God brought you into my life exactly when I needed to hear your message the most. I'm terrified for the huge life changes I HAVE to make. But for the first time in too long, I have courage & hope. If you did it, I can do it. Thank you for sharing your experience, strength & hope with this broke, scared single Mama. Thank you, Lisa. Thank you for letting God use you to be the vessel for His message to me.
I havent been a person for a long time. I didnt know that I was me and that I was mistreating myself by not acknowledging me. I let people do things and I let myself do things that make it hard to forgive myself. But when you said I am the example to show the world how to treat me, you brought me to tears. Because I treated myself so bad, giving away my yeses way to easy just to please everyone. Thank you for beeing such a powerfull mind Lisa that can analyze the things and willing to share it with me from the bottom of your heart! I can feel you so much!! I feel you!! I love you for beeing the women that you are. I wish you everything that words cant even describe and money cant buy! You help me so much to grow!! You are like a mother to me that I never had!! I love you from the bottom of my heart!! Keep soaring so I'll always know where to go if I'm lost!!
Since finding your videos, the one thing which really spoke to me was how you found a way to build a future while you were still in the pain. I am trying to do that now, before I would be scared of change, of walking towards the path I know was meant for me. But now, I push myself beyond my limits and am breaking the cycle of those before me to work towards the future I want. I have realised many times this year, that all the skills I have learned and the accomplishments I made cannot be taken from me. Thank you Lisa, for proving that you can live your truth, without another's permission, without letting fear hold you back. Thank you for existing, and I shall exist, authentically, unapologetically too.
If you don’t give yourself rest the world wont give you rest and grandma dropped a jewel on you , sis i love you and need you to keep talking to my spirit. Honestly I stumbled upon you funding my dreams and it spoke to me on so many different levels, i look at it again and again each time taking something different away each time , I have also shared it with my six children from the age of 36,29,27,26,21, and 19 years old. Friends co-worker s and even total strangers i have said Lisa Nichols just RU-vid her she will change you life for the good after she make you cry. You are a blessing and keep feeding me and giving me the truth , your words have power , and your words are one size fits all . I’m a 52 year old woman and live in Harlem in New York its hard and sometimes family and friends cant help you. Thank God there’s you Sincerely Sonja
My boyfriend told me about Lisa and now I am soo much obsessed about her and I am really greatful that she takes her own time to Motivate the Masses. I am still on a journey of finding myself and connecting more with myself and I am doing well so far because of the motivations everyday from Lisa Nichols.
Hi Lisa, I try and tell everyone I meet with such enthusiasm that their eyes light up in anticipation of pulling you up on "RU-vid" which makes me smile, since I know they will be thoroughly blessed. My takeaways from tonight's episode "Teach People How to Treat You" are many: It is clear that I must embrace mirror work and forgive myself for a lot of things I have been holding myself hostage over, knowingly and unknowingly. Another profound moment for me is that I am used to "being on" for everyone and everything not realizing that my Yes to everyone was losing its value because at times I did it grudgingly and resentfully, because I was tired at the time they asked although I genuinely meant it when I told them they could call on me, anytime. Again not wanting to displease others, I always acquieced. Also, not getting proper rest was another big one. Awhile back, I started going to bed at 10:00pm to get 8hrs of sleep because deep down I realized thay it was necessary for me in order to function at my optimum level, but then I fell off that wagon and opened myself up once again, to my detriment, which resulted in me not giving myself the first opportunity to care for me. It is so amazing how we blame others for what we really have authority over and have mistakenly given away. I now understand that there is no guilt in taking care of me; there is no guilt in demanding respect from others who think that it is okay to be disrespectful just because I refuse to respond in kind. It is okay to stand up for myself even if others are taken aback because my new posture is foreign to them because of the way in which I misrepresented myself in the past over things I was well deserving of. Like so many others who have commented regarding your impact and assistance in transforming their lives, I join them in saying "I love you" and "Thank You" for being so transparent and authentic about your personal journey which teaches us (those who are willing to listen and change) that God can also use us for the good of others as we navigate through our imperfections and frailties and social, physical, environmental, mental, financial, and spiritual woes we encounter in life. I can feel your genuine heart for all of God's people as you effortlessly raise your voice in harmony with ours as one who has been there, at times is still there, and knows how to be abased and abound in bad times and in good times. (Philippians 4:12). Just know that your inner resolve and humility shines brightly for all of us to see!!! God bless you Lisa Nichols!!!😊😇💯💕
Wow! What a great understanding of what fear is. We run from fear. We hide, bury it, do whatever we can to run away from fear. This was a light bulb moment for me to use my fear to empower myself... use my fear for information.
You could see the deep connection of friendship in both of your eyes that was so heartfelt and genuine. Your wisdom knows no bounds but I loved it when you talked about looking at yourself in the mirror and forgiving yourself. It was my A-ha moment. Thank you x
I loved how you broke down chatter & fear - don't be afraid, just answer the "concerns" with the strategy and enable chatter & fear to do the job of protecting you in a reasonable and practical way. This method has helped me cope with anxieties that I did not understand.
Me by the end of this episode: 😭😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️!!!!!!! My heart has been BLESSED!!!! Soooooooo enriched.... Thank you both and each and everyone else involved in this production for blessing my life!😘 May God bless and enrich you in return❤️.
The words and the vibration is one and the same. Lisa thank you! The best part is seeing your complete transparency! You are my sister. Thank you! I can believe in me again.
The smile behind the tears. I too have mastered my smile and there was a time I didn’t know the person behind the smile. Who I was to other people was not what I was feeling about myself. I found me. I forgive myself for disappearing and am proud of myself for growing from that experience.
First thing that comes to mind... You are the wind beneath my wings! That was truly from spirit! Thank you Lisa for being vulnerable enough to share all of you so that all of feel like there is hope! You are true beauty insid3 and out!!!!'
WOW. I am simply blown away. My "aha moment" was when I realized how I open the door to for others to treat me badly because I do that to myself, and that by forgiving myself I can change that dynamic. It's been eye-opening. I cannot say it enough. I am getting to this six months after it came out, but I am happy that I found it. Thank you for putting your message out there.
thanks for showing me how to show up, and shine my light on this planet, amma keep listening to you. thanks for sharing the true love of God to the world. i am u lisa, and you are me. lots of love.
Thanks Lisa from my heart ...you give me courage daily ..you let me know I've held myself hostage from my past, I smile while crying inside but now I know my healing starts with me forgiving myself and step myself into my light. Am taking the liberty to adopt you as my big sis if you don't mind cause I could do with a sis like you. Thanks for releasing your gift so we all can benefit from you and breath some of your oxegen . Stay blessed always big sis hope to meet you one day .
Your yes has less value!! Uff soooo true. When u do say no u feel sooo awful. Went through a break up a year ago. It has been hard to let go. God has put u in my life and not by accident. Thank u!!!! I get my aja moment!! every time i have heard u for the past month. Wish i could hear u in person one day. God bless u Lisa.
This was very powerful. Lisa you see so many people and you give a lot. I'm empowered to know that there are people who are privileged to sit and serve with you that genuinely appreciate and value you.
This message totally blessed me tosay... I am in a transition stage in my life and when you said cut the shackles of guilt, blame, shame and anger I almost shouted at work... God bless you Lisa Nichols❤
We are all just a bunch of Lisa’s making Ding dong decisions 🤣 I love you Lisa, can’t believe I just came across you recently ❤️🌹😻 where have you been all my life 🥰 you speak raw truth from your heart with divine timing. It’s no question you have a gift. I see myself in you one day, you are an inspiration of light and hope that any one of us can speak our truth without filter and find love within our selves to find freedom and peace. Loved the saving bit to. I am an artist, hard to follow a structure. I’m going to try harder to make a solid plan with steps. Anyways I’m not going anywhere now, sis !! 🌹✨🙏🏼
Where do we send our questions Lisa? I love you by the way. First time I saw you was in "The Law of Attraction " film. I found your channel last night. I had gone to a dark place and stayed up until 1am watching one of your interviews. I was diagnosed with ADD and my life made sense. I always listen to motivational speakers but nothing goes to my subconscious. I get excited for about a week then I forget all about it. My emotions keep being the same making me a hard person to be around. You are the only speaker who tells me what steps to take. That's what I need!! To have someone calling me out and I will set reminders to listen to you every day to not forget. I have come out of my dark hole today thanks to you and some sleep. Thank you Lisa 😍😍😍
Lisa I thought this was so heart warming. I'm listening to this at work. The part about teaching the world how to treat you really hit home with me. I always thought I was so strong and able to say yes I like this and no I don't want that. But I realize I have sacaficed so much of my happiness just to see others happy with the hopes they will turn around and make me happy. It does not work that way. I have a lot of work to do but it's begun with you so thank you again. Stay blessed!
Hi Liza, 1st of all, I just wanted you to know that I am thankful for sharing your knowledge in this platform. People living on the other side of the world like me get the chance to learn from you. I first saw you in the movie "The Secret" among all the speakers you are one I got captivated into that's why I searched for you 5 years ago and from then on I started to follow you. As a result, I was able to copy your styles and confidence while on the stage. Thank you and I love you!
This message whoa #BOL When you said, "I mastered my smile in front of my tears and I wanted my smile to be true and authentic". Lisa that was me! I've had a habit of mastering my smile over my tears. But ever since I lost my mom to cancer April of 2016, (& also the start of my spiritual journey), I can no longer manage with the fake smiles. And the fake being "okay". From outta nowhere little ol' me started speaking my mind. I thought I was going crazy but truly I had enough. I was on a quest to find my authentic happiness. I would write on my mirror powerful affirmations and recite them. My boyfriend thought I was going crazy but I was dedicated. I had a breakdown on 12/28/17 because I had went back to my old habits and my exact words were, "I can't go on faking my happiness any longer". It was something so powerful about that breakdown. Something hit me. For the first time I had acknowledged how I was feeling and I most of all I didn't take residence in my junk. I finally got it! Thank you Lisa. It felt like weights lifted off of my shoulders. Thank you. You've been such a wonderful mentor in my quest to live a more fulfilling life. God Bless You
I’m stuck Christmas is not a good time for me seeing all happy families getting together and showing love for each other and all I can be is a spectator just watching and remembering the last time I felt happy at Christmas time was a very long long time ago - I’ve decided now it’s time to move away and start a fresh life not counting on anyone missing me - wish me luck have a great 2021💕
This is a beautiful and authentic interview. Lisa you are a gift and blessing. Please continue helping others Lisa and Matt. I hope to attend your seminars one day. I also enjoy motivating and helping others heal. Thanks for being you.
Thank you Lisa for being so opened and honest about your journey. You've just inspired me to do the work needed in order to love myself beyond my wildest dreams and to forgive myself for everything I did or didn't do. Much love from Croatia.
Yes YES! and yes YES! again! This episode was like resuscitation! I have been trapped and paralysed by fear for many years and have allowed it to deny my dreams. NOT ANYMORE!!!! your insight about turning fear into information just flipped the script. So very thankful for you in this world. Love you Lisa 💜
Found you in the midst of a Covid depression, cried while watching your videos and here I am months later, in a better mindset. Your words truly helped me in those dark times and I can’t thank you enough 💜
Hi Lisa, I honestly never write comments but I truly feel compelled to comment on this amazing video. Just letting you know that your message really resonated with me and hit home. I am subscribed and looking forward to more wonderful pieces of wisdom from an amazing and truly inspirational lady!! Keep up the good work!! 👍
LISAAAAAA....i was just listening to this with my headset whilst working and from 17:08 to 19:18 got me teary in the office...am gonna do this everyday!!!!.. ...i will hug u one day..and tell u how ur this and ur other videos have helped me...
I thought I love Oprah and Iyanla Vanzant work. Lord its just something about you that motivates an individual to really want and actually take the leap of choosing something different and being okay with the decision without consulting with or asking for permission. Thank you Lisa Nichols and you too Matt Gil.
Watching this in Nov 2019 with tears running down my face.... Thank you Lisa and Matt... You are an angel that has been sent to touch and transform lives. I binged on your videos today and will do so for days to come... Thank you. The first time i saw u on the Steve Harvey show was mindblowing and these episodes are super amazing
Dearest Lisa, Thank you so much for teaching me how to teach people to treat me right. I just finally did exactly what you said and it made me feel so great in relief. I have also been an always yes girl without considering my true feelings and that made me miserable for a big while and I can't believe it is today that the message just came to me. Freedom is so pretty. Thank you Thank you Thank you Lisa.
It was by faith or divine intervention that I watch this video. I'm having my Bouts with Doubt about my big move out of state. My "chatter" keeps telling me, "are you making this move out of impulse, "are you making the right choice for your family?" I think for me it is Fear of the unknown. After listening to you, Fear is not my enemy. However, I need to satisfy my fear with a better thought-out plan, so that fear will go away. Where have you been all my life? I needed this today. Thank you
dearest Lisa loved this episode especially the part about forgiving yourself. Never realised how much baggage ive been carrying all these years & have not really treated myself well at all. i really didnt know how to love me & learning that is key for me now. Love you lots & really hope to meet you one day.
Thank you Lisa I found you yesterday and yes I am hearing your voice. I love people and love to inspire others. But I seem to fail in my relationship with men. I think that I give too much and just don't receive back. I know that their is lots in me but I need to love me first. I am working on it. What I love about your words is that you give with love and you open up to us. Blessings to you...
I'm so greatful that God has created you & you choose to help us❣ Thank u❣ You are one of several inspirational & motivational people that I listen too. I truly love your spirit & you are a beautiful human being❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you Lisa for all your lessons. You have breathed life into many situations I've had, I've had many 'aha' moments. You are a blessing. May God renew your strength😍❤
I feel your positive energy even through this medium...I discovered you by accident while searching for something on You Tube and you just popped up on my screen...you redirected my focus that day...Bless you...next stop Jamaica please...would love your free training
You have taught me awareness luv & believing. Im getting help & I want to do it alone. Id luv to work for you ir just receive your help. You mean alot to me Lisa. Its tough being a mom with 2. Your given me inspiration. I want to laugh & find my joy.
For 3 years Ive been doing this healing, forgiving, recovery thing with God and me alone. Im married with children however Ive been alone thru this...until God sent your videos to me. God has given me you. So thank you. Your videos are now a huge part of my recovery and healing.
I respect your honesty and the fact that you are telling me people to take steps to achieve something instead of just fly by the seat of their pants, lol. I noticed many other coaches talk about taking a leap of faith encouraging people to just walk away from their problems. IMHO, that's not how you actually resolve them. They can easily appear again.
I watched this really late it popped up in the recommended section, but your transparency at the end just solidified everything you taught. To say “I’m just like you, but we can do it together” it makes the journey feel so real.
Hi Lisa. I love you so much. Thank you for being YOU and letting God use you as a gift to this world. I recently took your free online 90 minute webinar and learned so much about making yourself marketable in the industry of motivational speaking. My question is if you want to speak but don't have a story of coming from the projects, or getting out of an abusive relationship, you don't have books that you've written, how do you make people interested in hearing what you have to say? Or if you feel like your story is common, if people don't think you have overcome anything will they ever be intrigued to listen?
I am going start the mirror exercise.You Inspire a greatness in love, state of wellbeing. Compassion to all.Thank you for finding you! To get the appertunity to heal me. All of me and shine brighter and brighter every day❤
Wow thank you Lisa for this video. It has taught me how to deal with fear. My number one giant I want to shot this year 2018. I have also learnt to encourage myself in a mirror because of you. You are just amazing.
Thank you for this video I've lived a life of just doing and doing and doing. I've always thought some part of me had it all together when truefully all I ever wanted was to be loved. I worked to try and get rid of the feelings of loneliness and also lived with a lot of pain in my childhood. I feel the trauma from that molded me to be a very productive person, but because I couldn't control how I felt about myself from childhood I carried it on in my adult life. Drinking became a way of escape a lot and when I did drink I did stupid unforgivable things as if I really wasn't thinking about my actions. I however picked myself up and went to work provided for my family and love them all with all of my heart and still do today, however I went through some major life changes and this further strained the relationship with my family and it has been deeply impactful in my life the last 7 years so all I did was work to try and get rid of all of this pain from my whole life. I have realized something in the past few months. I do believe I'm a very strong person and I do believe I have a heart ❤ I look at the old part of myself and I'm truly ashamed, but I also know that he got me here and that I'm grateful for. I'm grateful for what I'm starting to see around me which is just scary and at the same time eye opening. I've learned that I really need to start taking care of myself and to control my negative thoughts. I never realized the impact they really have had in my mind and how it also affected others until now. I'm truly grateful for your guys positivity and I know moving forward and adopting a healthy lifestyle is important as I do not want to go down the road of suicide anymore. I love these videos I just get scared even watching them because I know somehow I'm putting out a lot of negativity to the world and I need and will try with all my heart ❤ to make a life of change and these type of videos help me a lot. Thank you
4 years later and this was the best thing I could've seen. I feel like Im so stuck in a dark place and I really could use some forgiveness to myself... This was absolutely amazing- thank you.
How ironic I say this all the time and I let people know by my actions on teaching a person how to treat me....only because I personally don't want to be treated like everyone else....so, yes! yes! I'm naturally/spiritually free living/being my true self........Peace & Blessings!!!!
OMG, I have for many years dimmed my light because people thought that I was always trying to see the positive in a situation or not wanting to join in the gossip .
I am so in love with you Lisa!! You are my breath of fresh air! My yes, YES was when you talked about fear, and that we should listen because it's telling me I need more information. That was so helpful!! TY! I also am a very creative person and my Ahha was that I need to train the linear side of my brain. And finally when you shared about looking in the mirror and saying... Joyce, I forgive YOU for... Oh my...I have some work to do!! 😘🤗🌹❤🙏 PS. I am so VERY happy and grateful that God has decided to use you even though you made some ding dong decisions. That gives me such great hope! 😉 Love & Light ❤☀
hi Miss Lisa thank you for everything listening to your programs at work now it's my first time asking a question me and my wife all we do is argue all we do is fight. I don't like the way we talk to each other , at this point in time everything she does messes with me so the committee has an extra person at the table now, thank you for teaching me how to talk to her I'm learning every day how to stop cursing at her and be a man
What an awesome motivator you are Lisa.....you make it all seem so simple...and yes it is through faith in God our Creator. I love the statement you made about not teaching from the mountaintop, you teach as you are walking up there with your audience. I thank God for allowing me to come across one of your videos at the end of last year. Really looking forward to an opportunity to be a part of your live audience....yes YES :-)
