I would love for the MOM to be honest and say YES, I was angry, YES, I didn't know how to deal with it back then, but we can now, and I AM SORRY. I would've loved her to say THE REAL TRUTH.
Exactly! The truth is what she is looking for because it will bring her validation for all the years she felt unwanted. They are forgetting that she was the child. The mother’s hurt is valid too but the time to express that pain as a mother and wife needed to be directed at her husband, not allow the children to be negatively affected.
Why though? Her father is the one who needs to take accountability. She talking about the kids are hurt. Girl what?! Your mom slept with a married man knowingly. Unacceptable. The wife has nothing to apologize for yet she’s still doing and acknowledging her pain. Smh.
As a step mom there is no way I would have allowed the child to be treated differently. Saying I wasn’t angry at you but still separating the child from her siblings shows different….
Im sorry but the outside child will never be treated the same as the children that came from the marriage. It’s unfortunate but it is what it is. This is why we as adults have to make sure we don’t make decisions that will curse our children. Her mother and father was wrong, she wasn’t conceived in love, she was conceived in an affair. And this is the result”
@@jasminegreene8159 WTF are you talking about the dad was messing around with two women at the same time, both of them got pregnant at the same time they weren’t married
We don't know if Keisha's mommy probably left Bubba and Joy was Bubba's next option because she was pregnant also. So Bubba then married Joy. Because Keisha's mommy didn't want him after finding out Joy was pregnant too. Y'all ever thought about that 😊 Keisha's mommy probably was Bubba's first choice but she didn't want him after finding Joy was also pregnant too. I'm just saying. Remember Jackie said if the tables were turned she would have done the same for Nicole too. ??? Think people THINK!
@@kandybraden6331It’s a high probability that is what happened. Some men abandon their responsibilities as a father once the mother makes it clear he no longer has access to her emotionally or physically. It’s clear from his actions he had no plans on being a present father bc he never took the initiative to make sure he was part of Keisha’s life. Shout out to Aunt Jackie and the other aunts for standing in the gaps!
How we don't know Keisha mommy didn't want to be with Bubba because she found out Joy was pregnant too. Keisha's mommy probably left Bubba, and Joy wanted Bubba so Bubba just stayed with her, because she was pregnant, Keisha's mommy probably didn't want him anymore. Who knows. Only Bubba knows what really went down!
She is still bitter from her man having another girlfriend and another child. Even his own sisters said that he wasn't married and that he had two girlfriends, and that lady still isn't over the past and is taking it out on Keisha
This woman decided to stay with a cheating boyfriend and eventually married him. The dad is piss poor and so is his wife. Treating children differently due to marital status is trash behavior.
The main thing is she wants a relationship with her sisters but it’s difficult because she feels rejected by their mother. I wish she’d focus on building the relationship with the sisters instead of finding acceptance with their mom.
The step mom wrong as hell, let Keisha and her father address this. All she did was confirm her messiness in the situation. Stop trying to clear your name, that never works. Keisha look tired of the bs fr 😂
I have seen the extreme pain that infidelity causes on a family especially when a child is the product of the offense. Very traumatizing to all involved because of selfish, foolish, and narcissistic decisions.
But this wasn't infidelity..he was sleeping around and probably has more children out there. I don't understand why they keep going back and forth about that man, he doesn't give a hoot who he impregnate.
The amount of scorned woman condoning it it scary. The things ppl do to keep away man is crazy. If you can show that man Grace than surely you SHOULD be able to extend grace to an innocent child. She didn't sleep with the daddy to make herself. Its so weird how ppl think it's OK for her to be the one wrong because of how she feels when the facts are....she was treated differently and separated from her siblings! The weak a$$ excuses don't matter, take accountability!
If I forgave my cheating boyfriend then later married him why not accept the child. I believe Kiesha that woman did treat her some type of way. She nice nasty to her now.
@anitaneal1779 she said they SHOULDN'T have been affected as in: it's not the kids' fault, and they should have been allowed to be in each other's lives from the jump without any of this outside child mess. He was cheating on both women with each other!
Nah y’all are weird for expecting Keisha to put her very valid feelings aside for the sake of the adults in the situation. Why is it so hard for them to just embrace her?
I’ve been In this same situation and Trust me it hurt like hell… but that baby is 16 now and still calls me mom I never treated her funny when them kids got older they pieced it together
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯… what you said.. especially in the black home…I have a sister that’s the oldest out of five and she shares her own father. We was raised as we are sisters and brother… the half word was never spoken 💯
It wasn’t her place to even mention a blood test. That was the fathers decision. Also, they should have let their mom and keisha speak. The energy changed as soon as they walked up and took over their convo.
@@Lenasevilla-yb4eiNo it’s not “blame your momma”… it’s no fault of the her mother or my mother, it’s the responsibility of the man. He was deceitful and dishonest. He caused chaos and mayhem and escapes being held accountable. Until you deal with this type of suffering, you can’t fully speak on it. I’m still trying to heal from this situation. Please tell me why someone should have to heal for how they came into existence. This episode is very triggering. It hurts because no child should deal with this.
@@anyabonnette4169 no yall momma gotta keep their closed until they properly vet these men. How do ppl just have babies without knowing truly knowing somebody??? No marriage no longevity just legs open and unprotected smh. Thank god for my upbringing
Ion care the mom didn’t and probably still doesn’t care for Keisha because of who her mom is! Keisha’s mom wasn’t with him anymore but who’s to say Joy was the woman he really wanted to be with! She could have left
I hate the term “OUTSIDE CHILD”. It’s hurtful and stigmatizing the child as if she did something wrong. That woman isn’t being 100% honest when she said she wasn’t mad.
I think that’s what a big question in all of this. I think it all depends on if folks were upfront about their dealings and if they were in a committed/monogamous.
Mom just say , you were a reminder of what my man did to me. Right you chose to stay, so you knew I came with him. Never the less, Nicole is right let’s move foward and create something new!
It is unrealistic of her to think that lady was just supposed to accept her despite the hurt inflicted on her own heart by that level of betrayal and seeing the fruit of that betrayal.
How?! She just said she accepted the child when her husband cheated and it wasn’t towards her YEt you say different.. either you saying she lit or please hush! 😅
@ijahsmith8781 girl she's lying. And don't tell me to hush. Which woman wouldn't be hurt and upset by the emergence of a child birthed by another person and their spouse/partner? She is only now saying that she accepted her so as not to face backlash.
That’s one of the hardest things for a woman to go through Selfishness is how people play victim Spoken from a woman who had a child by a man that was just “getting ready to get married” (definitely wasn’t married when my son was born), the outside child(ren) creates conflict in the marriage and makes it hard for the wounded spouse to move forward. Even God told Abraham that his first son (with a woman outside of his marriage) wasn’t his promise child Right is right
Hurtful and sad. They wanna move on but the person that is hurting can't heal because they keep hurting her. I stopped watching this show from episode 2. This family is too full of themselves and hurtful.
She crazy yes ma'am I would have been angry too if my husband went out and had an outside child with another woman this young lady needs to understand how hurtful that can be even though she may not have had anything to do with it but it's still a hurtful situation
She wasn’t married to Bubba at the time he was Single and had 2 girlfriends pregnant at the same time. If you stayed and married him after all that hurt then why act ignorant to the innocent child🙄
but didn't the MOM start this discussion? Why blame Kisha? Also...people who are unhealed can just "let go". She needs to heal and that's hard when people deny your experience.
This lady is almost 40 years old. If she's still upset about the situation, then she should choose peace and keep her distance from the family. She talks about this every episode. I'm in agreeance with her sister it's time to move on.
@shamioshi It doesn't matter who initiated the conversation. Lakeisha has talked about this every episode. At this point, what else do we know about her.
@@brandiquick8465 please stop referring to her as an outside child. This man was not married and had 2 women he was messing with pregnant at the same time. They’re a few months apart. Then Nicole’s mom decided to marry this man, but didn’t want to accept his child and clearly he didn’t gaf to protect his child. He chose to be a deadbeat and this is the result.
If the Father didn’t bring her around that says it all. She was his wife she didn’t and really doesn’t have to embrace her. Telling her she didn’t have to stay was insensitive. Be mad at your parents they created this mess.
@@ResearchXProject2016 Sounds like they were in a committed relationship. If he told her about the child and wanted to continue to make it work with her. I heard they got married after this though.
@@re_re_cee Ppl move on from cheating sometimes. They apparently decided to and decided to marry EACH other.Its his child and he should have made sure his family knew her. Not the sister. It’s not this lady’s issue. Honestly I would never have sat down with her . That’s between her Father and her mother to do.🤷🏽♀️
@@apriljoy425 Yeah, he wanted to make it work with the women he was living with at the time and wanted nothing to do with the child that came from his infidelity. He’s trash.
A lot of times, men wreak havoc and women are left with the residual burden of dealing with emotions. The wife is not at fault. She was dealing with her own hurt as well and probably wanted to stay in the marriage so that her kids would have a 2 parent household.
