@@oliviarodrigofan5838 The mom is getting her daughter to pay for an all expense vacation for her.... By making it seem like it's not safe for her to go on her own
Oh absolutely human trafficking in Europe especially of American women is very very high. You stay in one hotel and they will stalk you and kidnap you. Those movies are not just made up they are 100% real women get sold all the time.
Human trafficking is pretty bad outside the americas. It still occurs here however in the thousands and the only reason it is less is because we are significantly isolated from countries where it is a MAJOR problem. Hoorah for one big ocean splitting us. But the government reports on from the TIP report and the US department of justice is pretty terrible. Any man who wants to argue that rape culture is not real can look at the justice departments own reports. Transportation of forced s *x activity...97% male perpetrators. S*xual exploitation of children... 92% male perpetrators General slavery and s*x trafficking.. 78% male perpetrators. majority of perpretators are white for transportation of victims and exploitation of children. Majority of perpetrators are black for slavery and s*s trafficking. Of the suspects prosecuted (which is less than the total referred) only half are convicted and less than 1% admitted to state prison according to the executive office for us attorneys. Yo. Thats just the USA. Her mama right. She better bring in mom, dad, primo 1, 2 and 3, a pocket knife and OC (pepper) spray. Have a hourly check in too. Just reading those statistics has me wanting to be a permanent hermit or dragging my friends along and im not even pretty like this girl. The world is scary. Bring your mama with you.
@@ondinalamontana1997 I speak English, Russian and a bit of Spanish, and I’m also studying French, so believe me when I say the “(insert language) battery dies” thing is very relatable
@@victormeyers1860 hahahahaa I absolutely believe you. About 6 months "living the life in English" and I still avoid people during the night because I'm usually so tired that my brain is a "brain salad".
Yeah, I'm bilingual and my friend was talking to me in Spanish and it sounded like Japanese to me for like, five minutes. I swear I could NOT understand that girl. It's like all of my Spanish speaking years just went out the window for a hot minute there. Lol
Ikr lol I speak portuguese, english and I'm trying hard to learn spanish properly (yeah, portuguese and spanish ARE NOT THE SAME, trust me) and sometimes my inner bi/trilingual battery just dies for a second and I don't know what I'm doing lol
@@412pgh2 Mothers usually have voices that sound older than their daughters', but in this situation, her mother surprisingly has a youthful-sounding voice. Considering the abundance of fake content online, I would even go so far as to say that there are more fake and scripted shorts than genuine ones. Therefore, the idea didn't seem too implausible.
This is too relatable. My mom is 75 and when I’d drive down to NC to see my sister, she’d say stop by for breakfast then when I got there she fed me and said just help me get my bag in I’m almost done getting ready 😂 but I have loved having her with me all along. ❤
@@timmholl9238 I have heared that there was a time when a cople wanted to go to the movies alone but its not like the mother did not allowed that couple to go. But rather the mother went with the couple to the movies.
Just because you're 21 doesn't mean nothing will happen to you, especially when the locals find out you're traveling by yourself. Why do people want to make the news so bad nowadays? 🤦🏾♂️
@@inflation1139: I’m pretty sure the Italian locals aren’t going to do anything bad when they find out she’s traveling alone, lots of people travel alone in Europe nowadays it’s 2023 not 1870. And besides, by age 21, you should be able to handle yourself well enough that you can travel among 1st world countries no problem. Bad things could happen anywhere, including whatever country you’re from.
@@maxstromberg7666 If I had a daughter or a son I would hardly let them travel alone. I am passionate about true crime and have heard too many stories of people disappearing, being kidnapped, killed or raped. I'm Italian: trust me, here in Italy, in many places, if they find out you're a foreigner, they have no qualms about cheating or stealing. For the rest it is quite safe to move, perhaps not in certain places in the south.
Mexican parents never stop being like that. They can be 100 years old and you’re 80 and they still be telling you what to do with your life. I’ve seent it
@@leoninavictoria8024 yeh exactly, my very mexican parents have always been like "we love you, we got your back in case you need us, but go ahead and travel the world!!! while we go on a cruise in the Caribbean" lol and here I am in Singapore and them in Morocco 😂
Yup. I'm 48 and my kids know this. Beautiful thing is, my daughter wants to go with me traveling. She has a friend that looks like you, red hair, white complexion, and green eyes, with Mexican parents.
Treat your kid like a baby your whole life and they’ll become a pathetic human who can’t handle life without their parents. You die then what? You just have like a 50 year old child out in the world
First year when i moved here from middle east. My family and i wore hoodies and jackets in the summer...😅 12 years later and -5 is tshirt weather😂😂😂 (in C ofc)
I've lived in Canada all my life, and I go outside during -30 weather without jacket. And that was in central BC. I live in southern BC now and it doesn't get very cold here at all
@@oraetlabora1922 This type of behavior come from way back in the days when Hispanic families lived under the same roof or just the same super small town their whole lives. There was a hierarchy in which the grandma/mom of the family (depending how old you are) would be at the top in charge of making sure the family survived. Encanto, the Disney film, is a perfect example of how it went. This is obviously not how modern life works in most places anymore, especially the US however some people grew up knowing nothing else and still have the same tradition of keeping the family together even though their kids might already be adults. And in cases like the video the mom might even try to make rules for you even if you technically moved out.
- Te vas helar! + A qué? - TE VAS A HELAR! + What's that? - hace mucho frío Mija 😅 Hehe ese español coloquial "hace mucho frío" en vez de "se siente bastante frío ~" 😅 make my day
Idk why she doesn't want her to go to Canada alone. It's basically USA 2.0 but safer lol. The most dangerous thing that can happen is being attacked by a racoon.
As a Mexican, I can confirm that this is accurate. Even my 50 year old mom can’t go anywhere without her mom’s permission or letting her know that she’ll be fine 😂
As a Dominican can confirm this is real, my mom recently needed to go with her mom(my grandma) back to Dominican Republic because her mom wouldn’t let her go alone. My mom is almost 50.
@@data1.078 At this point, it’s kinda not. Like yeah, I do appreciate how much OP’s grandma cares about OP’s mom. But at some point, baby bird has to leave the nest and be responsible for themself.
@@toxicmasculinity7870 You forget one thing here. We are not birds. We are a sentient, highly intelligent, and highly social species to which having offspring and raising have added purposes besides instinct for reproducing. We love having children and we deeply love them throughout our entire lives. Out of house means independence but not removed from care. Overprotection to the point of crippling once personal functioning is of course unpleasant. But just text to let know everything is ok after travel I would not consider overprotection. Edit: Oh sorry over read the permission part. Yeah that kinda sucks.
I think that was Mom's way of saying she wants a vacation as well, lol. I would totally have took my mom. She was my best friend. I miss her every day.
I'm wondering: isn't travelling to Italy for a mexican like travelling to Belarus for a russian? I mean, it would barely feel like a new place, everyone speaks similar language, looks roughly the same, eats similar food, etc. Or is the difference closer to between Russia and, idk, Serbia?
Funny that for brazilians, they can understand well other latin languages, like italian, the Spanish, portuguese from Portugal. They are so close, the words, the sound. It's like English to an american if he would go to England.
The weekend before Thanksgiving, I went on my first vacation in several years. Also, it was the first vacation I went by myself & I totally enjoyed the time. That overnight road trip gave me inspiration to do my next vacation alone because it was perfect by the fact I had got the freedom to do it my way from the route I had set up to how long I spent at the landmark, etc. Not to mention...I had my first filet mignon in quite some time during the trip, which was a great added bonus.
Girl. I am 38 and currently on a trip 3 hours from home with my 12 year old daughter. I told my Filipino mom and she’s like text me when you get there, when you wake up, when you get back to your room after going to the beach. She actually wanted to come so that she could protect me. All 4’ 11” of her.
@@Ibrahimovic4life just because one person died doesn't mean you have to be so protective as to not let your son/daughter who is an adult travel without you.
It‘s not healthy to be that toxic as a parent. For me it smells like the mother was not allowed so the daughter isn’t allowed either to prevent the child from developing independently. That‘s wrong in so many ways.
@@Jacky-gp9vw for me, as a south american, the first thought that popped in my mind was "if you go alone, who knows if you're going to get kidnapped or even murdered". I wouldn't say it's a toxic trait like you said (someone who can't go doesn't want others to experience what they can't) but more so a cultural thing. We're taught from a young age to be aware of potential crimes and stay safe, so it makes sense for her mother to be overprotective and feel more relieved if she can tag along... Just my thoughts, I could be wrong tho
Moms...no matter how old you are they're constantly worried ❤ I'm 26, living abroad and mom calls me every morning to remind me to have breakfast and also at night to make sure i'm back home and i'm ok 🥹
While I can understand the night call to make sure you're safe or calling in the morning to talk, reminding you to take breakfast seems a bit much. At least I would not appreciate it past a point. Like, mom I have taken my breakfast every morning, if I ever don't do that then it's with good reason. Boundaries need to exist.
No es toxisidad y personas llegan a quitarse la vida por El Nivel de ansiedas y depression que causa El que otro humano TE trate como una extension de Ellos sin autonomic propia!!!
