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Ten Words of Counsel for Single People 

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I had a lesson for my Youth Group on sexual purity and I heard this sermon by John Piper, I wanted to feature it in my lesson, so I threw this video together with the help of Windows Movie Maker.
The video contains the closing thoughts of John Pipers Sermons titled "Sex and the Single Person".
February 8, 1981 | by John Piper | Topic: Sexual Purity
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The Ten Words of Counsel Regarding Sexual Purity for Single People:
First, do not seek regular sexual gratification through masturbation.
Second, do not seek sexual satisfaction through touching or being touched by another person, even if you stop short of sexual intercourse.
Third, avoid unnecessary sexual stimulation.
Fourth, when the stimulation comes and the desire starts to rise, perform a very conscious act of transfer onto Christ.
Fifth, pray that God would give you, in ever-increasing strength, a longing to know and love and obey him above all else.
Sixth, bathe your mind in God's Word.
Seventh, keep yourself busy, and when it is time for leisure, choose things that are pure, lovely, gracious, excellent, worthy of praise (Philippians 4:8).
Eighth, don't spend too much time alone.
Ninth, strive to think of all people, especially people of the opposite sex, in relation to eternity.
Finally, resolve to seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and he will add to you everything you need sexually.

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@heavenlyfire2323
@heavenlyfire2323 7 лет назад
staying pure is really tough not only physically but in mind but I know God is with me
@lilianmganyizi6286
@lilianmganyizi6286 6 лет назад
Heavenly fire vry hard in every way. God help us all
@thebaxman4459
@thebaxman4459 5 лет назад
That was completely uncalled for.
@mikelandryjr7310
@mikelandryjr7310 5 лет назад
If you're born again he's with you
@McAllen-dv8dd
@McAllen-dv8dd 5 лет назад
Heavenly fire you have to be WILLING to go Stop 🛑! Find scriptures that talks about sexual sin and your body and confess them over your life alone everyday and stop letting the wrong people in your life, stop saying certain things, looking and listening things that have that content etc isn’t helping also... you will have to be willing to make some changes that will please God and don’t continue to say it’s hard or it’s a struggle because what we continue to say will eventually keep us in the same place . May God continue to bless you and make some changes with THe WORD OF GOD DAILY!! Don’t give up or keep giving in !
@natalyaakselaleksander4502
@natalyaakselaleksander4502 5 лет назад
I totally agree with you. I'm trying to and it's been a roller coaster
@memorymphahlele7032
@memorymphahlele7032 4 года назад
2020 anyone??? Let’s start a year on a clean slate..singles raise your hands please 👋🙏
@saraanya5961
@saraanya5961 4 года назад
👏
@jaykuual7501
@jaykuual7501 4 года назад
Hey boo
@foxxietrini
@foxxietrini 4 года назад
God is strength. Going on 8 years. 🙏🏾
@rachelonyemachi5647
@rachelonyemachi5647 4 года назад
We right here
@nick624179
@nick624179 4 года назад
God is great! I can do all things with Christ who strengthens me.
@vincentthomasdeveyra5537
@vincentthomasdeveyra5537 5 лет назад
Just when I am being tempted with sexual immorality, I see this video. Thank you Lord for your divine providence.
@je39981
@je39981 5 лет назад
Same here !
@user-mi5xq8zj7u
@user-mi5xq8zj7u 5 лет назад
There's value in being single
@tefy2744
@tefy2744 5 лет назад
Me right now too! He is amazing 💎
@lesbean538
@lesbean538 4 года назад
Same! Haha
@manichairdo6346
@manichairdo6346 4 года назад
Satan doesn't care who you sin with and against as long as you do.
@THEMARREROS2019
@THEMARREROS2019 5 лет назад
Prayer, reading the Bible, listening to great sermons online, listen to hymns, repeat. If you're alone, do it more.
@pentilel
@pentilel 5 лет назад
Can I like this a million times?!
@patriciaking7892
@patriciaking7892 5 лет назад
Jane abrias, good info. Thanks for sharing! Peace.
@windstorm1000
@windstorm1000 5 лет назад
Yes! Thank you! Praise God!
@itsmidtrib1569
@itsmidtrib1569 5 лет назад
Jane's Channel amen sister!!
@lilianwanjiku5782
@lilianwanjiku5782 5 лет назад
My life in a nutshell... Never been better
@aprilmarie4395
@aprilmarie4395 7 лет назад
Why don't Churches talk about this more? I have been a Christian since I was a child, but I have never heard this before. Young people need to hear these things before this becomes a problem for them.
@OlviMasta77
@OlviMasta77 7 лет назад
April Marie Amen! Totally!
@aprilmarie4395
@aprilmarie4395 7 лет назад
härjaren Langstrumpf = )
@isaiahfelder445
@isaiahfelder445 7 лет назад
I have never heard this before I have been Pentecostal all of my life
@aprilmarie4395
@aprilmarie4395 7 лет назад
Isaiah Felder I know the feeling. It's important stuff that Churches seem to be too embarrassed to talk about. If they would talk about it more, then maybe there wouldn't be so much adultery which is often followed by abortion.
@aprilmarie4395
@aprilmarie4395 7 лет назад
I know the feeling. This is important stuff that too many churches seem too embarrassed to talk about. If they would talk about it more then maybe there would be less adultery which would result in less abortion as well.
@TitsandFish84
@TitsandFish84 7 лет назад
Walk by the spirit and you will not give into lusts of the flesh - Galatians 5:16
@jadenframpton2000
@jadenframpton2000 6 лет назад
Lorie Goetz I'll pray that your eyes be opened and that you understand that it's sin.
@hoc1992
@hoc1992 6 лет назад
Lorie Goetz that means adultery and fornication AND masturbation. Any and all sin we’re not to walk in. Including masturbation. Because it’s a form of lust. I’m not saying I’m perfect. I’m just saying that Galatians scriptures covers it ALL. I thank God for that scripture
@hoc1992
@hoc1992 6 лет назад
Lorie Goetz I do apologize. I meant no disrespect in replying to you
@windstorm1000
@windstorm1000 5 лет назад
@@hoc1992wise comments
@MM-np4md
@MM-np4md 5 лет назад
Lorie Goetz . Just to point this out, one does not masturbate from out of the blue. It's not spontaneous, it fuels and is fuel by lust, does it not /is it not?
@speedwaynord240
@speedwaynord240 6 лет назад
The other topic which goes usually with sexual temptation is porn addiction. But i'm realizing that porn addiction is nothing compared to sexual temptation. When you succeed to resist against the screen, you have to resist against your own thoughts. Don't fall into the trap thinking that using only what is inside of your mind is not wrong. God bless everyone who is in the same fight. For each win, we gain not only treasures in heaven, but we also get closer to holiness. Keep pursuing the good fight!
@youcanbefree9698
@youcanbefree9698 5 лет назад
So true I have overcome porn now I’m learning the process of a transform mind
@merlinsvdd
@merlinsvdd 4 года назад
I know of this friend who told me, he used to do porn. Dont know whether true or not. He fooled me real good and did ask me after 2nd hang out whether i masturbated, stupid fella, catholic somemore. Fuyoh.
@predator0010
@predator0010 4 года назад
Amen. It is "easier" to escape something outside of us that we can "remove" or put away, but it is much harder escape your own thoughts and desires they bring.Jesus help us!
@joekamilla7627
@joekamilla7627 4 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-iXpxOZ3JQiM.html
@calvinvinyoh9352
@calvinvinyoh9352 4 года назад
God help us from the sexual desire of the flesh amen
@williamdurham8827
@williamdurham8827 4 года назад
I am blessed to be single and retired. I can do anything I want. I have an audio Bible and play it in my house 24/7. I never know when God will reveal something to me. I keep learning more and more all the time. I have been doing it for a few years now and I know my Bible better than people who have PHDs. I would suggest it to anyone who loves the Word of God like I do.
@prudenciamungaba3472
@prudenciamungaba3472 4 года назад
God way
@patrickwills7303
@patrickwills7303 4 года назад
Pls how can i get an Audio bible??
@DerekMatthewCoverSongs
@DerekMatthewCoverSongs 4 года назад
Hahaha you sound like you think you are better than everyone . Listening to bible 24/7 is pathetic
@eyoelsharew97
@eyoelsharew97 4 года назад
@@patrickwills7303 Check out the Daily bible on Spotify
@oluwarachel
@oluwarachel 4 года назад
how old are you currently?
@Miranda9Bella
@Miranda9Bella 7 лет назад
What is sooo sad, is that this was "1981" when he said the church was doing a bad job of teaching/talking about sex, AND in "2017 it is STILL NO BETTER! It takes a truly bold, compassionate, and free person to dive head first into real life topics..Father, send forth more anointed, and confident teachers to address the topics everyone else is afraid of🙏
@ucheonwuzulike9128
@ucheonwuzulike9128 7 лет назад
Miranda Brown y
@jaredhumpherys8335
@jaredhumpherys8335 6 лет назад
The only connection to 1981 I see is the rampant thought policing that's going on here. I mean, geez. You're damned just for thinking lustful thoughts, and God forbid you rub one out every now and then.
@mikelandryjr7310
@mikelandryjr7310 5 лет назад
Amen
@Mattthecricketbat1
@Mattthecricketbat1 5 лет назад
That's because sexuality is built into our DNA. It's biological survival instincts. It existed far before 1981 and will continue far beyond 2019, if we at all value the preservation of our species. What's really difficult is in today's economic climate people are not getting married until later which means having to "stay pure" becomes a much more difficult task. Luckily having these sorts of things in our lives doesn't separate us from God or make us less "pure", but I do agree that it is more beneficial to avoid them if you can and especially once you've found someone you want to spend the rest of your life with.
@hon3yd3w
@hon3yd3w 5 лет назад
...Because, church is NOT the answer!
@LAPAXDEI
@LAPAXDEI 9 лет назад
Thank you for this video. Sexual sin has separated me from the one I love, now I am trying to pick up the pieces and in faith I pray that God may one day restore us.
@princejraxson469
@princejraxson469 7 лет назад
Mahatma Largaespada ...God is a God of restoration.
@Clemenza10101
@Clemenza10101 7 лет назад
It's how you were born. Don't beat yourself up. This is how Christianity, a faith created 298,000 years into human existence by human mammals, controls you. It tells you you're born sick, and orders you to be will. It's nonsense.
@JesusChristinside
@JesusChristinside 7 лет назад
Brother, God is your helper. He will lead you and guide you in to the complete truth. Remain encouraged. Your salvation comes in Jesus name. Amen
@DreeShLynn
@DreeShLynn 7 лет назад
Emily Ernst Where did you learn that information? There is not a shred of historical evidence to support what you said. Turn to Christ and believe His words. To follow Christ is liberty and freedom---not the bondage you purport.
@milosvelickovic7056
@milosvelickovic7056 7 лет назад
Emily Ernst finally someone to explain everything, well done!
@AhmedLetrondoCherMed
@AhmedLetrondoCherMed 6 лет назад
I am having an urge at the moment and I am looking for something for me to escape from this temptation. I need Jesus Christ in every detail of my life.
@patriciaking7892
@patriciaking7892 5 лет назад
Me too!
@imafemale4365
@imafemale4365 5 лет назад
Preach. It's soooo difficult
@josephgracioustahinduka9672
@josephgracioustahinduka9672 5 лет назад
Call upon the name of the Lord, and you'll be saved!
@Christina_320
@Christina_320 5 лет назад
The struggle is real.
@hopemicheal7676
@hopemicheal7676 5 лет назад
Mr. Ahmed Guillermo-Letrondo same as I but I've resolved that it is a battle I must win because of what Jesus had done on the cross of calvary. I'm learning to present myself on the throne of grace to obtain mercy and find grace in times like this.
@lovelyDragon100
@lovelyDragon100 5 лет назад
There was a woman that once has told me and my friends just one thing that has really helped me to understand the importance of guarding your sexuality when being single and what God does think about sex in general. She said something like: Of everything that is vulnerable and capable to get broken easily God is laying a protection around it to keep it safe. And sex is one of the most vulnerable things possible inbetween the interaction of human beings. Just look at all the hurt people have to suffer because of sexual abuse, there is nothing comparable to it on this earth! Therefore, because its very important to him and because he wants it to be protected, God laid marriage to surround all of sexual behavior as a place where it should not be harmed, so that all of its benefits could be lived in love and godly peace.
@shawnthomas3152
@shawnthomas3152 5 лет назад
You can do it whatever you do realize that when you indulge in sex with someone you are causing a soulties where your soul are knitted together and like the preacher said it can caused you and this other person to go to hell know its hard been there but God can see through it when I'm tempted conviction comes over me to run. Will pray for you that God will keep your and send you a wife who can help you over come temptation know that you can beat this Be bless
@Ivann1005
@Ivann1005 4 года назад
@@shawnthomas3152 Once saved, Always saved....
@Purohueso555
@Purohueso555 4 года назад
Hes not doing shit.
@Purohueso555
@Purohueso555 4 года назад
Say whatever. That he is sad o anything but hes not putting "protection" hes does not do shit.
@Elijah8890
@Elijah8890 Год назад
@@Ivann1005 ..is a lie straight outta HELL
@ntsakobaloyi3544
@ntsakobaloyi3544 5 лет назад
As a young man in high school this is very important. Thank you.
@ronnellesharpley
@ronnellesharpley 5 лет назад
Really wish I was taught this as a child. I will teach this to my children
@Reyzmusic
@Reyzmusic 5 лет назад
Ronnelle Sharpley I feel the same way about everything you said 💯💯
@franciswaititu5317
@franciswaititu5317 5 лет назад
Resist the devil 😈 and he will flee from you
@DerekMatthewCoverSongs
@DerekMatthewCoverSongs 4 года назад
Hahaha no he won’t
@johnathanwoods1223
@johnathanwoods1223 4 года назад
No, it just goes to the other corner in the room( in your mind) until the animal soul takes over.
@yiwanye1221
@yiwanye1221 4 года назад
only stand firm in Jesus Christ through faith and actions (prayers and fellowship) may we conquer sins on earth
@abrahambashaija5405
@abrahambashaija5405 3 года назад
This verse does it for me too ✊
@breachrepairer
@breachrepairer 3 года назад
Hey bro., that does not apply to lust, which is not the devil but his devise. i.e. 2Ti_2:22 Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart. 1Co_6:18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. IT DOESNOT TELL US TO RESIST BUT RUN AWAY. Psa 119:9 BETH. Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? by taking heed thereto according to thy word. Psa 119:10 With my whole heart have I sought thee: O let me not wander from thy commandments. Psa 119:11 Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee.
@child_of_weakness7600
@child_of_weakness7600 4 года назад
The church always acts like women don’t deal with this but a lot of us do. Some of us struggle with porn too, and even lust and masturbation and homosexuality, but it’s as if the church thinks it’s only men, every one of us breaks all Ten Commandments at some point, we can’t act like we’re innocent.
@charx2348
@charx2348 3 года назад
homosexuality isnt bad. it's love. as long as we keep faith and love god, we are with him and His Word. He wants us to be true to ourselves and not judge others. have a nice day!! x
@child_of_weakness7600
@child_of_weakness7600 3 года назад
char x if we are with Him and His Word, we will listen to his commandments, and in Leviticus 20:13 and 18:22-24 as well as Romans 1:26-27
@kimberlyhenry8597
@kimberlyhenry8597 3 года назад
@@charx2348 it's perverted love my dear nothing fruitful comes from it..I pray God reveals to you the truth about his love and who he has created you to be in Christ : )
@charx2348
@charx2348 3 года назад
@@kimberlyhenry8597 lmao i'm gay, i know what is right for me and my God, and i love Him with all faith. i am being true to myself and i don't wanna push my beliefs onto you, so please kindly don't push yours on me because we are all entitled to our opinions.. and what i've said is my and my God's personal truth - thanks :)
@THEMAX00000
@THEMAX00000 3 года назад
THANK YOU! I’m so sick and tired of pastors acting like sexual immoralities is a male disease and that women are all victims. I would encourage everybody to open the eyes and hearts of church leaders to the truth!
@Live-Life-Freely
@Live-Life-Freely 7 лет назад
I'm a very recent convert to Christianity, as of June 2017. And I've found the following to help me enormously because I'm single and I just stopped fornicating and masturbating. When ever feel the urge, I pray both vocally and mentally "Jesus I can't do this on my own, please remove these thoughts and urges that are not for you or from you". This has helped me 100% of the time. And of course averting my eyes when I see a woman that's dressed or being highly sexual. God bless you all...
@Amy-wh9dz
@Amy-wh9dz 5 лет назад
Very encouraging!
@soitgoes290
@soitgoes290 4 года назад
I got saved just about a month before you. Nofap is the best way to kill lust in the long run I've found
@prudenciamungaba3472
@prudenciamungaba3472 4 года назад
I praise much lord almighty for that cos i that time i was asking myself if i Can try masturbate because i'm alone single till 32 but this video remind me alots
@psifire15
@psifire15 8 лет назад
thank you so much for sharing this video!!...iam a single, new christian and i REALLY needed this!!
@oopcident
@oopcident 8 лет назад
awesome! 😆
@greenwitchsapprentice4582
@greenwitchsapprentice4582 7 лет назад
oopcident Same,what Brian EVANEARE said I've been struggling too and am so thankful that god dent me this video through you all I can say is thank you god bless you
@bradcrampton8920
@bradcrampton8920 7 лет назад
Hopefully for your sake you won't be a christian long. If yer horny, yer gonna screw.
@psifire15
@psifire15 7 лет назад
ill be a Christian for the rest of my life, having the HOLY SPIRIT living in you, and staying in GOD'S word, and prayer, teaches self-control
@bradcrampton8920
@bradcrampton8920 7 лет назад
+Brian: You would not be the first person to make such a statement and realize at a later date that a magnificent hoax and been played on them. My only hope for you is that the damage won't be to great.
@iam_etukz
@iam_etukz 4 года назад
Can't believe this was said in 1981 and it's very relatable in 2019. Glory be to God.
@AS-oj3cw
@AS-oj3cw 5 лет назад
I had to go for a walk and hide in bathroom crying over this topic. This video was extremely helpful.
@dlppl3407
@dlppl3407 5 лет назад
I'm crying too
@learnenglishwithme4397
@learnenglishwithme4397 4 года назад
Ashley Smith hello where are you from
@Manofvalue525
@Manofvalue525 4 года назад
Do women have a problem about sex just like man ?
@intellagent7622
@intellagent7622 4 года назад
detik update yes
@intellagent7622
@intellagent7622 4 года назад
Ashley Smith Godly sorrow brings life and leads to repentance, worldly sorrow brings death. If you are crying and have Godly sorrow, it’s a good thing and can lead to change
@ststrength5044
@ststrength5044 9 лет назад
I wished I received this counsel 20+ yrs ago. Unfortunately I speak from experience and the devastation of sex outside of marriage (promiscuity) in my life that created utter havoc. The damage it did when I was single and when I was married (which led to divorce) was unbelievable. I would be more candid but this is not the place to be as such. All I can say is that when I get the opportunity to speak with young adults about this, I testify to them my experiences and how important it is to stay away from this lifestyle. I am now 41 celibate and loving it, my relationship with christ has never been better.
@joolspools777
@joolspools777 4 года назад
I led the same lifestyle although I have never married. I have been celibate nearly 5 yrs. I'm 58 and still attractive. Have never found anyone I want to marry, unfortunately and there aren't many available men of God these days..I know Im single cos of my faith and I always wanted to be happily married. At times it has caused me deep, prevailing sadness but I have overcome alot by God's grace!
@Elijah8890
@Elijah8890 Год назад
still celibate? still a nice relationship with christ?
@Ashleethebeloved
@Ashleethebeloved 7 лет назад
Great video! Purity in all things is what God requires of us. And only through His power can we be victorious! Please pray for me as I pray for you all.
@OlviMasta77
@OlviMasta77 7 лет назад
Ashlee Skinner Amen!
@salzwell25
@salzwell25 7 лет назад
Ashlee Skinner .. Amen.
@CodyCole80
@CodyCole80 7 лет назад
Ashlee Skinner ... YES! I've fallen... again. 😔 But I've prayed for forgiveness, and I'm determined to get back into my purity and stay there. I'm rebuking every thing in this video from my life. Please touch and agree with me. 🙏🏾
@orrinlieuwen
@orrinlieuwen 7 лет назад
Codycole80 He who was tempted in all things is cheering you on in your battle against sin! Keep looking to him!
@jaredhumpherys8335
@jaredhumpherys8335 7 лет назад
I would say that only by the power of your own will can you be victorious. When you turn to God, you are really turning to yourself, asking yourself to be stronger, to be better, to overcome whatever trial or tribulation is before. That being said, sex is hardly a trial. The idea of sex has been wildly distorted, and religion is to blame. There is a natural incentive for sex, procreation and recreation. Babies, and pleasure. Religions make the mistake of demonizing pleasure, and in so doing they create a taboo surrounding sex and masturbation. Outside of religion there is absolutely nothing wrong wit either. Look outside religion for a reason why either is wrong, and you'll find hardly a thing. In religion it's wrong because it's not what God wants, you're tainting your purity, you're drifting from gods light to carnal temptation. It's naive to think that masturbating and having premarital sex leads to a life of sexual deviancy. Responsible and mutually consenting sex doesn't have any inherently negative consequences outside of religion, and only within religion is it wrong and something to be ashamed of. There should be no shame for committing one of the most natural acts we can, and the idea that love and sex are mutually exclusive is also naive. Love does not need sex anymore than sex needs love. And marriage isn't the only way people can love and commit to each other. Marriage is a symbolic union, and that's it. It's a no more valid love than any unmarried love. The sex taboo is ridiculous to me because there's absolutely no valid reason why it should be taboo or wrong or shameful.
@rachelkharigus2553
@rachelkharigus2553 6 лет назад
I'm dating to get married This is so powerful so helpful.
@coryburns1905
@coryburns1905 5 лет назад
I hope success for you and all those searching for a true partner in marriage that focuses on Jesus and the narrow gate
@karitak2685
@karitak2685 5 лет назад
Yep, so helpful💜
@shaucekid8377
@shaucekid8377 4 года назад
Rachel Kharigus god bless you!❤️
@2ndPigeon
@2ndPigeon 4 года назад
I'm just dating. It's way more flexible.
@rahelmogez8757
@rahelmogez8757 4 года назад
Pray for me please,having hard time to find the right partner
@rickrollingryanlol8364
@rickrollingryanlol8364 4 года назад
Wow. This just changed my life. I can’t thank the Lord for leading me here enough! 🕊
@bryantotten7315
@bryantotten7315 7 лет назад
wish I knew this years ago!This does work and if you are wise you will listen
@bradcrampton8920
@bradcrampton8920 7 лет назад
If yer wise ye would not listen to this bs.
@MrMarkovka11
@MrMarkovka11 7 лет назад
Brad Crampton everything he said was true.
@bradcrampton8920
@bradcrampton8920 7 лет назад
+Mr: Please tell me one thing he said that was true and why it is true.
@MrMarkovka11
@MrMarkovka11 7 лет назад
Brad Crampton well I already said everything he said was true. Actually, why don't you tell me one thing you feel isn't true and explain why
@mspixiedust100
@mspixiedust100 7 лет назад
I wish I knew it years ago too, should share it
@libertyunderlaw
@libertyunderlaw 7 лет назад
One thing I used to do since I don't drive is that when I saw a pornographic billboard I stopped and prayed for the individual. This would (1) remind me that this is a human being created in God's image for God's glory and with His mark in dignity and worth on her. Even if she "offers" herself in that way, she is still a human endowed by her Creator with human dignity. One clarifier: I never sought out the billboards to pray for the individuals; only when I happened to see them. I didn't "make it my ministry." I stopped when I found myself praying for computer generated images.
@Lily.valkyrie
@Lily.valkyrie 6 лет назад
libertyunderlaw That is an excellent way to counter act the struggle, and this culture. Thank you
@tatendaastridchinyenye2309
@tatendaastridchinyenye2309 5 лет назад
1st Corinthians 6:15 your body is the temple of God and the spirit of God lives inside you
@Charel_akc
@Charel_akc 5 лет назад
2019???
@clapwithonehand9304
@clapwithonehand9304 5 лет назад
here
@philhoward490
@philhoward490 5 лет назад
May 19.
@Reyzmusic
@Reyzmusic 5 лет назад
CHAREL's story yup! Still here 👌
@youcanbefree9698
@youcanbefree9698 5 лет назад
Yep
@JP-cx7jx
@JP-cx7jx 5 лет назад
hello
@superchicken1471
@superchicken1471 4 года назад
8) Don’t spend too much time alone. I think it's more about not being in motion than being alone.
@Lola-anointed
@Lola-anointed 4 года назад
This is powerful and I totally agree. I'm 26 years and still sealed ( never slept with a man). I'm not always at church but very spiritual and Im strict on which information I expose myself to. I told myself that I have higher power - God in my life and I will respect Him. I know it's difficult to refrain from temptation with all exposure that is happening right now. What keeps me going: I priorise on what means a lot to me, which is my family. I'm not where I want to be in terms of success BUT I'm not willing to take short cuts. I don't daydream about the ideal man that I want. Because that will pressurise me to get someone and being impatient about it. I just focus on my family and God. That's it. And I don't confine to what people think is best for me. I get questioned almost everyday that why don't I have a boyfriend. I don't care, life goes on.
@yestothetruth
@yestothetruth 3 года назад
Matthew 6:33 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. God gives you what He knows you need at the right time. No need to chase anything. ☺
@muthangyam
@muthangyam 4 года назад
I overcame lust while Single and still am, something I struggled with 4+ years, realised that demons were inhabiting my body and actually not my spirit. That really helped me win the battle. I give God glory
@Rocky-hg2yp
@Rocky-hg2yp 5 лет назад
I would also add fasting to that list. It has helped me greatly to that end. It strengthens you spiritually and it helps physically by temporarily lowering libido.
@mr_jchristian
@mr_jchristian 5 лет назад
Yeah that's definitely true. Truly fasting and praying helps us learn self control and a sound mind.
@je39981
@je39981 5 лет назад
What type of fasting ?
@Rocky-hg2yp
@Rocky-hg2yp 5 лет назад
@@je39981 Fasting from food
@je39981
@je39981 5 лет назад
@@Rocky-hg2yp Ohh
@dlppl3407
@dlppl3407 5 лет назад
Oh I'm going to do this. I can't control it. God help me
@honeymaeelim9240
@honeymaeelim9240 7 лет назад
It's hard yet God will give me the strength that i needed.
@anastasiaogomaka3717
@anastasiaogomaka3717 5 лет назад
Amen
@destinymorgan2146
@destinymorgan2146 4 года назад
Amen
@shaucekid8377
@shaucekid8377 4 года назад
God bless you!❤️
@krixttysimon2705
@krixttysimon2705 4 года назад
Amen me too
@deborahekechukwu9419
@deborahekechukwu9419 9 лет назад
Wise words indeed! May God bless John Piper! It isn't easy dealing with sexual pressure in our society today. Everywhere you look there is a constant reminder of how perverse and depraved the times we are living in is. Being a single Christian lady at the moment I know what I face daily but what I have come to know by walking with Jesus is that His Grace is more than enough for us. We need to daily crucify our flesh, take cup our crosses and follow Him. He will never fail or forsake us. I agree with these points. They are powerful ones. I wish we would hear more of this at single seminars and youth programmes. Even married couples can gain from this.
@entjtype1250
@entjtype1250 8 лет назад
+Jerry Reiter nope he is a calvanist
@danietareke9307
@danietareke9307 7 лет назад
its true im agree within ur comment.
@Clemenza10101
@Clemenza10101 7 лет назад
try again on that spelling
@YouKnowMeDuh
@YouKnowMeDuh 6 лет назад
Deborah Ekechukwu It's hard dealing with the sexual pressure, I agree. It's *very* irritating to be approached by a guy who has his mind on only sex or even wants to go right into a relationship with you when you've only talked for 5 seconds and you hardly know each other's name. Nonetheless I either politely turn them down or get brutally honest 😏 I have an affinity for brutality HAHAHA 😂
@josephineowino9017
@josephineowino9017 4 года назад
🙏🙏🙏🙏
@onamiilove777
@onamiilove777 4 года назад
I've been celibate 4 3 years and I'm so grateful. I can focus on my walk with the Lord and trust that if I walk in the spirit I will not gratify the flesh.🙏🏼and it works.
@wilsoncephas2128
@wilsoncephas2128 4 года назад
I am proud of you
@doreenardourel924
@doreenardourel924 5 лет назад
Being a single Christian woman, I am helped by this video.
@Traveller658
@Traveller658 4 года назад
Where are you?
@meseretgobu407
@meseretgobu407 4 года назад
sibomana abel Does that really matter where she is? Wierdo
@Traveller658
@Traveller658 4 года назад
@@meseretgobu407 ,of course it matters... She is single and how l may want to date her!?
@meseretgobu407
@meseretgobu407 4 года назад
sibomana abel oh ok sorry if I offended you do what you do
@Traveller658
@Traveller658 4 года назад
@@meseretgobu407 ,oh no problem my dear...l'm ok ...nothing you offended me in...l think both of us are jusk kidding😃🤓Be happy!!!
@pdavis647
@pdavis647 7 лет назад
Pastors don't preach about this...this is certainly an eye-opener.
@paulmayta6792
@paulmayta6792 8 лет назад
This is relevant to Single Christians.
@777Eliyahu
@777Eliyahu 5 лет назад
I'm glad you can read the title of the clip
@W-meme
@W-meme 4 года назад
Relevant to all single humans 60% of humans on planet Earth.
@oaklandsoldier8520
@oaklandsoldier8520 4 года назад
What about being an Incel?
@W-meme
@W-meme 4 года назад
@@oaklandsoldier8520 plz just stop with this incel stuff.
@oaklandsoldier8520
@oaklandsoldier8520 4 года назад
@@W-meme no. Not gonna stop buddy.
@liliankhasoa9784
@liliankhasoa9784 6 лет назад
Who else is watching this in 2018✋ Jesus all the way
@waynekapukare6669
@waynekapukare6669 5 лет назад
Me all the way from Namibia,Africa
@mirandathomas6429
@mirandathomas6429 5 лет назад
Georgia girl
@joybronson9774
@joybronson9774 5 лет назад
Texas
@nathanaelmugenza6136
@nathanaelmugenza6136 5 лет назад
2019🙌🙌
@seanwheat4078
@seanwheat4078 5 лет назад
2019
@oneoutoftheninety-nine.3314
@oneoutoftheninety-nine.3314 4 года назад
I have struggled all my life with this. I heard this from my pentecostal pastor but I didnt try hard enough to quit. I prayed for all uncleanliness things to be rid from me and for forgiveness of pornagraphy and masturbation and ect.. Its not much but these last few days have been really good. Praying and building your rlationship with God is important. Plus I am maturing spiritualy. Every day is a battle for everyone. But with God we can do all things. Plus listen to that good voice with in you. God bless everyone.
@yestothetruth
@yestothetruth 4 года назад
I hope you are doing well in your walk with God. Stay focused on Him. I want to encourage you with the material shared in this post and that will help you have victory over all things in the world that are against God, and be an overcomer in the end (Revelation 2:7): yestothetruth.blogspot.com/2019/08/freedom-from-sin.html God be with you!
@daniellagarcia8605
@daniellagarcia8605 3 года назад
Same here im glad I saw this video.
@aminor_vessel
@aminor_vessel 4 месяца назад
It truly is the Holy Spirit who gives you the life and strength in the moment to overcome temptation. A prayer He gave me years ago in the midst of temptation was, “I cannot handle this, but, LORD, You can.” To this day, I experience His power to overcome when I pray that, truly trusting His power over what easily besets me instead of my own. ❤
@texaslyoness8537
@texaslyoness8537 Год назад
Sweetest thing ever…”God made us in such a way that if we try to turn that moment of touching into a spiritual, emotional, personal moment of union, our hearts cry for permanence, for promises of faithfulness. Our hearts say in that moment, you may touch me because you promised to never leave me or forsake me. You may have me because you are me. We are so made that we cry out for permanence when giving away our most precious gifts and you have all sensed that and therefore that kind of touching belongs in marriage.” John Piper💍
@ludmilahayati3008
@ludmilahayati3008 5 лет назад
Amen, I can't stop listening to this words. I'm glad I came across this video
@Elijah8890
@Elijah8890 Год назад
still remembering this sermon?
@Daveoghscope
@Daveoghscope 5 лет назад
Every word of this burns me right now. Please pray with me for grace, brethren.
@MissTiffanyGalore
@MissTiffanyGalore 4 года назад
I wish someone had shown me this decades ago. My greatest desire is to delight in the Lord. Thank you for sharing this godly counsel
@kaitandlima4608
@kaitandlima4608 6 лет назад
When you feel any urge in your mind about opposite sex, what we should do is, do opposite. i.e to give glory to God. For eg, if you see a beautiful girl, the first thing you do without thinking anything is, to praise God, say - I thank you Lord and adore you for creating her so beautiful, cute (whatever you may call her to be) say to Lord within yourself - I am sure Lord, you have not created her and made her come across me at this moment in my life, just to thing about her in a lustful way, but surely to give you glory for her beauty, for creating her so beautiful. What a beautiful artist are you. So pure so beautiful. PS : This is the way how I do it with me. And I would say I am fairly successful by applying this thinking.
@bradcrampton8920
@bradcrampton8920 6 лет назад
Yes. My imaginary friend is always there to help me. His name is Oscar Rembolt.
@decoyaardvark2828
@decoyaardvark2828 5 лет назад
What do you say when you see an ugly girl? Thank you God for giving her such a beautiful personality?
@anactaneustheeleventh2542
@anactaneustheeleventh2542 5 лет назад
Kaitan D'lima Thanks brother I will try that.
@garyjasco3072
@garyjasco3072 5 лет назад
Kaitan D'lima ooo
@georgewashingtonrockwell3355
@georgewashingtonrockwell3355 5 лет назад
@@bradcrampton8920 you know God is real, stop lying to yourself and come to Jesus Christ for salvation, brother
@angelvamful
@angelvamful 7 лет назад
This topic are very informative...I wish they had this information when I was younger! Spiritual Warfare, addictions and sexual immorality are many people daily struggles!
@patriciaking7892
@patriciaking7892 5 лет назад
Ramona, Amen!
@ZackV2496
@ZackV2496 5 лет назад
ramona pizarro indeed esp. to teenagers
@ShangDaiNagaland
@ShangDaiNagaland 4 года назад
Who else are watching this in 2019?? God bless us... Praise the Lord 🙏🙏 🙏🙏 🙏🙏 🙏🙏 🙏🙏 🙏
@luisandresmendozamarroquin4109
@luisandresmendozamarroquin4109 4 года назад
November 2019 and this is the first time i hear a message like this.
@mutumbahenry2094
@mutumbahenry2094 4 года назад
Oh this is helping... This a sexual gratification is a key challenge for most of us the youth but praise God ,for this message preached ...be blessed
@shishirmundu4662
@shishirmundu4662 4 года назад
Sexual pleasure is one of the hardest things i have ever faced in my life .I gone through it .Initially I didn't know it is a sin as I was a teenager 17 or 18 but as the days passed by i was addicted to it n it was very hard to overcome it . Then i knew it is one of the terrible sins against god n it is against the will and law of God .I used to pray to God to deliver me from this addiction but I was failing frequently .I used to pray n again fall n ask god for his forgiveness but I was willfully committing sin by falling in this sexual pleasure .But i was in regular prayer and now I m able to give in . God has strengthen me .Everyday Lord is strengthening me n delivering me . I am able to resist the lustful thoughts now . And growing spirituality in the lord everyday as I read my Bible and feeding my body mind n soul . All glory to him . I'll encourage u all not to give in . Be persistent as I was ,n don't stop praying .Nothing is too hard for the lord .Don't feel guilty for yourselves .
@shalanathomas7751
@shalanathomas7751 4 года назад
Awesome!
@symphannie7282
@symphannie7282 6 лет назад
Thank you for sharing. Thank you to Brother Piper for speaking up. The truth confronts us and sets us free 👑✝️🕊️
@josephineowino9017
@josephineowino9017 4 года назад
This is truly amazing...May the Holy Spirit guide us to be pure in mind,body and soul and to glorify God🙏🙏🙏❤
@marrietvisser6195
@marrietvisser6195 7 лет назад
I knew it was wrong. This sermon has given me more insight why it is so destructive in more than one way. Wish more teachers could speak and teach in so much love without condemnation. I feel loved and cared for after listening to these simple practical points and advice.
@oscarwilliamson1264
@oscarwilliamson1264 3 года назад
Marriet Visser,you deserve better
@hemjoo
@hemjoo 7 лет назад
Amazing that JP preached this so much earlier! I respect him so much for addressing something which is so relevant today and not shying away from what many pastors would find taboo to talk about even now. It's full of godly wisdom. Thanks so much for sharing it on RU-vid!
@Bdelliumharts
@Bdelliumharts 5 лет назад
It is so hard to stay sexually abstinent being in a relationship before marriage. It's God's way, but the flesh screams.
@intellagent7622
@intellagent7622 4 года назад
YesToTheTruth hey thanks a lot for sharing that. i will look at those videos tonight
@yestothetruth
@yestothetruth 4 года назад
No problem,@@intellagent7622. One night may not be enough, but I hope you are blessed to listen to these. Peace to you!
@intellagent7622
@intellagent7622 4 года назад
YesToTheTruth i will listen several times. i already listened to a bunch of them and they are so so helpful. I feel confident i can be sexually free What has your purity journey been like
@yestothetruth
@yestothetruth 4 года назад
​@@intellagent7622 That's awesome. This is my testimony I share about coming to sexual purity: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-AamoAfOZ_yM.html That foundation has stood for 7 years now by God's grace. No major threats have come, thanks God. I have also been on my guard. I like that you have faith, brother. Don't subscribe to any defeatist spirit that would make you expect that you will stumble no matter what.
@MargaretNahmias
@MargaretNahmias 3 года назад
Entertainment doesn't help.
@tfm_patrick
@tfm_patrick 5 лет назад
Wow great video, how many people struggle clicking on these types of videos because they know it will cause them to think and change there hearts?
@bugleboy68
@bugleboy68 10 лет назад
I am a Christian, I chase after Jesus daily and like the Psalmist in Psalms 27, I ask this one thing, to dwell in the presence of the Lord. But I get extremely frustrated when the only ones giving advice on sex for singles are the people who have been married for multiple decades. It is like a rich man telling a beggar on the street, "money can't buy you happiness"! God bless you all, sorry if I seem jaded, just frustrated is all and needing to vent...
@SamboNsovo
@SamboNsovo 10 лет назад
They have been there
@MrDdurrett
@MrDdurrett 9 лет назад
This seems like the grass is greener syndrome. And, yes. I'm in the same situation as you apparently but I greatly appreciate Piper's words. I need them more and more it seems. If you're married and have truths from God that helps singles in this area, I believe we should humbly and gratefully accept them.
@alliecat1941
@alliecat1941 9 лет назад
Chase after?? you mean follow his word.
@bugleboy68
@bugleboy68 9 лет назад
No, I mean chase after, I mean pursue, I mean knock on every door so that the right door will be opened, I mean seek so that I may find! I mean thirst for the way a deer pants for water!!! It is all biblical.
@kazadidavidtshilenga6865
@kazadidavidtshilenga6865 7 лет назад
Single, single, god bless u john piper
@paintrain19
@paintrain19 7 лет назад
Wow, this was excellent. Piper is one of the few pastors I feel truly teaches from the Word. Thank you for sharing this wonderful gem.
@grace5447
@grace5447 4 года назад
I did not searched for this, but I really needed this. Thank you, oopsident, for posting this. Thank you, John Piper, for talking about this. Thank you, Lord, for still teaching me despite me being stubborn.
@ABUS3DON
@ABUS3DON 6 лет назад
As muslim I would like to say thank you for you advices. For me in muslim community it’s usually we talk about this subject, and your Idea of accepting this desire and direct its power is very excellent. I add to your words, fasting is also helpful. I may surprise the people here if I say in my country Saudi Arabia, as Muslims we don’t do sex outside marriage, so it’s normal to find guy/girl in 20s never done that. An that’s one of the reason the women are covering them selves. To avoid stimulation, and to live with less attentions. And having your heart to be obeyed for only one unique almighty God. Thx
@myishacooper5838
@myishacooper5838 5 лет назад
As an Apostolic, we believe in the one true God!! We as women are taught modesty.. we don't wear anything that would gratify our flesh or accentuate it either. People castrate us for how we dress. But we don't want to put forth a stumbling block before anyone . Especially our brother's in Christ
@girlyeveyug5071
@girlyeveyug5071 4 года назад
SO YOUR SELF RIGHTEOUS
@ektasharma3520
@ektasharma3520 4 года назад
You may surely not have sex outside marriage but Muslims have more than one wife.
@W-meme
@W-meme 4 года назад
@@ektasharma3520 that's not a rule for 20th century Muslims.
@Ivann1005
@Ivann1005 4 года назад
Uhm, I suggest that you stop following a pedophile...
@earnestinealexander4584
@earnestinealexander4584 10 лет назад
This is the best piece of advice I have ever heard....what a blessing....we will perish for like of knowledge and spoken wisdom.
@janasugarova772
@janasugarova772 8 лет назад
i think, in Biblie is one advice: let every man have his woman, and every woman have her man... and... is better life in marriege, as fire desire
@earlbempong2631
@earlbempong2631 4 года назад
O how much I need this sermon. God You are so merciful even when we disobey you, you send us the gift that will enable us to obey you
@madilee2437
@madilee2437 6 лет назад
I did that a lot lot lot lot got in trouble with it. Masterbathing do make stuff worse. It causes addiction by causing a man to see all sexy or thick women as sex machine . Now I'm seeking a serious change in Jesus.
@ifeawosika966
@ifeawosika966 3 года назад
How are you holding up now
@modupe1231
@modupe1231 9 лет назад
This is a very good short sermon. I'm going to use this for myself and then take it to church and teach it. John Piper is right not enough of this is preached at church. Most times its glazed over. People young and old need to know how to deal with sexual frustrations. After all our body is the temple of God, and it should be kept holy. Thank you.
@Amee399
@Amee399 10 лет назад
Powerful sermon. Seeking the kingdom of God is the first thing...
@Reyzmusic
@Reyzmusic 5 лет назад
Ameelya Olympah AMEN!!! Sometimes I find it hard because we are in this world but you’re so correct that’s the best thing we can do!!
@nneomaozor6952
@nneomaozor6952 5 лет назад
This is very true. It is a very gud message especially for singles. Although we might experience challenges, but God is always available to lead us the right part. The main problem is most times we do not put God first. Thank you for this message. God bless u
@job4810
@job4810 5 лет назад
May this good message be shared to all in need of healing and recovery. God loves you
@muniurimiru1955
@muniurimiru1955 7 лет назад
God Bless you for sharing this. I really needed this!!
@ifyify9245
@ifyify9245 8 лет назад
Amazing! !! God's name alone be praised!!!
@brittanyhaywood3066
@brittanyhaywood3066 7 лет назад
Tecla Joaquina Hey, I've seen you on a few videos since you've read my blog. How are you doing sis?
@jaredhumpherys8335
@jaredhumpherys8335 7 лет назад
Yes, yes, because he's a jealous God. Your gods name should be praised about as much as Allah, or Brahma, or Buddha. They'll all tell you the same thing: praised be their name, they're the only true God, they're the only path to heaven, or enlightenment, or zen.
@favourayobami4056
@favourayobami4056 7 лет назад
Jared Humpherys Jesus is the only way to God, not anyone else
@bethanienaylor
@bethanienaylor 5 лет назад
Amen!
@ikechukwuiyk-onumah6788
@ikechukwuiyk-onumah6788 4 года назад
Don't spend too much time alone. This is so timely. All these points are life-saving; and so real if ever practised. Thanks for sharing this "love note of saving-grace".
@barbaradadzie9763
@barbaradadzie9763 5 лет назад
This is a much needed blessing. Thanks and God bless you for uploading.
@elhimmelstein1913
@elhimmelstein1913 5 лет назад
The best sermon I’ve ever heard on this topic! Thank you!
@grizzpanda2020
@grizzpanda2020 5 лет назад
My Life Verse: Matthew 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. 😇 Thank you for this. I'll share this to my fellow youth. #ProperPlace #ProperTime #RightPerson
@ruthgar6860
@ruthgar6860 4 года назад
Wow it took 6 years for RU-vid to suggest this video Absolutely great sermon, something I’ve never heard spoken about from the pulpit. Very needed in 2019 Thank you
@mikepicz379
@mikepicz379 5 лет назад
Thank you Lord for guiding me to this video. We are weak but through Christ we can overcome. Everyone need to hear this.
@danishhald
@danishhald 7 лет назад
This # 8. Church cares very little for Singles. People outside of the church's administration make Singles group. Singles are just looked over. Your tithe is welcome though!
@danishhald
@danishhald 7 лет назад
I'm sorry to come off bitter but church can definitely be frustrating for Single Christians. Thank you though for posting.
@rowsdower12
@rowsdower12 7 лет назад
danishhald you are totally right. most churches see singles as leopards. like they can't be effective in church cause they are single. not all but a lot. I feel the church has idolized marriage. I'm not bashing married people. That's a blessing but so singles. we're all God's children.
@PeshPatie
@PeshPatie 7 лет назад
Zap Rowsdower212 we can create a private social media group to help each other,encourage each other pray with each and make the best out of our singleness as we walk in purity and do our Father's will
@bandilemtolo7759
@bandilemtolo7759 6 лет назад
Zap Rowsdower212 k
@hannahevans8193
@hannahevans8193 6 лет назад
I'm in my 30's and single and I agree with what y'all are saying but I think it's like someone said we need to support each other as Christian singles. Sometimes they do make you feel as if there is something wrong with you or you are a freak especially if you are a Christian woman and don't have a man or vice versa. Singles Christians need to unite. We can do it and encourage each other b/c we are typically going through the same issues.
@ryleejaakkola3352
@ryleejaakkola3352 5 лет назад
This is everything ive needed to hear ive been struggling lately with this and im just glad to get this off my chest
@kaileigh9729
@kaileigh9729 5 лет назад
Just came across this video in 2018. I’m 19 years old. I’ve sinned repeatedly and I know I don’t deserve his forgiveness but he gives it to me anyways. He sees the mistakes i make, but he gives me another chance to make it right. I haven’t been the best Christian lately. I say things that are wrong and I do things I shouldn’t. But with God’s grace and his love I can get through anything. I’ve recently been reading the Bible more and understanding God’s word. This day and age people don’t believe in this kind of thing. They don’t believe in God’s word. But I will never stray from his word. It’s the only thing that gets me by. I pray for anyone who is going through temptations like me. May God help you through it and pray repeatedly that he will guide you against temptations that will arise. I am SO THANKFUL for God’s love.
@sahfia5218
@sahfia5218 4 года назад
So refreshing hearing these topics talked about openly. Sex is not bad, sex in the wrong circumstances is. I’m so sick of churches tip toeing around this topic and then expecting the youth to be properly equipped to fight these battles.
@tennillekelly2275
@tennillekelly2275 7 лет назад
Brilliant sermon. Very well spoken and I feel that this will assist me along with God to stay pure. Thank you for posting.
@harrisryan27
@harrisryan27 7 лет назад
As much as all of this teaching on purity and holiness is very much correct, I have several pains in my heart about what this generation needs in order to get on the path of life, and overcome sin (but it is so much more than that). As one who has given years of my life trying to win against 'lust' I have made several mistakes in my patterns of thinking. And honestly, from the overarching onslaught of immorality in 2017, and where that path leads; respectfully but truthfully we need more in the grace of God than just doing more do's and dont's to overcome our lust. Beloved, our highest pleasure available in the human experience is the presence of God dwelling deep in our inner man. I never want to deviate or back down from this. His presence IS the only thing that can truly, not just make you not sin, but it will be the very fulfillment that your heart has dreamed (Galatians 5). We need His presence burning in our heart, because without it we absolutely will bend to anything that appeals to our desires. But if we actually can FEEL His everlasting Spirit within our souls, well.. then we have something to fight for. I've spent so much time focusing on trying to deny a bad desire when in truth God wants me near Him and to know that only He can win against the flesh that wars against Him. Acknowledge all darkness, commit to walk with Him until he gives you complete victory, and STOP relating to the One who loves you more than anything about how much or how little you've masterbated. I've wasted way too much time focused on my sin (which breeds more sin) rather than pressing into a loving Father who has made me righteous by His Son, and has made me clean because He's merciful. Read Heb. 4:15-16, because as long as you are willing to win against the issue He will give you grace and mercy time and time again. He is sympathetic and not angry at us while we're seeking to overcome darkness. We need to be distracted by how wonderful and satisfying His presence is. We need to acknowledge, yet not over focus on our sin (you will quit your battle if all your doing is thinking about not doing something) because we were created for His very life to reside within us. And beloved He is so kind to give you forgiveness as you walk thru this, and help you see yourself as holy and blameless thru His grace. These understandings should help stay near Him and not distant. And get married! 1 Cor. 7.
@jaguarhhs
@jaguarhhs 6 лет назад
thereisnt need to get married. anyways TY
@Bumbo03
@Bumbo03 4 года назад
You have No idea how Many years i have waitet for prayer answers, and this just puped Up out of nowere. Thank you a Lot for bringing this Up, and i Hope you read this. God bless you.
@Nuvision19
@Nuvision19 4 года назад
Number 5...I pulled out Psalm 68 at my desk at work yesterday...God is so good...every word is true...Thank you so much for this message....speak to the single women as well
@brittanybrooks430
@brittanybrooks430 7 лет назад
I'm so glad i came across this..i fell in the trap and iv'e come out repented and am growing stronger everyday but this video was still needed in my life. Luckily Iv'e already been doing all of this but its nice to hear i am dong the right thing :)
@ajoastanley171
@ajoastanley171 4 года назад
Its not easy but i know God has got my back...Thank you for this
@tobianishere5316
@tobianishere5316 5 лет назад
Thank you for this message. All Singles need to hear this .
@Emiester1130
@Emiester1130 4 года назад
Anytime I struggle to remember why I seek purity, I watch this, I’m reminded, and I thank God for conscience, for John Piper, and for the Grace to understand.
@NB-ky5ol
@NB-ky5ol 5 лет назад
As a woman, I have to say that this is a STRUGGLE for me! My mind acts more like a man’s does when it comes to sex and I haven’t heard another female express it similarly to me before. I willfully did things I wasn’t supposed to be doing, and even in the moment when I would make the decision I knew I had a choice to do it or stop and give my desire over to God. Your struggle with sexual immorality/porn is about your relationship with God and your willingness to submit to Him. I’ve learned that much and once I gave myself completely to God, His will and pray daily to release me of my fleshly desires and to crave His Godly desires for me I have noticed a HUGE decrease in my urge for sexual immorality. I’m not perfect and it’s still a struggle but I don’t want anyone else out there to think that this isn’t a problem too big for God to solve. You need to humble yourself before God and recognize that you need to align your life to God’s will. ❤️❤️❤️
@patriciaking7892
@patriciaking7892 5 лет назад
Nic b, so very true. Very hard to do but pray until something happens. Thanks for sharing. Peace.
@yestothetruth
@yestothetruth 5 лет назад
Amen! The way to victory is complete surrender, not to the enemy, but to God. A consistent prayer life is a must.❤️
@julettcoley1272
@julettcoley1272 5 лет назад
Amen. We can really consciously turn our thoughts to Christ in that moment and the desire will subside.
@jazzye_92
@jazzye_92 5 лет назад
This is an amazing message and timely video, thank you so much for uploading it. It's a great blessing
@JasbirSingh-og6fq
@JasbirSingh-og6fq 4 года назад
Praise God for Grandpa John! Thank you so much for always stirring my heart to seek God more than anything else.
@premilasubha6372
@premilasubha6372 6 лет назад
Thank you so much,this was what I really needed to watch.
@speedwaynord6598
@speedwaynord6598 6 лет назад
I ve been raised in the church and I ve never heard anything about this a Sunday morning or even in youth group. teenagers NEED to hear this before they reach the age of stronger sexual temptation, and they also need to hear it after te reached it. We shouldn't talk about this too much but we definitely need to talk about this more in churches.
@xiomaracruz5960
@xiomaracruz5960 5 лет назад
Thank you Lord for this message. This is helpful for those who are struggling and yet want to get closer to God. Thank you Lord
@thefogandthewhirlwind
@thefogandthewhirlwind 6 лет назад
These guidelines are so great. Thankful that Pastor Piper is willing to speak about these things in a straightforward way
@bradcrampton8920
@bradcrampton8920 6 лет назад
great for a mental midget
@imafemale4365
@imafemale4365 5 лет назад
I was molested by my cousins when I was younger and it left me with an incurable STD and this urge. I've never had a boyfriend in my life (31 now) and by the looks of it, I may not ever have one. It is such a struggle and it frustrates me because I'm trying to stop it😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭😭 I don't always do this but for whoever sees this, please pray for me.
@TasiaGonsalvesBarriero
@TasiaGonsalvesBarriero 5 лет назад
Praying for you now Sterek Hallinski. Jehovah is with you, and He will not leave you. Be strong.
@nnekaogba4458
@nnekaogba4458 4 года назад
It is well with you honey. I pray that GOD will send healing to your soul
@UrbantribepicturesK3
@UrbantribepicturesK3 4 года назад
Sterek Hallinski hey thank u for sharing your heart here and what you have been through. My orayer is that Gd will come through for you and heal u completely. Stay strong and keep the faith. Let me know if you want to talk more or you need a ear to listen to your stories. God bless
@combatmedic91-b76
@combatmedic91-b76 4 года назад
Sterek, you are in my prayers blessed are you in Jesus name, bring your thoughts captive to Jesus, and take verses God's word as new thoughts to replace old thoughts and desires. Blessings to you Cindy
@Admin-rn6ym
@Admin-rn6ym 4 года назад
Was just heavily tempted and turned to this video.
@theunkownslave4547
@theunkownslave4547 4 года назад
Absolutely life changing. A pure and absolute blessing. Seek God's Kingdom first! Our all consuming passion!
@carlitoherrera5920
@carlitoherrera5920 6 лет назад
Thank u for the uploader..GodBless you more Mr.John Pieper
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