traveled to _______ on my last dime. Poverty fills us with a determination that privilege never will.
Waking up restraining orders hung over strung out sick injured in a cell here in las vegas new years day 200 people in a holding cell like cattle figjting for the toilet paper roll to lay down on ..everybone worn down..Open season on Whitey it was..Nowhere to go just broken..Been there..I can relate more than once..thankyou dude we got some work to do ..Shark Shit on the bottom and im full
Good motivation before I go to the gym at 0500. I’m taking 2024 to step back and focus on my goals by finishing my second masters degree using my GI bill. I’m in the process of cutting out booze and focusing on my fitness again. Also, I’ve realized how much time and money I’ve wasted going out and how stupid people get when they drink. I’ve realized that I’m not missing out on anything and my energy can go towards more productive things such as investing towards my financial freedom. You can ruin it all with one really stupid decision and I’ve learned from the mistakes of others who thought they could keep doing stupid shit. Eventually the chickens come home to roost.
I'll say this, civilian life for the most part sucks... There's not much brotherhood..it's dog eat dog... If your blessed to find a good woman that really fucking loves you no matter what. You have half the battle won...
Yes, regret is like a knife that carves you into a different person with limited resources. I definitely would’ve been a different person if I hadn’t done the one bad thing in my life, not a day goes by that I don’t regret the choice I made. I liked what you said at the end about regret being like a contour that shapes.
I think you no you let yourself down and the worst person to get angry with is your self it eats you get angry with some one else no problem but you no that now take care friend
One of the last ones is best. A lifetime to make a name and a night to fuk it all up. Respect for admitting the shit. The idiots are the ones who never believe that they made a mistake. ❤ The clever ones admit it and never do it again😊
Our regrets and the decisions we have made in our lives, good or bad, have brought us right where we are or need to be today. Think about it. If you made a different decision, on one of those nights, you may, not be here making videos for us, working your way up to success. Good luck the rest of the way. 🤙🏻
Man, I'm going to reach out to my friend who runs the channel "Combat Story" & get him to reach out to you. I want to hear your _entire_ story. Keep doing this shit.
I remember as a young SSG in the army I got a DUI off base. I remember my 1Sgt picking me up at the state trooper station and driving me back to FT. Drum and chewing my ass out. The last thing he said that night was "I'm gonna figure out a way to get you out of this" And he did, no UCMJ and a $267.00 fine at the court. This was 1989. I have never drank and drove since. Not one of my proudest moments.
Love watching these snippets of your life. We all do these things and make mistakes that bring shame and regret. Restarting a life after screwing up. While mine seem small by comparison, the feelings are the same. A big problem for men is owning these choices and making a positive change no matter what that is. We don't speak enough about it and so much respect for your honesty and openness. You know now a hero doesn't wear medals but wears their experiences to help themselves and others
Brother it’s great to hear how much you’ve grown . It’s a great loss to the United States to loose a warrior of your caliber. If you write a book I’ll buy it . I’m an Army veteran served mostly on tanks but also did recon and infantry.
The best channel on RU-vid by far. No Bullshit, no clickbait..... Just facts, and what a fukkin awesome dude. Much respect T.C, All best wishes from West Oz.
If we’re lucky, (and smart), we get a ‘do-over’……. Most of the time, we don’t. Great messaging through your videos. No better timing for this given how life has become for many. I have turned my nephew on to these. He is almost 40 and has made a complete mess of his life. He is wandering through life with no purpose or goals. I think there are many young men like him today.
Doing dishes, daily life, and watching your channel. I lived in San Diego for 18 years and saw/helped the veterans who lived on the beach, homeless. Thank you for what you are doing. Not much to say, as I'm not a veteran,, I just try to help.
Absolutely spot on, a lot of people look to blame everyone else for there failures and it seems society these days reinforces that behavior. Great lessons 👍🇺🇸
I usually watch videos about the Foreign Legion to motivate myself when I find that I lack self discipline (mainly to practise sport and not be a couch potato).And I have very much respect for the Foreign Legion and the Legionnaires as I find them very inspiring for my own life. The Legion is one of the only remainings of old values.... and we need them. What is funny is that I am not fond at all of any army or military stuff, not interested in wars and action movies, never had any problems with justice ... Your life and your wisdom are very nice to hear. You can bring hope to many people who are lost in their lives. So I registered your channel to support you.
Another great video. I would be interested to hear you speak about how you dealt with starting at the bottom again. It couldn't have been easy coming in and being underneath a bunch of guys with less experience and training than you already had. How did you get your mind right to ensure any ego didn't get in the way? You definitely were not the average FFL recruit coming through the pipeline. What positive and negative attention did you encounter during your recruit training and selection in relation to your SEAL background?
I’ve come to appreciate these videos as my pre workday motivation call. It’s been many years since I was a Marine grunt deployed to the sandbox. Now I’m a husband, dad and a guy w/ a professional graduate degree. Age may have slowed my pft run time or the number of pull-ups I can do, but age brought its friend wisdom. That’s what these videos are: wisdom that comes w/ age and experience. But you can still max out on pull -ups. Well done.
Learning the hard way more than once personally speaking will either make a man or break a man and im thankful to of learned the hard way and now know the difference.... Thank you for your service and sharing your experiences because i find alot of value in remembering just how bad things can be if i allow them to be.. God bless bro
Brother you are 100% spot on when it comes to regret. I F'd up when I was in the Marines and I regret it every single day. I was young and dumb and hanging out with idiots that led me astray. I have a good life now, but it's something that I will never get over and it's been 30 years.
I just thought about, “Does the Legion accept your SEAL Time towards your retirement ??? Are you retiring in the legion or are you getting out next year ??? Just “Curious” !!!
Truer words never spoken: "One awfuck covers a million attaboys" "Its just down the road. You know what else is down the road? JAIL! A cops with handcuffs." I feel like these are stories that young men just starting out need to hear before life offers them the opportunity to fuck around and find out what you've learned the hard way.
Inspiring shit every time. So whenever the Legion is finished with you, will you take the new identity you'll be offered, or will you take back your American life?
I had some dumb decisions doing drugs and messing things up but it still is a bad regret. I wish I hadn't done them but I don't regret it. They were learning opportunities and with that comes wisdom. Those dumb things actually make me a better person. Took me awhile to realize that these things helped me be who I am. It also taught me empathy for others
Empathy is exhausting & life will bring to your knees. Regrets are like an anchor as you try to swim…people say “ just move forward “ or “ let it go “ accountability is part of that pipeline, acceptance & learning from the mistakes. Baby steps, minute by minute & distract your mind. Days turn into years & the canvas that was once a mess….is beautiful work of art. Stay true to yourself. Only god can judge & know you’re not alone.
Hey Taylor I am big fan. I love your story and you have my utmost respect. I am a 59 year old contractor. I was a Navy SeaBee. I was a BUCN …. a carpenter in the SeaBees. Like yourself I have regrets about career choices and things I did when I was younger. I think you would be a great mentor to the young people in America. I love the USA but we are soft and entitled today. My dad was a World War 2 vet. He would be disgusted with America’s youth and their attitudes. You have that toughness, grit and commitment that made the US military and the country so successful in the early and mid 20th century. Young Americans need to hear your message and your story. Thank you for your service my friend.
TCAV , what you just said really sent it home to me! Just one time after all those at a boy's, I know exactly what your talking about. Wishing you continued success & happiness!
Holy Shit! I love this guy! You really preach the truth Sir! Thanks for sharing! Man, so much pain I suffered in my life by scribbling a little bit out of the lines. Especially with alcohol. I remember the shame I felt waking up in county and having to call my young wife to pick me up in the morning. More than once. A thousand "AT A Boys" dont make up for that one moment. I'm 45 now and my life is pretty peaceful and copesetic but, only by the grace of God. I'm so glad he saved me. Thank you for your testimony good Sir.
I've wrecked a lot of jobs through my addiction. I would have loved to fly to France and knock on the gates but my hearing is a bit fucked according to the oz military, as i tried entry when i was 18. Your story is amazing mate. It's nice that le Legion is cool with you doing this. I'm assuming you had to gain approval to post these vids. They wouldn't let just anyone post this stuff. You must have earned significant cred to do it. In the legion, that takes years.
This is seriously good advice, I just wanna add one thing... If you do fuck up and make those bad decisions you need to forgive yourself. Dwelling on your failures will only hold you down in that pit longer, so learn the lesson that you need to and then find that new reason to wake up.
I bet the legion got a huge bump in recruitment after you started making these videos. I'm 47 years old can I catch myself daydreaming about it now.🤣🤣🤣 I got a great life these days. Had to go through my own version of the events you describe to get here. Christ helped lead me through it. He is still leading me. God bless!
I'd love to know about the food and physical training in the legion currently. I'm sure you have done the right thing for future success and im happy for ya bro 😎
Really dig your stuff man!! Helpin me through a tuff time,keepin me me from over indulging. One ah fuck moment can erase a million attaboys,that sticks!
