WOW! Hmong husbands…he can cheat in front of her, beats her, and mocked her. Then she divorced him and moved on with her life. Then he’s threatened to kill her boyfriend and kids. Double standards! What a hypocrite ass.
it’s every race not just Hmong men. Check on the news everyday other race r cheating, beating killing their wives, girlfriend’s too. It’s all on the individual person
When a spouse cheat, it is unstoppable. Cheaters will always cheat....they find every way, every opportunity to cheat. Cheating is a choice, it is not a mistake.
Wow what a good story!! Women, listen! If your man cheats don’t stay. If you stay it means you’re telling them it’s ok to cheat. Once you leave they’ll know what’s up.
It's funny how some of these women's in here give these "leave him" advices for some to see, but I wonder if they're capable of walking out or are they just saying it.
Cas kj zaj neej neeg no yuav tu siab ua luaj li os txoj kev yus tus tziv ntxeev siab mas yeej mob heev li osleej twg tus txiv ua hluas leej twg thiaj paub
Sounds like my life story. I felt every heartache you went thru sister it was exactly the heartache I had. I was patient enough to hold on now we are good but it still hurts still live with those ugly memories. Scars never heal you just learn to move on good luck to your life too. Thank you for sharing
I can never do what you did and stay. The lingering thought will always be there that he will cheat again. Once that trust is gone, it’s gone for me. Hopefully he changed, but I’ve also heard of many stories where the man will cheat again when the wife unexpected it. Good luck !
It's easy to tell someone to leave but in reality it's hard when that person has a different mind set/reasonings. I've been through it. I don't believe the quote "Once a cheater always a cheater" because when that person realizes that s/he messes up, s/he can change for the better to not ever do it again just like your husband. Hope all goes well in the future!
Eeeek I’m so glad we are moving away from thinking this is okay. There is not enough remorse a man could feel that would allow me to go back to him. Even if I still loved him. I would not be able to see past how he hurt me and how he hurt our children.
It's funny. Guys doesn't appreciate their woman until other guys start lurking around their woman. Remember another man's trash is another man's treasure.
He only wanted her back bc he couldn’t bear the thought of another man loving her. Sounds to me like it’s all about him; what HE wants, what HE needs, HIS happiness. Not hers. Sad.
Sister you not smart. When he threatened you, should have called the police and never see him again. Your kids are older they can see him without you. You tested the water to make him jealous. Be careful, he's waiting for you to get comfortable again and he will rove you from this earth. Sleep with one eye opened.
Love at first sight young lovers never seem to last people feelings changed. Some people are able to grow within their relationship as life goes on into adulthood. While others may evidently grow apart and cheat. Tus Niam Tsev you don't need him you deserve better.
Seems like people cheat because they get a thrill and excitement of having an affair and not getting caught. The moment they’re caught that excitement is gone and they want to reconcile with their spouse.
I think God knew the heart of Earthly men that's why God created women to be mentally strong to where we could live without man and man can't live without woman.
Good story. Women need to step up and get rid of these cheaters. They are nothing without us. Thov qhuas tus niam tsev. Tsawg zaj neej neeg sib tso los tim yav nruab nrab xwb!
You should have not returned. Once you divorced and especially if you had a boyfriend. The thought of you being with another man will slowly eat at him. Yes, he’s loving for now, but this will not last. As you age, he will get his revenge. By then, you’ll be too old.
I'm so proud of this sister!!! Once a cheater, always a cheater. Glad you taught your husband a lesson. He now sees how it'll be without you. I hope he'll not cheat on you in the future, since you took him back. Wishing you both luck. Love your kids for standing up for you. That home wrecker deserved a good beating. Lol.
So, he cheated on you, abused you, and threatened you and yet you still went back with him?? 🤔 I was hoping for a good ending but got a pathetic ending instead. 😪 No wonder Hmong men disrespect our Hmong women. 🤦🏻♀️
Glad that you both went back together. Don’t talk about the past and continue to cherish your relationship and May you both receive blessing in your life.
Txiv neej tsis sawm zoo ces nyuam qhuav haum xwb. Poj niam tsis txhob hwm hwm cov txiv neej siab phem li no lawm. Nws tseem yog ib tug txiv tsev muaj tsw nws tsis muaj txoj cai ua hluas los nws yuam txoj cai ua lawm ces poj niam los yuav tsum tham hluas nraug thiab. Ua kom sib phim li ko ntag. Yus ruam tsis cia yus ruam qhia qhia yus ntse lawm ces ho txawj quaj nplaig hlauv leg thiab.
Your mistake was letting your boys beating her up!. Start w/your husband not her!. Yes! Both are at fault, but your husband is the wrong one!. Move on if u can’t handle it!! We’ve all gone thru the same thing!. Yes! Once u make your decision to leave, u dont regret anythung!!!
Parents needs to keep their mouth shut when it comes to their kids marrying families they don't approve. Sometimes those warnings of supposedly good deeds becomes curses.
Txiv neej hmoob ces txhob cia siab li vim in hnub twg ces nws yeej yuav tsum bring up about the past xwb xwb li vim txoj Kev kib. Yog twb muaj hluas nraug lawm mas tseg kiag txhob rov Los yuav tus txiv qub lawm . Txiv neej hmoob will never forget or forgive remember that ladies.
Tus niam tsev aw, Koj txoj kev muaj peev xwm, tawv ncauj, thiab koj txiav txim siab rau koj tus kheej Kuv yeej qhuas kawg lawm. Yog vim li cas koj ho rov qab yuav tus neeg ntxeev siab, ua siab phem rau koj??????????? Hmoob ib txwm hais tias”qub dev qub ntxhiab, qub neeg ces qub siab” tus neeg ua tau siab phem li no ces lwm zaus nws ok ib tug niam tsev zoo nkauj, thiab hluas dua yus ces nws yuav rov ua thaj qub kiag xwb. Txhob cia, cia siab rau tus neeg ntxeev siab ntawm ko vim nws txoj kev phem tseem tsis tau xaus li ko.
Yog vim li cas es peb cov poj niam pheej yuav peb cov txiv rov qab thaum lawv mus tham hluas nkauj tag li es peb Puas yog neeg os? Txiv neej li yog poj niam mus tham hluas nraug 1 zaug xwb lawv twb tsi yuav tus poj niam ntawd li lawm naj, es peb cov poj niam thov muaj siab ntsws thiab lauj…😢
Pathetic hmong men. When he does it it ok, but when you do it back he got the nerves to threaten you. These hmong men needs to wake up. This is America. It goes both way, but when a woman leaves she ain't coming back. Sister you should have left for good. His father was wrong. He cheated when you were both still married. You did it because you were already divorced. I never went back. I told my ex it's good that he changed now go be good to your next wife. I'm done.
Although it was satisfying to hear that her son loved her enough to beat up the mistress, the mom was wrong for even getting them involved in this mess. That’s between her and her husband and the mistress. SHE should have kicked the mistress’ a** not the son.