TEENAGE DATING EXPOSED! 

As a 28 year old, who has never been in a relationship on purpose, I was nodding my head like a bobble head toy and screaming yes at the screen. Thank you for this conversation, Bee Family! 💖

Mama Bee is so proud listening to her kids having healthy views on not needing to date in their teens. Absolutely love this family. You have raised some amazing human beings. 💜💙💚

Dude Gabbie’s supernanny impression was spot on.

This video came right on time. I’m 14 years old and about 85% of my school has been in a relationship, in a relationship, or has had their first kiss and I feel so left out knowing I’ve had none of these experiences. I’ve liked so many people and they end up not knowing, or leading me on then ending up with someone else to the point that I was tired of it. Then there’s this one guy I sorta like, he feels the same and recently asked me out. I still haven’t given him an answer being that I somewhat feel unworthy of his or anyone else’s love. I pushed relationships trying to get someone to feel the same and now someone does and I just don’t think that I’m ready. So your opinions really help me, thank you.

i’m turning 20 on tuesday and haven’t had my first kiss or anything so this made me feel so validated

Would love to hear the family's perspective on boundaries to keep when actually dating. This was a wonderful talk.

I’m 19 and I absolutely love love love these podcast-like videos. It’s so nice to hear about another Canadian family like mine share such similar morals and values towards these topics! I always find myself aggressively nodding and wanting to respond back to all these great points. PLEASE, keep these podcast vids coming!!! Much love 🙌🏽💕

"Trust me, your soul mate isn't in your Science Class." Very wise words from Gabbie! At 30 years old [over a decade ago] I found my soul mate three-thousand miles away. We met through playing a video game together [Dark Souls!] People are too much in a rush to find The One, but in due time it can and will happen. Love the transition for the channel, I do love these lil Podcast-Lite episodes!

Don't jump into relationships....make friends and let them develop spontaneously

Haven't hear the whole thing, but I would like to say, as someone who never had a proper partner until I was 24, I can say that teenage relationship are kinda important. My whole teens I wasn't ask out, no one had an interest in me and that actually hurts a lot when you grow up and you're, let's say, 22 and the last time some one showed interest in you was when you were 14 and the relationship lasted a conversation; when I got my first bf I was a MESS, didn't know how to communicate. period. I didn't have many friends growing up due to bullying so I didn't learn socialization so I didn't know how to talk to someone on that deep level, specially a boy. A lot could have been avoided if I had friends or my parents talked to me about how relationships, romantic or platonic, should be from a broad but healthy perspective. The whole thing of "it's not gonna last" and "it's time consuming" is rocky territory for me, it's sooooo easy to just not bother to work inside a relationship bc of those phrases. yes, relationships can be "perfect" and over in like 20 seconds, and it does consume a lot of your time, but it's time that you wanna spend (should, in my opinion, if u truly want to be with that person) and no relationship has a warranty that it's going to last, not when you're in your 20s, 30s or when you've been married for 35 years, they can break, was it a "waste" of time? No, I don't think so. I mean, I don't talk to my ex anymore bc I realiced that we weren't compatible to begging with but because of the whole we kept dating, that's the mind set you should NOT have. Things can be over so quickly, it's weird but it doesn't mean it wasnt worth it. I learnt a lot in my first relationship -almost 2 years and a half- I don't regret it, maybe I shouldn't have gotten into that relationship in the first place, but it made me grow, realice who I was (or becoming, I'm only 26) and it was a cute time.

This actually opened my mind on dating ,I'm young and I was rushing on finding someone to be with but after I watched this video it helped me realize that I needed to find myself first rather than dating someone for the feeling.

I think that "serious" dating is something that probably should be avoided as a teen, but the the things that the kids are saying they are worried about like breakups, making time for others, learning to share your feelings, I believe these are things that are important to emotional and intellectual growth.

I’m 18 and I’ve never dated anyone. However, I think at some point it’s better to have dating experiences because we can know what we are looking for in a relationship and find someone who really suits us. We can get to know the red flags in a relationship and see how we can handle them. But for now I’m focusing on my studies. Btw, I love your podcast videos, they are the best❤️

That's very kind of Roberto. To see the woman's worth and only pursue when he knows he can give himself fully. This gives me hope. ❤️

I don't think there's really a right or wrong answer. I think it depends on the individual. Overall it's difficult to navigate through and figure out your feelings and who you are when you're 13-18. Not to mention having to worry about all of the schoolwork and extra curricular activities. Some might be able to deal with all of that, some might not, others might not even try.

Even at 16 Gaby is already an insanely high value woman. 1000% opposite of all the toxic street rats of this era. This goes for the son too

i love how real they are, well spoken too, literally love watching you guys :)

I like these podcast and how real they are.

Kids should be kids! Like until you’re 20 or 21! Just focus on being a kid and doing fun things! Go to a theme park, movies, bowling etc enjoy childhood while it lasts!

I'm my personal life, my sister has never been in a relationship. Now she is just finishing UNIVERSITY and has the most healthy, beautiful relationship! It's so happy to see that her first relationship in her whole life is turning out so well!! I want to say thank you for putting yourself out there and having these discussions! KEEP it up!! ♡ :}

yoo Gabbie's wink at "fruitful" ...lmao - seriously though this was a very productive and needed video for many of the fans who are most probably in the situations mentioned. I think we all appreciate how vulnerable and open you all were with your thoughts and opinions, it's not easy just putting them out there. Great content, can't wait for more family podcasts :)

Great video guys! I feel like kids now are quick to have the amenities of a marriage in a week relationship. With everything that’s promoting sexual immorality music, social media, etc.. Kids trying to deal with other kids emotions when they can’t figure out there own emotions. This is awesome that you guys have this relationship with your kids.

Wish I had the same relationship with my parents. Your kids are very mature.

Everybody deserves to be with somebody no one deserves to be alone

can you PLEASE bring this type of videos back? pleaseeee

Appreciate the openness and nurturing you share between the four of you. It's readily apparent the deep bond of love you have.

I strongly agree with with the arguments they presented especially when Roberto was talking about how you should learn not to step over that fine line thats so true, you have to learn to keep to yourself and be busy with yourself instead of others and also when Gabriella said crushes are more fun than being in the relationship and that's true because their is just way to much commitment evolved. Thanks for the great vid. -Maneau

I am so grateful for this video. I felt like I was the only 16 year old with this mindset. 👏👏

My sister started dating a guy at 15. It was her first relationship. Well.. they are married now and their second child is on the way 😂 My sister is going to be 34 in august by the way 😅

I’m in love with the idea of your podcast. You guys create such a calm environment where you also don’t forget to add some fun while speaking truthfully. I’ve been a viewer for quite a long time watching you evolve. I completely understand and agree with the words you put out. Personally at the age I’m in right now I don’t feel comfortable or ready for a relationship even though it’s so normalised to date at a young age where I’m from. Much respect to all of you. Y’all are the best❤️

there’s also the matter of sexuality which you’ve got to slowly explore as you get older, like do i like males? females? both? neither? and it’s often the case that asexuality is overlooked and belittled or whatever

I’m going through a breakup right now and this is really helpful to me because I can learn from you guys and have you as my “supportive parents” and I can listen to your advices and learn, I will definitely take this into account and it will help me grow as a person, thank you so much for sharing this information, I appreciate it so much.

dude i literally love these type of videos. Everything you guys say is so easy to understand. I always have these type of family talks, but this really is a great different point of view for me, i learned so many new things from a different point of view. I will definitely be having a family night about this tonight.

I love that even though the topic was teen dating it applies to all forms of dating at different ages. I also agree that it depends on the person. not everybody is the same. It was nice to hear your perspectives and thoughts on this topic. so thank you

I’ve never had a boyfriend. I’m a teen and My parents homeschool me and my dad has always said when it comes to boyfriends “explore the world first. Travel, find out who you are” same with my mum, she’s always Said “find your identity. Well your young there’s no point adding another person into the mix whilst your figuring out who you are.” I’m so glad my parents are like you papa and mama bee. Because they’ve done the best in giving me freedom to be me, and opportunity’s. And I see you doing the same with your kids. Awesome video! You guys always make me smile ❤️

Hey Bee Family, I really enjoy your recent podcasts, especially when you have Gabi and Roberto on them. Do you think you can make a podcast about the LGBTQ+ community? As i don’t see many families talking about it, and i would love to hear your opinions on it. Sending Love!

Amaría tanto este podcast en español también!

this is a really great conversation and I have learnt a lot from this tysm bee family I also love to see you guys grow because I've been watching you since 2018 and I love you guys 💕

Wow, I remember watching the funny vines and now they all grown up. And the family is still great and funny. Now having great discussions.

26:21 Mama bee. I have a one year old. I saw your proudness toward your son right here. I’m so aiming to achieve this. Oh my God I can’t even explain. Great job👏🏽

Kids born in 2005 (like me) are all adults now, help I'm feeling old 🥲

I love this video, especially as a teenager myself. Could you guys make more podcasts about 'teenage' topics? I really am looking forward for those topics.

I'm sorry to be out of topic but how does Gabi's bangs stay INTACT the whole time lool

Edit: The video is 100% right. I commented before I watched and I agree with it wholeheartedly. As a teenager, I think it is better to have a relationship with a group of friends, not to just build your social portfolio, but also let you have some of the best moments of your life. I do not know how people will balance a job, school, and be able to just dedicate their time to/rely on 1 person. I love my friends, they are there when I need them and I am there when they need me. Not saying that I am against having closer relationships or to date a specific person during your teens, but I feel like the life skills from having more than one person to appreciate and be there for is much more rewarding. Once you have your life set in motion and you have some years of experience under your belt, you are ready to go try and hone in on the closest people to you.

This is the wholesomeness I need more of in my life

It comes from ur kids being attractive, nice , funny , highly intelligent and much more

I 100% relate with this video and I'm 15 and I always felt left out when it goes with dating and firsts kiss in highschool but not planning on dating in highschool or teens bc just want to focus on myself and give myself free time and i want to wait the best time.

I have SO MANY friends who have boyfriends/girlfriends and personally, I want to wait for the right one to come into my life.

You guys are all so amazing. I wish I could have had parents like this. ❤

“Imagine settling down with someone and you haven’t even finished your math homework yet” LOL she’s right tho,I think I’m going to wait until I graduate before I even consider dating.

I wish I watched this before my first

dating its not what's depending on age, its what your personality feels ... well i am 31yr old guy and i dont feel myself ready for dating

I concur with that remark that Mr. Bee had said. I’m 27 years old now and I was 20 when I discovered their channel through Vine. I have always thought of relationships as a very time consuming thing when I was 18 years old, and especially at a very young age. Social media these days is trying to make you think that being single in your teens isn’t a commonplace way of life to have. I have only been in one relationship in my 27 years of existence.

I love these podcasts thank youu for making them!!

Thank you Bee Family! This really helped me realize that maybe a person that I like might not be worth my time. Thank you for reminding me for focusing on myself!!!

I am 16, and literally everyeverything you just said is the way i also Think About it. You guys awesome💯

I would love it if you guys would talk about social media, like what is your view abt it because In our country, most of my fellow teens are addicted to social media apps and the saddest thing is that they don't think of it as a bad thing! They're bombarded with so much information and they don't have time to discover themselves anymore because their mind is just filled with life of people that they don't even know.. Anyways, I've been looking for some teenagers podcast lately and I can't really find many of it and I'm happy that you guys are doing it like with the family and it's even better!! keep it up!

I am 15, and me and my girlfriend had a similar approach coming to dating. I am her first relationship, and she is my second. As fun as my first one was, and I'm thankful it happened as I learned a lot, I learned my lesson in rushing into relationships. We had been around eachother for a month or so, and the same day we exchanged numbers. 2 months into the relationship she broke up with me, and I realized I need to look at relationships from a standpoint of "can I see myself staying with this person, could I possibly have a future with them," the same view as my girlfriend now. With her, I had spent almost 2 months texting nonstop before we decided to try it, and it is going so much better than my first relationship. I feel so much more comfortable talking to her, me and her have talked about trauma for both of us, I've been getting her chocolate while she's on her period, and we're just here for eachother. It feels healthier

this was an amazing talk. i love how they all had their own perspectives and im glad i came across this video, because i never really understood why some parents were skeptical about teen dating till about now. although i do have some other points of view, this video made me have a more open mind. There is no right or wrong answer to teen dating unless it is dangerous or mentally dangerous!

As a suggestion for a topic maybe something like the beauty standers and how unrealistic they are.

whats your geopolitical opinion on the electricity crisis located in south Africa ?

"I really admire you, like you, but let's continue to be friends and see what happens" - mama bee

bro i love these podcast videos🤞🏽

I never had a relationship in my teens. Now I’m 28 and I have my first boyfriend and we’ve been together 1 year. I’m glad I waited til I matured and developed to a more stable adult stage.

Two words. SELF RESPECT.

You guys are one of the rare ppl that I actually like , I've been watching you for years.... And I can say that I'm thankful to RU-vid for suggesting ur channel to me I absolutely agree with y'all, I myself have been saying that relationships isn't an important thing the way the world show it to us , ever since I was like 7 or sth I've been saying pretty much all what you all just said about how important it is to love and find yourselves before you waist ur precious time on someone random who isn't worth it , I'm 19 now and I'm proud I've never been a relationship Love you guys, and I wish you all the best in life 🫶🏻

God bless your family and your channel 🙏🏼❤. Thank you so much for having these type of talks and for voicing out your opinions. I take into consideration everything that you say. Maybe in your next episode, you can talk about how people with daddy issues can overcome thoughts of finding validation in someone instead of themselves? Love your channel❣️💕

I am still quite young and agree with the important messages! Thank you ❤️:D

This podcast has helped me a lot and will help me more through life

I'm sorry, I heard "sixteen going on seventeen" and immediately heard The Sound of Music in my head. (Inner theater kid is showing.) The rest of it is a fascinating discussion, though!

"Love History" is outta control!!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

Tbh, Gabby and Roberto are so right toward this subject and the fact that Mamma and Papa Bee are there for them throughout all this and helping them is simply magic to see! My parents, my brother and I have had this type of convo but not that deep like you guys just had! I’ve had a boyfriend at like 12 years old until I was maybe 14 or 15 and not that it was bad, but now, at 19, i know that it’s a part of my life experience and it wasn’t necessary. Since then, I’m focusing even more on myself and my mental health before going out with somebody rather than being scared to hurt them because I’m not there mentally. Thank you for that and I truly think you guys will help a lot of young youth with those advices 🫶🏻

obviously it doesn’t always last but it’s important life experience.

OH I JUST REMEMBER WHEN THEY WERE YOUNGER. OH THE MEMORIES 😢

You guys are awesome!

Can you talk about your past life before you started youtube and when you were doing the vines???? @The Bee Family

"Your soul mate is not in your science class" 😂🤣😂🤣

10:15 RIP people with headphones 😭

Firstable Gabriela learns a little bit a british accent, that's incredible.

Thanks for sharing your valuable wisdom and insights 🙏❤️

I'm 22 years old, here's what I think, for starters DO NOT DATE when your in high school because it hardly ever works out or lasts forever, I'm saying that from experience because my only ex in grade 10 6-7 years ago cheated on me, another thing just focus on yourself work on yourself,dating isn't a mandatory requirement its a choice, if you feel like you're ready to date that's good too

Don’t find love, love will find you in the most unexpected ways

Mama Bee dancing around that "physically" matching energies as hard as she can 😅😅😅... I saw the fear of smoochin in her face 🤣😂🤣😂🤣 5:52

I'm only in 8th grade, and one of the girls in my advisory has had 100+ "boyfriends" I told her I didn't think a week of a "relationship". She tried to roast me by saying " bet you haven't even had your first kiss yet" I proceeded to tell her because I can't even love myself, let alone someone else 😅

I'm the same age as Gabbie and I agree with her when she said that you prioritize and you have somebody else in your life when you can't even and prioritize what your goals are and what your career is in the future. And I feel like we all need to find and grow fond of ourselves first, and what we want to do and how we will grow and mature as a person. I kind of realized that the more we evolve, the more we lose respect for the people that enter and our lives. Back in the day, we would see someone that attracted us, and we would admire them from afar, and then built up the courage to talk to them and to sit down with them, and to acknowledge them and get to know them more. But now today we're on a useless app and we swipe right or we get a friend request and say "what do you look like", " oh you're cute, how about we date." and I'm just like " dude! I just met you five seconds ago, wdym?🤨"

That was absolutely fantastic.... Absolutely relatable and full of knowledge

First. Btw love the podcasts they are amazing. good job!

This was very valuable. Thank you

When you guys said the kids age you made me feel old because I have been watching you for the past 4-3 years and now I am 14 and you guys got me trough COVID while watching RU-vid

I 100% agree with the views expressed in this video. I wish I had someone to tell me this when I was in my teens (42 now). It would take a lot of pressure off. I would avoid major metal health issues in my life. Describing how much my slate is messed up is not a topic for a RU-vid comment.

This is what i needed THANKS!

I totally agree with what you guys said and maybe you guys can do how to find your favourite job or what you want to do when you grow up 😁❤

Earlier I thought you were very far from my type of people Just celebrities But , this got too relatable "Sexy" is banished in my home too But yeah how freely you all talk I can't talk to my parents Now here parents are coming out of their comfort zone And talking about these things

You all guys genius, always admirable , a good family example.

You can talk about internet and the toxicity it brought to the generation It is getting out of hand. 😶

I never thought USA had these type of people left I appreciate this thinking And the values your family has I'm from India and most Indian families have the same thinking Also Im not a grown up , just a teen

Interesting perspective. I learned a lot. Great parents and great kids. I love how the parents communicate with the kids, respecting them and their opinions. Amazing and so much love Oh yeah I want to share something. I’m 25 now. When I was around 20, somebody liked me “seriously”. But at that time I was not ready at all for any relationship as I couldn’t even love myself. My thinking was, how could I let someone love what I hate? and I don’t have it in me and I don’t know how to love this person. I could have handled it better but I knew it won’t work out.

I love how real the eh bee family is ❤

I fully agree with you guys on everything in this video and I’m 19 I had a bf at 16 for 2 years and it didn’t last but I have learned on what I want

i love the podcasts keep it up :)