I just put my friend on him... my friend is a real "nice guy" needy as hell (even with male friends lol) I was like here watch this dude, he is unabashedly honest... that is what you need!
His advice is great for getting a girl but let me ask you this do you still use these tactics with your fiance like when she calls you to dinner from the kitchen do you not answer and hold out until she just brings it to you you know shit like that LOL
Cool Chicka not caring does not mean ignoring the girl or guy.... it means expressing interest having fun.without being needy and trying to force things.
+Aaron ball That means she got really lonely and desperate herself. The guy she liked more than you turned out not to be working out. So I'm your plan B? I fuck those women and that's it. Not GF material.
One thing that all men should KNOW! When a women WANTS to hang out she will absolutely make it happen. Nothing will get in the way. Once the “I’m sick” or “no babysitter “ or “I’m too busy” starts, it’s time to tap out and move on. Women and men will both make the date happen if interested. Excuses mean NOT INTERESTED
TheTradesmen but I’ve had women play mind games as most are paranoid, they want to see if you’re interested in them to arrange something, be a man?! But I agree they will meet if they want and excuse and be shady when they don’t
Yeah, I had a girl that would text me at work and didn't get why I wouldn't answer her back right away. A second text with just my name in all caps didn't help either lol
He’ll yeah dudes me too. I got mad chicks. So weird how all of us poon hounds ended up watching this video... and commenting... oh well I’m too busy swattin twats nahmean bruhhhhhh shit yeahhhhhhhhh
@@earpig Your revolution is over. Condolences. The bums lost. My advice is to do what your parents did; get a job, sir. The bums will always lose. Do you hear me? The bums will always lose!
Correct. Now she's wondering about you until she sees you which causes her to want you more when you see her than she does presently... and the effortless part is... you didn't have to do anything to make it happen. She creates the love story in her mind which builds sexual anticipation in her towards you as you are focused, or should be focused on your purpose until you see each other. It's one of the subtle differences that make the difference ;)
Or you can focus on your self. There for eventually you will find somebody. Less women less problems. Know it's hard gotta be patient. Good things happen when you least expect it
He's so right. As a woman, I cannot handle needy or overly aggressive (with contact) guys. But women do it too. It's a delicate dance of push-pull. I'm still learning.... But I try to be a person I'd like to talk to. Frequent contact isn't a good idea early on, but waiting TOO long can mess things up too. These videos are helping me understand men better. Thank you!
I chat online to girls sometimes with no intention of meeting up, its good practise and fun at the same time, eventually the conversation burn out but, you can make mistakes and identify them too, no loss and keeps you sharp when it comes to unexpected questions and how other people respond to yours.
Online dating is the worst for women because it is a safe space women don’t get out of . They will no meet because they are not comfortable. Dating is a risk on both side. I get most of my numbers face to face. If you wait too long online, guys will just friendzone you.
If the girl does not precieve you as high enough value to accept your date request, going silent is not always going to make her chase you. That will works only if she feels the loss, but if you haven't demonstrated enough value she's not going to feel that. You have to break contact only for a little time, not completely. Then you send "value into the void" like a funny text, gif or pic. Or a text giving her a window into what your are doing in your life. Something to get an emotional response, but not a question or anything that suggests you expect a reply.
The best thing to do, when she starts texting too much. For me this works 80% of the time. I tell them straight to the point in the beginning that “I don’t like texting and I really love to talk to you when you are live in front of me or when I see you, because it’s more comfortable like that and I would love to see you, when are you free to get together?”. Not only through texts but through the phone as well. The reason why you should say that is, it shows confidence and dominance and you condition her to ( get used to it😄). But when you tell her that, say it in a calm and polite way. I can tell you that it works. The 20% that don’t react to that aren’t really confident woman or are not as attracted to you. Simple as that.
outdated perspective (or maybe it works on the type of women who sync well with you and your style) I've had much success being in contact through text, building attraction and closeness through text before you see them again is like the foreplay to the event
@@FIGHTER_mlbbthanks for the opinion. Yes, in a way it’s just who I am, I just really don’t like texting non-stop. It’s also the anticipation that attracts her to you. And the thing I’ve experienced is that women like and respect honesty. By the way, if they do text or call during the week before the date takes place, I keep it really short and sweet with them (3-5 min. max) and tell them I appreciate them for their call and love to hear all about when I see her and got to run. Remember you are a busy and successful man that keeps his purpose as a priority. You probably also keep it short and flirt with her a little bit? Am I right? As long if you don’t text for hours you will be fine. Cause I’ve done that before long ago, and than the date got canceled, because she probably got bored lol. I swear never in my life am I making that mistake again. Looking forward to your response.
+Ambir91 But I am pretty hot. I've got some rockin' abs and like to wear skinny white jeans, a 1980's "member's only" jacket with no shirt, and a red bandana....
One-quarter of a million views of Coach rip into this guy with absolute honesty. One of my favourite videos, a good introduction for anyone at the beginning of their game.
You are unaware until you read the book, there is so much dumb information out there that even when you do research, you get shanked by all the bad info
Switching from chasing and compiling for woman to growing into a man women want to chase is admirable goal. The key here is that Corey talks about this shit like it’s easy. It’s not this takes work.
don't meet for lunch(you do that with a friend), meet for dinner and drinks- a man's job is to create a fun filled romantic opportunity for sex to happen
when i was in HS i asked a girl out over and over like 10+ times just to hear different excuses everytime, before i realized she just wasnt interested. So i would say after two cancelations its over
I met my ex girlfriend of 3 years in the back of my friends car. Probably the least romantic spot and in no way was sex going to happen. In my opinion if you give off the right vibes and make a good first impression, the very first date/meet up doesn't have to be a place or opportunity for sex to happen.
I once arranged this gal for a lunch (yes, a lunch date) for a reviewing job assignment that I have for her. She signaled that she eyed fuck me at the end of our lunch chat, although I early did touched her through correcting her signing skills (I'm deaf, btw). Wow! I realize that Corey is a wrong about his overall theory.....it is all about right vibe that i had with her. What's more? I did most of the talking (she is ultra introverted type person, fyi). Be aware that Corey's advice is all theory, not actual a real-life situation.
Well obviously the first interaction doesn't have to be that way. If it comes to a girl you have never met before and you want to meet with relationship purposes you musn't be the friend.
This guy knows wtf he’s talking about honestly. I wish every guy could understand this stuff. The sad thing is that we women do want you to succeed. We fkn love feeling super crazy into someone… nothing feels better than finding someone you’re really attracted to and excited by… and if we’ve agreed to go on a date with you it’s in the hope that that person is you!! We actually want you to do well!! So so sooooo many guys end up almost talking themselves out of being attractive. If we’re dating you - you’re already attractive enough and have the potential but so often it’s downhill from there… even after a great first date
That needs to stop completely... women know that you think they are attractive- or you wouldn’t be talking to them. Any compliments about their physical appearance is damaging your chances... give them one or two compliments about her accessories- purse, jewelry, clothing, shoes... etc... I’m far from an expert- but I’m older, wiser and have learned some things about what women react positively to. Impressive men are not common- stand out by not being the boring next guy to tell her how pretty she is. When you’ve been in a relationship for years or are married- then you to tell her she’s beautiful.
Same shit is happening to me now. She says she's sick. And she can't make it tomorrow. It's been 4 days and no contact. When she said she's sick, I said sorry hope you feel better, let me when you are fine so we can get together. I'm being all patient and while she's sick, (hopefully if she was honest) I'm going out with other girls :) I have a fear that she might forget or something like that. But I don't give a crap. Im an alpha male. If she's not interested, I move on :D
Francis S sometimes women have a hard time declining an invitation so they make up excuses. Yes, you have the freedom to date other women but when you get into a relationship that's a different story.
Believe it or not, you never know! - I heard of a story of a girl who refused a guy because he was broke and she came from a rich family and 10 years later... they met again and she told him her husband makes $15,000/month, only to find out her husbands' boss is the guy she rejected 10 years ago. Wont be surprised if she bomb texts him now! 🤣
This is the education that they need to be teaching young men. People would be happier, and the world would be a better place. So in that sense, Corey is saving the world.
I understand this completely, and I can personally attest to it working, but what the fuck happened to our once rich culture? I mean seriously, you can't even tell a girl that you had a fun time without her thinking "eww he's needy." It's absolutely ridiculous how everyone is so shallow and manipulative nowadays. We're afraid to be our true selves and be honest with others..so much so that we can't even talk facing one another. The next time you see two men talking, look at where they're facing.
A woman told me she's been dating other men, I said you should. I might be doing the same with a smile. Convo ended there and we had a great night. hooked up. She is alway pursuing now. Been reading and following his book for 4 years now. It has helped in sales as well for what I do.
Women's coaches are telling men should text first, men's coaches are tellin women should text first... there is a serroius risk humane race will expire because of a whattsapp dating cold war
Thats what worries me. Nobody wants to be the one to cave and get ahold of the other. Its all a game now. Instead of just being yourself. And trying to make it work with the other person. We are trying to out smart the other person. And its creating damage. Technology has made us anxiety ridden, insecure, stuck up, selfish, cheating, hypocritical beings. It freaks me out
I said this is another comment. Women now seem to want the guy to be the guy and see if they are really into them, because they know typically men are dating other guys. But women are doing what coach says, they are playing the field too, and seeing if the man texts them first,
This guy knows his shit without a doubt. I personally know the game and women really need to be the chasers. Let them come to you and its a whole lot better. it comes with experience. I can see that Corey is keeping from laughing when he reads these emails! he's still good! doing a good job man. keep it up. by the way I just found you. I was a Ross Jeffries fan too. and the famous book " how to be the jerk women love" great read. preach on brother!
dude, I date a lot and I hate, HATE texting, but every time I call no one ever picks up, unless it's on route to a date. In fact I lived with a girl for a year and we never spoke on the phone.
Corey! This is the best RU-vid subscriptions that I know. I bought you’re book and I read it every night. You’re videos are Amazing and very informative . Thanks A Million!!!
One thing I agree with, you have to keep practicing and learning from mistakes! I talk to one woman and if she is not worthy.....cut my losses and move on. Like a game of chess, I trade one piece for the next as necessary to advance to the next stage.
The difficulty with all your advice on texting, is when a girl is texting you all the time AFTER you already set a date. You do have to text back, because otherwise it is just plain rude. How do you end the conversation, if she is asking you stuff all the time. And indeed I agree it's better not to text to much, because the more text's the bigger the chance to fuck up.
This is helpful. But I would be really creeped out if a guy called me honey after just meeting them. Also, a lot of guys totally misinterpret clues and do not get the hint when we're not interested. Women will rarely come right out and say they're not interested in you.
I hate texting.. you could be at work having a bad day and some woman starts texting you, your trying to keep everything upbeat and positive to build positive repore with her at the same dealing with all the negative stuff at work, it becomes too much. I usually just tell them.. "we'll talk after 6".
A lot of the stuff is common sense. Some isnt. Good advice. Corey is awsome. He's a good dude that seems to be really rooting for his clients, very down to earth, and gives solid good advice. I can see why he's successful. Im a real fan. Excellent content . Im one that knows all this stuff but trust me, when you know it you still throw it out the window, forget, and make the same mistakes. I listen to Corey to stay reminded
corey hahaha you are a legend man!!!! all the videos you make are just on fire hahaha. Read the book 10-15 times and watched the vids. This is all gold info!!
This makes a lot of sense... I get flakes on dates A LOT. Like I have gone on 9 first dates this year....no second dates. In general, I’m usually less that 5% success rate at getting a first date. I’ve yet to keep interest enough for a LTR and I’m 28. I always thought you’re SUPPOSED to call or text follow ups right away. That’s what you’re supposed to do, right? Show you’re taking charge. I’m normally an indecisive person in general so I’m essentially trying to fake that part of my personality. Thats what tons of guides online say to do. Little did I realize that this types of messaging scares women away. It signals neediness. In actuality, it’s a socially awkward person and takes rules verbatim from online because social cues are a mystery. So if I read ‘text x’...that’s what I do. It’s all I know. I’m not good with common sense... But it makes sense why my success rate is so low even after good first dates if they feel scared off when texting first, especially so quickly. It’s fucking dumb you have to pretend disinterest for some silly notion of ‘being chased’ but what do I know? I’m the kind of guy who always reads spoilers since the journey is better for me than the ending. I guess I’ll pretend to be disinterested from now on. Whatevs. Either way, thanks Corey. I would have never thought this on my own.
The trouble with acting needy to start with is you're almost forced to act needy to continue so your choices are: 1 Keep trying to meet = needy = excuses and she can't be assed. 2 Do naff all! = she does naff all too!
Corey, I just wanted to thank you for your excellent videos. I was married for 10 years during the entire rise of texting, and you have helped me update my game. I recently turned a cancelled date into a hot invite to her house. How? She objected to the date because her suitcase was not unpacked after a long trip. I reacted by telling her to get out her broom and tidy up the place, or else I will spank her across her packed suitcase. That started the game, and much steamy texting ensued until I eventually got invited over for the night. No date at all, straight to the bedroom!
Funny, as a women we are always told that a guy is really into you if he tells you he wants to see you again during the first date. So many mixed messages out there. I've had both happen to me recently. One guy wanted to organise the next date at the end of the first (we didn't end up in a relationship) and the other guy, who I had a fantastic time with hasn't organised anything again after 5 weeks, despite texting me multiple times to say 'we had to get together soon'. Yeah right. I just let it go. All very confusing Corey. I'm not a game playing woman and find it all so hard :(
Chellzapoppin T to be honest with you, both men and women like to play games which is annoying af but in reality the ones that wanna see you, they’ll do it and the ones that don’t won’t. Maybe that guy had another girl he was talking to
I like the way ur so straight to the point, ill donate when im not as broke. Thx for the advice broo. Keep up the good work, ur helping allot of us, with ur knowledge. Thankyou vm
It's funny how this 'devoted' and 'faithful' crap turns them off, although actually it seems reasonable. This should be saved for months in, not a 'I love you at first sight' thing, although I've had my fair share of insta-crushes!
If you just had one date with someone, and the next time you communicate is via text and she/he is telling you they are sick... just respond, OK feel better. because the ball is in their court to let you know when they are free... because they are busy being sick. And don't respond checking up on their health. You aren't committed to them in the lease bit. If someone really likes you, they won't be afraid to reach out.
+PumpkinEskobarr yup girl just did that to me. texting me at 4 am that she is sick. i never heard back from her. that was 4 weeks ago.....what a flake !
+PumpkinEskobarr she is in depression mode from divorcing her husband last year. our 1st date was 2 months ago !!! i got shot down for a 2nd date so i went "no contact rule" but she has reached out to me 3 times since ??? waste of my time i deleted her #
Thank you so much for the videos. I discovered you today and will probably watch the majority if not buy the book. I'd love to tell you about my situation. Cheers and thanks again
The point is here is that if you act like this then there is NO chance you'd be able to date her long term anyway, even if you got one more date from her. You have to put yourself out there and see if she responds-you've set the first impression and its too late to change it. BUT there's plenty of times a girl has gone quiet on me and a little reminder text has got her responding again and out on the next date. She probably gets loads of texts from guys and yours can be lost in the mass of them. Just don't bombard her or be demanding or suck up-I think two more flirty texts spaced two weeks apart is the max you should follow up. They must stand out from the crowd (but not be weird!). If she doesn't respond after that leave it and congratulate yourself for doing your best.
I wish I had found your work when I was in my 30s , am 64 and sadly I'm a mess. Thanks for the insight. If I could afford it I would do a phone session
Buddy Corey, this is better than stand up Comedy. Just tell the guy straight out, fucken U Fucked Up. The problem with guys is, they play the same broken record. The goal is one be different than the whole crowd. These videos are priceless.
I agree with some of it, but I also think a lot of men don't understand the "tone" they're giving off. Vibe really is everything. If you're confident, you say "I had a great time" right away, like with a kiss and as you head out. If you have to think about it, you send a text later on. I have found this to be true in my own life. When I'm confident, I don't hold back with compliments.
hey Corey, i love your material and videos. men are told not to chase, women are told not to chase too. Then how are we suppose to communicate with each other? Thank you !
Taking a girl to lunch is better than dinner because it communicates... I'm not going to spend a ton of money on dinner to try to impress you. I'm going to have lunch and then if I like you, I'll take it from there.
You are not taking a woman out to dinner to impress her, you are taking her out to hang out, having fun, hooking up, and you can't do the last part when you are on a lunch date. And you wouldn't take a woman you do not like out anyway. As simple as that!
Oooof listening to this exchange is way too relatable 😂 this girl is trying to cling to any scrap of interest she did have for the guy. The fact that she kept replying for so long actually shows me that she did have a high level of interest because if it was low or medium to start with she wouldn’t have entertained it for longer than 1-2 of this guy’s messages. I feel bad for the guy… man I’d love to help more men like this. Some guys really have no idea
LoL Corey always says email before text. Tells you his age lol. Love your book Corey, learning alot made my lists and reading it every day. Keep up the good work.
Huh. I think the real power play is never losing your frame, and always inviting her into your frame. And when she's there, have fun, be flirtatious and unattached to a goal. She'll let you know know when she wants more, and you meet her where she's inviting you to go next. This is an art, this is a dance. Why do I keep forgetting this?
