Thanks for acknowledging that 🙌 that is a human being who's soul is gone on, but it's still them. Those intestines nourished her, that uterus bled every month, those muscles helped her move. Her whole life. It's beautiful and sad at the same time.
I feel the same, thank for this woman, and everyone else, who donates their body to science. They also help save other people's life, even in their death, plus help new medical students to learn. She must be a nice lady.
Don't worry! I have had 4 C sections , I went in, they put me to sleep, about an hour later, I woke up and they brought me my baby. Each time, I felt nothing. All my kids were perfect in every way. Had my 1st one in 1995!
How many times can a woman have a C section if its with the first 3kids tht means u had 3 after another. I believe tht a woman can only have 3can they give u more just asking when all 3 kids were c section?
Birthing vaginally is an option, although not for every case. The U.S. is performing WAY to many so there's this cultural of normalization of Csections, 1 in 3 isnt normal, I wish doctors would actually just give women more time to labor and do what the body can.
I had my second c section last week. Thank you to the person who donated her body to science so I can see exactly what they do and how they do it. I appreciate you. Rest peacefully. ❤️
I had four... and I have been very curious!! This video is fascinating. I hope school my kids now... I think I'll make this video required watching when they are in highschool biology ;)
Same here, and I've had 6 of them! When he was describing how the surgeons will tear the layers underneath the dermis layers, I was like 🤯 I always assumed they just cut straight through every layer to get inside the abdominal cavity (and I suppose that might be the procedure in an emergency situation 🤔🤷🏼♀️)...all that to say this was a very interesting and informative video!
I imagine that the placental tissue becomes necrotic and would lead to a major infection. I'm glad that your mother survived and sorry she had that experience :(
I’ve had two C-Sections and it was a painful recovery. The first one was an emergency C-Section, the 2nd was planned because I had one previously. At the end of the day it was worth the pain and recovery. My oldest daughter is 40 years old and my youngest is 37 years old. They are my heart and they blessed me with 4 grandchildren! I’m so blessed!
Me too. 2 planned as I had breach babies. My girls are 22 and 19. I dread sneezing so painful. My 2 c section went wrong so I had to have a botched emergency tummy tuck. I was told never to have any more babies. I was gutted!
It's actually a lot larger than that of the cadaver, the uterus tends to decrease in size after childbearing age. It's pretty much as big as the cavity it was in.
I'm grateful to the individuals and the families! My uncle did and with his donation, he aided in the education of med students and aided in the progress of research into his many diseases. I'm also thankful for the internet having educational and just plain curiosity based information!
Yes, having a c-section was one of the most challenging afterwards I was afraid to cough, move, go to the bathroom because it was painful. I do have nerve damage as well. Definitely a process of recovery while trying to take care of a newborn.
I had a c-section 10 years ago. I still have pain in my incision; I have nerve damage! Those who say a c-section is the easy way out...absolutely not! Taking care of a newborn while recovering from major surgery is challenging. Either way, my son is the love of my life and such a blessing.
God bless you and your family hun. Thank you for all you did and do to take care of your child/family and yourself. You're an awesome mother and a beautiful daughter of God. May He prosper you and that everything you touch succeeds. Take care 😇🌺💖.
I get so many urine infections since having a c-section with my youngest. Absolutely hated everything about the c-section compared to all my natural births. I was emotional before I even had the c-section about having to get one & cried through the entire process. It felt like my body couldn't do what it had done 4 times previously and what it was naturally created to do. Plus the recovery process is much longer and more painful (a hot burning sensation when you move, cough, sneeze or laugh). I found myself still very emotional for a further 3 weeks after the procedure. I would never recommend a c-section over natural birth unless medically necessary.
Tara Daviie It’s better that you know even if it’s kinda cringe inducing. I had an emergency c-section and it saved my daughter and me. Best of luck on everything!
Don't think about it. Don't stress your self out. If you do get a C-section, your body knows what to do , just take good care of your self. PS . You'll forget all the pain after seeing the face of your beautiful baby 👶🏻
I had 2 c sections, first one had to be an emergency c section due to my baby boy coming out with his legs first, after that the dr closed me up and messed up and now I have to have a c section every time I have a baby.. shout out to all women who have to go through one!! You are all strong and amazing women, god bless you guys ♥️
Blessings to u! I had two c sections in a span of 13 months! With the first one being an emergency due to placental abruption. 4 years down I still feel pain in the incision, still recovering.. God bless all mothers!
I have had 2,emergency for premier twins premature sorry and the second scar tissue from the first How horrible people can be to you about it !As if you’re to posh to push One woman told me l was disgusting and hoped they make you push If l had l would of died.Unreal hey !
@DOOMAN Still life threatening, there is still the percentage who die during child birth, 3 souls within my family and friends lost to PPH. So yes child birth being life threats is very much a valid statement regardless of percentages. Purely because you do not know who or when it is going to effect somebody.
@@dooman2018 we take for granted the act of childbirth and c-sections and deem it routine forgetting that each carries with it very real risks, e.g. PPH even more so if you look at other parts of the world where the maternal death rate is higher. My mother was a postpartnum nurse for 30 years and she’s told me some incredibly sad stories of new mothers whose life ended after giving birth.
I had 2 c sections. 2 jacked up cuts along the bikini line. That area is still sensitive and numb. My kids are 12 and 6 yrs old now. Definitely doesn't make me less of a mother or someone who took the easy way out! Giving birth is giving birth no matter how it happens. Shout out to all the mommies out there. We Rock! 💪 👑
Easy way out indeed! You went through hell and back and you look down on yourself. It's so alarming when women talk down about themselves. Many didn't make it out of the theater. The problem is that most of you care about what people say
When other people think that Csection is the easy way out, we know Csection moms that it isn’t actually easy. I was induced at 37+5 due to high risk pregnancy. I thought I could do vaginal birth, had a balloon inserted to open my cervix which was painful as h*ll (I refused epidural at that time). I pushed and was actually happy that at 2 trial pushes, the Doctor saw my child’s crown/head only to be told by another Dr that I had to be sent for an Emergency Csection because the next pushes made my baby’s heartbeat drop plus my pelvis was shallow for my 3.1 kg baby to pass through. When I heard about the dropping of heartbeat, I just immediately said yes though I felt like I was robbed of that chance to birth my child normally. Anyway, Im just glad that me and my child are fine.
Lonely Dog hi! I’m a current med student so not 100% sure what they use, but in my next school they insert a catheter into the jugular vein and fill it with embalming fluid. They then refrigerate the bodies for about a year
When barbers began making more cutting people than hair they banded together and that became the barber surgeon. When they realized that midwives made more money they started delivering babies but for most and still they are surgeons.
Do you have a cadaver where you could do a Asthma lesson on and that you could show the bronchial tubes and what happens in asthma patients? Thank you for great educational anatomy lessons
Good bless this women who gave us the opportunity to see this procedure. May she rest in peace. I myself had a c section and it wasn't the most pleasant experience! But not having this I know my son wouldn't have been saved. A miracle in every sense☺️
@@Idkmanihatethis but you can impreganting someone so maybe, use it as a lesson why c-sec doesn't equate to easy delivery. The recovery process of it is a bitch to handle
To all of the amazing mothers that have endured this procedure, I sincerely apologize for thinking that a C-Section was easier than a vaginal birth. I was ignorant🤦🏼♀️
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I've had 2... the 1st was 3 weeks late, induced labor for 12 hours per day for 5 days & I still wasn't dilated enough, at which point I was ready to murder the doctor if he'd come close enough to my bed... so then he scheduled the c-section. The 2nd one, I explained to the doctor what happened with the 1st time... and that got me scheduled... and I requested tubal ligation & got it. LOL 😄
Me: I’m just going to opt for a C-section when I have kids, pushing seems painful and difficult. Institute of Human Anatomy: Hey, wanna watch a video on C sections? Me: *after watching* You know, adoption seems like a fantastic idea!
LOL But in all seriousness, I had ALWAYS thought I was gonna have a C-section if I ever was to have a baby because natural birth seemed too painful. I have now a 2-year-old son. I gave birth to him through a natural labor but with epidural. And I can tell you there is nothing better. Epidural really works. And the recovery was easy and fast. I would never recommend a C-section to anyone now.
@@KathleenJ that is why we are so fortunate to have C-section as an option. C-sections shouldn’t be taken or done lightly, it shouldn’t be done because a woman didn’t want to do some hard work.
Wow… watching this as a c-section mom, all I can think is: I am an absolute goddess. Seriously, as a parent you become completely focussed on your kids and it’s easy to forget what a bad ass human being you are for bringing them into the world.
I'm about to have my baby in a few weeks, for some reason this makes me feel less afraid to have a c-section if things don't go as planned. I feel more educated and less doomed.
I had to have an emergency C-section with my first I promise it is not terrible. Yes you will have pain and yes it will burn at the sight of the incision( it is a major operation) but it is bearable. If you have to have one get up and walk as soon as you can it will hurt like no other at first but I promise it really helps and also stay on top of your pain meds while in the hospital if you have a good nurse they will bring you your meds before the other has worn off trust me if they ask if you want the medicine even if you don’t feel the pain say yes because when it hits it hurts. My 2nd C-section the did not let me up and put a waist trainer on me and the nurses did not stay on top of my pain meds and so my 2nd was way worse than my first!! I tell people all the time do not let them put the waist trainer on you or bandage you like that because once they take it off the pain all hits at once! Best of luck and congratulations!
I had an emergency section with my first and honestly it really isn’t so bad. Yes it is painful afterwards and that first sneeze after a section is scary but you will be suprised at how quickly You get over that pain xx good luck and congratulations x
I’m sorry, but I do not agree with the comments above. C-sections varies a lot, when it comes to pain for some reason. I was unable to stand up by myself and had to use a wheelchair. I was on oxynorm for the first 8 days or so and now I’m on tramadol. So you can’t really say “I promise, it’s not that bad” because this widely varies from person to person. Some feel almost no pain and are fine after to days, some still feel pain after months, etc.
Omg we all grew inside a body like this. Deep inside a safe warm body. How absolutely insane to open a person and find another person!! I’m totally blown away by this and I’m not even high.
As a c-section baby, this was really cool for me. (Both younger siblings were born normally, I was just difficult, lol.) As far as the microbiome, I've always been really healthy! So I don't think it causes any problems for the microbiome to come out the window instead of the door.
When they were wheeling me down the hall to the operating room I had a panic attack and told my husband no please get me out of here let's come back next week I'm scared! LOL needless to say he didn't break me out of the hospital and I survived and I wasn't too too bad! 😆
I’ve had three c-sections. ☺️ It wasn’t so bad. I can’t imagine having a vaginal birth. I’m really afraid of that. But I’m not having anymore kids anyway. 😒
@@lolita954ify I agree!! I was praying my doctor would let me do a C-section for my second child! I can't imagine having labor pains and a vaginal birth either!
The guy in the video was my anatomy instructor in massage school. He's awesome! I totally think his passion for teaching helped me get an A in the class
I just don't want kids. At all. And pregnancy is I am sorry - disgusting. It is like a parasite growing inside of you and at the end of birth, your body has all these waste from the baby and the bodily fluids used to house the baby. It is almost like a earth globe sized discharge that is lethal if not injected out of the body after birth. And pregnancy in general is a deadly journey overall. Every birth is a risk of the mother dying.
I know right! It doesn’t seem that fun having kids.. for me. Like I would rather live a more free life without the burden of kids, but if I eventually do find myself wanting one which I probably won’t, I’ll adopt. I don’t want to ruin my body or die if ya know what I mean. Also a lot of mothers get depressed if they are the ones taking care of the kid most of the time, and birth is traumatizing. Like damnnn why does it have to be painful tho
@@PeppaPig-jp2ps exactly plus there are millions of kids wanting to be adopted. In a world where over population is the number one cause of climate change, I think its better to adopt for a while. And also that is my plan of I ever want kids. And since I just dont want that burdon of having them. So why would I have any or adopt any if I cant give them that attention they need? Honestly I hate crying babies or kids, I had my baby cousin threw up on me after my aunt forced me to hold her. I think babies are ugly - I thought I was ugly as a baby. I also hate at a specific age when people start expecting you to be married and have kids. It's especially worse for a female. You are automatically expected to have babies and be married. For men it's less stressful which I'm jealous about. I'm sick of people saying do you have boyfriend or get married and give us some kids. I honestly find that insulting and offensive to me personally. I have a plan set out and they want me to drop everything to give them something they want but I dont.
@@ameliawilder28 tbh I wanna stay virgin for lifetime but our main aim is reproduction...u wouldn’t be in this world without birth so if ur mom had the same mentality as u then imagine where would u be XD definitely not in this world...without pain u can’t gain such an amazing blessing of god ✨women are STRONG enough to bring another soul into this world wow I mean that’s the superpower...Currently I’m dying coz of cramps lol n advising as if I’m the strongest n fearless girl while I’m just 17 n virgin 😂😂anyways I’m supposed to be studying rn nvm
After having 2 vaginal births, due to complications and placenta previa with my 3rd I had to have a C-section. Watching this video gave me a better understanding as to what exactly happened during mine and a good idea of why I have some of the issues I now have with my lower abdomen. This video is very informative and I appreciate the time taken to walk me and others through the process... Doctors are not always willing to give full explanations of how a procedure is done I think it is because they may precieve it as information unneeded. Like regardless if I tell you how it is done, you won't understand or it doesn't matter if you know it doesn't effect you in grand scheme of things.... But I live in this body, it's the only one I'm ever gonna have I'd like to know exactly what is being done to it, even if the Dr or whomever thinks it's not pertinent information. So again Thank you for sharing.
yeah doctors don't usually take time to explain.. so thank god we have this internet and all the information on RU-vid. I watched full videos of c sections on youtube to get the idea of what is going to happen during me c section 😅
You’ve experienced a great loss. Keep putting one foot in front of the other. It will take a little while, but there will come a day when you will feel some joy again.💖
My 1st c sec was due to cord wrapped around my daughter's neck. 2nd one was due to having cervical cancer & 90% of my cervix was removed at 3 mos. pregnant. Both daughters born healthy. Had cervical cancer 3 yrs later, had last of cervix removed. 15 yrs later had radical hysterectomy due to cancer about to return. God is good! I am still cancer free after 14 yrs. later. I give God the glory for watching over my babies, my doctors & myself!
Wow, what a story!! You have certainly been blessed by God time after time. If I ever get cancer, I will remember your story and have Hope!! Thanks for sharing!!
Jose Gonzalez Cleopatra. She was the first recorded woman, apparently, to have a C-section. Her son, Caesarian, was born by C-section, hence the name Caesarean section.
Cleopatra may have been the first publicly known, however, I can only imagine how many slaves were operated on without medicine/anesthesia that were initially used as practice who died like guinea pigs in silence.... Help us GOD!!!
I did a surgical rotation and was able to watch many different doctors perform sections. Having had 2 myself, I truly appreciate the doctors that take the time to suture each layer separately. It makes such a difference for mom’s healing! After 2 sections, I needed a hysterectomy at 28yo due to severe scar tissue that was causing constrictions so bad, I couldn’t straighten my abdomen or stand up completely straight without literally feeling a tearing/ripping feeling in my abdomen. My surgeon was shocked at how bad it was. It took him an hour just to remove the web of adhesions that sort of cocooned my abdominal cavity. Once that was cleared away, he said he couldn’t visualize my uterus or left ovary. My uterus had been pulled and cocooned into my pelvis & the ovary was tangled up in adhesions & intestine. He explained to me later that his opinion was that during my sections, I was closed up very haphazardly, instead of layer by layer, allowing adhesions to become so invasive. All I know is that I felt like a new person after that surgery. I could move & stretch & twist without feeling like something inside of me was being torn apart. Great video!
Like if you were a C section baby 😬😬 sorry mom 😭😭 Edit : my mom had a C section with both my sister and I 😭 Edit : wow 1000 of you all have given a C section or were born through a C section, but let's thank all our mothers that went through immense pain to give us life 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Yes! Especially since I was an emergency C Section. They had three minutes to get me out before I die. Heart attack of her life. Whoops sorry Mom 🙈 lol
Any birth that brings baby into the world safely is a good birth - there should be no shame for which type of birth a mom chooses or, sometimes, has no choice in. Edit: of course mum's safety is important, too!
Sometimes I see some gatekeeper idiot that says "real moms give natural birth" and I'm like, okay Debora but you are an alcoholic and you smoke in front of your kids so I don't think you want to discuss who's a better mom.
I had an emergency section with my first as I almost died from pre eclampsia and the baby almost died because the cord was wrapped round her neck- I still had another mom lecture me about having a c section 😐
41 weeks and 3 days of pitocin my wife still wasn’t dilated. C section was not the option we wanted but the baby was safe and were on baby number 3 now. So thankful for my little family!
Literally just had a c section five days ago😅 scariest thing of my life. And let me tell you... PAINFUL! I’m finally feeling a bit better but still can’t do anything myself. It’s a blessing that my daughter is here safe though.
I had 4 of them and I agree with the previous commenter each day gets better. Just take it easy and allow your body to heal. And word of advice to heal a little faster, breastfeed.
I had a C-section with my first and 2 vbacs with no meds. The natural birth was way easier than my C-section was. I couldn't sleep for like a month with my C-section and I didn't get to hold my son for 2 hours. I don't know know why but I felt like I was still waiting to give birth and they were handing me someone else's baby, which completely messed up the bonding experience.
This actually made me feel a lot more relaxed about C-sections. I always thought they only made one cut, through the muscles and everything and that's what scared me about the procedure. This shows that understanding really is an empowering thing!
don't get too relaxed about c section.. because if the doctor does'nt stitch up properly layer by layer after the operation, it's gonna be a messed up situation afterwards. And i'm not even making things up
a cut in the linea alba is still a cut on connective tissue that affects recovery of the muscle all the same, c sections are still a surgical procedure and should not be taken lightly. In addition as another has mentioned severe complications can occur, 9.5% of anual deaths in US happen due to medical malpractice, this is not counting close calls or life changing outcomes.
I wish all my high school and college teachers were as passionate about the subject they were teaching as this guy is. I was hanging in his every word!
That's why I have watched nearly all their videos. I appreciate them so very much. It's why I just signed the paperwork to donate my body to my nearby medical school. I hope others here consider doing so as well. If nothing else, it saves on funeral expenses (that's a joke; don't mean to be disrespectful.).
I was lucky enough to have a successful C-section 14 months ago, and it was actually a *pleasant* experience. I was completely numb from the chest down and literally felt NOTHING except pressure when my daughter was being pulled out. I do not tolerate pain well, and I was in little to no pain afterwards- only took Tylenol and Advil combo when I was recovering. Shout out to my damn self for going through this, to bring my world into this world!
@@userwhogivesopinion I had this done three times, the spinal block isn't that bad because they numb the site locally first. It isn't comfortable, but it's less painful than the contractions I was having that weren't doing anything except stressing my baby that was breech and had already passed meconium in utero.
Lucky! I felt so much during my c section lol. I'm happy my baby came out safe and sound too though. And it really is so worth it. You just can't understand until it happens 💗
My sister's obgyn gave her a c section just because he was going on vacation and wanted to deliver the baby before that. She had a completely healthy and typical pregnancy with literally no medical reason for a c section smh. Please ladies, be careful of who you chose to help guide you through your pregnancy and delivery!
Oh I agree, some people don't realize that neither way of giving birth is easy and they assume the C-Section is better. I hope she wasn't in so much pain her vacation wasn't a relaxing experience >.< I was lucky to have birthed both my babies naturally, but I know women that had a C-section done and can still have problems years later. Me? I may still pee a little after a hard sneeze xD I'd take that over pain any day. (TMI, but childbirth is a nasty and disgusting, yet a miraculous and amazing thing! All parts of it need to be known so maybe people know more about what they're getting into... and I'm working on strengthening muscles to fix my Tinkel Bell problem)
My Dr did this to me :( He tried to force me into labour and it didn't work so he induced me and by the next morning my son was almost dead. They rushed me in for an emergency c section. The doctor said he had to get as many babies out as he could before January 1st 2011 because apparently the government had some payment starting for working mums after that date... So he practically put my life at risk and my sons for his bonus pay check.
I’ve had two. My first one was a very difficult experience and recovery. My second was with my pre-term baby. It happened so fast. The procedure went smoothly, and the recovery was better for me. My son did great in the NICU. I have two blessings. ❤️
The act of giving birth, whether c-section or vaginal, is absolutely amazing and miraculous. I mean it’s literally removing a fully formed human from your body that wasn’t there nine months prior. EDIT: Wow, these comments are salty! If you don’t want to have kids then don’t have kids. But don’t shit on the process and be rude about people who do. I had a great birthing experience and zero complications. It’s definitely possible for it not to be traumatic.
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Had to have an emergency cesarean after almost three days of a failed induction. The recovery is the hard part and I didn't dare leave the hospital for three days after because of the pain. It was mentally hard, as well, because while my husband could just jump up and take care of our baby, I couldn't. I missed out on his first night of life because I was unconscious and heavily drugged for most of it, I missed out on the first diapers his first feeding and first bath. But we were saved from danger and day by day I did heal. Now my son is seven months old and it was all worth it.
My labor was so long and difficult and without any kind of pain management that I actually felt like the pain following the C-section was nothing in comparison
I also had a Cesarean section for my baby, I missed out on the first hug and first night. I had pains for days. My baby is 5months now but my stomach/tummy has refused to go down. I really want to have a flat tummy back
I may end up having a c section due to where my baby’s placenta is located at...all depends on my very last ultrasound to see if it has moved at all :( wish me luck
Halyn Boyd do you have an anterior placenta? I’m currently 22 weeks and was told I have one! I just hope it moves because I’m not trying to have a c sec!!
Paris Davis low laying anterior placenta! My wonderful doctor noticed it early on and has been keeping an eye on it! Currently 24 weeks and still hasn’t moved and I’m already showing quite a bit. I only have one more 3D ultrasound to see if it has moved. If not we will plan on a c section as my birth plan!! Let’s pray our placentas change positions so we can have a normal vaginal birth!!❤️
Halyn Boyd I was told my placenta was right in front of the baby at 19 weeks. My doctor ask if I felt my baby kick yet and I said no and she said it’s because of my placenta. Im now feeling my baby kick so I hope it’s because my placenta moved! I have an ultrasound next week so I will find out for sure. Yes I will pray! I really hopes yours moves! Good luck&congrats🙏🏾❤️
animals are just like us the same digestive tract, muscles sexual organs, they feel like us only they can't tell us. The part of the muscle that lies beneath the umbilical cord looks like the meat the put in supermarkets-
Fascinating! Ive always wanted to see this. I’ve had three c-sections and couldn’t see what was happening. Having a pre-planned c-section is so… much easier than having gone through labor, only to realize you couldn’t deliver naturally. Your body isn’t worn out and doesn’t have to recoup from labor and surgery.
My mom had a C-Section to have me and now I'm crying thinking about everything she had to go through and the trauma of the surgery :'( I need to give her a hug!
Atiq M At the end of 2018 I had a C section and my little man was born. Don’t worry, your kids are worth it! Although it’s weird seeing this explained, I have to admit 😄
People actually do that. And it's disgusting. No one should be bying human beings. Not online, not through privitized adoption, not through renting other women's bodies. Growing life isn't that scary(especially outside the medical model). But human traffiking is.
I agree!!!! A video explaining exactly what our ovaries and body goes through dealing with PCOS would be great! I am so curious about what the inside of our body does or how it changes during days when PCOS is really acting up, like when cysts burst. What the cysts look like. Does a woman with PCOS have an unhealthier looking ovary etc.
I just had my 2nd section in December, my first one was 10 years ago,an emergency C section. I tried going natural with my 2nd birth but ended up getting a c section that needed to be done due to my cervix having complications. Fun fact: it takes a woman's body up to a year to recover from pregnancy & birth.
@@asmam.2729 do not tell me what I do and don't know about my own body. I know what happens in delivery, I know what happens in c-section. Both are unappealing to me. I also know that with each generation on both sides of my family, C-sections are becoming more common as all of my siblings were C-sections, meaning my chances of having to get one are pretty likely. I already had a surgery done to make sure I can't have biological children and I did it after years of thinking about it and research. So no matter what you say, there is no changing my mind. I will adopt and I will do so with a heart full of love. So again. Do not tell me, what I do and don't know about my own body.
@@RipMyTamagachi I think that person was saying when you have a c section you don’t know what’s going on because you’re sedated whereas you (as in any person having a baby, not necessarily you yourself) are aware of everything that’s happening when it’s a natural birth. I don’t think they were trying to attack you, your knowledge of your body or change your mind about having biological children. I definitely respect not wanting to have biological children. There are lots of kids out there that need families!
@@anisa8835 I do hope that is true. But my experience has been, more often than not, people telling what I should and shouldn't do and what they think I am "just not understanding" or "what I'm missing out on".... I appreciate someone supporting my rights as a human. Thank you.
@@RipMyTamagachi That sucks that you’ve experienced that. Our society is so engrained to believe that all women should want to have children and those that don’t just don’t understand what they’d be missing when it should really be the woman’s (or the couple’s) choice alone. Persuading people to have kids that really don’t want kids only lead to problems.
I just had my first child via C sections 11 weeks ago and I was also 40. My husband keeps asking, "when are we going to have another one?" I tend to walk away when he asks.
I love how you're still respecting the bodies by covering their head and genitals while cutting them to pieces I know it seems ironic but I'd want that if my body ends up in this situation
Donated cadavers are given the utmost respect by doctors and students. They realize the magnitude of the gift they've been given. The staff even gives a memorial service when they are done. Usually there is a certificate or document given to the family honoring the decedent, along with the ashes.
@@shayshe1918 Depends on the country, unfortunately. Where I'm from, most students do treat the donated bodies with utmost respect but there's always at least 2 weird perverts per batch who think it's hilarious to mess around with genitals or arrange cadavers into positions :(
@@shayshe1918 That is amazing! I love this because they themselves wanted their body to be used for future science & practice. They didn't have to do that but they wanted to. So they deserve respect & to be honored as if they were still alive.💗
Noooo! Have kids!! My twins were my life long comedy club! My best friends to this day (now 27 1/2) both married to amazing people. Best thing ever! Such an incredible blessing.
Having my daughter was the best thing that ever happened to me. I never wanted to be a mom, but fell in love the first time I heard her heartbeat. I had a c-section and she was worth every minute of pregnancy and recovery. She is five now and I thank God for her everyday. She literally makes me smile/ laugh every day. Not always easy but well worth it. Kids are truly a blessing.
I’ve had all my 4 children by C-Section!! I cried so much my first time but it had to be done ASAP due to emergency complications.. But I was practically bullied and said so many bad things by family members that I wasn’t considered a true mother because of my C-Sections and that only a true mother our those who don’t have this procedure done.. But now as I have learned what a woman goes through and how it truly looks like I ignore the ignorance because I’m truly blessed of having my children and doesn’t matter how they came just as long as they got here in great health..Thanks for this video!! 👍🏻
@@Karenzation No you shouldn't distance yourself from your own family.. instead always be prepared prepared to offer the medical explanations and all of the RU-vid recordings necessary these are a real blessing and come in handy when you're dealing with people's ignorances.... Cuz really making comments like that this just shows Ignorance
My Dad needed counselling after seeing my birth by c-section, it’s pretty traumatic seeing the woman you love cut open and ripped apart while her teeth chattered and her face went grey as she went into shock. It’s not easy to go through or to watch
@@ameykarade9432 ??? it was his wife’s c section, he was the dad. The father is usually present for the birth, even by c section. Don’t forget she’s fully conscious, it helps keep you calm if you have your birthing partner with you.
I watched a C-section as a nursing student. I was SHOCKED when the surgeon pulled the uterus out and had it standing up on the abdomen. This was after the baby and placenta were delivered in order to do a bilateral tubal ligation. It is no wonder that women are in such pain afterwards. YIKES!
I’m an OB nurse. I’ve watch MANY c sections. They’re brutal to watch with how much effort is put in to get the baby out! I routinely care for postpartum patients and tell them not to be heroes and take pain medication when needed because if they had seen what their body went through!
During my C-section nearly 26 years ago, my bladder was taken out (for delivery) and I'd bet more was cut than in this video. The area under my navel is still numb from the nerves never re-attaching.
During my last c-section, the doctor took my ovaries out and laid them out on my stomach to show the Med students who were observing. (He had my permission to do this). My husband was so fascinated! I was aggravated he didn’t take a picture! 😅
😂 my husband had to leave the operating room for a bit cause he turned all white and felt nauseous. Later I asked what happened and he informed me that since the sheet they put by your face wasn’t tall enough he got a good look at my insides. Was pretty funny for me not so much him.
@@ileanax8308 well in a c-section the organs have to be removed and placed back in order to get the baby out. I had no choice in that matter. I just gave the doc permission to allow the med students to observe. I had a spinal epidural so I didn’t feel a thing. I wasn’t even aware of what was happening because there was a sheet up and I could not see. My husband was able to see though. He was intrigued... I didn’t care. I was just ready to hold my baby.
Kelly Omg 😱 and I thought I would want 2 at least. Wow, well I’m happy for you for having a little you. I am nowhere near mentally or financially ready for a little one.
I’m watching this 7 weeks post having a c section and I wasn’t ready 😂😂😂 thank you for the respectful and thorough explanation. I’m very lucky to have had a caesarean birth now that they’re safe.
I was in the OR during each of my wife's 3 C-Sections. When my most recent daughter, Nora was born the OR staff didn't want me to stand up and look at the surgical process (because Dad's pass out). But I stood up and watched the entire process of birthing our children, and most of the closure. AND, my wife was conscious for all but 1, the one we lost. But the other two, my wife was conscious, talking, asking questions, excitedly awaiting a new baby! The magic of modern medical wonders!
Im sorry about the one you lost, I cant imagine that kind of pain... My husband was in the room for all 3 of my C-Sections too.. In fact, with the first one he was trying to keep me awake (blood loss) by explaining what the Doctors were doing in detail. I didnt pass out but if there was anything in my stomach I would have lost it. My second one he knew better than to tell me about it but instead asked me if I wanted a mirror, no thanks and with the twins, he just watched, amazed, didnt say anything but was loving every minute of it.
I had an emergency c section with my first, and I'm 7 months pregnant waiting for my planned c section. Mentally, I think the emergency c section scared me so much, and me having it done during covid was the worst when no family or friends could visit it sucked. I hope for a better experience this time round.
@lindacolquitt4403 Ye the planned c section was much more calmer and very quick however this time round I suffered from bruising and not being able to go walk, sit, or sleep. I was also not able to go to the toilet which caused problems. But thank you for asking🥰 😊
I had two “c-sections” due to fibroids (I don’t have kids), and this video made me realize why I was in so much pain and feeling like I would burst open if I stood up. Our body heals amazingly and my double scar is barely visible. This video also made me appreciate even more the skillful hands of my doctor who performed both surgeries and sadly, passed away last September due to COVID. Stay safe everyone, for you and your loved ones but also for those silent heroes that give their lives for their patients.
I also had a c section, I have 1 child & after pushing for 13 hours and her not coming out they said I needed a c section & now after watching this I'm blessed too, my scar is basically soooo tiny & I healed quick. But my stomach still hurts and it's been 8 years since I gave birth. I can't even get up laying on my back I need to roll over side ways in order to get up .
@@Danielle-ii8zc Fibroids are tumors in the womb, usually they are not cancerous but they can be dangerous in other ways. They can grow in size and cause hemorrhage, the first one I had did that to me it was almost 10 cms when it was removed. A friend had one that weighed 1 kg! And gave her no trouble except for recurrent bladder infections... so, some women have them and don’t realize it, others battle with them in different ways. My second surgery was preventive because I had many smaller fibroids appear in a short period of time, so they were removed before they grew. last time I checked I was clean of them but they could appear again so I need to check every year.
This was so interesting! I had a C-section 16 years ago because my baby was not progressing and it became dangerous to continue with natural birth. Thank you for the clear explanation.
