Tenille Arts - I Hate This - Official Music Video 

I love the fact that this is a song about a female singer genuinely just expressing missing a man. Not trying to put on some egomania-like cover. Just actually talking about it. Good for her being brave enough to be genuinely vulnerable.

"Boy, I've tried and bottom line is I still love you and I hate this" those are probaby the most painful words I've ever heard.

Finally a grown woman, singing a grown-up song, to a grown man, you have my attention lady...

I heard this song shortly after my boyfriend and I called it quits. I literally sing this as loud as I can. Hardest break up I've gone through by far!

I’m obsessed with song. It’s a perfect relation of what it feels like after a break up when you are trying to put on a brave face but really it’s killing you inside. The way it’s written feels like all the thoughts that swarm in your head afterwards.. just a constant battle. In the end it’s simple. It just hurts and you hate it. Seriously never heard a song before that just relates so perfectly to real life.

"I hate this missing you hoping youre somewhere missing me." My everyday hope.

Straight out of Saskatchewan! 🥰

I’m single af and not even going through a break up fortunately, but I just found this song today and I’m completely obsessed 😍👌🏾🔥

Found this song by chance,glad I took the time to listen to it,I think what makes this song so relatable is the fact we've all felt like this about someone else.

Who here is from the hood and still vibe wit this song 🤏👌😎

LYRICS I hate this Here I am running into you trying not to touch I hate this Acting like it's not killing me when it does And now that watch I gave you still looks good on your wrist Don't you think it's time we end this little experiment? Cause I know we said, we'd just be friends I can't lie and I can't pretend Boy, I've tried it bottom line is, I still love you and I hate this I hate this Missing you hoping you're somewhere missing me I hate this Hoping you'll call hoping I'm awake when it rings If we took this break to figure out what we wanted, well I want us back don't need another night to sleep on it 'Cause I know we said, we'd just be friends I can't lie and I can't pretend, boy I've tried it bottom line is, I still love you and I hate this Mhmm, I hate this My hearts breaking, I can't take this Time and space, it sucks, I hate this My hearts breaking I can't take this Time and space I swear, I hate this I know we said, we'd just be friends, I can't lie and I can't pretend Boy I've tried it bottom line is, I still love you and I hate this Here I am running into you, trying not to touch (Mhmm, I hate this) Acting like it's not killing me when it does ♡♡♡

making the exakt same relations between melody and harmony as the soundtrack of inception to a country song - genious.

i absolutely love this song. the lyrics "here I am running into you trying not to touch" really get to me. I feel that as if it's my own experience. that's real art right there. when you can feel the singers pain and or emotions. well done.

Found Tenille Arts through RU-vid suggestions. Ive listened to this song 120 times this week. Brilliant music.

My wife and I are currently separated right now. This song describes me pretty damn accurately right now. Wonderful song im glad it popped up in my yt feed

Even after 4 years this is still a perfect song. The voice, the lyrics, the music all combine into a magical experience. Love it.

This song is a perfect example of young talent injecting some much needed honesty into the world of country music. I like where the genre is going!

Why isn't this more popular!?!? Why am I only hearing this now!?!? So many questions! This is so amazing! Gonna replay and replay 🥰

belting this song while home alone is so satisfying

❤️❤️ I just love her voice and how she sings each word hits my heart

Just came across this song in September of 2020. Better late than never! 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

Exactly how I feel about a guy that's leading me on. It sucks a lot and he doesn't want commitment but I love him. It hurts a lot. This song is perfect

Country music lead me here and I'm glad it did

I have NEVER liked country music but I really like this song!! 😭❤️

My 3 year old is obsessed with this song...along with me...and her dad

Found this song on a random country playlist and it’s everything to me. I can relate to this song in every way and it’s exactly how I’ve been feeling. When I couldn’t find the words and put it together, this song found me. Thank you Tenille!

Bravo!!!!!!!!!!! your a Star. salutations from California.

let's all appreciate that she takes the time to go through her comments and like all of them and also respond to some❤️❤️❤️

Saskatchewan brings us tenille arts and colter wall. I'm lovin it!

What a beautiful breath of fresh air to see a REAL love song come out!

I've been bored and decided to listen to breakup songs and this song is one of my favorite breakup songs

Heard this yesterday for the first time and have been listening to it non stop all day love this song

This song might actually make me start liking country music. It's quite good.

The best part about that bachelor episode!

I’m so obsessed ♥️

Heard this from RU-vid recommendations after a night at the bar and holy shit man, this woman’s voice is so heavenly.

completely relate...I need time to get healthy before I rush back.. but I hate this... and still love you even if I'm when I'm still hurting

THIS IS AMAZING CANT BELIEVE SHE HAS SUCH A BEAUTIFUL VOICE AND ITS AMAZING CAUSE YOU FEEL LIKE YOUR REALLY THERE

This man is in every country song I swear.

Great song. It kills me every time I listen to it because it’s exactly what I’m going through.

Thank you for this song !!!!! I hope you see this ❤️

i’ve listen to this song so many times i can sing every lyric i love her so awesome 🖤

I just went to lady a concert last night I got a picture with you I love your music!!!

...this song is pretty much word for word my life right now. He's still wearing the watch that I got him for Christmas. It takes everything I have to act like I'm fine when ever I see him but I break inside a little everytime. I hate this so much. He told me he loved me...and that it scared him. That we we're too different and we'd never last as anything more than friends. That we'd hurt each other so bad if we tried to be more. That we are better off as friends...but its killing me. I want more. How does he know we'd be bad if we don't try? I cant say anything cause at least I have him a little bit now and if I do say something he might leave comepletely...i just hate this so much.

Tenille, HOW have I never heard you before The Bachelor?! Your voice girl...so gifted. Your lower register and the soul. Just wow. I wish I was half the singer you are.

they play this song at my work and i love hearing it every time it comes on.

Been there done that , I'm 60 and I wish I could feel that way again 😔 Its better than no pain at all !

I heared this for the first time while watching the bachelor and I’m in love 😍 coming from me (a country music hater) I relate so much ❤️

Countrystar 🔥🔥🔥

Had the distinct pleasure of seeing this wonderful young woman perform not 100 feet from my door. Twice. I still have the little business card that she was handing out back then. She signed it and it was a very cute 'Thanks for your support, Tenille ❤ XOXO'. I could tell, even all those years ago, that she was going to bust her ass and make something special. And this is something special, but you're still going up from here ❤

I use to say I was not a fan of country, but after hearing this song my mind has changed. Guess it just took the right song.

I’ll never and ever get bored with this song cuz it’s amazing

Just beautiful 😭

Haven’t stopped listening to this song since the Bachelor!! Absolutely in love!

❤ watching the bachelor love the song....

Just returned from watching Tenille perform live in Vernon B.C. Amazing song and amazing performance from a very talented and beautiful singer! You have a new fan, and I'm proud you're Canadian! Thanks for the intimate show and taking time to visit with the fans after. Class act!

She sounds so much like Lee Ann Womack, but also so original. Beautiful.

Forever indebted to the bachelor for introducing me to my new all time favorite song. Learning this on piano rn

I LOVE this

I love Tenille arts! She’s the country Goat! She’s the future of country music. I’m a fan of hers. I listen to you Tenille on Amazon music all the time. You remind me some of that girl that sung with Jim Ed Brown in the 70s . I forgot her name. Helen was the first name. Bet you know who she is.

Saw her live last night. Such a great voice

This song got me through two years of pure and total hell. We were separated and have 3 kids together. Watching him walk away after visiting our kids would kill me. Slapping on smiles in front of the kids only to break down bawling on the drive home....torture beyond words. We have since reconciled buy honestly this song probably saved me more times than I can count.

Such a powerful voice

Cannot wait till the concert on Oct 2. I play her music every day.....

Loved this song as soon as I heard it on the bachelor!

I saw him today and talked to him for the first time in months. Took everything in me not to cry because you’d never know looking at us today how we used to be. I still love him even if he’s not the same him anymore. This song is beautiful and describes everything I’m feeling perfectly. Thank you for singing it

heard this for the first time driving, had to just stop and listen... first thought was a new leann womack song, was definately wrong. this girl has an absolutely beautiful voice!!!!!! hope she has many great songs. keep up the great music

Here most definitely because of the bachelor!!!! Girl you got some PIPES!!!!!! ♥️ this song!

Finally something different!!! LOVE this

I was helping my 18 year old friend with her horse and on the way home she played this and now I can’t get it out of my head! I LOVE IT ❤️❤️

the lyrics is amazing, the story is amazing, the song is amazing, the video is amazing! 😍❤ thank you for the artist you are tenille! 🎶🔥❤

i’m a fan of 4 years and here because i love tenille 💗

I LOVE this song! The arrangement the simple but exact visual of what it feels like inside when someone you love and know could be really great, but knowing that the break could mean you might not get back together. Its a risk and sometimes its not even your choice..the agony sucks..and yesterday was his birthday and I haven't seen him since March…Happy Birthday Craig! I hate this! XOXO Thank you @ #TenilleArts

There's ALOT of new Country voices in Nashville but yours girl slays them all !!! WOW!!! I wish you much success in your future ruling Nashville!

This deserve to be on the radio for sure! Ps the bachelor sent me here!

Unlike most people, I didn't hear this from the Bachelor. I was on Pandora and Bridges Burn came on. I thought it was a good song so I looked to see who the artist was. I then googled you and found some of your other songs and listened to them. They were amazing and now you're one of my favorite artists

I’ve been obsessed with this song for months when I saw it on the song suffragettes RU-vid channel and when I saw it on the Bachelor I freaked😂 amazing songwriting!!

Tenille 🎭🎨 just got a chance to listen 👂 to your music and your voice is definitely 💯 and the words 💪 strong and spell bounding with the way you put in the mix of it all 💯 video is awesome 👍💯🙏❤️ much respect to you all the ones that hear listening 💯 and the comments below 👇 are 🗣️ speaking to the fullest with you and your music 🎶🎶😎🙏❤️

I love this song. I can so relate right now. Every single word. ❤️

Man I remember lovin' like this,never again

Been listening to her since she was putting covers on RU-vid her vocals are amazing. 😍

came here after seeing you open for lady a in CT! u were amazing!

I love this song !!!!! I felt every word!! ❤❤❤❤

The pain of being each others everything to being strangers hurts so freakin bad!!!! 😔💔

The second I heard this song I was entranced. Great tune, relatable lyrics and mesmerizing voice! More more more!!!

Straight to the point..💔

Girlie!! Omg i sang this at karaoke and everyone kept asking who sang this. Ive been following you for 4 years now. And i cant wait till you completely blow up and i get to see you you at the CMAs. You're amazing!!! 💕 ill always be a day one fan!

Shoutout to Spotify for showing me this AMAZINGLY BEAUTIFUL song. May have broken the repeat button

I never comment but OMG this song was next on Spotify earlier and I fell in LOVE. Idk if I’ve ever played a song on repeat like this. Amazing lyrics, melodies and voice girl! And the production is so good! So tasteful😍🤘🏽

i live in lampman saskatchewan just 65 miles from tenille's home town of weyburn so i am quite proud of this new young talent - the bachelor didn't bring me here but how popular this song has now become did - this song really dos look like a winner - is this song more suited for the country or pop charts ? - hard to tell - any how good on " tenille " for this one ! .......

Ok so bachelor brought me here but girll look at ur hair!! Ur voice is beautiful and u look amazing

I’m sure everyone can relate to this song. That’s the beauty of it.

I keep playing this song over n over I'm going thru everything shes saying in this song 😔

I don't like country music usually because it is simplistic and formulaic most often.this Is good af.grunge music sadness in the vocal notation.i love it.

You’re beautiful and have the most angelic voice! 😍 saw you on the bachelor 😂 definitely a new fan. Just added your songs to my Spotify playlist♥️

Saw you perform the Canadian anthem on television at the NBA finals, great job you have a new fan!

I wish I would have found this sooner! Love your songs and voice

Lady U R Amazing!

I really like this song, i'm glad I watched The Bachelor and saw this. 😀

I dont like country music usually, but when i heard this on the bachelor, I was addicted!!!